[QUOTE=Knottyboy18;3666558]Yes, I have met a couple of times and I like her. Although her boobs sag a lot which is a negative but she has good attitude.[/QUOTE]Nice girl. Works in Midlothian.
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[QUOTE=Knottyboy18;3666558]Yes, I have met a couple of times and I like her. Although her boobs sag a lot which is a negative but she has good attitude.[/QUOTE]Nice girl. Works in Midlothian.
This is seriously wrong on so many levels. I've just spent some time going over the SA blog (blog. [URL]seekingarrangement.com[/URL]) and wow, no wonder the site is taking a turn for the worst. Read any article on there and I dare you to not roll your eyes and think "what a load of shhhit". And then read the comments.
All of this is being written and supported by SA itself. I'm starting to wonder if SA is run by complete morons.
Also check out this affiliated site: www.letstalksugar.com
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3666855]This is seriously wrong on so many levels. I've just spent some time going over the SA blog (blog. [URL]seekingarrangement.com[/URL]) and wow, no wonder the site is taking a turn for the worst. Read any article on there and I dare you to not roll your eyes and think "what a load of shhhit". And then read the comments.
All of this is being written and supported by SA itself. I'm starting to wonder if SA is run by complete morons.
Also check out this affiliated site: www.letstalksugar.com[/QUOTE]IDK about your experiences but for me, SA has been rocking lately; my biggest issues have been scheduling and budgeting. Unfortunately my dick is harder than my pockets are deep.
[QUOTE=Tidad;3666877]IDK about your experiences but for me, SA has been rocking lately; my biggest issues have been scheduling and budgeting. Unfortunately my dick is harder than my pockets are deep.[/QUOTE]To me those blogs explain the rampant GPS and platonic I see more and more of on SA.
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3666928]To me those blogs explain the rampant GPS and platonic I see more and more of on SA.[/QUOTE]True enough, I've seen a ton of those "platonic", "mentor" and "non-sexual only" listings. I don't want to ever meet a girl so hot I'd pay her bills without getting the ass. I think many of them might be from girls trying to convince themselves that they are not easing towards p4p; as far as GPS? As long as there are fools willing to throw ridiculous amounts of cash at hot girls, there will be hot girls willing to catch it. If I were a hot chick, I'd take as much money as horney old fools would give me, no question!
Here's a weird one. I've been seeing a bunch of girls who are using mostly the same profile language. It goes like this:
"I love thunderstorms but I can't live without sunshine. I find beauty in almost everything about this incredible world we live in. I like to swing at the park, play in the snow, and stomp in puddles. I love camping but hate freezing at night. ".
There's usually more, but you get the idea. Are these stooge postings by SA? Is it another sort of scam? Did it come from some chick book on how to write a profile on dating sites?
[QUOTE=SnookBoy;3668562]Here's a weird one. I've been seeing a bunch of girls who are using mostly the same profile language. It goes like this:
"I love thunderstorms but I can't live without sunshine. I find beauty in almost everything about this incredible world we live in. I like to swing at the park, play in the snow, and stomp in puddles. I love camping but hate freezing at night."
There's usually more, but you get the idea. Are these stooge postings by SA? Is it another sort of scam? Did it come from some chick book on how to write a profile on dating sites?[/QUOTE]I haven't seen those on SA (yet) but would suspect it's a fake or scam profile. I see it on Tinder all the time. On Tinder it's either a girl claiming she wants you to check out her cam show but she'll meet after. Yeah, right. Or there is a link to some site. They probably get paid per click. The ones I don't get are the ones that give a phone # and want you to text. Phishing for phone numbers for some reason maybe?
And then there are the ones that just ask you to PayPal or Venmo them money. I have seen that on SA too.
As long as there are guys out there that will fall for that crap it will grow so get used to it. The biggest problem with SA is sifting through hundreds of profiles to set up just a few meet and greets.
Have fun, be safe!
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3666855]This is seriously wrong on so many levels. I've just spent some time going over the SA blog (blog. [URL]seekingarrangement.com[/URL]) and wow, no wonder the site is taking a turn for the worst. Read any article on there and I dare you to not roll your eyes and think "what a load of shhhit". And then read the comments.
All of this is being written and supported by SA itself. I'm starting to wonder if SA is run by complete morons.
Also check out this affiliated site: www.letstalksugar.com[/QUOTE]But I am happy that they do stress to SBs not to expect a gift for m&g and to SDs not to expect sex on an m&g.
They do tend to give the SBs GPS too. Especially the posts on letstalksugar. And they promote the idea of online only or platonic which really sucks. As long as there are horny old guys who will pay for nothing that will increase.
The comments are the best part LOL.
From looking at literally hundreds of SB profiles though I think it's safe to say that not many SBs read the blogs bc very few of them follow the profile recommendations.
Have fun & be safe!
[QUOTE=SnookBoy;3668562]Here's a weird one. I've been seeing a bunch of girls who are using mostly the same profile language. It goes like this:
"I love thunderstorms but I can't live without sunshine. I find beauty in almost everything about this incredible world we live in. I like to swing at the park, play in the snow, and stomp in puddles. I love camping but hate freezing at night. ".
There's usually more, but you get the idea. Are these stooge postings by SA? Is it another sort of scam? Did it come from some chick book on how to write a profile on dating sites?[/QUOTE]If you google the quote you'll get 15 pages of people using the exact same language on various dating sites! You're not dealing with scammers, just unoriginal babies!
Peace,
Scott.
[QUOTE=JustLonely;3643980]M2324 is one of those who reads but never replies. I am listed as 56 on my profile so she might not be into older guys. I got one that I will share by PM in Chester. Check your mail.[/QUOTE]Had a great dream with M2324, She really likes to scream. LOL she is a good time just like most all school teachers!
[QUOTE=FanRat;3646554]I had an ok dream with ItsPamela from SA last night. Early 20's, 5'4" white girl. Her pictures are very cute but they are old. She is probably 30 pounds heavier now so she wasn't quite what I was expecting. That's why I say it was OK.
Started messaging, exchanged numbers and started texting. Almost immediately invited me to her place for drinks and alone time. She was very open to text about my expectations and hers so I set up a date.
Like I said she wasn't as cute as I was hoping but killer BBBJCIM, DT with ease and I am a big guy. Most girls can't get half of me but I literally fucked this chicks throat and she took it to the end. Then she said she likes to be bent over so I covered up, she bent over the bed and I hammered away to #2 - she handled that nicely too. Pretty tight kitty.
She has a nice private condo in the east end so the location was cool and perfect for guys who can't take a girl home and don't want the overhead of a hotel.
Damage was $$ but I think she would probably do less. She asked me what I'd give and that is what I threw out. I was afraid she'd balk bc a lot of the girls I meet on SA are looking for $$$ or more.
Anyway, overall decent experience. As good or better than most I've had on BP.[/QUOTE]So I texted her saying that I know some guys that are interested in her DT skills and asked if I could share her digits.
She responded with "That was random".
So I responded that I just thought she might be interested in other clients.
She responded "Wrong number".
I guess that was a no.
Be careful & be safe!
[QUOTE=SnookBoy;3668562]There's usually more, but you get the idea. Are these stooge postings by SA? Is it another sort of scam? Did it come from some chick book on how to write a profile on dating sites?[/QUOTE]The copy-paste phrases I see the most are "I'm looking to add value to a Sugar Daddy's life in a casual arrangement" and "In a perfect arrangement we would do things together that we both enjoy", both of which seem to have originated on sugar baby advice sites.
Seems interesting, any information would be greatly appreciated, [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5eb86f3c-cea3-4840-bf41-93d94af9189c[/URL].
[QUOTE=FanRat;3668975]So I texted her saying that I know some guys that are interested in her DT skills and asked if I could share her digits.
She responded with "That was random".
So I responded that I just thought she might be interested in other clients.
She responded "Wrong number".
I guess that was a no.
Be careful & be safe![/QUOTE]She's back on vacation again already. Due back in a few days. So that was probably the boyfriend LOL.
GPS out in the open with this new one in Richmond. States in her profile she wants 600 to 800 per meet. That's after 200 for a no sex first meet to establish a connection. S0 ys her fetish is Daddy's Little Princess. I won't be her Prince Charming.
[QUOTE=Knottyboy18;3666558]Yes, I have met a couple of times and I like her. Although her boobs sag a lot which is a negative but she has good attitude.[/QUOTE]Seen her a couple of times I'll definitely see her again. Worth spending some time with.
It seems I have run into a rash of just "Their Benefit" lately. 2 recently in Roanoke if you play there, let me know and I will let you know the ones to not waste your time with. It's funny too because I make it clear in my first message that I seek mutually beneficial relationship and intimacy if we click and have chemistry. Their initial response. Exactly what I am looking for! Turns out they just want to be arm candy, screw that. One told me she just doesn't randomly have sex with strangers and she was young enough to be my granddaughter and I was just a disgusting dirty and horny old man who will never find love. Well one not looking for love and I told her to not kid herself that she responded to the dirty old man initially and was all about meeting. Oh well, not sure what is going on, but some of these girls need to get over themselves.
I have had very good luck on SA, but always the window shopper, I went onto Secret Benefits (without paying). I saw no overlap between the two sites. On SB, there were a lot more older women (40's and 50's), which are not what I'm looking for, and the pickings seemed slimmer than on SA. Does anyone find that Secret Benefits is a worthwhile adjunct to SA?
[QUOTE=LoVecchio;3672754]I have had very good luck on SA, but always the window shopper, I went onto Secret Benefits (without paying). I saw no overlap between the two sites. On SB, there were a lot more older women (40's and 50's), which are not what I'm looking for, and the pickings seemed slimmer than on SA. Does anyone find that Secret Benefits is a worthwhile adjunct to SA?[/QUOTE]I signed up about a week ago. I have found 4 potentials in the 20 - 30 yo range, and one in the 40+ range, but nothing has panned out for real yet. Just messaging Will update if I get any real success. Hoping it is a little more direct than SA, with everyone on the same page for expectations of an arrangement. Nobody out here on SB seems to be looking for a platonic gentleman to be their friend / mentor, which gives me hope for this new site.
[QUOTE=RedBaron69;3668932]Had a great dream with M2324, She really likes to scream. LOL she is a good time just like most all school teachers![/QUOTE]Found out today she is seeing someone. This just happened recently.
After several months of hit-and-miss meetings, I think I've found a couple babies that I can probably keep around for a while, and have been messaging another POT who sounds very interested in meeting up. Ironically, today I got a message from a MILF-why type whose profile I'd viewed and noted as a possibility, and her initial comments expressed interest in the same kind of arrangement I'm looking for.
2-3 SBs is as much as I want deal with at once, but I don't want to burn a good prospect now by saying "not interested" when I might wind up wanting to come back to her later. I'm curious how others have dealt with this. Do you just say "Not now, maybe later", ignore the message, or what?
I'm a fairly seasoned SD and worked SA off and on for going on four years. I've done well protecting my privacy and such, but have ran into a couple crazies, or jaded women lately. The type who have double standards. Like you owe them a relationship, or something committed, while they're out there fucking everyone. LOL. Usually I've found this happens because they actually like you and when some of these young women like you, they get clingy and downright scary.
My questions is do you just ghost them outright and not put them in their place? One girl is insisting she find out who I am, where I live, she's mad as hell, as I had sex with her twice, paid her allowance and didn't want to see her again. She's going off on my big time as she felt we had some chemistry between us. Meanwhile, she's working the site 24/7. Do I put her in her place and call her out, or just ghost her? I also know if anyone truly wants to find out about someone today, they can do it. So if she really put her mind to it, I'm sure she could show up at my front door. I was good to this ***** and she won; t just go away.
The second case is a girl who has a PhD, but in the process she's lost her mind. She's 28, recently graduated with her PhD and she's insane, but sweet. The pressure to find work, her recently lost boyfriend and so, had her on a bag of medications. We went out for drinks and both got a little drunk and made out, held hands, it was sweet, she told me, "I love you" but I attributed it to being drunk. Well now she wants to be exclusive, and wants me to be her boyfriend. She's not had many, only three her entire life. She too is demanding she know who I am, where I live etc, etc. However this girl is actually not seeing anyone and she has kind of a sweet side and I sort of like her.
How do you brothers keep these girls from finding you? I mean they can look at the credit card slip, check with whatever hotel you stay at, look at your vehicle registration, etc etc and get your name. From there, they got you.
I always have several in my bag at any given time, so it hasn't happened to me yet! Draw back is some of these girls lose interest if you do not routinely see them.
I like a variety so I can't really see myself sticking with only one. Currently juggling one really hot W 22, Mixed 21,24 B, 21 Indian and several others with pots.
Living the dream.
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3674510]I'm a fairly seasoned SD and worked SA off and on for going on four years. I've done well protecting my privacy and such, but have ran into a couple crazies, or jaded women lately. The type who have double standards. Like you owe them a relationship, or something committed, while they're out there fucking everyone. LOL. Usually I've found this happens because they actually like you and when some of these young women like you, they get clingy and downright scary.
My questions is do you just ghost them outright and not put them in their place? One girl is insisting she find out who I am, where I live, she's mad as hell, as I had sex with her twice, paid her allowance and didn't want to see her again. She's going off on my big time as she felt we had some chemistry between us. Meanwhile, she's working the site 24/7. Do I put her in her place and call her out, or just ghost her? I also know if anyone truly wants to find out about someone today, they can do it. So if she really put her mind to it, I'm sure she could show up at my front door. I was good to this ***** and she won; t just go away.
The second case is a girl who has a PhD, but in the process she's lost her mind. She's 28, recently graduated with her PhD and she's insane, but sweet. The pressure to find work, her recently lost boyfriend and so, had her on a bag of medications. We went out for drinks and both got a little drunk and made out, held hands, it was sweet, she told me, "I love you" but I attributed it to being drunk. Well now she wants to be exclusive, and wants me to be her boyfriend. She's not had many, only three her entire life. She too is demanding she know who I am, where I live etc, etc. However this girl is actually not seeing anyone and she has kind of a sweet side and I sort of like her.
How do you brothers keep these girls from finding you? I mean they can look at the credit card slip, check with whatever hotel you stay at, look at your vehicle registration, etc etc and get your name. From there, they got you.[/QUOTE]
Any of you have any luck with this one, she said I am too old for her!! She is hot one of the pics.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0a9ecb5d-0b92-4a05-9a64-5eba21eb768c[/URL]
Thank you in advance.
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3674510]I'm a fairly seasoned SD and worked SA off and on for going on four years. I've done well protecting my privacy and such, but have ran into a couple crazies, or jaded women lately. The type who have double standards. Like you owe them a relationship, or something committed, while they're out there fucking everyone. LOL. Usually I've found this happens because they actually like you and when some of these young women like you, they get clingy and downright scary.
My questions is do you just ghost them outright and not put them in their place? One girl is insisting she find out who I am, where I live, she's mad as hell, as I had sex with her twice, paid her allowance and didn't want to see her again. She's going off on my big time as she felt we had some chemistry between us. Meanwhile, she's working the site 24/7. Do I put her in her place and call her out, or just ghost her? I also know if anyone truly wants to find out about someone today, they can do it. So if she really put her mind to it, I'm sure she could show up at my front door. I was good to this ***** and she won; t just go away.
The second case is a girl who has a PhD, but in the process she's lost her mind. She's 28, recently graduated with her PhD and she's insane, but sweet. The pressure to find work, her recently lost boyfriend and so, had her on a bag of medications. We went out for drinks and both got a little drunk and made out, held hands, it was sweet, she told me, "I love you" but I attributed it to being drunk. Well now she wants to be exclusive, and wants me to be her boyfriend. She's not had many, only three her entire life. She too is demanding she know who I am, where I live etc, etc. However this girl is actually not seeing anyone and she has kind of a sweet side and I sort of like her.
How do you brothers keep these girls from finding you? I mean they can look at the credit card slip, check with whatever hotel you stay at, look at your vehicle registration, etc etc and get your name. From there, they got you.[/QUOTE]Yep if they want to find out who you are they can. All knids of secret squirrel shit on the site to use but in reality if they want to know who you are they can get it. Just part of the game.
This is nothing out of the ordinary.
About no. 1 you tell her point blank she's playing games with you and you're not into that then stop responding. If she has a personality disorder (likely), she'll turn on the serious guilt tripping and tall tales about whatever bs is in her head. How she's in some trouble and needs you (it's all an act BTW and she's likely a serial liar). Sounds like you spent some with her and found her lacking so just move on. With this type the quicker you cut her off the better. If you keep responding she'll keep an interest in you and escalate.
About no. 2 you're going to have to balance your interest in staying private and you liking her. Again, tell her things are good as they are and maybe in time you'll open up to her. This one sounds more like a keeper but be clear about what you want and stay in control of the relationship. Pointing at the door and saying to a girl "you're free to go if you don't like it" works wonders in just about every scenario.
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3674510]I'm a fairly seasoned SD and worked SA off and on for going on four years. I've done well protecting my privacy and such, but have ran into a couple crazies, or jaded women lately. The type who have double standards. Like you owe them a relationship, or something committed, while they're out there fucking everyone. LOL. Usually I've found this happens because they actually like you and when some of these young women like you, they get clingy and downright scary.
My questions is do you just ghost them outright and not put them in their place? One girl is insisting she find out who I am, where I live, she's mad as hell, as I had sex with her twice, paid her allowance and didn't want to see her again. She's going off on my big time as she felt we had some chemistry between us. Meanwhile, she's working the site 24/7. Do I put her in her place and call her out, or just ghost her? I also know if anyone truly wants to find out about someone today, they can do it. So if she really put her mind to it, I'm sure she could show up at my front door. I was good to this ***** and she won; t just go away.
The second case is a girl who has a PhD, but in the process she's lost her mind. She's 28, recently graduated with her PhD and she's insane, but sweet. The pressure to find work, her recently lost boyfriend and so, had her on a bag of medications. We went out for drinks and both got a little drunk and made out, held hands, it was sweet, she told me, "I love you" but I attributed it to being drunk. Well now she wants to be exclusive, and wants me to be her boyfriend. She's not had many, only three her entire life. She too is demanding she know who I am, where I live etc, etc. However this girl is actually not seeing anyone and she has kind of a sweet side and I sort of like her.
How do you brothers keep these girls from finding you? I mean they can look at the credit card slip, check with whatever hotel you stay at, look at your vehicle registration, etc etc and get your name. From there, they got you.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3674510]How do you brothers keep these girls from finding you? I mean they can look at the credit card slip, check with whatever hotel you stay at, look at your vehicle registration, etc etc and get your name. From there, they got you.[/QUOTE]It is all in how you play the game, what control you keep over meetings and other ways of being self protective.
1) Why would she ever have a need to look at your CC slip?
2) Do you use aliases when dating? Can she rent the room & you reimburse her?
3) Why would you show her a vehicle registration? There are ways to cover your plate during the time she might see it.
Any girl that tries anything "to get you" should be dropped immediately. Go ghost, change hobby number / phone / email, etc.
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3674510]I'm a fairly seasoned SD and worked SA off and on for going on four years. I've done well protecting my privacy and such, but have ran into a couple crazies, or jaded women lately. The type who have double standards. Like you owe them a relationship, or something committed, while they're out there fucking everyone. LOL. Usually I've found this happens because they actually like you and when some of these young women like you, they get clingy and downright scary.
My questions is do you just ghost them outright and not put them in their place? One girl is insisting she find out who I am, where I live, she's mad as hell, as I had sex with her twice, paid her allowance and didn't want to see her again. She's going off on my big time as she felt we had some chemistry between us. Meanwhile, she's working the site 24/7. Do I put her in her place and call her out, or just ghost her? I also know if anyone truly wants to find out about someone today, they can do it. So if she really put her mind to it, I'm sure she could show up at my front door. I was good to this ***** and she won; t just go away.
[/QUOTE]My advice is to drop off the face of the earth, especially if you have a SO (my situation). The momentary glee you get from telling her what a psycho she is could come back to haunt you if your operational security (WIDELY discussed on this thread) hasn't been **perfect. All of the things you mentioned (and many more) must be attended to to maintain your anonymity to SBs, and keep your actions secret from a spouse. My personal values are such that I don't commit to a SB until I know her pretty well, and I haven't ghosted on anyone. I told them flat out I couldn't see them anymore. Several are still friendly w / me, and would entertain seeing me again (for coffee or FC). If you aren't confident of that, you know what you have to do. FFAway.
TFW you see your neighbor's 19 yo daughter (who moved out after an epic blowup just after Thanksgiving) on SA looking absolutely delicious.
You would share her SA handle so we can enjoy time with her and report back to you.
[QUOTE=Tidad;3676380]TFW you see your neighbor's 19 yo daughter (who moved out after an epic blowup just after Thanksgiving) on SA looking absolutely delicious.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3674510]
My questions is do you just ghost them outright and not put them in their place?
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How do you brothers keep these girls from finding you? I mean they can look at the credit card slip, check with whatever hotel you stay at, look at your vehicle registration, etc etc and get your name. From there, they got you.[/QUOTE]I suggest ghosting anyone who is the least bit psychotic. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes.
As far as keeping anonymity (a subject extensively discussed here) you just have to think of the precautions and take them. But my opinion is you ultimately have to be willing to assume the small risk. Otherwise, stay out of the game. If my wife found out? She'd be pissed but we'd ride it out because it's just not THAT serious. A love affair with a woman my age would be much worse. If my job found out? Well, they already accept me for the eccentric person I am, so I think I'd survive. Anyway, it's marginally a misdemeanor and maybe not even that depending on your perspective. In summary, get rid of her, mitigate the risks, but realize them and enter if you can accept them.
Oh no.
I just noticed that the one week upgrade option in SA applet is gone 😥.
Bummer.
I downloaded the app today, not sure when it disappeared.
Anyone know of any good redhead SBs in RVA.
[QUOTE=ErnestLl;3678290]Anyone know of any good redhead SBs in RVA.[/QUOTE]I have met 2 true Redheads on SA in the last couple years.
1 is early 20's VCU student. 5 foot 6, slim bangin body and very cute face. She didn't take dick too well, always looked uncomfortable LOL. Her head game was strong though. But after the 1st couple dates she became a real scammer. Wanting to pick up cash to pay some bill and promising to come back for fun after but then disappearing for days with some story that she thought I'd buy. Some girls assume that horny old men will fall for anything if they think their dick might get wet. I only let her get away with that a couple times before I stopped bothering. I did see her at Kroger recently but she was with a dude and gave me that "don't talk to me look" with a wink. I texted her a couple days ago. I figure Ill give her the opp to pay me that visit I've already paid for before going further. Haven't heard back but if I do and its cool Ill share digits. Just be forewarned about her BS.
The other was late 20's, 5 foot 2, also slim bangin body. Visits were much better than the other girl. We had a nice thing going on and after a couple months we were both looking for a place at the same time so we decided to be roommates. Found a decent apt on Cary and moved in August of last year. Figured out pretty quick that she had some mental issues but nothing severe until the holidays when she started acting really strange. Then in early January last year she flipped her lid, burned the apartment down and disappeared. Turned up a few days later in a mental hospital in PA. She is back and out on a plea deal now living in Chester I think. I haven't talked to her since she torched the apartment.
YMMV but I haven't had much luck with redheads LOL.
Be safe!
That's crazy stuff:
"I only let her get away with it a couple of times. ".
". burned the apartment down. ".
"Some girls think horny old men will fall for anything. ". Seems like they may be correct! LOL.
[QUOTE=FanRat;3680070]I have met 2 true Redheads on SA in the last couple years.
1 is early 20's VCU student. 5 foot 6, slim bangin body and very cute face. She didn't take dick too well, always looked uncomfortable LOL. Her head game was strong though. But after the 1st couple dates she became a real scammer. Wanting to pick up cash to pay some bill and promising to come back for fun after but then disappearing for days with some story that she thought I'd buy. Some girls assume that horny old men will fall for anything if they think their dick might get wet. I only let her get away with that a couple times before I stopped bothering. I did see her at Kroger recently but she was with a dude and gave me that "don't talk to me look" with a wink. I texted her a couple days ago. I figure Ill give her the opp to pay me that visit I've already paid for before going further. Haven't heard back but if I do and its cool Ill share digits. Just be forewarned about her BS.
The other was late 20's, 5 foot 2, also slim bangin body. Visits were much better than the other girl. We had a nice thing going on and after a couple months we were both looking for a place at the same time so we decided to be roommates. Found a decent apt on Cary and moved in August of last year. Figured out pretty quick that she had some mental issues but nothing severe until the holidays when she started acting really strange. Then in early January last year she flipped her lid, burned the apartment down and disappeared. Turned up a few days later in a mental hospital in PA. She is back and out on a plea deal now living in Chester I think. I haven't talked to her since she torched the apartment.
YMMV but I haven't had much luck with redheads LOL.
Be safe![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3680647]That's crazy stuff:
"I only let her get away with it a couple of times. ".
". burned the apartment down. ".
"Some girls think horny old men will fall for anything. ". Seems like they may be correct! LOL.[/QUOTE]But I have had far more really good experiences than bad ones so I'm not complaining. Might be a bit more careful, but not complaining LOL.
Bros. I have been trying out SB for the benefit of the here assembled SD fraternity. I see fewer women than SA who are less active on the site, to be sure, but I am still interested in several, and they are safer for some reasons unique to me. Anyway, you have to buy credits on the site to message girls or see their pix. $60 is the minimum, which gives you 10 conversations. This would certainly be enough for me to try it out. I tried to buy them using the standard procedure for SA, OneVanilla prepaid cards. Their payment processor [URL]ccbill.com[/URL] could not get the charge to go through, and Visa says that it is b / c they come up on their radar as a foreign entity. Supposedly, one can't use OneVanilla for a foreign charge (though, obviously, many of us succeed with them on SA). I asked if they could accept a PayPal transfer, but [URL]ccbill.com[/URL] does not. I await a response about alternatives from the Secret Benefits customer service.
I wonder if anyone else has been successful with an anonymous payment to Secret Benefits. Cheers, FFA.
Ok, I couldn't be happier with my SB of two years now. She really could be a Maxim covergirl, is smart, loving and sexy as all outdoors.
The problem she's a four hour drive away. I'm married, she's engaged to her live in BF. It's easier to see her once school starts (25 year old full time college student that also works about 20 hours a week.).
Sometimes we see each other three weeks in a month, sometimes once or twice. Sometime we miss a whole month, especially semester break and the summer, when she's working more and can't use the going to the library excuse on the BF.
I find if it's been two weeks and we aren't going to see each other the next week, I need to go back to the escort route. I hate not seeing her and helping her out, plus I see her for between 3-6 hours vs max of an hour with an escort, with no way near the intamancy and menu options.
Charlie Sheen was right, you don't pay them for sex, you pay them to leave.
I don't want a local SB because it's to risky and I doubt I'd ever get so lucky again.
Am I alone or do others have the same issue?
Ok, I couldn't be happier with my SB of two years now. She really could be a Maxim covergirl, is smart, loving and sexy as all outdoors.
The problem she's a four hour drive away. I'm married, she's engaged to her live in BF. It's easier to see her once school starts (25 year old full time college student that also works about 20 hours a week.).
Sometimes we see each other three weeks in a month, sometimes once or twice. Sometime we miss a whole month, especially semester break and the summer, when she's working more and can't use the going to the library excuse on the BF.
I find if it's been two weeks and we aren't going to see each other the next week, I need to go back to the escort route. I hate not seeing her and helping her out, plus I see her for between 3-6 hours vs max of an hour with an escort, with no way near the intamancy and menu options.
Charlie Sheen was right, you don't pay them for sex, you pay them to leave.
I don't want a local SB because it's to risky and I doubt I'd ever get so lucky again.
Am I alone or do others have the same issue?
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3682561]Bros. I have been trying out SB for the benefit of the here assembled SD fraternity. I see fewer women than SA who are less active on the site, to be sure, but I am still interested in several, and they are safer for some reasons unique to me. Anyway, you have to buy credits on the site to message girls or see their pix. $60 is the minimum, which gives you 10 conversations. This would certainly be enough for me to try it out. I tried to buy them using the standard procedure for SA, OneVanilla prepaid cards. Their payment processor [URL]ccbill.com[/URL] could not get the charge to go through, and Visa says that it is b / c they come up on their radar as a foreign entity. Supposedly, one can't use OneVanilla for a foreign charge (though, obviously, many of us succeed with them on SA). I asked if they could accept a PayPal transfer, but [URL]ccbill.com[/URL] does not. I await a response about alternatives from the Secret Benefits customer service.
I wonder if anyone else has been successful with an anonymous payment to Secret Benefits. Cheers, FFA.[/QUOTE]I've been having the same issue with SB so if you receive an answer from them or figure something else out I'd be interested in the info.
Cmc.