[QUOTE=NawtyMarkus]I pretty much never do a private dance unless I've had a couple really good $5 dances so the girl pretty much knows she's going to get inappropriately groped up front! [/QUOTE]
OK I thought I would take some time to expound on this since some people around here obviously took it the wrong way. I wrote this somewhat sarcastically because that's my sense of humor, and also I thought I was hanging out talking to the guys...
What I was getting at - was more of "setting expectations". Which is in the best interest of both the guy and the dancer.
Honestly I don't care about tits, I'm more of a leg and ass guy. So yes - I want to liberally rub the ass, maybe even stroke the inner thigh a little. That's my thing. Some girls are cool with it; some aren't. So if I see a girl I like I do a $5 dance (or a couple), rub more and more in the area a little, if they move my hand or ask me to stop I do, tip politely, and look for a better fit. If the girl is cool with it and we are getting along, sure I'll try a private dance.
What I was just saying - just try to make sure that you and the girl are on the same page before you get a private dance. Otherwise you are going to be unhappy then I'm sure she will when you don't tip.
So - yes I wrote my original comment in a callous fashion, but the intent was good. And despite what some might think I do fairly well in the clubs too, have met some nice girls, and have gotten some good offers myself.
In the future, if something is in question I'd suggest asking about it first or trying to clear it up before jumping to attack mode.
- Markus
