Random favorites and views
Go into your profile settings then scroll down to "Search and Dashboard. " Click "Hidden" and that random stuff will stop.
[QUOTE=UnderlovedGuy;5690137]Every time I sign on, I get a favorite from a big busted black hair young Venezuela women within a minute of being on. Different one every time.[/QUOTE]
Incognito versus. Cognito
I have never, repeat never been contacted by a serious POT SB. Never. I recently turned my profile "visibility" on for a week to see what would happen. I'm more than 50 miles from a metro center, so that definitely plays a factor, but in that week I only got one click from an SB within 100 miles. The rest of the clicks were from New York, California, Texas, Michigan, Puerto Rico, Ukraine, among others. Guaranteed None of them would have led to a successful encounter.
If you're getting clicks from local SBs that lead to successful encounters, bravo. If not, quit complaining about all the static, you've left an open invitation. As far as hotties who might be doing the same thing, yes, I'm sure there are. Doesn't matter, I've never gone more than a week searching for a new encounter, and never more than a couple of months before finding a year-long arrangement. One of the perks of early retirement, I'm free to chase strange whenever it suits me.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;5690639]And will also stop the locals as well, so its a double edged sword. Plus there may be some hotties that are doing the same thing and you won't see them.[/QUOTE]
You just described half the women I've met from SA
[QUOTE=BudGreen;5694680]Many of the women of not most would love to explore a real relationship. I met a very attractive blond woman who was 28. Drove a new Lexus and lived in a very nice home 300 k plus and was the Director of Digital Media for a large Corp and she signed up to find someone with similar success because she gets used so much by men. She also only dates 50+ and attractiveness isn't a concern. Just don't be a sponge. Had a great three month fling with zero allowance but dinner most dates and I'm not talking cheap dinners. I'm not in this game for that but it did prove some are hunting for husbands or boyfriends. When they start talking about your career, what car do you have and show me your place. You know what their really looking for.[/QUOTE]But graed, I've been seeking that type out. The other half have been churn and burn or one time PPM type arrangemnts. But the best quality and the most fun have been with the ones who just want to date a successful guy.
Tbh, if you're honest & transparent about your intentions. I've found you can get most on there to go along with whatever you're seeking.
Interesting situation, unsure how to proceed
Wanted to get some members thoughts on how to proceed.
I have been seeing a new SB since the start of December and everything is going great in terms of the actual arrangement. We have fun for a couple of hours when we meet up and the damage is reasonable for someone who just graduated from college last year.
The thing is I recently looked her up on social and noticed that she just got engaged. And when I say just I mean like their engagement photos are dated for the end of November. She basically has always told me / acted like she is single so this is news to me.
We took a break for Christmas and are planning on seeing each other again in Jan. Should I just cut her loose? I generally have a rule not to get involved with girls that have a lot of drama but she has been pretty chill for the most part but this whole cheating right after getting engaged doesn't sit right with me. Let me your thoughts if you have more experience in this type of situation.
BTW don't bother DMing or asking for her link, I'm not sharing it at this time. I'm not trying to have her doxxed just looking for advice on the above.
Thanks.