[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1537559]Dawn,
Yeah I did see where it said that he likes to play rough, and I will admit the tying up and the spanking turns me on and doesn't bother me BUT, when a safe word is used, and I am begging for you to stop what you are doing, and not only do you not, but you continue to do it harder and laugh and get off on the fact I am crying my eyes out (which I am a very strong person and it takes a lot for me to cry) , then enough is enough. I appreciate you being there for me, and Molly too. He actually contacted another provider last night and thanks to my email alerting them about him, she didn't see him. So I possibly saved someone from another bad experience.
He didn't see Candice, I am aware of that much. He did see Lovli though, and apparently the same things didn't happen. And I saw him before the session later that evening downtown in Cincinnati just to acquaint ourselves so that I wasn't nervous and we were okay with each other. I am disappointed and upset with myself for some of the things that could've been done better, but I guess I was more scared than anything. And thank god he did take me back and not do further harm to me.
That doesn't mean I don't want clients to see me. I love this profession, or else I never would've gotten into it. I enjoy very much what I do, and don't have one bad review, and I think a lot of the members can attest to that. So please don't stop seeing me just because one idiot tried to take something that wasn't his. I will just be more careful next time, and verify more.
Thanks Dawn and Molly again, you guys are the best!
Be Safe,
Ally[/QUOTE]Dear Ally,
We have not met yet. I read your post and the thread and I am shocked and compelled to write. I can't emphasise enough that providers need to do an absolute thorough screening. If anything screening is one thing you guys cannot afford to cut any slack. Unless you are confident and intutive like Dawn who seems to "pick up" things. I understand stringent screening affects hobbysts including me as I am relatively new to the hobby and have only seen a couple of providers. Your experience is scary and I am thankful that you escaped. I also respect your courage to come out and post this publicly for the benefit of everyone. Please take care, lots of good luck to you and be safe.
