Seeking Arrangement

I will be in Detroit next month and have been in conversation with drebony and skylermonet. Any experience with these two young ones?

[QUOTE=Butchcasidy;4337784]I will be in Detroit next month and have been in conversation with drebony and skylermonet. Any experience with these two young ones?[/QUOTE]Drebony quoted me a pretty high price. I think it was 600 or more but don't remember exactly. She did send some great photos before we started talking price.

[QUOTE=FCooper;4338386]Drebony quoted me a pretty high price. I think it was 600 or more but don't remember exactly. She did send some great photos before we started talking price.[/QUOTE]Ya she was like 400 at least to me. There are better options out there.

[QUOTE=Etj4588;4333587]I got news for you guys. Every chick on SA is a pro. Its just a matter of degree of experience. They are knowingly selling their pussy for money.[/QUOTE]Sure there are plenty pros, but that's definitely not the case. I've had one say she mostly was just really into older guys and didn't want me to get her anything. So I've had a number of hookups with her and not spent a dime. And actually had a similar thing with a then 19 year old.

Saying all or most SA girls are pros misses the reality of what they are. This forum is largely focused on escorts, and when I read this thread it's not hard to see that many try to approach SA the exact same way. You may find some success but my general view is that most girls on SA don't see themselves as having sex for money, even if they technically are, and they certainly don't view themselves as sex workers. I've found that much of my success with SA has come by ensuring that sugar babies don't feel objectified, and feel like the exchange goes beyond sex and money.

Every time I've met someone on SA, we met at a nice hotel. I provided food and drinks, and sometimes gifts. We chilled and talked for at least 30 minutes to an hour. I asked questions and genuinely was interested in learning about them as people. And after having sex, we talked some more, learned more about each other, etc. I've found that most of the chicks I dealt with complained about guys who hit them up for sex, or wanted to send suggestive texts, etc. I've had multiple sugar babies text me for life advice, or to calm them down during a panic attack, and countless other random human things.

Point being, SA works best when you convince a chick that there's more to it than sex and money. Even if there isn't. I'm not looking to date these chicks, I'm not catching feelings or thinking they like me. But this is a game, and it's a game that best works when you convince her that the game doesn't exist.

[URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game_[/URL](mind_game).

Treat her like a piece of meat, low ball her out of nowhere, etc and you could lose her. Maybe that doesn't matter to you, if you've got multiple chicks you're seeing. Personally, the best SA relationships I had were when I was only seeing one person. I'd rather focus on doing cool shit for one person than juggle a bunch of chicks. But each long term, "emotional" SA relationship I've had ultimately failed in the end. Which is my own reminder than it is indeed a game, and games end.

[QUOTE=TheBro;4340120]Saying all or most SA girls are pros misses the reality of what they are. This forum is largely focused on escorts, and when I read this thread it's not hard to see that many try to approach SA the exact same way. You may find some success but my general view is that most girls on SA don't see themselves as having sex for money, even if they technically are, and they certainly don't view themselves as sex workers. I've found that much of my success with SA has come by ensuring that sugar babies don't feel objectified, and feel like the exchange goes beyond sex and money.

Every time I've met someone on SA, we met at a nice hotel. I provided food and drinks, and sometimes gifts. We chilled and talked for at least 30 minutes to an hour. I asked questions and genuinely was interested in learning about them as people. And after having sex, we talked some more, learned more about each other, etc. I've found that most of the chicks I dealt with complained about guys who hit them up for sex, or wanted to send suggestive texts, etc. I've had multiple sugar babies text me for life advice, or to calm them down during a panic attack, and countless other random human things.

Point being, SA works best when you convince a chick that there's more to it than sex and money. Even if there isn't. I'm not looking to date these chicks, I'm not catching feelings or thinking they like me. But this is a game, and it's a game that best works when you convince her that the game doesn't exist.

[URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game_[/URL](mind_game).



Treat her like a piece of meat, low ball her out of nowhere, etc and you could lose her. Maybe that doesn't matter to you, if you've got multiple chicks you're seeing. Personally, the best SA relationships I had were when I was only seeing one person. I'd rather focus on doing cool shit for one person than juggle a bunch of chicks. But each long term, "emotional" SA relationship I've had ultimately failed in the end. Which is my own reminder than it is indeed a game, and games end.[/QUOTE]Very well said. You've hit the nail right on the head. You can not suceed on SA with the non pros if you treat them like hookers. I've been on the site off and on since it started and have come across all types. There are indeed plenty of pro's working the site. I chuckle every time I see a profile pic that's a sexy selfie taken in what's obviously a hotel room. Under those circumstances I know what I'm dealing with and can cut right to negotiations if I choose to do so. On the other hand there's lots of women who are game, but just can't get past the idea that the whole thing basically a financial transaction for sex. I've been chatting with a knockout mid 40's divorcee who needs to put the concept of being an SB into some kind of relationship situation. She doesn't get what it all boils down to and probably never will. I had a 3+ year arrangement with an older well off financially widow who could care less about money. I'd buy her flowers, an occasional gift card for a mani / pedi or a nice romantic dinner somewhere. She never asked for money and I never gave her any. The point I'm trying to make is what was all ready said, treat them with a little pampering and show them a little respect, and you will find its a gold mine out there. I'm in my mid sixties and have may more opportunities than I have time for.

[QUOTE=GuyDetroit;4338408]Ya she was like 400 at least to me. There are better options out there.[/QUOTE]We never got to money. I told her that I wanted to meet for two or three hours, and she said she wasn't interested in meeting for that long.

Has anyone encountered this little princess? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0782c228-d27e-41fe-be96-4c9dd45180a7[/URL].

She sent me a few messages, the last one including her phone number. Not very talkative at all. Mentioned that she the thinks 1000 is nice but would settle for 500. LOL.

Seems to be a lot of GPS out there lately.

[QUOTE=ImBadBoy19;4343720]Has anyone encountered this little princess? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0782c228-d27e-41fe-be96-4c9dd45180a7[/URL].

She sent me a few messages, the last one including her phone number. Not very talkative at all. Mentioned that she the thinks 1000 is nice but would settle for 500. LOL.

Seems to be a lot of GPS out there lately.[/QUOTE]I've communicated with this one as well. She'll open her pics on the site but then close them the next day. Very unpleasant via text. Oh and she is NOT pretty. Avoid.

[QUOTE=PleasureSoul;4345069]I've communicated with this one as well. She'll open her pics on the site but then close them the next day. Very unpleasant via text. Oh and she is NOT pretty. Avoid.[/QUOTE]I got the same info so I blocked her and moved on.

248 babygirl, $600 to have lunch with her. Enough said.

I don't hand out my number to just anyone let alone right away. Near setting something up, give her my number so we can meet up and BAM POW BANG. She leases that psycho personality that she was able to hide from me. All I can say is that I am glad it happened when it did. We had been chatting for some time too. Those that want to move too fast sound desperate to me and I am not desperate myself. Stay safe all and watch your six.

Been lurking here for a while. Just wanted to say thanks for the insight into SA. Particularly in terms of setting up a discrete account and how to manage the communication with these women.

I've had some success. But it's a fair amount of work. Ha.

I'm willing to exchange some info if anyone is interested. Just PM me.

Also, heading up north next week. So if anyone knows of any friendlies in the TC area and wants to share. I'd appreciate it.

Thanks.

I saw this one a year or so ago and had a great time. A little pricey, I think it was 400, but she was a freak between the sheets. A little out there, into some Dom stuff, some spiritual crap. She asked me if I wanted to take pics or video. She must have gotten pretty poipular over the last year, because when I recently contacted her she was asking for like 700 . [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ed5a2bca-7f7d-4300-acb8-fb64a3af3da7[/URL].

Recent SB's that have contacted me. My rotation is set right now, but may pursue down the road. Anyone have info?

From AA. Will travel Open to P2 P [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9cae88ea-79e8-4d42-acaa-01cbd0382635[/URL].

Too young for me, but smoking hot. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7d4770ae-9667-4f62-8b0d-1fd464d2e7e7[/URL].

Chatted with this one briefly, seemed a little strung out. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/57c1ad0f-7455-413a-a66d-55c07c87934d[/URL].