Outcall is always an option but it can be an expensive one
[QUOTE=HappyBoy35;2112237]For those of us who are married, oc is not an option. Obviously, getting busted is a huge concern, especially for those of us who are not as experienced in the hobby. Any opinions on the safety of a residential incall? I've talked myself out of several meetings with unreviewed girls in the past just out of paranoia of getting arrested.[/QUOTE]A married guy can do out call but it just ads to the expense and creates another type of risk. I am seeing several SB's and they cannot host. As a result, I have to get a room when we meet. That costs me money and creates a risk because I have to show I'd to register. On the other hand, it allows me to see some ladies I would otherwise pass over. It also allows me to control the atmosphere inside the room, to check the arriving lady to make sure it is the right one and to take as much time in the room as I need. My typical cost for a room in the NE part of the city is about $70 with tax. That will increase as vacation season builds.
As for residential incall, I think you have to be completely comfortable with the lady knowing exactly who you are. If you are married and do a residential incall, you are handing your date a loaded gun metaphorically speaking. I know several women here who I think I can trust absolutely - - but if their kids needed help and they thought I could provide it, do I think they would put their kids first? Yeah, I do and I don't blame them. However, I will stay anonymous to remove all temptation.
RB.
I'm worried we will not know it was harm free until later
[QUOTE=SashaBlack;2112699]And no we will never be there again.
I'm just glad we all got away harm free.[/QUOTE]I am certainly glad if / when you are away harm free.
RB.
P.S. I means I am away harm free also!