Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

[QUOTE=MrPopular;6108037]Do you like a girl with a quick temper and an unearned sense of entitlement? One that was a stripper and if you don't agree to $450-500 or $2 k a month, she calls you a "cheap ass old man"? Click below and offer her $300 or less and watch the fun!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e0a84335-f7ac-4b67-9e5e-97b1dc3ba2f6[/URL][/QUOTE]This must be a common theme for the strippers on the site. I've had one for 300 a while back but she hasn't been on SA recently and was really hard to get in contact with via text.

[QUOTE=MrPopular;6108037]Do you like a girl with a quick temper and an unearned sense of entitlement? One that was a stripper and if you don't agree to $450-500 or $2 k a month, she calls you a "cheap ass old man"? Click below and offer her $300 or less and watch the fun!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e0a84335-f7ac-4b67-9e5e-97b1dc3ba2f6[/URL][/QUOTE]Guess I lucked out she has yet to even write me back. Also a sign she's probably got plenty of people paying her $ $ $ $ or whatever she is asking w / o any problem.

[QUOTE=TyCox;6084705]Never spent a dime on any of these. I've had a couple successes with tinder. A couple with snap. A couple with Instagram and dozens with Facebook. I have the most success with Facebook. And oddly enough it seems like it's more successful when they're in a relationship or married. Currently seeing a super hot redhead just about every one of her pictures on social media is with her boyfriend. All of them are very much a numbers game. Send out 40 messages, get three replies. Out of 20 replies, get one chick in your bed.[/QUOTE]What is your approach on Facebook? How do you open the conversation? Are you direct in the first message or do you have some soft approach and ease in to the goal after they respond?

[QUOTE=Playwithme483;6109593]What is your approach on Facebook? How do you open the conversation? Are you direct in the first message or do you have some soft approach and ease in to the goal after they respond?[/QUOTE]I agree, great advice Ty. As most of sales is a numbers game. Do you use your real profile or a burner account when you message them? My concern would be somehow my profile getting out there to people I know. Indiana is not that big of a state, I would be worried I would message someone who knew one of my connections and would rat me out. I love this strategy though, would love to hear more as I think a lot of guys would benefit. Open to everyone's thoughts on this topic.

[QUOTE=PopinHerMouth;6109834]I agree, great advice Ty. As most of sales is a numbers game. Do you use your real profile or a burner account when you message them? My concern would be somehow my profile getting out there to people I know. Indiana is not that big of a state, I would be worried I would message someone who knew one of my connections and would rat me out. I love this strategy though, would love to hear more as I think a lot of guys would benefit. Open to everyone's thoughts on this topic.[/QUOTE]I always worried about my info getting out. I started using a burner Facebook account about 10 years ago. I've been thru a few profiles, but the one I primarily use is about 6 years old now. Pick a very common surname and use that. I started adding women in the hobby as friends on Facebook and it grows pretty quickly. There are groups of friends that are all part of the hobby and just keep adding from their friends lists. I've had a lot of success over the years adding people then starting very basic conversations that worked up to "help". For me it can be a long game. Heck there was a pretty popular provider discussed a hundred times on here and started in the hobby because she hit my inbox trying to reach out to her dealer. We hit it off and the rest is history.

Also, I've realized something over the last several months. If you start texting or even better Snapchat with someone, they will begin to show up in your "people you might know" on Facebook. A few have been outed to me that way as well. Letting you know so that if you use a Snapchat, make sure that one isn't connected to your real number or it could show your info.

Stay Safe.

[QUOTE=StillNotMe;6110113]I always worried about my info getting out. I started using a burner Facebook account about 10 years ago. I've been thru a few profiles, but the one I primarily use is about 6 years old now. Pick a very common surname and use that. I started adding women in the hobby as friends on Facebook and it grows pretty quickly. There are groups of friends that are all part of the hobby and just keep adding from their friends lists. I've had a lot of success over the years adding people then starting very basic conversations that worked up to "help". For me it can be a long game. Heck there was a pretty popular provider discussed a hundred times on here and started in the hobby because she hit my inbox trying to reach out to her dealer. We hit it off and the rest is history.

Also, I've realized something over the last several months. If you start texting or even better Snapchat with someone, they will begin to show up in your "people you might know" on Facebook. A few have been outed to me that way as well. Letting you know so that if you use a Snapchat, make sure that one isn't connected to your real number or it could show your info.

Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]Do you put real photos on your burner profile?

For me I don't use any fake profile or fake photos. I'm totally single and anybody that really knows me knows I am a pervert so to speak. So I don't really have anything to hide from anybody. I look at friends, friends of friends, friends of friends of friends. Doesn't matter if they're status married or whatever. If I see something I like I easily send a real brief message. Like "gorgeous" or "love the ink" or something. The majority of them are never read. Some are read and not responded to Which would generate another message from me. Some are responded to. And if it's anything favorable I'm very blunt and cut right to the chase. I usually mention I would pay if they would play. And yeah I get threatened to get my ass kicked all the time. When that happens I just usually send my location. And tell them I could use a good ass kicking. It is a Numbers game and it is time consuming. I spend a couple hours a day on it. Over the past seven years I've probably met 20 chicks that way. And you realize sometimes pictures used on social media are way more filtered and flattering than pictures in escort ads. Add one chick come over a couple months ago and I was paying her to leave. Fast.

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I've wasted a bit of time trying to meet with this one. Won't do it anymore.

[QUOTE=Bigred2006;6110828][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/54ea2f26-c57e-4c7c-9fce-07624f453013[/URL]

I've wasted a bit of time trying to meet with this one. Won't do it anymore.[/QUOTE]Oh yes, she is so frustrating I've tried on and off for years to meet. Just a huge waste of time and effort.

ConfidentMiss. Definite Time Waster, almost certainly scammer.

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Made Plans for 7:30 PM, texted (whatsapp) at 5 ish to confirm, no reply so I ran a few errands, came home checked and nothing. 8:05 PM get a text "where you at" I reply "are you there now? Anyway I dress quickly jump in car and head out. I'm 3 minutes away and she has to leave to drop her daughter at the sitters?? WTF OK. Then can I paypal her some $$ for the sitter. I don't do paypal. What about venmo / cashapp. Nope nope. OK. Text should I wait, she says OK. I ask how long, she says 20 min. I go home text her 30 minutes later "you there" she writes back "driving" now I'm just home pretending to be waiting at the bar because I've wasted enough time.

CreativeitGirl. Likely scammer.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dca19c37-1be8-4b9e-893e-ac06ff47609c[/URL] (she may have deleted or just blocked me.).

Was really communicative at first with text, then came the 8 PM text "can you help me with my class fee it's due tonight". Um nope happy to give you all you need when we meet. Then the texts dropped off allot, only would really reply if I initiated. Asked again for some money. I asked "you free tonight" she said sure. Then the ole "can you send me money for babysitter" Like honey. If you are able to get a babysitter LAST MINUTE at 7 PM, you probably have a good enough relationship with the sitter they know you'll pay when you get home. I've never heard of pre-paying a sitter. Maybe throw them some money to order pizza etc if they are watching a kid through dinner, even then now with delivery apps you can pay for that all yourself and have it show up. Anyway back and forth I said I deal in cash money only not sending any payments before we have ever met.

I know there is some risk on the females side to pay a sitter and be stood up, but I'm never prepaying for a sitter on a first meet.

[QUOTE=MrPopular;6111727]Oh yes, she is so frustrating I've tried on and off for years to meet. Just a huge waste of time and effort.[/QUOTE]If someone wastes too much time I block them so I can forget about them.

Has anyone seen her? I really like her look but can't seem to find her profile anymore. She may have blocked me already.

[QUOTE=Bigred2006;6113133]Has anyone seen her? I really like her look but can't seem to find her profile anymore. She may have blocked me already.[/QUOTE]I met her twice, reported on her a while back maybe 6-9 months ago. She's real, not as cute in person, time waster.

This one is a time waster. Real, but young and thinks everything is prepay. Full of BS. Hot, but probably won't ever meet.

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This one is DTF. Not quite a pro, but real and willing. Timing has never worked for us and I'm not that eager as she has a few no's. (No COF, No BBBJ). Cheap and willing, but not really willing to put forth the effort is seeing her skills.

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This one is a freak. True PSE. She can be a little talkative and has had a somewhat rough life, but been on a better track for awhile. Pics are old and she is bigger. HUGE ass and not much up top, but cute and very willing while taking any and all direction. Her only no was ATM. $$ plus a room gets you as much time as you want.

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This one is real, but young, inexperienced and got spooked. She cut off communication.

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Real, but wants prepay. Says she is still interested in meeting, but not sure if she ever will and timing doesn't work well with me. Looks like she could be fun, but not worth my effort.

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[QUOTE=Playwithme483;6110162]Do you put real photos on your burner profile?[/QUOTE]I only share my real photo after I'm confident that we are meeting and have agreed to terms.