Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=Viper64;4633450]She went by the name crave me about a year ago. I saw her back then and again recently. One of the best massages I've ever had. She is very sexy and really gets into it. She's not FS, but the massage more than makes up for it. So much so that I actually go to see her for a vanilla massage and she has helped me work out some stuff that has been bothering me for a long time. She always has sexy lingerie and has a pretty killer body. Pm for digits.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9f77d12b-3047-4a65-b2e4-27f77099b38d[/URL][/QUOTE]I can completely confirm the above report. She's a great girl, just gone through some bad stuff with her roommate but sorted out now. No FS but her massages are wonderful.

I have enjoyed reading the posts over the years, but have contributed little.

I have been working SA on and off for many years now, in between marriages (one of them to a sugar baby) and thought a few comments on personal attitudes and experiences might be of interest. Or they might just bore everyone to death.

Myself I am not into mongering in the USA and never have been, although I have lurked on web sites such as this, but I look for something more from my girls: real relationships that last a while but are nevertheless NSA. For me the relationship must include both sex as a means of intimate communication as well as conversation / dinners etc.

It seems natural to me for a guy with a bit of money who likes younger women to help them out financially.

However, I don't like being just an ATM. I'm the type that likes to mentor, laugh and share experiences with SB partners.

Mind-blowing sex is obligatory as well, of course.

I am naturally generous and, in someways gullible, and therefore have been occasionally scammed. Once out of more than a thousand dollars in one go!

Cash and dash, they call it. In this case it was paying a monthly allowance and then the girl immediately disappearing from all means of communication, including disconnecting her phone! So I recommend any monthly allowance be in weekly installments, at least at the beginning.

Peace to all. More later.

[QUOTE=Scintillator;4634258]I have enjoyed reading the posts over the years, but have contributed little.

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I am naturally generous and, in someways gullible, and therefore have been occasionally scammed. Once out of more than a thousand dollars in one go!

Cash and dash, they call it. In this case it was paying a monthly allowance and then the girl immediately disappearing from all means of communication, including disconnecting her phone! So I recommend any monthly allowance be in weekly installments, at least at the beginning.

Peace to all. More later.[/QUOTE]Great advice Scintillator. Do we pay employees before the work is performed?

I feel like a kindred spirit and have the same outlook as you regarding the rest of your post and admit to a few bad experiences myself. Live and learn and carry on!

Looking forward to your "More later".

[QUOTE=CaboJohn;4635738]Great advice Scintillator. Do we pay employees before the work is performed?

I feel like a kindred spirit and have the same outlook as you regarding the rest of your post and admit to a few bad experiences myself. Live and learn and carry on!

Looking forward to your "More later".[/QUOTE]Well, I don't know if it is the best way or not but here's what I do. I'll meet a girl for coffee or invite her to dinner, and of course I pay for that. If that goes well then I start off pay-per-visit insisting that, while sex will be important for anything longer term there is no obligation for sex on the first paid date. Sometimes the girl leaves without sex. That's OK. I want her to want to go to bed with me, not just be an ATM. After a few meetings if all is going well I will transition to a monthly allowance, but am now wary of paying that upfront, and prefer it in installments.

I have been thinking about pulling the trigger and trying this. I had looked up some reviews on google as well as reading over the SA thread on here. One of the google reviews said they have an extensive verification process for your income. I wasn't planning to lie (I make less than 100 K) but I was wondering if anyone could tell me if that's true or not. I don't really want to be giving them anything more than my credit card. Certainly not my pay stub from work.

[QUOTE=Hipheron;4637563]I have been thinking about pulling the trigger and trying this. I had looked up some reviews on google as well as reading over the SA thread on here. One of the google reviews said they have an extensive verification process for your income. I wasn't planning to lie (I make less than 100 K) but I was wondering if anyone could tell me if that's true or not. I don't really want to be giving them anything more than my credit card. Certainly not my pay stub from work.[/QUOTE]I didn't have extensive when I signed up long time ago. It was very easy to sign up. And I don't use a credit card, I use a prepaid credit card. Good luck to you.

[QUOTE=Hipheron;4637563]I have been thinking about pulling the trigger and trying this. I had looked up some reviews on google as well as reading over the SA thread on here. One of the google reviews said they have an extensive verification process for your income. I wasn't planning to lie (I make less than 100 K) but I was wondering if anyone could tell me if that's true or not. I don't really want to be giving them anything more than my credit card. Certainly not my pay stub from work.[/QUOTE]I've never had to do any of that stuff. I do believe they have an optional background check type of thing but I've never done it.

No verification needed. Just add any annual income and net worth you want. I think they also have some upgraded Diamond Member BS you pay extra for that requires verification. Never wasted my money on it. All they really want is your 90 bucks. Dollar for dollar it's the best game out there for most. Good luck.

[QUOTE=Callmecrazy;4637607]I've never had to do any of that stuff. I do believe they have an optional background check type of thing but I've never done it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WbIsMme;4637587]I didn't have extensive when I signed up long time ago. It was very easy to sign up. And I don't use a credit card, I use a prepaid credit card. Good luck to you.[/QUOTE]Good call there. Thank you both for the response.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b8f104ad-9a18-4ebb-8529-6ff4f640d271[/URL]

If you've been in contact with her and haven't figured it out yet, this is AwesomeAlexis. Reviews can found by searching this forum for the latter name. I have not seen her so this is not an endorsement either way, just passing along the information.

Thanks to MilfMan for the confirmation on the I'd.

N1.

[QUOTE=IAmNoone;4639880][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b8f104ad-9a18-4ebb-8529-6ff4f640d271[/URL]

If you've been in contact with her and haven't figured it out yet, this is AwesomeAlexis. Reviews can found by searching this forum for the latter name. I have not seen her so this is not an endorsement either way, just passing along the information.

Thanks to MilfMan for the confirmation on the I'd.

N1.[/QUOTE]GPS out the ass. Looks older than 39, maybe closer to 50. She'd be fine to pick up from a bar if you can't get anything better, but I wouldn't pay for her hairy, wrinkled crotch.

[QUOTE=NerdJohn;4628133]I didn't get that line, but if you're looking for a crazy time and are willing to drop over two Benjamins, hit up Fortuna. She'll more than give you what you're looking for.[/QUOTE]If you don't mind, "over" by a lot?

[QUOTE=GobBluth;4641118]If you don't mind, "over" by a lot?[/QUOTE]I paid her 250 in 2017. What is she asking for these days?

[QUOTE=NerdJohn;4641457]I paid her 250 in 2017. What is she asking for these days?[/QUOTE]How much time did she give you for the gift you gave her? She is a busy mom. PM if you like, thanks.

[QUOTE=BobVac21;4642034]How much time did she give you for the gift you gave her? She is a busy mom. PM if you like, thanks.[/QUOTE]If I remember correctly, a good bit. We met at an Applebee's and had dinner and drinks. Then went back to her place for some fun time. No clock watching at all. Somewhere in the ball park of five to six hours. I guess she had someone watching her kid (s) while we were having fun.