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[QUOTE=Grexit;5698915]Wanted to get some members thoughts on how to proceed.

I have been seeing a new SB since the start of December and everything is going great in terms of the actual arrangement. We have fun for a couple of hours when we meet up and the damage is reasonable for someone who just graduated from college last year.

The thing is I recently looked her up on social and noticed that she just got engaged. And when I say just I mean like their engagement photos are dated for the end of November. She basically has always told me / acted like she is single so this is news to me.

We took a break for Christmas and are planning on seeing each other again in Jan. Should I just cut her loose? I generally have a rule not to get involved with girls that have a lot of drama but she has been pretty chill for the most part but this whole cheating right after getting engaged doesn't sit right with me. Let me your thoughts if you have more experience in this type of situation.

BTW don't bother DMing or asking for her link, I'm not sharing it at this time. I'm not trying to have her doxxed just looking for advice on the above.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Just enjoy the ride and have fun. Your never going to marry and have kids. Keep it simple and fun.

I had a POT once who contacted me several times even though her social media indicated she was less than a week from her wedding day. I considered the worst that might happen, like a newlywed farm boy who finds out he's been cuckolded (sp?) and decided to block and move on. The best pussy in the world isn't worth that level of drama.

[QUOTE=Grexit;5698915]Wanted to get some members thoughts on how to proceed.

I have been seeing a new SB since the start of December and everything is going great in terms of the actual arrangement. We have fun for a couple of hours when we meet up and the damage is reasonable for someone who just graduated from college last year.

The thing is I recently looked her up on social and noticed that she just got engaged. And when I say just I mean like their engagement photos are dated for the end of November. She basically has always told me / acted like she is single so this is news to me.

We took a break for Christmas and are planning on seeing each other again in Jan. Should I just cut her loose? I generally have a rule not to get involved with girls that have a lot of drama but she has been pretty chill for the most part but this whole cheating right after getting engaged doesn't sit right with me. Let me your thoughts if you have more experience in this type of situation.

BTW don't bother DMing or asking for her link, I'm not sharing it at this time. I'm not trying to have her doxxed just looking for advice on the above.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Grexit;5698915]Wanted to get some members thoughts on how to proceed.

I have been seeing a new SB since the start of December and everything is going great in terms of the actual arrangement. We have fun for a couple of hours when we meet up and the damage is reasonable for someone who just graduated from college last year.

The thing is I recently looked her up on social and noticed that she just got engaged. And when I say just I mean like their engagement photos are dated for the end of November. She basically has always told me / acted like she is single so this is news to me.

We took a break for Christmas and are planning on seeing each other again in Jan. Should I just cut her loose? I generally have a rule not to get involved with girls that have a lot of drama but she has been pretty chill for the most part but this whole cheating right after getting engaged doesn't sit right with me. Let me your thoughts if you have more experience in this type of situation.

BTW don't bother DMing or asking for her link, I'm not sharing it at this time. I'm not trying to have her doxxed just looking for advice on the above.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]You're not the only one seeing her. Don't DM me.

[QUOTE=Grexit;5698915]Wanted to get some members thoughts on how to proceed.

I have been seeing a new SB since the start of December and everything is going great in terms of the actual arrangement. We have fun for a couple of hours when we meet up and the damage is reasonable for someone who just graduated from college last year.

The thing is I recently looked her up on social and noticed that she just got engaged. And when I say just I mean like their engagement photos are dated for the end of November. She basically has always told me / acted like she is single so this is news to me.

We took a break for Christmas and are planning on seeing each other again in Jan. Should I just cut her loose? I generally have a rule not to get involved with girls that have a lot of drama but she has been pretty chill for the most part but this whole cheating right after getting engaged doesn't sit right with me. Let me your thoughts if you have more experience in this type of situation.

BTW don't bother DMing or asking for her link, I'm not sharing it at this time. I'm not trying to have her doxxed just looking for advice on the above.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Not sure what exactly doesn't sit right with you. Given the circumstances of how you met in the first place.

It would be naive to think any SB you have an arrangement with is single or doesn't at least hook up with someone else. But, if you can't get past that thought and her actions don't sit well with you, then I'd say break it off, as you'll only end up with more resentment once you see her again (again, going by your own comments of it not sitting right with you. If it doesn't sit right with you now, it probably won't sit right with you when you see her either).

I'd just enjoy the ride! If you enjoy hanging out with her and the arrangement is good, then stay with it and enjoy it! Hard to find these days someone where the arrangement is good and you actually have a good vibe with each other etc.

[QUOTE=Grexit;5698915]Wanted to get some members thoughts on how to proceed.

I have been seeing a new SB since the start of December and everything is going great in terms of the actual arrangement. We have fun for a couple of hours when we meet up and the damage is reasonable for someone who just graduated from college last year.

The thing is I recently looked her up on social and noticed that she just got engaged. And when I say just I mean like their engagement photos are dated for the end of November. She basically has always told me / acted like she is single so this is news to me.

We took a break for Christmas and are planning on seeing each other again in Jan. Should I just cut her loose? I generally have a rule not to get involved with girls that have a lot of drama but she has been pretty chill for the most part but this whole cheating right after getting engaged doesn't sit right with me. Let me your thoughts if you have more experience in this type of situation.

BTW don't bother DMing or asking for her link, I'm not sharing it at this time. I'm not trying to have her doxxed just looking for advice on the above.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]OMG! Forget the guilt and go with it. It's been said that guys who are about to tie the knot sometimes have a side-chic fling before commiting to a ball & chain. Well on the flip, this girl seems to be doing the same thing, except you're paying her. Supposedly you're the last dick she's going to be fucking before she does her vows. Her low-key bachelorette party. LOL.

Just consider yourself the lucky man who sent her on her way to domestication.

[QUOTE=Grexit;5698915]Wanted to get some members thoughts on how to proceed.

I have been seeing a new SB since the start of December and everything is going great in terms of the actual arrangement. We have fun for a couple of hours when we meet up and the damage is reasonable for someone who just graduated from college last year.

The thing is I recently looked her up on social and noticed that she just got engaged. And when I say just I mean like their engagement photos are dated for the end of November. She basically has always told me / acted like she is single so this is news to me.

We took a break for Christmas and are planning on seeing each other again in Jan. Should I just cut her loose? I generally have a rule not to get involved with girls that have a lot of drama but she has been pretty chill for the most part but this whole cheating right after getting engaged doesn't sit right with me. Let me your thoughts if you have more experience in this type of situation.

BTW don't bother DMing or asking for her link, I'm not sharing it at this time. I'm not trying to have her doxxed just looking for advice on the above.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Bro, your helping pay for her wedding ring, her wedding dress, bridesmaids dresses, the chapel (if not in a church), all the food, a DJ and their honeymoon. Don't sweat it just ride it out and have your fun for as long as it lasts LOL. Easy.

Thanks for the feedback. Yea you guys are right I'm just over thinking this.

I don't deal with married SBs for a number of reasons and I guess the engagement part threw me off for a second because it's right there before marriage. I'll just let it play out until it runs it's course.

[QUOTE=Grexit;5698915]Wanted to get some members thoughts on how to proceed.

I have been seeing a new SB since the start of December and everything is going great in terms of the actual arrangement. We have fun for a couple of hours when we meet up and the damage is reasonable for someone who just graduated from college last year.

The thing is I recently looked her up on social and noticed that she just got engaged. And when I say just I mean like their engagement photos are dated for the end of November. She basically has always told me / acted like she is single so this is news to me.

We took a break for Christmas and are planning on seeing each other again in Jan. Should I just cut her loose? I generally have a rule not to get involved with girls that have a lot of drama but she has been pretty chill for the most part but this whole cheating right after getting engaged doesn't sit right with me. Let me your thoughts if you have more experience in this type of situation.

BTW don't bother DMing or asking for her link, I'm not sharing it at this time. I'm not trying to have her doxxed just looking for advice on the above.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]So everyone on here has been "don't sweat it". My take is a bit different.

1. Be careful. There's a chance that her fiance knows and is totally cool with it. Some people are not looking for sexual monogamy in marriage- he might have the right to play, too. But it's also possible she's not being honest with him- which means it's likely she's not being honest with you.

If she tries to hit you up for more money with a sob story, just be aware she might be playing you. Keep your guard up.

2. There's a worst-case scenario in where he finds out, gets mad, and decides to confront her SD or SDs. Be honest with yourself- if that happens, can you protect yourself?

I'm a 50-year old guy with a bad back and a bit of a gut. If the boyfriend is 25, roided up like a wrestler for WWF in the 80's, and posts about his gun collection and cort-mandated anger management classes, I'd be out. Life's too short.

Either way, I hope you have fun and it all works out. The good thing is that, for the most part, most SB-SD relationships have a short shelf life. One of you might decide to end it before anything else happens. And as bad as the current Jax market is, there's always more fish in the sea.

[QUOTE=Grexit;5698915]Wanted to get some members thoughts on how to proceed.

I have been seeing a new SB since the start of December and everything is going great in terms of the actual arrangement. We have fun for a couple of hours when we meet up and the damage is reasonable for someone who just graduated from college last year.

The thing is I recently looked her up on social and noticed that she just got engaged. And when I say just I mean like their engagement photos are dated for the end of November. She basically has always told me / acted like she is single so this is news to me.

We took a break for Christmas and are planning on seeing each other again in Jan. Should I just cut her loose? I generally have a rule not to get involved with girls that have a lot of drama but she has been pretty chill for the most part but this whole cheating right after getting engaged doesn't sit right with me. Let me your thoughts if you have more experience in this type of situation.

BTW don't bother DMing or asking for her link, I'm not sharing it at this time. I'm not trying to have her doxxed just looking for advice on the above.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Bro. You're hurt. You allowed your feelings to cloud your actual intent. Are.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b6a7a01f-188d-4e10-a214-fa09d63c62dc[/URL]

Anyone have any info on her for some reason I feel like I've seen a review of her somewhere a long time ago but I can't remember where. PM is fine.

[QUOTE=ArtsLu32;5616726]Any intel on this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b729601-81e5-47f2-b781-68d602f0fa06[/URL]

Seemed a bit too easy. But is asking if a lot. 5/ h.[/QUOTE]I am scheduled to se her later this week and will report back. Anyone else meet her?

Cute girl, sweet to chat with, but eventually you get the message it'll be completely platonic.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49832e36-30ae-483b-8d16-0b31e8289608[/URL]

[QUOTE=Fishguy717;5708575]Cute girl, sweet to chat with, but eventually you get the message it'll be completely platonic.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49832e36-30ae-483b-8d16-0b31e8289608[/URL][/QUOTE]Perhaps she should indicate that in her profile so other mongers don't waste their time (I know, preaching to the choir Fish LOL) smh.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;5709378]Perhaps she should indicate that in her profile so other mongers don't waste their time (I know, preaching to the choir Fish LOL) smh.[/QUOTE]Waiting for the right Hermit Crab to come along I guess.

[QUOTE=CruisingXX;5708306]I am scheduled to se her later this week and will report back. Anyone else meet her?[/QUOTE]Do you have a pic or can you provide a name?