Yeah, SW's aren't everyone's cup of tea
[QUOTE=SteveBlack; 1688572]This hobby is not for the risk adverse, for sure, and has its dangers. I have been repeatedly discouraged by poor quality providers, but every 7th-8th pick I find something nice. I hate mongering at night, because I can never see their faces. It's tough during the day because most hotels won't let you check in until 3pm. Car dates during the day are challenging as well. So that can be kinda limiting.
But the real fun of SWs is the hunt! And the idea that you can cheaply get laid, on demand.
Personally I prefer BP coupled with reviews. I'm also fond of the strip club scene up in The D. Extras are expected and provided at pretty much every club. However a big road trip is particularly inconvenient.[/QUOTE]I agree with what SB wrote. SWs are a certain taste. I prefer UTR girls or the occasional BP date, as I have figured out that wandering into areas of inner cities that are economically challenged requires a certain "street sense" or street smarts that I just do not have. Therefore, playing that game is on the edge of my comfort zone. So I figure if I recognize a situation where I'm not a good fit, then perhaps it makes sense to steer clear from it. Perhaps that is what Ohiosucks1 is learning? Hey. It is better to make a few attempts at learning, and decide to go a different route, than force yourself into something that could be trouble.
Now I have had debates on threads before about SWs vs escorts and let me tell you that it appears as everyone has their own niche and preferences. From my observations, I'd say that mostly guys who enjoy SWs do so for reasons similar to what SB posted:
1. They like the hunt. It is the thrill of finding what is around the corner.
2. They like strange and new. Never or rarely do the same girl twice and certainly not twice in a row.
3. Finding a new one and unwrapping her is like Christmas morning.
4. It's the thrill of "getting away with something." You know partaking in the taboo, having fun, and then going home is kinda like a Clark Kent moment.
5. It is the cheapest alternative to draining yer seed.
But alas for me, I like to find a nice utr girl and establish an on-going thing. That way, as she gets comfortable, more avenues open up, there can be some learning of styles / preferences and the intensity can get better and better. But alas, the ticket is higher and I know it isn't everyone's preference or style.
So rather than suggesting one stay on the porch. Recognize we all have a skills and styles and as such will approach the hobby differently.
Happy hunting and be safe!
Just didn't feel right to me.
[QUOTE=Ohiosucks1; 1689005]I don't know maybe. Basically, I asked if she needed a ride. She looked behind my car as if she was looking at somebody, then smiled and got in. She was using a real smooth sexy voice the whole time that just kinda sounded unrealistic. She asked me where I worked, if I was a cop, and then she started talking about how it was illegal to offer people rides. Now maybe you are right about her sensing there was something wrong so maybe she just threw that out there to scare me off. But my instincts were telling me something was wrong, considering that the first time I picked up a SW she got right down to business once she got in.
[b]Just didn't feel right to me I guess. [/b][/QUOTE]Well, right there is your answer. If it didn't feel right then dropping her off was the best move. While you didn't get yer know polished, you did avoid something bad happening and that is always a good outcome! That said, it might have been innocent enough, but I wasn't there to judge. [u]You got to operate within your zone of comfort. [/u] NEVER forget that. SO either you spend some time cruising the stroll to get a feel for the lay of the land, the faces and the spots to expect LE or do something else.
I spend many hours and tanks of gasoline over a several month period cruising the stroll and "learning" before partaking for the first time. In fact, I had a miss-step that was more serious than yours, on my first attempt at solo-flight. The darn girl wanted drinks so we stopped for a pop, no problem, but she sensed my nerves and started in with changing the rules. So I made the decision to bail, but alas too late, were on a 4-lane highway with few chances to reverse course. Got reversed and pulled into a convenience store / gas station. She had been demanding money for her time for the last 5-minutes. This after grabbing the change from the soda purchase off of the dash. [lessons right there. ]. Only move I had was to drive over to the gas pumps, right next to people and walk around to her side of the car open the door and ask in a VERY loud voice for her to exit my car. Fortunately that attracted attention and she got out.
So if one is determined to run SWs. Count on sometime to learn the ropes, some street sense and the "rules." Expect a few mishaps along the way, and learning experiences. One can always post questions or experiences as there are many knowledgeable posters here who can help. The nerves could subside with experience and familiarity. Unfortunately there is no school one can go to to learn these skills. You just have to pay your tuition in the school of the streets, one way or another!
Good luck!
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So when did it become illegal to give someone a ride? I'm responding to what a SW told Ohiosucks1.
