Not Thrilled About the White Knight Whiners
[QUOTE=Twisted36;2766308]I am not sure about what some of these guys are thinking, but I have had 2 reviews I have written on here come back to bite me as some guys are telling these crack head girls that I am being honest about my interactions with them? I report on any new experience with every girl I meet with and every experience that is different than what I have reported on before. I do hate the fact that other guys are ruining this info sharing by telling the girls about this site.[/QUOTE]I have to agree on this whole "snitching" element. I realize a few providers have come onto this board but the majority I have to believe are fellow hobbyists.
I had a very good-turned-scary experience with a provider. It was a first meeting but she'd come well reviewed and I had a fair idea what to expect, but it turned suddenly weird then creepy then scary as hell and I count myself lucky I got away with no losses. I posted an honest--even laughing about it--account that afternoon.
Within a few hours I got a text from the girl upset and apologizing but wanting to know why I was "hurting her living. " I didn't lie: I told her what happened had scared the hell out of me. And that I felt it necessary--for her safety as well as other potential clients--that people know going into it what possible outcomes there could be and be prepared. After all, if someone less rational than me had been there, she could have been seriously hurt or compromised, possibly even arrested.
But I felt guilty about what may have also been seen as a somewhat flippant post. I didn't make up or exaggerate anything, understand, but still I figured what harm had it ultimately done me? So I had the post taken down to try and be fair.
I haven't seen her since, though as I said then I do intend to try another shot and she was very apologetic, wanting to make it up to me. And I allow that she'd had some bad experiences very recently so maybe that had her a little more spooked than she'd let on at first.
All that is fine. But it doesn't change the fact that somebody here apparently went and blabbed about it. And while I would never post anything online that I wasn't willing to say to someone's face, the fact remains that this board is supposed to be about a certain level of discretion and mutual honesty. There's no point in being honest about what happened with a certain provider if someone here goes running and texting them about it right away like some stoolie in an old gangster movie, and then we get to catch hell for it until we block their number or email to get some peace.