There Are A Few Diamonds in the Rough
[QUOTE=PhlipJ11;6195204]Is there something I don't know about Secret Benefits? Been trying for so long and I can get anyone to respond to a message. I've been persistent and followed up with many. Seems like a huge scam to me, but that would take a lot of complicity from the women on there.
What's the trick to hook up with someone on SB? I really can't get a response.
Thanks for any help.[/QUOTE]A version of this question has been asked on various sugarbaby threads on this site. I've been on secret benefits for a few months now and have had some success. Here are some tips based on my personal experience and also others answers to this question:
1. Don't respond to a message unless the sender has visited your profile. The bots and scammers sometimes send messages without looking at your profile, that's one way to spot them.
2. Don't spend the 10 tokens to open private pics until you've exchanged a few messages back and forth. Then you know the chick is real and might actually be interested in meeting up.
3. When you send a message first, share your private photos at the same time even if the POT hasn't sent you a request. I've found this increases the chances of getting a response.
4. Sometimes I will spend the 10 tokens to boost my message. But rarely, only when we've been messaging and it suddenly stops.
5. For wherever reason there seem to be more flakey women on SB than SA. More chicks who just want to chat and don't have the guts to actually meet up. They log on occasionally but don't have a strong desire to meet up. More ugly chicks too. I immediately block all the ugly ones so I'm not tempted to spend tokens on them. I focus on the hot or at least average ones. You have to be disciplined and frugal in spending your tokens. Don't lose focus and start boosting and messaging a bunch of chicks just because you get frustrated at the lack of response.
Bottom line is there are some gems on SB, but to find them you are almost certainly going to spend more money than you will on SA. I use SB when I've exhausted all leads ok SA. Good luck, brother.