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I'm a long time hobbiest and have greatly benefited from this forum. Due to personal discretion, I've been hesitant to contribute. Seniors and those alike that have paved the way by sharing information have allowed me to selectively enjoy my free time. I simply wanted to thank you all and reciprocate by actively contributing. Thanks again and more to come.
I love a little on the side. I had affairs for a while, but their emotional needs can be soooo trying. With mongering, it's not so messy, but financially draining.
What have other found?
[QUOTE=MojoGuy;2399006]Odd, yes. Unheard of, no. If you hobby with a burn phone, GV or something similar that can't be traced back to your personal life without assistance from the NSA there's probably no harm in it. I would not send a nude pic with my face in it and I would not give her any personal information whatsoever.[/QUOTE]I would never send a pic of me to any provider. And I don't ask for their's as well. If the girl doesn't look like pic then I just leave.
[QUOTE=Danno864;2415904]I love a little on the side. I had affairs for a while, but their emotional needs can be soooo trying. With mongering, it's not so messy, but financially draining.
What have other found?[/QUOTE]If your SO catches you having an affair it can more financially draining than mongering ever thought of being. I've been there and done that myself. If a well known escort somehow knows more about you than she should she is not likely to expose your mongering as it would severely damage or ruin her reputation as well as her income if you were to call her out on sites such as this one. She would also know that it would attract unwanted legal attention to herself as well. I say monger within your financial capabilities and forget about any kind of emotional crap.
[QUOTE=MojoGuy;2415955]If your SO catches you having an affair it can more financially draining than mongering ever thought of being. I've been there and done that myself. If a well known escort somehow knows more about you than she should she is not likely to expose your mongering as it would severely damage or ruin her reputation as well as her income if you were to call her out on sites such as this one. She would also know that it would attract unwanted legal attention to herself as well. I say monger within your financial capabilities and forget about any kind of emotional crap.[/QUOTE]Exactly, as providers we get paid to walk away with no hassle and drama. It's a when you want us, you call us business. Some providers do the phone blow up and bug stuff but that's an easy fix. Affairs lead up to that emotion attachments and can become a disaster if the guy tries to cut the ties. Most time it's to late the affair chick has unleashed the craziness. Can't fully just blame her though. Providers don't have time for drama just as much as the guys don't. What reason do us providers really have to expose a client for anything, even of the business relationship ends? To me, NONE because of no emotional attachments. It's not what the hobby is about, and some forget that.
[QUOTE=Danno864;2415904]I love a little on the side. I had affairs for a while, but their emotional needs can be soooo trying. With mongering, it's not so messy, but financially draining.
What have other found?[/QUOTE]I use seeking arrangement, a sugar daddy site, it takes an investment in time and the financial is what you make of it. I've met a few young hot gals who are not escorts, but open to a sexual relationship. There are some pros on there, but if you work it correctly, you can enjoy yourself. For me, it falls somewhere in between affairs and escorts.
[QUOTE=Golf9979;2416088]I use seeking arrangement, a sugar daddy site, it takes an investment in time and the financial is what you make of it. I've met a few young hot gals who are not escorts, but open to a sexual relationship. There are some pros on there, but if you work it correctly, you can enjoy yourself. For me, it falls somewhere in between affairs and escorts.[/QUOTE]I agree w Golf -- those sites can lead to some great GFE encounters, and I've found two long term sugarbabies over the last few years. But It takes a lot of time and patience to sort through the candidates. And it tends to be more expensive per encounter than mongering, not less. Especially the girls on Seeking arrangement who tend to have loftier financial expectations than the girls on other sites.
[QUOTE=KentuckyKatana;2415989]Exactly, as providers we get paid to walk away with no hassle and drama. It's a when you want us, you call us business. Some providers do the phone blow up and bug stuff but that's an easy fix. Affairs lead up to that emotion attachments and can become a disaster if the guy tries to cut the ties. Most time it's to late the affair chick has unleashed the craziness. Can't fully just blame her though. Providers don't have time for drama just as much as the guys don't. What reason do us providers really have to expose a client for anything, even of the business relationship ends? To me, NONE because of no emotional attachments. It's not what the hobby is about, and some forget that.[/QUOTE]When Charley Sheen was asked about him paying women for sex his answer was, "I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to LEAVE".
[QUOTE=Ralphisit;2416592]When Charley Sheen was asked about him paying women for sex his answer was, "I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to LEAVE".[/QUOTE]Add to that what Roger Ebert said, "From a dramatic viewpoint, there are a few professions that grant their members entry into the lives of others, high among are them are cops, doctors, clergymen, journalists and prostitutes. Perhaps that explains why they figure in so much television and cinema. Their lives are lived in the midst of human drama".
[QUOTE=KentuckyKatana;2415989]Exactly, as providers we get paid to walk away with no hassle and drama. It's a when you want us, you call us business. Some providers do the phone blow up and bug stuff but that's an easy fix. Affairs lead up to that emotion attachments and can become a disaster if the guy tries to cut the ties. Most time it's to late the affair chick has unleashed the craziness. Can't fully just blame her though. Providers don't have time for drama just as much as the guys don't. What reason do us providers really have to expose a client for anything, even of the business relationship ends? To me, NONE because of no emotional attachments. It's not what the hobby is about, and some forget that.[/QUOTE]I am sure some providers are out there looking for free money by means of extortion. It is probably very rare but once someone knows they can squeeze you for money they will. I am always careful with personal info but a piece of info here a slipup there and they know everything about you.
Been working on a date with a provider who does not post often. Decide to meet at Casino after two other attempts. She flaked twice because of "regulars". Any way, I was a little sceptical so we agreed to meet at a paritcular location. I was already present so I walked down the hallway to see if I could spot her ahead of time (she told me what she was wearing). So, I spotted her with TWO HANDLERS. Not knowing if they were cops or pimps, I decided to stall the meeting spot. I picked the next location and sure enough. The two guys came to the spot to check it out before she arrived. Needless to say I left the premisses and then texted her. "Are the two guys hanging out with you cops or pimps. At first, she denied it. Then, after a second text from me, she siad they were "watching over her". O my, she was fine, but not worth the risk. Remember, always stay alert out there people! Stay safe!
[QUOTE=MillitaryMan69;2416855]I am sure some providers are out there looking for free money by means of extortion. It is probably very rare but once someone knows they can squeeze you for money they will. I am always careful with personal info but a piece of info here a slipup there and they know everything about you.[/QUOTE]Just hard for me to wrap my mind around the thought of some providers in Louisville would use extortion tactics to get money out of someone. I guess it does happen though, but who has that kinda time? I sure don't. .
[QUOTE=Ralphisit;2416592]When Charley Sheen was asked about him paying women for sex his answer was, "I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to LEAVE".[/QUOTE]That's way older than Charlie Sheen. One of my less than savory uncles used that line in the 70's, and I'm betting it's older than that. (:
[QUOTE=Aruba1234;2416871]Been working on a date with a provider who does not post often. Decide to meet at Casino after two other attempts. She flaked twice because of "regulars". Any way, I was a little sceptical so we agreed to meet at a paritcular location. I was already present so I walked down the hallway to see if I could spot her ahead of time (she told me what she was wearing). So, I spotted her with TWO HANDLERS. Not knowing if they were cops or pimps, I decided to stall the meeting spot. I picked the next location and sure enough. The two guys came to the spot to check it out before she arrived. Needless to say I left the premisses and then texted her. "Are the two guys hanging out with you cops or pimps. At first, she denied it. Then, after a second text from me, she siad they were "watching over her". O my, she was fine, but not worth the risk. Remember, always stay alert out there people! Stay safe![/QUOTE]Tell me it wasn't Charisma or her new trainee, she posted ads on aNotheR site about staying at the casino this weekend.
[QUOTE=Aruba1234;2416871]Been working on a date with a provider who does not post often. Decide to meet at Casino after two other attempts. She flaked twice because of "regulars". Any way, I was a little sceptical so we agreed to meet at a paritcular location. I was already present so I walked down the hallway to see if I could spot her ahead of time (she told me what she was wearing). So, I spotted her with TWO HANDLERS. Not knowing if they were cops or pimps, I decided to stall the meeting spot. I picked the next location and sure enough. The two guys came to the spot to check it out before she arrived. Needless to say I left the premisses and then texted her. "Are the two guys hanging out with you cops or pimps. At first, she denied it. Then, after a second text from me, she siad they were "watching over her". O my, she was fine, but not worth the risk. Remember, always stay alert out there people! Stay safe![/QUOTE]That's never a good thing, smart move on your part.
Be safe,
Mamba out!