The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

[QUOTE=Scooter6;5411298]It beats the alternatives of the complete trash that is on stg, etc.

So I prefer to take my chances and put in a little more work in hopes it pays off vs waiting in some sketchy notel while some girl who uses filtered / aged pics and is heavy on the candy leaves me waiting for 30 min and hoping I don't get robbed. That's not a game I'm looking to play.

But to each their own in this hobby.[/QUOTE]Based on the reviews I've been reading, it appears both STG and SA are jokes. So what that leads me to believe is, perhaps, sites like Er-s is better. You pay more but less issues. Heck, the amount of GPS that's going on, I'd rather see a couple girls at 700 per month, then 20-30 at over a grand and still not be happy. Quality over quantity!

[QUOTE=DonJon;5411347]Guys, I need some guidance. What have you done in the past when you start to catch feelings for your SB?

It's to the point of being distracting and I'm stalking her social media and getting mad about her personal life and her partying etc.

Please share some experience and advice, feel free to msg me directly if you want.

- Don Jon.[/QUOTE]I thought I was keeping my deep emotions clear of falling for my 3+ year long sugar relationship with this 21 yo girl. Well, that was until she just starting seeing someone her age, and now having sex with him. I've been a mess for more than a week, and I've put forth more effort to see her and talk to her than I've done in a few years. I know it's driving her crazy, because she was head over heels for me for a very long time, basically the entire relationship. But, recently, she resigned herself to the fact that I wasn't leaving my wife. Well, now I'm even looking harder at leaving the wife, not just because of my SB, but also because of the circumstances at home. The SB and I have been very transparent with each other, and communicating about it a lot. In all practicality, this should never work, being that we are 29 years apart. But, damn, these feelz. It's bad. Haha.

[QUOTE=RedChaser1;5410278][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8efe4512-428e-473c-9040-213d27739e98[/URL]

She was on about a week ago. Deleted the profile and jumped back on with a new one. Just wondering if anyone has experienced her company. Trying to meet with her tonight.[/QUOTE]People probably got her last profile blocked since she had to be picked up. What's the update?

[QUOTE=StarsTunna;5411983]People probably got her last profile blocked since she had to be picked up. What's the update?[/QUOTE]Total waste of time. Set up a rough time to meet over text. Texted exactly when I would call. Called exactly when I said I would. Voice Mail. Waited 5 minutes. Called again. Voice Mail. She called back. Hung up as soon as I answered. I called one last time. Voice Mail. Sent one last text. No reply. Not wasting anymore of my time with this one. A shame. She had a nice body on her.

[QUOTE=RedChaser1;5412016]Total waste of time. Set up a rough time to meet over text. Texted exactly when I would call. Called exactly when I said I would. Voice Mail. Waited 5 minutes. Called again. Voice Mail. She called back. Hung up as soon as I answered. I called one last time. Voice Mail. Sent one last text. No reply. Not wasting anymore of my time with this one. A shame. She had a nice body on her.[/QUOTE]Likewise. She isn't ALL that great a looker. I mean she's ok, but not hot enough to miss out on. There are hotter girls out there I can waste time on and not get.

[QUOTE=LTlurker53;5402869]Thought I'd share my Tallahassee experience. Contacted several girls. After evaluating things like: communication, appearance, profile and just overall vibe chose a 29 yr old Latina who could be Ariana Grande's twin. Her rules were no pain and nothing uncovered. She also offered a few entertainment options. Private dance and lap dance, modeling outfits, singing (even brought a microphone), massage and ya know. Arrived to my hotel ahead of time. Brought takeout.

We relaxed a bit and talked. She was well read, traveled and witty. Did I mention beautiful? She changed in to a sexy outfit, rearranged furniture for her dances. Lots of fun teasing. Tons of eye contact. Looked great. Smelled great. Made me melt. We moved on to more fun. Very health and hygiene conscious but it was actually totally fine. She was absolutely a classy lady and has a great head on her shoulders. We spent close to 4 hours together. Hands down one of the best experiences I've had.

The cost was more than most will want to spend so it doesn't matter. But I am pretty picky these days so don't mind since I prefer quality over quantity.

She is moving to S Florida so not sure I will be able to see her again but I would in a second. It was nice also to have such a pretty young lady asking for advice and words of wisdom.

Just passing it on. There are some real gems out there. Last night I found a diamond.[/QUOTE]I totally know who you are talking about. I have being eyeing her for a long time but the $ required had me doubting about it. We can trade intel although I just joined and kinda have put some woods to ignite the fire in tally board but need to keep it going.

[QUOTE=Powerhouse100;5411813]Based on the reviews I've been reading, it appears both STG and SA are jokes. So what that leads me to believe is, perhaps, sites like Er-s is better. You pay more but less issues. Heck, the amount of GPS that's going on, I'd rather see a couple girls at 700 per month, then 20-30 at over a grand and still not be happy. Quality over quantity![/QUOTE]I have seen my fair share, there performance is mechanical they see multiple people per day and pics rarely are an accurate description of what you actually get but YMMV. On SA it's more diverse I would rather spend 8 $ for an entire night sometimes mornings than I do paying 2 k for a night of robotic non connected companionship. Talk about GPS who charges 5 benjis for a dinner date? I get them free on SA but it is a lot of work to move them into intimacy It's all in filtering and screening.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5413439]I have seen my fair share, there performance is mechanical they see multiple people per day and pics rarely are an accurate description of what you actually get but YMMV. On SA it's more diverse I would rather spend 8 $ for an entire night sometimes mornings than I do paying 2 k for a night of robotic non connected companionship. Talk about GPS who charges 5 benjis for a dinner date? I get them free on SA but it is a lot of work to move them into intimacy It's all in filtering and screening.[/QUOTE]A couple of years ago, I used to read pretty decent reviews about SA. However, nowadays, unless we are getting totally different interpretations of the reviews of late, the reviews sound more dismal. I mean, a lot of picture sellers, delayed responses, GPS, platonic relationship requests, etc. Is pretty much what I am reading. I read the review from you guys to see if things have changed for the better and if it does, I can sign up again, but again, the last couple of years does not give me a vote of confidence. I got off in Jan 2021 because people just did not seem to be very serious on there. I also found out many STG girls now appear on there. I don't know, seems most sites are hit / miss.

[QUOTE=RedChaser1;5412016]Total waste of time. Set up a rough time to meet over text. Texted exactly when I would call. Called exactly when I said I would. Voice Mail. Waited 5 minutes. Called again. Voice Mail. She called back. Hung up as soon as I answered. I called one last time. Voice Mail. Sent one last text. No reply. Not wasting anymore of my time with this one. A shame. She had a nice body on her.[/QUOTE]Thanks, I think adding them on snapchat really helps. No need to meet for coffee just have them send live pics, and if they don't reply but post on snap you already know to get rid of them.

[QUOTE=LTlurker53;5408545]Met on SA. Good communication. Seems sweet. Just wondered if anyone may have met her from SA or elsewhere. Her profile is now deleted. Supposed to meet this week and just double checking.

Thanks. And if all goes well and she is open to it I will be happy to share to senior members.[/QUOTE]She deleted her profile from me at least shortly after we started talking. Said she was getting too many messages. Red flag number one. We have been communicating well including last night. I drove down to Palm Coast. She gave me an address to a place in gated community. Said she would send code later. Then I get a message asking for light screening and wanted my I'd or social media. I told her I'd meet for coffee etc. But not sending my personal info to someone I did not know. Pretty much ended there. Bunch of bs if you ask me. Avoid unless you don't mind telling someone you can't verify your personal info. Not my idea of discretion.

[QUOTE=Powerhouse100;5413527]A couple of years ago, I used to read pretty decent reviews about SA. However, nowadays, unless we are getting totally different interpretations of the reviews of late, the reviews sound more dismal. I mean, a lot of picture sellers, delayed responses, GPS, platonic relationship requests, etc. Is pretty much what I am reading. I read the review from you guys to see if things have changed for the better and if it does, I can sign up again, but again, the last couple of years does not give me a vote of confidence. I got off in Jan 2021 because people just did not seem to be very serious on there. I also found out many STG girls now appear on there. I don't know, seems most sites are hit / miss.[/QUOTE]I get where you're coming from. I think a lot of mongers simply don't share information on any of their good experiences because they want to keep them fresh so to speak and not risk having anybody blow a good deal they do tend to report on a lot of fakes and scammers and wasters of time. But unless they've stopped seeing them very rarely do I ever see is good with you and I only do a good review on one if I'm no longer seeing them.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5413914]I get where you're coming from. I think a lot of mongers simply don't share information on any of their good experiences because they want to keep them fresh so to speak and not risk having anybody blow a good deal they do tend to report on a lot of fakes and scammers and wasters of time. But unless they've stopped seeing them very rarely do I ever see is good with you and I only do a good review on one if I'm no longer seeing them.[/QUOTE]Absolutely! Before I read your post, I thought about what you just posted. I was thinking that perhaps I was crazy or something. I thought to myself, perhaps guys see SA as a fertile hunting ground because they have successes they just don't discuss. The same sort of thing happens on the STG side--sometimes guys hold out divulging information because they fear the girl would become spoiled with all the attention and you know what? They are right!

I actually like SA, honestly. I have had some successes, but the GPS and ghosting just got to be too much. I might renew again, for ole time sake before I retire out of this whole game. Man, this shet wears on you! I don't care what station a woman occupies, be that, mom, sister, wife, girlfriend, or hooker-- they are something to deal with! LOL.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5413914]I get where you're coming from. I think a lot of mongers simply don't share information on any of their good experiences because they want to keep them fresh so to speak and not risk having anybody blow a good deal they do tend to report on a lot of fakes and scammers and wasters of time. But unless they've stopped seeing them very rarely do I ever see is good with you and I only do a good review on one if I'm no longer seeing them.[/QUOTE]I learned a year or two ago on this very list (under s different name) that posting info about actual meetups could get you burned on here because some fool (s) for some reason (White Knight complex? Told the SB they were being discussed here, and I got confronted about it- which I denied! I'm a slow learner, so it actually happened to me twice before I stopped posting details.

[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;5416406]I learned a year or two ago on this very list (under s different name) that posting info about actual meetups could get you burned on here because some fool (s) for some reason (White Knight complex? Told the SB they were being discussed here, and I got confronted about it- which I denied! I'm a slow learner, so it actually happened to me twice before I stopped posting details.[/QUOTE]Yep me too! Within 2 hours of posting a review I was confronted by the very same thing. I rarely even ask for intel because of it. I call those guys worms because they eat away at potentials.

[QUOTE=DonJon;5411347]Guys, I need some guidance. What have you done in the past when you start to catch feelings for your SB?

It's to the point of being distracting and I'm stalking her social media and getting mad about her personal life and her partying etc.

Please share some experience and advice, feel free to msg me directly if you want.

- Don Jon.[/QUOTE]Spend more time with them LOL. Half joking but been there once. Amazed as I'd never thought it possible. It's not so much the relationship but the realization of own age creeping in quickly. A couple mini vacations together and reality sets in. Still see her but can go weeks without interest in her social media shenanigans.