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[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;3653839][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cd7f15ed-d8d1-6138-daef-752a03837630[/URL]
Another one transitioning from BP. Pics seem to show a nice fat ass but I haven't seen any reviews on her.[/QUOTE]Here's her BP ad with, what looks like, recent pics.
[URL]http://jacksonville.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/904-233-8890/19460332[/URL]
[QUOTE=BigDelicious;3654075]Here's her BP ad with, what looks like, recent pics.
[URL]http://jacksonville.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/904-233-8890/19460332[/URL][/QUOTE]All she did was complain!
[QUOTE=BigDelicious;3654075]Here's her BP ad with, what looks like, recent pics.
[URL]http://jacksonville.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/904-233-8890/19460332[/URL][/QUOTE]OMG! Was she around the Ark of the Covenant when the Germans opened it?
With so many different "arrangement" sites, what would be the best one to get my feet wet with? Do I need to be balling before I sign up for sites like these?
[QUOTE=MrWheels83;3655101]With so many different "arrangement" sites, what would be the best one to get my feet wet with? Do I need to be balling before I sign up for sites like these?[/QUOTE][URL]www.seekingarrangement.com[/URL] is probably the most active one that I'm aware of.
[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;3655104][URL]www.seekingarrangement.com[/URL] is probably the most active one that I'm aware of.[/QUOTE]I agree with ZoomLens2013. Seeking Arrangement is the best available SD / SB website.
Safe mongering and sugaring!
One of my SB regulars, my favorite actually, used the word "submissive" in her description. It's not the first time I'd come across that word in a sexual context; but it is the first time I'd been with a self-described submissive. And I liked it. She wants me to call all the shots and whatever I say, she is pretty much down with and performs with, let's call it verve. Taking a cue from this success, I've spent time with a few other SBs using that same adjective. Unfortunately, what that seems to mean for a lot of them is actually "passive". They just aren't an active participant in the sex part at all. They'll pretty much let you use them as you like; but there's little in the way of participation or pleasure. It's a surprisingly joyless thing dumping your nut into a lifeless Barbie. Anybody else finding this to be true? Don't get me wrong, I've found several winners on SA. I'm just interested by this phenomenon.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4b86b324-e7c1-4bf2-b06d-4f661a6f7241[/URL]
Havnt even spoke with them a bit and they were chomping at the bit to come over to my place. I didn't get into prices with them nor did I even let it go that far. They just seemed too eager to get on with things.
I kept asking them to show me a camera pic of them as they are at this very moment and all I got was pics from the camera roll / Gallery. I copied one of their pics back and told them just because I sent them this pic doesn't mean its me.
Of course they got all defensive.
Maybe 30 min worth of texts back and forth and still they could not produce not 1 pic from their camera. I may have passed on a good thing, but Spidey senses were off the hook.
BZ to anyone that does land them though.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3655858]
BZ to anyone that does land them though.[/QUOTE]Wow. They would almost be worth the risk LOL. The premium membership would worry me.
[QUOTE=Sparkish;3655809]Anybody else finding this to be true?[/QUOTE]Most are very passive. Yet they are open and willing to please. Truth is most are uninterested really if fooling around with a guy 2 x their age; some pretty good little actresses though.
[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3655922]Most are very passive. Yet they are open and willing to please. Truth is most are uninterested really if fooling around with a guy 2 x their age; some pretty good little actresses though.[/QUOTE]I have been told by several women that us older gents gross them out. I guess this is the reason some want to charge a mint. To be with some of us, I reckon they say we need to make it worth their while. Perhaps if you're an older guy with a fit body, it might not be so bad to them. Who knows. I've seen some of the younger guys and I tell you, they don't look so good either! Especially those with the sagging britches! LOL.
A sad reality that you can't turn heads like you used to but hey, that's when we have to use the influence and power of money to get their attention!
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3655858][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4b86b324-e7c1-4bf2-b06d-4f661a6f7241[/URL]
BZ to anyone that does land them though.[/QUOTE]Effective use of BZ, fella. Hahahaha.
[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;3655950]Effective use of BZ, fella. Hahahaha.[/QUOTE]Yea, I knew some of ya would get it. Speaking of 3 ways. I think they are over-rated but I aint going to turn one down either. So this one young hottie I see and have done Greek with her and also a 3 way. Has offered me a Xmax gift with either one of those two events again. Decisions decisions.
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3655942]I have been told by several women that us older gents gross them out. I guess this is the reason some want to charge a mint. To be with some of us, I reckon they say we need to make it worth their while. Perhaps if you're an older guy with a fit body, it might not be so bad to them. Who knows. I've seen some of the younger guys and I tell you, they don't look so good either! Especially those with the sagging britches! LOL.
A sad reality that you can't turn heads like you used to but hey, that's when we have to use the influence and power of money to get their attention![/QUOTE]But if you take care of your self, are well-groomed, dress decently. And shave your gray cock- you'll get pretty damn good results!
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3655942]I have been told by several women that us older gents gross them out. I guess this is the reason some want to charge a mint. To be with some of us, I reckon they say we need to make it worth their while. Perhaps if you're an older guy with a fit body, it might not be so bad to them. Who knows. I've seen some of the younger guys and I tell you, they don't look so good either! Especially those with the sagging britches! LOL.
A sad reality that you can't turn heads like you used to but hey, that's when we have to use the influence and power of money to get their attention![/QUOTE]I've wondered if it'd be analogous to us hooking up with 80 yo women LOL. Will say all the SBs keep contact and want to continue to hang out on a regular basis.
Until they drop off the radar. An issue that's got my interest recently. That is why so many appear to enjoy the dates and sa in general and suddenly remove their profiles. Kinda weird and wonder if the site bugs them more than they let on.
[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3656341]I've wondered if it'd be analogous to us hooking up with 80 yo women LOL. Will say all the SBs keep contact and want to continue to hang out on a regular basis.
Until they drop off the radar. An issue that's got my interest recently. That is why so many appear to enjoy the dates and sa in general and suddenly remove their profiles. Kinda weird and wonder if the site bugs them more than they let on.[/QUOTE]Who is the oldest celebrity you would do? 70 or older. Raquel Welch comes to mind, but lets face it she would never be on a SD site.
[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3656341]I've wondered if it'd be analogous to us hooking up with 80 yo women LOL. Will say all the SBs keep contact and want to continue to hang out on a regular basis.
Until they drop off the radar. An issue that's got my interest recently. That is why so many appear to enjoy the dates and sa in general and suddenly remove their profiles. Kinda weird and wonder if the site bugs them more than they let on.[/QUOTE]And then the old bag might want another round.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5ce40ba1-b4ac-46a5-be56-682972ff5bb4[/URL]
After chatting with her on the site for about a week and then by text messages for another week I was able to do a short meet and greet and maybe discuss a future meeting. She was just getting off work and I was in the area so I stopped by her place but we met at the next apt building because she has roommates and she wanted to be discreet. She seemed alil taller than 5'8 and is curvy. It was cold so we sat in my car and chatted. She seemed shy and didn't make alot of eye contact and wasnt really appealing. Meaning she didn't have my Mr johnson thinking of all tye things he'd like to do to her so I'm thinking maybe this is a no go. Alil more conversation and I told her I wasn't able to host tonight (really just trying to end the meet) and she said that maybe she could give me a nice treat before I left if I could help alil financially (looking down at Mr). I asked what did she have in mind and she directed me to a nice secluded area of the apts and gave a damn good BBBJCIM, good DT and hand mouth coordination and on my huge release she took it all down the hatch.
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3655942]I have been told by several women that us older gents gross them out. I guess this is the reason some want to charge a mint. To be with some of us, I reckon they say we need to make it worth their while. Perhaps if you're an older guy with a fit body, it might not be so bad to them. Who knows. I've seen some of the younger guys and I tell you, they don't look so good either! Especially those with the sagging britches! LOL.
A sad reality that you can't turn heads like you used to but hey, that's when we have to use the influence and power of money to get their attention![/QUOTE]Maybe it would be helpful if on their SA profiles they could post a preferred age limit for their prospective daddy's. That might save everyone a lot of wasted time searching for someone who does not fit their preferred demographics.
[QUOTE=GeomaticsJoe;3656788]Maybe it would be helpful if on their SA profiles they could post a preferred age limit for their prospective daddy's. That might save everyone a lot of wasted time searching for someone who does not fit their preferred demographics.[/QUOTE]We're the ones with the money; at least we're not young and broke and we're less drama too.
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3655942]I have been told by several women that us older gents gross them out. I guess this is the reason some want to charge a mint. To be with some of us, I reckon they say we need to make it worth their while. Perhaps if you're an older guy with a fit body, it might not be so bad to them. Who knows. I've seen some of the younger guys and I tell you, they don't look so good either! Especially those with the sagging britches! LOL.
A sad reality that you can't turn heads like you used to but hey, that's when we have to use the influence and power of money to get their attention![/QUOTE]I've seen SA from a girls app and theres a lot of ugly and gross dudes on there! Some real assholes too. Let's face it guys don't usually age well and the older dudes looked. Well really old.
However, SA is just crawling with 19 year olds now so pretty much any guy over 35 is an old dude to then.
[QUOTE=PauFord;3657050]I've seen SA from a girls app and theres a lot of ugly and gross dudes on there! Some real assholes too. Let's face it guys don't usually age well and the older dudes looked. Well really old.
However, SA is just crawling with 19 year olds now so pretty much any guy over 35 is an old dude to then.[/QUOTE]Yeah. I've seen from a sb's list and it's surprisingly bleak and weird (of course not into guys so no group is going to look too good LOL.) I'm 56 and haven't met any girl yet that's concerned over age. All most want is safety, no scams and clean.
Still interested in hearing why some are quite active, seem to enjoy and suddenly remove profiles. My gut is they haven't met a huge sd but something trips and they get embarrassed by lifestyle. (Don't know how much trash they get from guys calling them names on site.).
[QUOTE=PauFord;3657050]I've seen SA from a girls app and theres a lot of ugly and gross dudes on there! Some real assholes too. Let's face it guys don't usually age well and the older dudes looked. Well really old.
However, SA is just crawling with 19 year olds now so pretty much any guy over 35 is an old dude to then.[/QUOTE]Then chose who they want. That's what I would do. I'm chatting up a hot black girl now. Will see how things go. How do you guys ease into wanting to setup a meet and more without making them feel hookerish?
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3657238]Then chose who they want. That's what I would do. I'm chatting up a hot black girl now. Will see how things go. How do you guys ease into wanting to setup a meet and more without making them feel hookerish?[/QUOTE]That say they want NSA arrangements. But rest assured 99% of girls are there for the same thing.
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3657238]Then chose who they want. That's what I would do. I'm chatting up a hot black girl now. Will see how things go. How do you guys ease into wanting to setup a meet and more without making them feel hookerish?[/QUOTE]Most of them (not all, by any means) want to meet at a public place like for lunch, and you would normally be the one springing for lunch. Then, IF it's still someone you're interested in once you see them, you start to get into more details of what you're looking for, and how things are going to work. Most won't be able to host because of room mates (or parents, LOL). But some will, hell I've done a duo in the UNF dorm. You just never know. Just telling most commonly, you're going to have to come up with a place as well.
You start to learn to ask more questions, get more detailed pics if needed, where there are no surprises when she walks in the door of the restaurant or wherever.
After all that you'll find out if you are both still interested in the end game.
You never know what will happen. One of my favs still today, although she only visits jax now, was at our initial lunch a couple of years ago, and we finished eating, and she said, "Want to come back to my place?" Awesome. But that doesn't happen regularly, by any means.
Chatted with this one pretty extensively, and all seemed to match until she wanted 150 guaranteed along with the lunch I would be buying. Told her no, but if we decide to continue after lunch, I wouldn't have any problem with that. She wouldn't bend. Told her good luck.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f4170e93-bde9-4a72-8350-3befcc786c16[/URL]
[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;3656566][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5ce40ba1-b4ac-46a5-be56-682972ff5bb4[/URL]
After chatting with her on the site for about a week and then by text messages for another week I was able to do a short meet and greet and maybe discuss a future meeting. She was just getting off work and I was in the area so I stopped by her place but we met at the next apt building because she has roommates and she wanted to be discreet. She seemed alil taller than 5'8 and is curvy. It was cold so we sat in my car and chatted. She seemed shy and didn't make alot of eye contact and wasnt really appealing. Meaning she didn't have my Mr johnson thinking of all tye things he'd like to do to her so I'm thinking maybe this is a no go. Alil more conversation and I told her I wasn't able to host tonight (really just trying to end the meet) and she said that maybe she could give me a nice treat before I left if I could help alil financially (looking down at Mr). I asked what did she have in mind and she directed me to a nice secluded area of the apts and gave a damn good BBBJCIM, good DT and hand mouth coordination and on my huge release she took it all down the hatch.[/QUOTE]How much help was she looking for or how much did you help her with that night?
[QUOTE=Traveler6940;3657486]How much help was she looking for or how much did you help her with that night?[/QUOTE]One thing I never do is discuss what I donate. I will say she is negotiable. Almost saw her last night again but decided to pursue another potential.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/16eb4082-6476-4221-8958-faf9c6192b8d[/URL]
I chatted with her for about an hour last night after she left a message last week. Pic is real and nice body but she wants money send to her cash app to secure a date. She gave me some story about her car was in the shop and needed the money up front to get her car and then she'll head straight to me. Smh it amazes me how dumb some of these women think we are. I told her I had no problem with helping if we do a meet first. No response LOL. Avoid like the plague!
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3657238]Then chose who they want. That's what I would do. I'm chatting up a hot black girl now. Will see how things go. How do you guys ease into wanting to setup a meet and more without making them feel hookerish?[/QUOTE]My experience is that there is a certain flow to the entire screening process. It's like playing Red Light / Green Light when you were a kid. First, I never discuss anything of importance on the site having always taken the POV that it's monitored. Some guys on here have learned that the hard way. Second, after I've switched the conversation over to text or KIK so we can chat and exchange pics, I'll start with asking them how open minded are they? Do they have any rules, etc. Surprisingly at this point about 90% will immediately say something like " I don't do anal", (Sorry Sicilly). Now that we've established that, all else should be apparent, and you need to only establish a price, unless you have a certain pecadillo you want to see if she's game for. Sure a meet and greet is good but only with the understanding that we'll move on to the next phase immediately after. Some will wash out (Red light) during this process, but so what? It's like panning for gold IMO.
Part of the fun is the hunt. Look for code words like, NSA, discrete, open minded. Some of these girls are on the site because of their economic situation only. Many of them are in school, or single mothers and are desperate. Others are there for shopping money, and they think it's fun or cool to have a SD that they can fuck occastionally for some spending money because they've heard from their friends who do it. And remember guys, ALL the girls at UNF talk about us with each other. I've had several SB's tell me that.
After you've gotten a collection of SB's to rotate through, to keep things fresh, don't renew your membership, just work with what you've got. When you're bored, and want chicken or fish instead of steak every night, log in, renew and there's a whole new crop waiting.
[QUOTE=Traveler6940;3657512]My experience is that there is a certain flow to the entire screening process. It's like playing Red Light / Green Light when you were a kid. First, I never discuss anything of importance on the site having always taken the POV that it's monitored. Some guys on here have learned that the hard way. Second, after I've switched the conversation over to text or KIK so we can chat and exchange pics, I'll start with asking them how open minded are they? Do they have any rules, etc. Surprisingly at this point about 90% will immediately say something like " I don't do anal", (Sorry Sicilly). Now that we've established that, all else should be apparent, and you need to only establish a price, unless you have a certain pecadillo you want to see if she's game for. Sure a meet and greet is good but only with the understanding that we'll move on to the next phase immediately after. Some will wash out (Red light) during this process, but so what? It's like panning for gold IMO.
Part of the fun is the hunt. Look for code words like, NSA, discrete, open minded. Some of these girls are on the site because of their economic situation only. Many of them are in school, or single mothers and are desperate. Others are there for shopping money, and they think it's fun or cool to have a SD that they can fuck occastionally for some spending money because they've heard from their friends who do it. And remember guys, ALL the girls at UNF talk about us with each other. I've had several SB's tell me that.
After you've gotten a collection of SB's to rotate through, to keep things fresh, don't renew your membership, just work with what you've got. When you're bored, and want chicken or fish instead of steak every night, log in, renew and there's a whole new crop waiting.[/QUOTE]You read my playbook. This is really the right way to do this.
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3657238]....How do you guys ease into wanting to setup a meet and more without making them feel hookerish?[/QUOTE]The girls that really are in the spirit of sa can be very leery of endless texting. I've learned to quickly express I'm serious with meeting and just nsa fun. If they've been around for a couple months they're experts.
Thank you guys very much for your words of wisdom. I will certainly take all under advisement!
[QUOTE=FredaGroper;3656548]And then the old bag might want another round.[/QUOTE]You just never know. Just like many of us like DATY, the old woman may give a great BBBJ and she could take our her teeth beforehand.
[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;3657505][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/16eb4082-6476-4221-8958-faf9c6192b8d[/URL]
I chatted with her for about an hour last night after she left a message last week. Pic is real and nice body but she wants money send to her cash app to secure a date. She gave me some story about her car was in the shop and needed the money up front to get her car and then she'll head straight to me. Smh it amazes me how dumb some of these women think we are. I told her I had no problem with helping if we do a meet first. No response LOL. Avoid like the plague![/QUOTE]Just curious, you say you haven't met her in person yet, right? I'm just wondering how you know her pic is real and body is nice? Did you do a video session?
[QUOTE=Sparkish;3657572]You read my playbook. This is really the right way to do this.[/QUOTE]I thought you had read mine! LOL.
[QUOTE=Fishguy717;3658019]Just curious, you say you haven't met her in person yet, right? I'm just wondering how you know her pic is real and body is nice? Did you do a video session?[/QUOTE]No I never do video or send pics. Whatever is in my page is all they will see. She left me her number about a week ago so I decided to text her and she sent me pics how I requested them. Nothing nude but just enough were I could see her.
[QUOTE=RicoJax;3657878]You just never know. Just like many of us like DATY, the old woman may give a great BBBJ and she could take our her teeth beforehand.[/QUOTE]I know my hand will never be older than me.
[QUOTE=Fishguy717;3657447]Chatted with this one pretty extensively, and all seemed to match until she wanted 150 guaranteed along with the lunch I would be buying. Told her no, but if we decide to continue after lunch, I wouldn't have any problem with that. She wouldn't bend. Told her good luck.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f4170e93-bde9-4a72-8350-3befcc786c16[/URL][/QUOTE]LOL she quoted me 100 for the same thing. Never will I pay for a meet and greet!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8cc3ca60-64e1-4cc1-992b-4d53be901d52[/URL]
OK, before you roll your eyes out of your head on this one, hear me out.
Like most of you that have seen and / or commented on her before, I've had my share of lackluster experiences with her. Never anything awful or dangerous of course; but just a lack of enthusiasm in general that killed the vibe. I actually initially found her on CL before seeing her on SA. I saw her a few times hoping for some change; but eventually stopped and I told her candidly why (basically the same reasons most of you gave up on her expect). She reached out a few times since then, trying to get me interested again; and I resisted. Which was not easy. Because she is pretty hot in my opinion and looks damn good naked.
Anyway, she recently went to some considerable effort to win me back and I agreed to give it a try. Let me just say, I'm glad I did. It was like a whole different experience. She was friendly, smiling and sweet, funny and interesting. She was playful, open minded, teachable. I could just go on with the adjectives all day. And of course, she's still good looking and that body is made for lovin. We even had a nice shower together. The back door is still sealed; but I think you'll be pleasantly surprised at the improvement if you want to give her another go. Be sweet to her and she will return the favor.
I have no additional specifics to offer; but I am permitted to share digits with trusted members.