Happen to agree with BMack on this one
If a client is going to meet the needs of a lady he has every right to know if his wants can be met also. There are too many women in this to be coy. Women who put on their posts I won't discuss activities either by phone, text, email, or when you get here have every right to be careful but there are many of us who believe that if they don't know what is available then why waste the time. Too many ladies will tell you once they find out you are legitimate to mess with those who want to play coy. Teresa has a major alleged reputation but if someone has never seen her then it is just that, alleged. If you have been in this for any length of time some men have a tendency to embellish to white knight, or to hope for benefits for doing so. Not saying that is her modus operendi but between YMMV and the HUGE scale of some ladies in this who stay at the top because too many of the males think with their little heads instead of their big one, then I for one will not see any woman once having passed muster unless I know going in what to expect. My gratuities are too valuable to me to go into a situation without knowing from disclosure my needs can be met before the famous phrase put the envelope on the? Please is uttered. Just my opinion which is just as valuable as others depending on how they operate.
Well said GC and you are very correct in your feelings
"Mack, the Teresa I know will not give you the time of day with the approach you describe. She doesn't operate that way. GC"
GC, there are too many ladies out there who will not only give me the time of day but will be open and honest with me and let me know what I need to know to make an informed decision, preferably by PM. Teresa has a fine reputation but my world doesn't revolve around whether Teresa will give me the time of day or not. It is my dream, my needs and my resources that are in question so I learned over two decades ago that I refuse to waste my resources for an unknown quantity. It has saved me a lot of time, embarrassment, and having to listen to a woman or women who change the game, change their minds, and back pedal, BEFORE the envelope is placed. I am not saying that is how she works. I AM saying that is how I work and what works for me. Whether she won't give me the time of day or not is her choice. My set of rules for me is how I work along with the fact that it is MY resources so I go by what works for me and I try to find ladies who work to meet my needs and show my appreciation for their efforts to make it a smooth transition. There are too many ladies to worry about those who won't. If she won't see me her choice and I respect her choices. There are plenty who will under those conditions. I respect your opinion but it isn't your $s GC, they are mine, and as stated earlier, there are too many quality ladies who will work with you and be upfront to try and make you a regular. Just my opinion and I respect yours also. BMack
Best Conversation of the year
[QUOTE=BigMack; 1520417]"Mack, the Teresa I know will not give you the time of day with the approach you describe. She doesn't operate that way. GC"
GC, there are too many ladies out there who will not only give me the time of day but will be open and honest with me and let me know what I need to know to make an informed decision, preferably by PM. Teresa has a fine reputation but my world doesn't revolve around whether Teresa will give me the time of day or not. It is my dream, my needs and my resources that are in question so I learned over two decades ago that I refuse to waste my resources for an unknown quantity. It has saved me a lot of time, embarrassment, and having to listen to a woman or women who change the game, change their minds, and back pedal, BEFORE the envelope is placed. I am not saying that is how she works. I AM saying that is how I work and what works for me. Whether she won't give me the time of day or not is her choice. My set of rules for me is how I work along with the fact that it is MY resources so I go by what works for me and I try to find ladies who work to meet my needs and show my appreciation for their efforts to make it a smooth transition. There are too many ladies to worry about those who won't. If she won't see me her choice and I respect her choices. There are plenty who will under those conditions. I respect your opinion but it isn't your $s GC, they are mine, and as stated earlier, there are too many quality ladies who will work with you and be upfront to try and make you a regular. Just my opinion and I respect yours also. BMack[/QUOTE]Hey guys, mainly a lurker here with occassional post but to me this discussion has been the best of the year. We all have different approachs regarding how to spend the limited resources of time and money with a selection. It is a delicate balance in finding out what is "truely" available and what is a bait a switch manuver.
I too have had the experience of "she's the best" only to feel the opposite after the visit. The chemistry search is what makes the visit. We all have bad days and certianly all have different tastes. I guess I do what most do, research as much as possible and when I find someone who rings the bell for me and someone else sings high praises for them and has similar tastes as I then may take their advice on future selections. I prob am more cautious and make the appt with limited knowlege of the menu and hope to make the selection a regular.