Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=BottleNeck;4550603]Do I just have the wrong idea of the sb / sd thing? I have been on SA for awhile talked to many girls most scams or whatever but the 2 arrangements that were legit I just mainly get ignored. I dish out a lot of green but just get either ignored or lied to. Tonight for example been texting the current girl for 2 hours not constantly but at least waiting 2 hours and finally a response back that she was on couch binge watching netflix, if I say anything I'm the bad guy. Is this how it is or haven't I found the right one yet?[/QUOTE]I have had 2 long term arrangements (3 years and 2 years) and a few that lasted 6 months or more. These arrangements were exactly like if I were dating someone in real life you would expect to be treated. Meaning we would text throughout the day and do fun date type stuff and really get to know each other. If you are happy with the way things are going then great, but if not you should let the know or let them go and find what you want. It is really hard work but very satisfying once you find it and there are the "needles in the haystack" it just takes patience and a lot of work to find them. The perfect ages I have found is 27 and up because younger girls don't know what they want and don't realize how valuable time and money is. Good luck in your search.

My experience is almost identical to LayenLow's. It takes time, effort and some wasted money to fund them, but there are haystack needles on the site. I received a "Happy Thanksgiving" email out of the blue yesterday from a former 2-year SB who is now married. We haven't seen each other in several years, but we were sincerely close enough for her to still occasionally say hello.

I'm currently "dating" a 29 year old college graduate working in licensed profession. Fantastic body. She makes good money and appreciates any / everything I give her. We've been seeing each other about 2 months. I'm taking her to NY this week and she doesn't expect me to give her a nickel. (She does, however, expect to give me a HJ on the plane. Other rules: no panties allowed on the trip; regular PDA required while in NY.).

I've had the most success with girls who have never been on the site before. And catch them within their first week on the site. The downside to this demo is that newbies often have unrealistic expectations. But some don't.

One caveat about LL's recommend about age. I don't see girls with kids, especially if the girl is over 30. I had a 36 year old nympho. With two kids. Want to leave my wife and marry her. No matter what they say, if a 35-year-old single mom is on SA, somewhere in the back of her mind she thinks she Richard Gere will find her.

[QUOTE=LayenLow;4551069]I have had 2 long term arrangements (3 years and 2 years) and a few that lasted 6 months or more. These arrangements were exactly like if I were dating someone in real life you would expect to be treated. Meaning we would text throughout the day and do fun date type stuff and really get to know each other. If you are happy with the way things are going then great, but if not you should let the know or let them go and find what you want. It is really hard work but very satisfying once you find it and there are the "needles in the haystack" it just takes patience and a lot of work to find them. The perfect ages I have found is 27 and up because younger girls don't know what they want and don't realize how valuable time and money is. Good luck in your search.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BottleNeck;4550603]Do I just have the wrong idea of the sb / sd thing? I have been on SA for awhile talked to many girls most scams or whatever but the 2 arrangements that were legit I just mainly get ignored. I dish out a lot of green but just get either ignored or lied to. Tonight for example been texting the current girl for 2 hours not constantly but at least waiting 2 hours and finally a response back that she was on couch binge watching netflix, if I say anything I'm the bad guy. Is this how it is or haven't I found the right one yet?[/QUOTE]Everyone has their needs and if you need more attention then get it from a girl who may respect you more or want your company more.

I am lurking from California, but I was in S. Florida for 4+ years and I had a sugar baby ($100) a "chubby baby" ($50) and a UTR ($100) among some girls I paid nothing to.

Firstly, I recognize that S. Florida is pussy hunter heaven so results in your location will absolutely vary.

But, I would limit the cash to any female for the sexual business; if she isn't impressed by $100 or $150, she's either greedy, doesn't need the money, or spoiled by her daddy.

If you seek a true girlfriend, then maybe it will take longer using Seeking Arrangement; I haven't used it yet since I found the Florida girls "free style" and by introductions (that's the easiest way; a female referral works fast).

If a girl told me she would rather watch Netflix than see me I'd take the hint and block her for a few weeks.

Blocking them seems to have an interesting effect; cute females are used to being smiled at, complimented, etc. ; ghosting her is good for her development.

My sugar baby in S. Florida was hot and 22; she had a figure like a Barbie doll; she could stop traffic. When she gave me an attitude I told her "at night all cats are black". This confused her a little so I said "from behind, girls look remarkably similar. ".

Another good response is make your own life more interesting to you and then you won't miss her little ass so much.

For me texting is to set up the meet; texting to keep in touch with females is OK too but not for chitchat. I'm in California and the girls I screwed in Florida text me from time to time and I reply because I will go back for a visit and want to have somebody to hang out with then.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;4542107]I've seen her, numerous times, she's legit. That's all that I am willing to say about that. She recently got a new set of bolt-ons, well-done.

For her legitimacy (not safe for work), see: [URL]https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph590b75770c32e[/URL].


SA (00 Love2 BSpoiled00): [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e00f0c94-90e0-444f-9cc2-a533bc9b7df0[/URL].

Check the comparison pics (SA and phub).

Every body is not for everybody. ,

Milfman.[/QUOTE]Was talking to her and then saw Milfman's link to he videos. Fuck that, mudskippers are trash.

[QUOTE=Dash;4551125]Everyone has their needs and if you need more attention then get it from a girl who may respect you more or want your company more.

I am lurking from California, but I was in S. Florida for 4+ years and I had a sugar baby ($100) a "chubby baby" ($50) and a UTR ($100) among some girls I paid nothing to.
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But, I would limit the cash to any female for the sexual business; if she isn't impressed by $100 or $150, she's either greedy, doesn't need the money, or spoiled by her daddy.

[/QUOTE]Your South Florida pay formula is ideal, especially with the hotness quotient down there, plus capping the disbursement on sexual business (critical for those who monger several times a week). It still surprises me that dudes are shopping on SkipTheGames or otherwise and forking over roughly 140 for half hour and 220 for full hour in the Knoxville area where it's truly a buyer's market. It shocks me the number of high-mileage and / or high-volume women born in the 1970's who are getting 200 per hour. ,. , for a single hour. ,. , around here (kudos if those women can still get it, but c'mon man). Different strokes for different folks for sure, but you can't beat the bang for the buck of SA (along with the reliable UTR). Playing the long game plays off.

Press pay for play every day. ,.

Milfman.

Been texting with this one and was wondering if anyone has something to share PM is fine.

Thanks and stay safe. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4c9af170-c241-4889-88e1-0e7ff42739ce[/URL].

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d3c79ea3-1a3c-4937-88e9-11f038db990f[/URL]

[QUOTE=Macintn;4553517][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d3c79ea3-1a3c-4937-88e9-11f038db990f[/URL][/QUOTE]She was actually on SA first. Deleted the account and recently posted on stg. She's really skittish about meeting. Check book of faces. Probably has to do with boyfriend.

I messaged her yesterday morning and after many hours of no response, I gave up and moved on to the next girl. After I hook up with the other girl, later that evening around 7 or so she messaged me back saying if I don't see her that night she is getting kicked out of her place and moving back to Ohio. Come on, I'm no idiot but she can play that crying game if she wants. I doubt a. 8 pay for play is going to save your place and prevent you from moving to Ohio.

Dj.

[QUOTE=TNvolguy88;4553746]She was actually on SA first. Deleted the account and recently posted on stg. She's really skittish about meeting. Check book of faces. Probably has to do with boyfriend.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d3c79ea3-1a3c-4937-88e9-11f038db990f[/URL]

Talked to her, quoted me $ for hh. I went to pick her up at the location we agreed upon and crickets. Don't waste your time with this cuntress.

Hey All,

Long time reader on these forums. Recently considered joining SA and am looking for advice / recommendations. How do you typically go about an arrangement like this? Any typical investment amount? Any other recommendations?

Thanks.

I finally became a premium member a few days ago and this one is eager to meet already. Anyone have experience with her? Thanks.

https://www.seeking.com/member/016a6f72-8660-4648-ad65-cb31fe523b90

[QUOTE=Macintn;4556736]I finally became a premium member a few days ago and this one is eager to meet already. Anyone have experience with her? Thanks.

https://www.seeking.com/member/016a6f72-8660-4648-ad65-cb31fe523b90[/QUOTE]I dreamed with her a couple weeks ago.

Hot body. Cute, skills ok.

Unfortunately. Sheblows your phone up. Wanting to get together every other day.

What's the damage and for how much time?

[QUOTE=KnoxWorkingMan;4557346]I dreamed with her a couple weeks ago.

Hot body. Cute, skills ok.

Unfortunately. Sheblows your phone up. Wanting to get together every other day.[/QUOTE]

Just got back on SA and looked for Cheerslut without seeing her. I really, really wanted to see her when I was on before but had a big financial setback. Hope she will get back on, really wanted to see her.