How would you handle this scenario?
Occasionally we will hear rumors concerning a monger who has gotten into a romantic relationship with a provider. Or maybe a monger even ends up marrying a provider: maybe she leaves the business or maybe she doesn't. I realize this scenario is a potential minefield. But let's say. Hypothetically - this is that one in a hundred arrangement which proves to have a viable foundation and a realistic chance of success in the longterm. The guy is not uptight about what his woman has done to make a living and / or is even cool with her continuing in the profession. In our hypothetical scenario, it turns out this relationship is a match / made in heaven. These two people are surprised to discover they have emotional rapport with one another and common interests and are genuinely attracted to each other and feel they can trust each other as friends too. Seems as if this kind of connection is rare between a man and woman in our world, and just because these two met under the problematic illicit circumstances they did. Having sex for money in an AMP. Is no reason for them to turn their backs on this one-chance-in-a-lifetime relationship. The big problem however. The elephant in the closet. Is, how does the guy handle explaining to his friends, co-workers, and family, who this new stunning foxy woman in his life is, and how he happened to meet her? The dude can say he had a knot in his back and she is a massage therapist. Shucks, maybe she even does have those skills; some providers are excellent at massage. But seems to me, as soon as one of his relations or acquaintances tries to track down where the guy's new SO works, and finds out it's in an AMP, and what the reputation of that establishment is, the cat will be out of the proverbial bag, and all hell is likely to break loose in the guy's life. Is there some way this fellow can keep his life intact while holding onto his amazing new relationship with this gorgeous woman, and not have to end up descending into a morass of lies and pretense in order to continue to survive in our sexually-repressed and judgmental society?
Question on recent discussion.
Couple days ago there was a convo about dominant style with a woman in sex, and one brother had recommended a book on the subject. I totally lost that thread and I want to read that book! Can anyone point me to the correct thread and post? Tried the search function on this site but I'm not good with using those.