Hot. Real? Her attitude sucked
Seen this hottie pop up. Sent a message responded 140 and hour and a half later. Advised her I was on the other side of town I would be there in a cpl hours and text when I'm ready. She reaponded BLOCKED. Anyone deam of her?
[URL]https://norfolk.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/black_caribbean/wet-freakavailable-nowincalls/921811517111[/URL]
Not Making Accusations. But I Find It Suspicious
My history here may be spotty. But I've been in the hobby off and on for a longtime and I formerly posted on a different board as LobbyistBob before Fosta / Sesta caused me to lose my username / account when that board temporarily left the USA Market. I only mention that because I'm used to doing things a certain way and those methods have kept me safe and I'm sure they will continue to. Those same methods have luckily led to fewer unhappy dreams over the years than I have fingers on one hand. My number one rule is to not see an escort without fairly recent reviews submitted by an established reviewer or board member or at the least one who is vouched by another lady who does.
So, I sent my standard introduction (name, age, race, etc.) and explained that I was fine with screening. I know some of you aren't. But I am and in fact prefer to see ladies who ask for it so let's not start that debate. However, as part of my introduction I very politely asked if I could be directed to reviews someplace.
The lady's reply, "how much time". I answered, "most likely an hour visit". She shot back her ridiculously low donation request. Yes, maybe that should have been a tip off. But I know that sometimes BBW companions undervalue their time so I took it in stride. I accepted that maybe I wasn't clear in my question and explained that I found the donation in the posting. But I was asking if she had reviews someplace.
She then says CashApp (and I'm assuming prepayment) is a requirement. Again, not a problem for me if she has recent reviews that mention she does things that way.
I decide to ask once more about reviews and you guessed it.
No response. Crickets. Silence.
I'm not accusing her of anything. She seems to have an extensive posting history. But I find the request for a CashApp while simultaneously dodging my question about reviews troublesome.
Has anyone seen her?
[URL]https://norfolk.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/latin/pretty-bbwcertified-head-docto/639291580667[/URL]
May not be worth your money
[URL]https://norfolk.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/sweetness/151644967763[/URL]
Took a chance on her as she was close by.
She advertises frequently in the Norfolk section, located near the Little Creak Naval base up North in the shadier part of town. Can't tell from the pictures, but she is actually like 4' 8" or shorter and portly, also looks older in person. She says she's 50, but looks more like 55-60 IMO.
May have some delusional tendencies, wants to be in control of everything and was annoyingly pushy. Before you even get in the bed, you got to have the rubber ON, no exceptions. Very little touching, BJ was subpar, also very rushed session. Was hard to relax and enjoy.
Basically she wants you ready for action now, no sucking on boobs, can't use lubes (although she was dry as hell). I would be hard-pressed to use her services again, unless out of pure desperation with no other options at the immediate moment.
We Can Only Do What's Right For Us
[QUOTE=GAGuy2020;5492619]I can understand verification or references are usually with higher quality girls but. How can you trust a stranger with all your information if she won't ever give you her real first name. LOL!
Knowing tech, you are forever in her email / phone or any 3rd party system she runs your information through. That leaves you open for later blackmail or evidence. Use a burner, don't give info unless you know hers, don't send your pic without hers, and never do deposits.
The customer is in control, sets the market price by not over paying or giving in to bad behavior. If you overpay or allow that behavior you set the standard and everyone suffers. She acts like trash then she needs to be in fear of going broke. Know you're worth kings! LOL![/QUOTE]I absolutely appreciate the advice. But my rebuttal is essentially, how you hobby is what works for you. I'll continue to do what has worked for me in 15 years of seeing companions; from the 200/ hr level up to 500/ hr in about 20 states. Real first name? Seriously? I have never even thought to ask, and I don't use my real number unless it is an absolute requirement of the lady I want to see. But I'm happy to provide references and even a accept a phone call at work. True, I'm a little less OK with work email. But only because I know they're audited where I work and the filters even catch emails from my Mom. LOL. Yet, if it's someone I've decided I really want to meet, and it's a requirement of that desired meeting, I'll allow it from an email with no connection to her escorting and sometimes with a script of my choice.
But I could honestly give a * if she has my LinkedIn (and no, I would never message her there unless she was a bonafide superstar) or she knows who else I met in the last 180 days. I'm not looking to be in control. I'm looking for an experience and a memory and I have no issue meeting a (worthy) lady half way. I know how not to be taken advantage of. That's why she did NOT get a CashApp from me last night.
The bottom line, for me anyway, is deciding how much I want to meet someone and how much I'm willing to share to make that happen on any given day. I'm absolutely not advocating doing anything you're not comfortable with. There is obviously nothing wrong with politely declining. But her asking for enough to make her comfortable isn't wrong either. If there is no meeting of the minds, move on. She will.