Verification services date-check
A certain well-known provider in the area requires some form of screening.
Either through other ASPs or a screening service such as Date-check, Room Service 2000, etc.
Who here has ever engaged in using a screening service? How did it work FOR YOU?
I would think the provider would only want to ensure they are dealing with a safe person. Not know their real name and address?
Giving up all my personal information to one of these services seems like a bit too much for this particular hobby. Plus this is only for ONE provider. One I was looking to be my first.
Not to discredit anyone but seriously, I thought this was a no-names game? It's risky enough without even using names yet. Put real identities on the table and you can never get away from the past?
What do you guys do when it comes to being screened?
Whats the usual experience you've had? I've tried searching the forum and I haven't seen any results that have really discussed the issue.
Thanks in advance for your advice.
Natalie Liles. Murdered in Lexington January 1st
To all of us who partake in this hobby in one way or another, we should be shocked. Saddened. And respectful of the life that was taken just a few short days ago. I did not know Natalie, nor had I ever met her, but I cannot imagine the struggles she suffered in her final hours. This hobby has the occasional darker side and leaves open the opportunity for people to be ruthless and brutal. No one deserves to be treated this way, and certainly not murdered. I pray that she rests in peace, and that her family will also find peace through understanding. I am sorry if this all sounds so overboard or offends anyone, but too bad.
[url]http://www.kentucky.com/2012/01/04/2014412/lexington-man-pleads-not-guilty.html[/url]
Straight suspecious for only $50.
This post concerns this provider here:
[url]http://lexington.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/bbw-hereincall-27/3735316[/url]
I do not know her name.
You will read below that I pursued this provider. She would have been my first. Yes I have an attraction to her pictures, so I just wanted to see in person.
She has posts on Backpage and occasionally tries to sneak a post or two onto Craigslist.
After doing the normal background research I make contact via text with this provider to inquire about her availability.
Her response was "50 to f*". Red flag in my mind. I replied that I was only looking for 1hr companionship and a back massage, with strictly nothing sexual.
She said "I don't do massages", I dropped it down to companionship and conversation FOR THE SAME FEE AS FS, then she reluctantly agreed.
I proceeded to her location. While in route she told me "I'd rather just get naked and f*" during our text conversation. I told her I was not interested in anything of that sort.
Upon arrival at her personal apartment I knocked on the door. No answer. I sent a text and she replied "its just not worth it. I have kids"
I didn't understand her logic. I would have paid her the same and less intrusive than FS anyway!
The best guess I could come up with is that she expected FS to take much less than 1 hour.
As I was leaving I noticed a guy getting out of his car, heading to the same building. I left.
On my way home she said now her boyfriend is home and if I wanted FS he'd be watching. I told her I wanted nothing of the sort. She said "yeah right".
The end.
I realize this entire episode was very strange, dangerous, and risky.
It's unfortunate it turned out the way it did. But I'm glad nothing sour became of it.
So watch out for that one there.
