Where is she now?

[QUOTE=XAloha;5102678]If that younger looking dude is her s / o I wonder if he knows what she's doing on the side. Idk, if I found out my girl was doing what Kayla does, , I don't think I could get down with that. He must be ignorant and blind to think she's not doing what she's doing anymore. LOL. But if he really is cool with it, that's just weird and stupid.

I know I wouldn't be able to let my girl see other dudes. Even for money. And I know a lot of us mongers can agree. Wonder how the relationship unfolds and wonder what the sex life is like.[/QUOTE]I don't think that means it's weird or stupid. He could know what she's doing, be accepting of it, but at the same time not like it. (There are plenty of people who don't like the jobs / habits of their significant others but are still with them for reasons good and bad.) If he likes / loves her for who she is, he could be willing to wait. Maybe she / they have a plan for her to save up a certain amount of money. (Probably not, but maybe. ?) Either way, it's dismissive and dehumanising to say that what she's doing makes it incapable for anyone to like / love her while knowing what she does. Or maybe I'm wrong about everything, who knows.

[QUOTE=XAloha;5102678]If that younger looking dude is her s / o I wonder if he knows what she's doing on the side. Idk, if I found out my girl was doing what Kayla does, , I don't think I could get down with that. He must be ignorant and blind to think she's not doing what she's doing anymore. LOL. But if he really is cool with it, that's just weird and stupid.

I know I wouldn't be able to let my girl see other dudes. Even for money. And I know a lot of us mongers can agree. Wonder how the relationship unfolds and wonder what the sex life is like.[/QUOTE]I doubt if these girls have any s / o for the reasons you gave.

But why can't these girls have any male friends? I have a few providers that I consider only friends. All of them have been reviewed on this forum. I don't expect to have sex with any of them without paying. But if we enjoy each other's company, they will ask for company to go to lunch with or other platonic activities. Many are very lonely and have no close friends. They generally don't ask for money and most of the time they even want to pay.

One girl told me she won't or doesn't want to date her clients because she feels she will end up hurting them due to her work.

I agree with Me Cook though, some are lonely and want friends.

[QUOTE=MeCook;5103394]I doubt if these girls have any s / o for the reasons you gave.

But why can't these girls have any male friends? I have a few providers that I consider only friends. All of them have been reviewed on this forum. I don't expect to have sex with any of them without paying. But if we enjoy each other's company, they will ask for company to go to lunch with or other platonic activities. Many are very lonely and have no close friends. They generally don't ask for money and most of the time they even want to pay.[/QUOTE]There are a few in Honolulu. Tall, fit good looking Korean and Chinese hosts drag money from providers.

Girls enjoy spending a lot with actor like male ****** than free lunch with local grannies.

Some girls fight to occupy No. 1 host. Twice more expensive than most Viet, Korean hostess bar.

Wait, what? We have male host clubs here in Hawaii? I know they got lots of them in Japan and is popular with the girls there.

I get what you're saying though, girls need an outlet to quench loneliness / sexual desires just as much as guys do.

[QUOTE=Prudential808;5103822]There are a few in Honolulu. Tall, fit good looking Korean and Chinese hosts drag money from providers.

Girls enjoy spending a lot with actor like male ****** than free lunch with local grannies.

Some girls fight to occupy No. 1 host. Twice more expensive than most Viet, Korean hostess bar.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JackHolly;5103332]I don't think that means it's weird or stupid. He could know what she's doing, be accepting of it, but at the same time not like it. (There are plenty of people who don't like the jobs / habits of their significant others but are still with them for reasons good and bad.) If he likes / loves her for who she is, he could be willing to wait. Maybe she / they have a plan for her to save up a certain amount of money. (Probably not, but maybe. ?) Either way, it's dismissive and dehumanising to say that what she's doing makes it incapable for anyone to like / love her while knowing what she does. Or maybe I'm wrong about everything, who knows.[/QUOTE]One innocent trip around the island turns to a second date, than repeat till one day you wonder why your jealous of here job and how the hell you didn't see it coming.

Would anyone please be willing to share her number? I swear I had it at one point. I'd like to see her again. DM is fine. Thank you.

[QUOTE=Restless1728;5103997]One innocent trip around the island turns to a second date, than repeat till one day you wonder why your jealous of here job and how the hell you didn't see it coming.[/QUOTE]So true, so true! Sometimes you really don't get to chose the one who steals your heart. Catching a feeling is an occupational hazard for both the provider and the customer. Been there, done that more times than I wanted to.

GG.

[QUOTE=GhostRecon;5103974]Wait, what? We have male host clubs here in Hawaii? I know they got lots of them in Japan and is popular with the girls there.

I get what you're saying though, girls need an outlet to quench loneliness / sexual desires just as much as guys do.[/QUOTE]A certain Korean bar girl here had a weakness for those male hosts. She was a top producer for the bar, but would turn around and blow it all on a young male host. She spent over 100 k on the guy only to be dumped later. Many of the Korean bar mamas know about that said story.

[QUOTE=MeCook;5104136]A certain Korean bar girl here had a weakness for those male hosts. She was a top producer for the bar, but would turn around and blow it all on a young male host. She spent over 100 k on the guy only to be dumped later. Many of the Korean bar mamas know about that said story.[/QUOTE]I don't know if get now, but used to have one (host bar) each in Kaimuki, Kalihi, and Kapiolani. These hosts had the tools of the trade: lamb's eyelashes used for French ticklers, educated, conversationalists, dancers, etc. I used to go dressed in one jacket and the JBs when insult me by asking if I wanted for start work there; table of KBGs thought I was one host and tried to call me over from the bar counter to come sit down. Goes to show how desperate they was many, many years ago. Not unusual for KB owners those days for spend $500 one night to pay for KB hosts, $300 per day just for company (or whatever, negotiated) outside solo. Must be that French tickler.

[QUOTE=GhostRecon;5103974]Wait, what? We have male host clubs here in Hawaii? I know they got lots of them in Japan and is popular with the girls there.

I get what you're saying though, girls need an outlet to quench loneliness / sexual desires just as much as guys do.[/QUOTE]I heard about their existence from AMP girls a few years ago. The AMP girls are interested in sexual relationships, they get that all day long. What they wanted was mental / emotional connections (or maybe did). With our female hostess clubs in a death spiral, I'm sure the male hosts club have disappeared. Just think, all that money you blew on AMP girls, went to a young male stud host. He got for free what you paid your hard earned money on.

Guess we all spend money foolishly sometimes.

Has anyone seen Yaya from CC? I haven't seen her post an ad in months.

[QUOTE=MitsFunai;5104293]I don't know if get now, but used to have one (host bar) each in Kaimuki, Kalihi, and Kapiolani. These hosts had the tools of the trade: lamb's eyelashes used for French ticklers, educated, conversationalists, dancers, etc. I used to go dressed in one jacket and the JBs when insult me by asking if I wanted for start work there; table of KBGs thought I was one host and tried to call me over from the bar counter to come sit down. Goes to show how desperate they was many, many years ago. Not unusual for KB owners those days for spend $500 one night to pay for KB hosts, $300 per day just for company (or whatever, negotiated) outside solo. Must be that French tickler.[/QUOTE]Giorgio Armani suit and nose fixing. Gym rat body. Asian version of Richard Gere in american gigolo movie.

Hosts wear omega watch and cry they want to buy Rolex but lack money. Working girls buy Rolex to decorate their handsome stud to blow up stress from annoying ugly customers. That is their job, giving fantasy of standing on red carpet escorted by handsome actors in luxury brands. Life is funny.

Yup, for me it was just some lunches, days at the beach and some grocery shopping. All along thinking this is the one.

But I guess I wasn't the first in line. No regrets though, as it was and still are fond memories.

Gotta live life with no regrets and at times it calls for you to take that leap of faith or else you will never know what's on the other side. Crash and burn and all...

[QUOTE=Glogauer;5104116]So true, so true! Sometimes you really don't get to chose the one who steals your heart. Catching a feeling is an occupational hazard for both the provider and the customer. Been there, done that more times than I wanted to.

GG.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DemolitionMan;5104337]Has anyone seen Yaya from CC? I haven't seen her post an ad in months.[/QUOTE]Is that the new Yaya spa on the ground floor at CC. ? Get 8 - 10 girls working there. OR.

You thinking of YAYA the cute THAI provider that worked at many of the Thai shops in CC. She was having a baby last I saw her. Sad. Someone got lucky.