Marlee / Mylah. Psycho Scammer
Tl; dr this woman is crazy and I'm 99% sure she tried to run a pregnancy scam on me last year.
Seeking profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8d4847df-c23b-4ea3-9d17-d3882cbb09d0[/URL].
Profile on another sugar site: [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/65beef115165be24[/URL].
Been wanting to make this post for a while.
I met her exactly once last February. Wore a condom but it slipped (literally the first time in my life that happened). Gave her cash for a Plan B just to be safe.
About a month later, she told me she's pregnant. She never gave me any real proof beyond a picture of a positive pregnancy test. We tentatively agreed on abortion and while she said she was conflicted at first, she eventually claimed she didn't want to keep it.
She says she talked to Planned Parenthood and an abortion would be $1,500. I looked it up on their website, and it would be a fraction of that, given how early it was. So of course I'm a little more suspicious. I told her I'm happy to cover the entire $1,500 as long as I can pay the clinic directly. I offer several reasonable ways for me to pay PP or another clinic directly without me being there for anything medical. She turned down all the options and just went on about how embarrassing it was for her that she got pregnant by some random guy and that she was only ok with cash directly to her. Of course I'm immediately much more suspicious. At one point she basically threatens to keep the baby if I don't just hand her money directly. I politely insisted I only pay a clinic and that together we can figure out a way for me to pay a clinic that works for her. She said that she can get a personal loan to cover the cost but it might take time.
A couple days later, once she realized she wasn't getting straight cash out of me, she suddenly claimed she found someone who could do a shady medical abortion for free, then switched to asking / demanding money from me as "compensation for her time, suffering and inability to make money from other men on seeking" while she goes through her abortion. At this point, I figured she was probably scamming, but I wasn't sure if she was just making one last effort to try to cash out on her scam or if she was indeed pregnant and just being a bratty Karen. Since her being pregnant would be a pretty terrible thing for everyone involved, I told her I'd give her some money (just in hopes it would help her go through with it in the off chance it was real). We agreed to meet up at a Starbucks for me to give her money, and once I got there she wanted me to get into her car for some reason instead of meeting inside of Starbucks. Shortly after I got in her car, she acted all scared and was like "are you going to kill me? Do you have a gun? Like btch why would you demand money from me and then insist we meet privately in your car if you were truly afraid I'd do something. I'm pretty sure her acting scared was just another manipulation tactic. We chatted for a few minutes and she also claimed she "had an awakening" and was totally done with seeking and deleted her profile. After I got home later that day I checked seeking and her profile was gone. About a week later I was scrolling through seeking and saw she made a new profile with new pictures and a slightly different name. So yeah, "had an awakening". Sure Jan.
She also told me she bought a Tesla the same day she allegedly took the mifepristone. I'm not an expert on pregnant woman behavior but buying a Tesla the same day you start a medical abortion (and just a couple days after you claim you need a personal loan to get access to money to pay for an abortion) just seems like wacky behavior to me. Like why wouldn't she be more concerned whether her sketchy abortion is working? And how could she not afford an abortion a few days ago but she can afford a Tesla now? She's worried about missing out on income from not being on seeking for a couple weeks but has enough money for a Tesla? Why would she care about missing out on income from men on seeking if she "had an awakening" and was done with seeking in general? So many questions.
About a week and a half later (early / mid April at this point), she claims she took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. Normally with medical abortions you'll still test positive for a few weeks, and testing negative at just a week and a half is pretty uncommon (though not completely impossible). I didn't tell her that but of course my suspicion level that this whole thing was bogus went up even more. The next day she said she went to a doctor to get checked out too, and that the doctor said she's not pregnant anymore. I asked what they checked (like did they do an ultrasound, blood test, etc.) and she quickly said "everything" which seemed like a made up response. I asked her if she wouldn't mind sending some sort of proof that she wasn't pregnant (like an ultrasound or blood test results) and she said she would. As you can probably guess at this point, she never did.
A month later in mid May, she reached out and told me she got an IUD put in and wanted to keep hooking up for cash. I declined. I kept one eye on her seeking profile for a while, she stayed active and kept posting for several months, and never once mentioned pregnancy on her profile and wasn't pregnant in any of the new photos she posted. Never heard from her again after May.
Like I mentioned in the intro, I'm 99% sure the whole thing was a scam. I can't tell if she was after cash or she just enjoys drama and attention. But she's a lunatic either way. I'm counting my blessings that I don't have to reproduce with this crazy btch. And I'm going to get a vasectomy soon. So if anyone has vasectomy doctor recommendations I'd love to hear it.
Dates set up with these 2
Meeting these two soon and will report back. No funds discussed yet, just meet and greets.
Any feedback I would appreciate it.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/94bc7277-157b-402c-b443-82deaf5e3623[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f8420405-554a-4299-a0fc-243556f66756[/URL]
Any experience with this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d805eb1b-774c-4c09-90aa-6173d9cee005[/URL]