Dinner will cost you extra
I was a premium member on SA for a month. Two years ago I was on SD4 M. SA has about 20 times the volume of women. The patterns of behavior are similar between the sites. I talked to perhaps 300 women and nearly all conversations went nowhere. It was tiresome. Mind you, I am polite, friendly, and reasonable. Maybe it's my personality. YMMV, as usual. I think that 95% of the profiles go silent after a week. It's a striking observation! What does that mean?! Based on reading here and my own intuition, I suppose that most of the women are afraid and give up. They may start with some optimistic idea of finding a rich guy, a Big Fish, but then after many crude solicitations ($20 BJ or $40 QV or whatever) they run away. It reminds me of the one SB I met from SD4 M (I reported on her) : scared, naive, had moral qualms, but I got lucky because she liked me in a qualified way.
Some girls want exclusive arrangements with monthly allowances, typically $1500 and I think $1000 is the minimum (I tended to look for young, under 25, and fairly attractive.) One girl I met (my entry 14766) would have been worth 1500, but I'm not rich. She was active online the whole time I was. I guess it's not easy to land a Big Fish. My budget is $600/ month cash to the SB plus overhead for date costs and hotel. For that pathetic amount I think you can become the regular client of someone who you would probably be sharing with others. I met 3 women in person, who were all the actual person in their profile pics, and I have had sex with 2, admittedly not much statistics to draw any conclusions from and a modest contribution to the many good stories on this thread.
One of my sexual encounters was with a girl who looked on her profile like she was an athletic dancer and very sexual. Both turned out to be true! She's 23, a single mom, had a day job and works sometimes at a strip club on the weekends, and she indeed liked sex. A lot. However, she didn't want to have dates or go to dinner for only $200. She politely pointed out that dinner would cost extra. For $200 she would only do a hotel visit. It actually made sense because she had to hire a baby sitter and a driver, and time is money. Very sweet and friendly girl, she would make a good "SB", just not for me. It was funny that when we had the M&G she very rapidly and professionally found out about me, what I wanted and for how much. After 5 minutes she declared "Ok, I accept. You're not creepy!" It seems that not being creepy and my willingness to meet her price was sufficient.
The other sexual contact was with a cute 19 yo college girl, I already described the first encouner (entry 14835). It was amazing. I have had two follow-up visits and more is planned. All during the time I was on SA she was online frequently and she's already forgotten my name. She likes sex, is very pretty, and I guess she is parlaying that into paying for college with clients who meet her criteria and her price ($200). The encounters are secret and purely physical. A talk with her is simple and direct. She says she likes me and wants to continue. It fits my budget because I can control the frequency of visits. Perhaps I'll say more on that situation later, after it plays itself out. You could say it's a hooker / john situation, but it is slightly more than that as we kiss and caress and she has orgasims.
Oicture sending concerns.
The photo I send the is a photo fo me easily accessible on the net. Throw a photo of yourself on a few sites. Culpable deniability.
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I was trying to give sn update. . .
Another year, another dip in the pool
Rejoined about 2-3 weeks ago. The water is as clear as ever. Unclear where all the angst and struggle is coming from. Just be reasonable and real, particularly if you want a real gal. I will also add this — a little more goes a long way.
Restructuring my profile, thoughts
My current profile is setup to appeal to the girl who wants to sugar date, but wants a more realistic relationship in the mix. It almost sounds like a legit profile on a regular dating website, complete with mushy sentiment and about my hobby's etc. This has worked well, but I am thinking to try a month going a little darker. I am thinking to throw in a short paragraph about myself, but get to the point and try and attract the more submissive and kinky natured girls. I'm kind of burned out on the "girl next door" types and would like to meet some more wild girls, into more adventurous things and perhaps some girls wanting to try BDSM.
My old profile in my area usually yielded 5-8 emails per day when I'm online. I usually don't even have to send many emails out, they came to me. I'm guessing I'll get less this, way, but likely girls who are more adventurous?
And on side note, I cannot believe we continue to give up our constitutional rights in this country. Fosta is the biggest, big daddy government oppressive law ever passed in this country. Wait to see where it's tentacles reach. What will happen is hosting sites will move off shore and so their next move with by the block them from US based users. From there thy will apply this logic to other sites that host "illegal" activities. Fiirst making them outlaws and then banning them from being seen, blocked. We have been censured Americans! Our first amendment rights are GONE! And what cracks me up, is this new law does NOTHING to protect any children being trafficked. NOTHING! In fact it will make it worse as all back page etc girls will soon be walking the streets again like in the 80's. I cannot believe or elected official fell for such a poorly written bill. I am all for stopping true underage trafficking or anyone engaged against their will, but this bill has ZERO to do with that. It has to do with the bigger picture of control, and censorship and eroding our freedoms.
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From the guys in Richmond. So I'll share my last experience.
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New site advice and thoughts.
Hey everyone. Just looking for opinions. SA is okay, but overpriced and doesn't offer much in the services department. So I figured to try and do better.
[URL]https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1919751433/sugar-dating-website?ref=created_projects[/URL]
First off, I plan on having instant messenger, group chat, video chat, notes sections, blogs, a much improved search capability, more detailed profiles, and the ability to upload videos as well as photos. Plus I'll accept any type of credit card. Also will have apps for Android and iOS. That's just at launch. And a monthly cost will be twenty dollars, unless you do the lifetime membership of course.
So what could I do better? Do you all think I'm wasting my time? Sure, it might take a little time to grow, but that's with all things.
If any of you donate, I appreciate it. If not, no worries. If you do donate, PM me and I'll make sure to find some extra way to reward ya.
Thanks in advance.