Don't Get In Your Feelings
[QUOTE=VoraraMesh66;7029058]Senior members please share you thoughts.
I just joined seeking and bought premium. I reached out to few those are discussed here as real profiles. Also contacted few on my own. I am not targeting top 20's profile but average profiles.
I sent message to them and only couple of them has replied so far. It is been 3 days. Also the one who replied said definitely interested. I responded to it. Basically 3 messages total. Never got response to my last message so I asked her again after few hours about why no response and she basically blocked me. She is constantly online and did not respond to me so I asked her.
Is it enough reason to block even after first enthusiastic message??
My question, is it same for you? They take so much time to respond and even say interested then play games like it? I thought they would be eager to chat and finally meet? Is it this much fragile?
If you can share your usual / on average experience that would be great.
DM is fine too.[/QUOTE]Don't get in your feelings.
My profile is blank I have very few words. It says something like. I'm New here just checking this out.
They really don't care how you look for real they care about the cash. They will after chatting a few times ask you to send a pic. This is what I do and I will get a few new messages a day. Some I like some I don't. I don't reply to everyone and sometimes I take my time answering. You should never send multiple messages it makes you seem desperate and sends up red flags. If you must send more than one message wait a day or two don't make it seem like that's all you have to do in life is sending them multiple messages it gives off stalker vibes. You have to use a spider technique spin a web and wait she will come back she wants money she is a sugar baby once she is in the web you are in more control take your control back. You are let them control the outcome don't do that.
Ok, this girls been around for a minute.
Somebody has to know something about her. Lovee Liyra.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cd9b0995-5991-4410-9997-1fb97843948b[/URL]
If you have any info I'd appreciate it, trying to get something setup with her. PM is fine.
Thanks for the advice my friends
I read each of the advice multiple times. It definitely help someone like me who is new to hobby. Really appreciate your guidance.
[QUOTE=SandyGeet;7029865]Keep it simple, not too short or too much. Be very direct about you are real and wanting to meet irl.
You are the one who provides here and if they don't respond back, it's their loss. I followed the op and some other tips and was on date with 12 girls in last two weeks. Also your profile age does matter.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CrimpShrine;7029751]It's like anywhere else online. Your return rate as a male is going to be low. That's just how it is. These girls get dozens of messages. You're a new profile. Be patient and when you send an ice breaker message, make it sound human so they know you're not a scammer in Indonesia. It's going to take longer than 3 days for you to get any traction.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JohnnyKash;7029702]Don't get in your feelings.
My profile is blank I have very few words. It says something like. I'm New here just checking this out.
They really don't care how you look for real they care about the cash. They will after chatting a few times ask you to send a pic. This is what I do and I will get a few new messages a day. Some I like some I don't. I don't reply to everyone and sometimes I take my time answering. You should never send multiple messages it makes you seem desperate and sends up red flags. If you must send more than one message wait a day or two don't make it seem like that's all you have to do in life is sending them multiple messages it gives off stalker vibes. You have to use a spider technique spin a web and wait she will come back she wants money she is a sugar baby once she is in the web you are in more control take your control back. You are let them control the outcome don't do that.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Viktor213;7029649]Treat SA like a dating site. You need quality pics and a quality profile to attract interest. No personal details are needed but the profile needs to make clear you are doing well. I don't reach out to people and I normally get 2 to 3 people hitting me up daily not including the international scammers or people outside the area which I ignore. I could have much more interest if I juiced the profile but I prefer to be direct. The people hitting the profile are all shapes, sizes, and races and I chose what I want. Remember SA girls are not the cheapest option so get ready for sticker shock when you start talking business. Last thing, never talk business on the platform. Once you get a decent hit move the discussion to your GV or Telegram account or risk getting banned. SA doesn't play.
Safe Hunting.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HawkJock;7029422]SA is a lot of work. It was a great site in 2015-2018, then like all things internet it has devolved. Then add COVID and the elimination of Craigslist and Backpage. I'd guess it is now 90% worthless (scams, bots, content sellers, and providers that are just a notch above SW.) Having said that, there are some genuine contacts to be made, especially international. Here in the ATL and surrounding areas, you'll have to send / sift thru 10 emails to find 1 genuine contact.[/QUOTE]
BankerBarbie aka MandyAtl
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ee606935-2963-4ce6-aeab-7764fdb503ec[/URL]
This girl has had numerous accounts. Currently it's "bankerbarbie", but previously it was "mandyatl" if I remember correctly. Anyways, she is probably my second worse seeking experience of all time.
She met me at my hotel. I'm outside and she pulls up and rolls the window down and smoke starts billowing out like in a Cheech and Chong movie. I wanted to dip, but I was invested and wanted to try to make it work. She gets to the room with me and gets undressed. She's very unattractive in person, at least to me. She looks worn out. Her skin is saggy and she's skinny so it's like a soft bag of bones. Her body looks firm in her pics but I assure you it's not. I could also smell a metallic smell to her and it made me think I was smelling meth. I don't know what meth smells like, but if I had to guess, that would be it. And she acted like she was on something very strong. She proceeds to give a CBJ even though that's not what we agreed to. It was absolutely terrible. No suction and I couldn't even feel it. Even the face she made when doing it turned me off and it actually pissed me off because she was tweaking or something. Never felt so catfished before in my life and I couldn't stand her presence and the way she carried herself in general. At that point I told her to stop and get out of my room. I paid her a small amount of what we agreed to so she wouldn't pitch a fit. In my opinion she's a catfish and she doesn't know or at least act like she knows what she's doing in the bedroom. I wouldn't attempt a repeat if she paid me.
Any experience with this girl?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684[/URL]
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ArtsyPrincess 26 is fake, I would stay away
ArtsyPrincess 26 is fake. Had a date yesterday but she did not show up. No communication at all. It was waste of my Friday evening. Lost total 4 hours.
She was so eager to meet. She was telling me all kind of made up stories like she can not host as she live with her grandma to take care of her. She has busy schedule but how she is eager to meet me and very excited. Many messages exchanged and we decided to meet. Time and location both she decided and I agreed. I drove for 50 min in Friday's traffic to Emory druid hills area to meet her at Coffee place. She did not show up. Since then no communication. Radio silence. So I do not recommend her at all.
Please share some genuine SA profile that you have good experience with. DM is welcome.
Eagerness and immediately availability as red flags
[QUOTE=VoraraMesh66;7040690]ArtsyPrincess 26 is fake. Had a date yesterday but she did not show up. No communication at all. It was waste of my Friday evening. Lost total 4 hours.
She was so eager to meet. She was telling me all kind of made up stories like she can not host as she live with her grandma to take care of her. She has busy schedule but how she is eager to meet me and very excited. Many messages exchanged and we decided to meet. Time and location both she decided and I agreed. I drove for 50 min in Friday's traffic to Emory druid hills area to meet her at Coffee place. She did not show up. Since then no communication. Radio silence. So I do not recommend her at all.
Please share some genuine SA profile that you have good experience with. DM is welcome.[/QUOTE]When a good looking girl is very eager to meet after a few messages, it's almost always a scam. Especially if she shares unsolicited nudes.
I spoke to this petite blonde blue eyed late 20's single mom (my weakness) in Lawrenceville once. Facecheck returned a facebook profile which had some of SA photos. I was curious where it would lead to so I gave her my GV number. After greetings, I got busy with something else and didn't reply for a while. Then I received a short masturbation video from her with some really exciting moans. She quickly agreed to meet up the following Monday at a location I recommended. This whole thing evolved within 3 hours.
Red flags:
1- An attractive girl should be receiving tons of messages, why insist on meeting ME?
2- No meet&greet. Any sane woman would require to meet in public to be safe.
3- No discussion of limits. Any sane woman would ask your expectations before wasting time with meeting.
4- Important: Trying to rush you. Scammers usually try to rush you so you don't have a moment to stop and think.
5- Important: Sending you nudes and other sexually influential material so that your little head takes over the thinking process.
I haven't run accross that yet except the paypig
[QUOTE=Coldgin499;7041843]Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.[/QUOTE]If that's your thing. I had a girl reach out to me once about wanting me to be a paypig to her. Not my thing so declined. Not really in to weird stuff though. I just want something mutually beneficial / fwb. So they are out there but honestly if you want that just put that in your profile and see who bites?
Knows of someone? Be careful
[QUOTE=Coldgin499;7041843]Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.[/QUOTE]My friend these unicorns do exist but they are rare and even when found they don't last long. These stories of SBs "knowing someone" are usually from online SB forums and amount to dreams of women getting big coins for doing virtually nothing. When I connect with women on SB sites most like to throw out what the "last SD or guy" did. I always love the story of the last "older guy" that was "cool" that paid her rent but didn't want "anything" in return. All they did was "talk". Yeah, ok.
Long-term, consistent SDs are rarer than most might think. Your SB would do well to focus on keeping you happy and the ppm arrangement working than pondering stories like those. My 2 cents.
Good Luck.