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[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6338200]Guys, when they message you with the "miss you" nonsense this is when you have control. I LOVE when I get one of those. It means I will be locked in at a lower rate forever. They are messaging you not because they give a shit about you but because they need money bad. You are in control here. Offer them less than your usual rate. Tell them you want to see them but money is tight. Offer less than usual but say you want the same time and service or it's not worth it. It may take you a few tries to get your wording right. You have to act like you care about them but at the same time you are going to be talking them way down.

This is my bread and butter in this hobby. I have at least half a dozen girls that, at this point, I can message them and the lower rate I got when they dialed me for dollars is now the norm. You can get them real low too if you see them regularly. I get my favorite BJ girl for 40-60/ hr. I can fuck her too if I want but she is best for BJs. I have another girl I can get for 60-100/ hr who is my fucking girl. I usually see them once a week or two. They take these prices because I am money in the bank for them. They count on my money even though it's low. At least it's steady. My BJ girl had vanished for a year. She came back to my area recently. I offered her 100. She jumped on it. The following week I went right down to 60. Next week will be 50. These are not for SS. I get a full hr.

I have others I see less often but never pay more than 100 for an hr. They always take it. They once messaged me dialing for dollars and this is what it is always now.

NEVER rush to see a girl and pay full rate when she dials you for dollars. You can even talk down girls who have never dialed you for dollars. Very few ever say no. A few do but so what. When you are able to get most of the girls who charge 2-350/ hr for 100 or less you are doing things right. Let the other assholes pay 350 for a girl they see often. You aren't going to be one of those guys going forward. You are going to get her cheaper and probably get better service to boot.[/QUOTE]I used to see a provider that would come to me home, stay easy longer than an hour, watch concert vids with me and smoke up together. Then, I noticed she was bouncing earlier and earlier. Then, not even the hour.

I backed off and told her I had tax issues and needed to take time off from the hobby. Then, got texts asking if I was ok, she was so glad I'm in her life and she missed our time together. I wished up and just cut off communication because if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. Haven't heard from her since Sept. Not losing sleep over it. Even though she's freaking beautiful and she was very good at her task.

I'm too old for bs.

[QUOTE=OverKill418;6338365]I used to see a provider that would come to me home, stay easy longer than an hour, watch concert vids with me and smoke up together. Then, I noticed she was bouncing earlier and earlier. Then, not even the hour.

I backed off and told her I had tax issues and needed to take time off from the hobby. Then, got texts asking if I was ok, she was so glad I'm in her life and she missed our time together. I wished up and just cut off communication because if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. Haven't heard from her since Sept. Not losing sleep over it. Even though she's freaking beautiful and she was very good at her task.

I'm too old for bs.[/QUOTE]You nailed it brother.

If they get too comfortable they will try that crap like staying shorter and shorter times. Cut them loose the first time they pull that. Half of them you will never see again but who cares. The other half will come back under YOUR rules and your even LOWER rates.

And you said the best thing that can be said in this hobby. Every monger should burn this into their brains, "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

Let me repeat since what you said sums up this whole hobby and truer words were never said,"if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

This is why you don't fall for these girls. Don't ever think they care about you. At the very best you are a bearable call and they may even somewhat enjoy it and your company. But. "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

I learned this very early in my hobbying days. It made me see this all for what it really is. There is a correct way to present yourself to these girls and a correct way to treat these girls. It means to know when to walk at the first sign of nonsense. Basically you are training them how to act and deal with you. If you saw me on the street I am very average. You would say how is this asshole getting low rates and great service? It's all attitude and making these girls realize they need you more than you need them and doing so without coming off as an asshole. It takes some practice but anyone can do it.

But don't get attached to them ever. Always remember "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6338738]You nailed it brother.

If they get too comfortable they will try that crap like staying shorter and shorter times. Cut them loose the first time they pull that. Half of them you will never see again but who cares. The other half will come back under YOUR rules and your even LOWER rates.

And you said the best thing that can be said in this hobby. Every monger should burn this into their brains, "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

Let me repeat since what you said sums up this whole hobby and truer words were never said,"if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

This is why you don't fall for these girls. Don't ever think they care about you. At the very best you are a bearable call and they may even somewhat enjoy it and your company. But. "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

I learned this very early in my hobbying days. It made me see this all for what it really is. There is a correct way to present yourself to these girls and a correct way to treat these girls. It means to know when to walk at the first sign of nonsense. Basically you are training them how to act and deal with you. If you saw me on the street I am very average. You would say how is this asshole getting low rates and great service? It's all attitude and making these girls realize they need you more than you need them and doing so without coming off as an asshole. It takes some practice but anyone can do it.

But don't get attached to them ever. Always remember "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".[/QUOTE]Thanks,

I learned this the hard way with both providers and SBs. Can't do anything about the past, but she was the lightbulb that went off in my head and it's best service at best price, with those that are my type.

[QUOTE=Lance547;6289212]There is probably more girls in the game then ever before but they're all on Only Fannnns Girls are literally skipping college and going right on OF its that popular.[/QUOTE]How do you find local girls though?

What happened to all the drug addict south jersey girls that were on BP from 2010-2017?

[QUOTE=OverKill418;6339116]Thanks,

I learned this the hard way with both providers and SBs. Can't do anything about the past, but she was the lightbulb that went off in my head and it's best service at best price, with those that are my type.[/QUOTE]You're right. You can't do anything about the past. Don't dwell on it anymore. But use the lessons you have learned going forward. We have all made mistakes in this hobby. The key is not to be that guy who repeats those mistakes over and over again call after call, year after year. You know the score now. You can go out now knowing you aren't going to let any girl play you again. They will sense that attitude and you will get better calls and cheaper too.

[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6339622]You're right. You can't do anything about the past. Don't dwell on it anymore. But use the lessons you have learned going forward. We have all made mistakes in this hobby. The key is not to be that guy who repeats those mistakes over and over again call after call, year after year. You know the score now. You can go out now knowing you aren't going to let any girl play you again. They will sense that attitude and you will get better calls and cheaper too.[/QUOTE]Hear hear.

Truer words have never been spoken.

I feel like an ass for my past mistakes, I am cordial, respectful, and kind. But will never ever confuse the hobby for a real life situation ever again.

[QUOTE=Gentleman007;6291839]I have been talking for a while now about other options besides escorts and SW's. I have a few UTR's who like to go to the dispensaries to buy gummies and such, recently I drove one of them to Bellmawr and I waited in my car, since she has a medical card, she goes in and out quickly. When she came back she was laughing, she told me some guy asked her if she wanted to get together and smoke and have a good time. I don't blame the dude, she is gorgeous, and he thought she was by herself, kudos to him he is hunting in the right places. I have another one who I drive sometimes to Deptford, I have seen potential dates on the store as well, even though I don't smoke weed, one of this days I might go by myself to check that scene out. I will report back.[/QUOTE]So last week I took a run to the shore to take care of a few things.

Stopped at Columbia Care around 1-1:30 It was packed. At least 40 people outside.

Two girls behind me, one must have been PR or a mix, great body. If she was 95 lbs that was a lot.

The other, a chubster in a okay way and look. Both about 5'.

So the are talking about outfits and not being allowed to wear shoes on stage. No I am tuned in and make small talk.

Now inside, they start counting their money, all ones and a few fives. I said "well we know what you two do" they laugh.

I asked where they work and respond Main Event. So then we started talking about that and reopening a few days prior.

There were just too many people around to bring the conversation to the next level. I had No Balls that day.

Man, but the smaller one, I certainly would max out donation wise on a trial in available. Real light skin, hair a slight wave / kink and all pulled up to the top of her head.

Later in the week Main Event is on my list of stops. Out of the way, but certainly going to stop.

Anyone been there since the Reopening?

[QUOTE=JRichard;6343300]So last week I took a run to the shore to take care of a few things.

Stopped at Columbia Care around 1-1:30 It was packed. At least 40 people outside.

Two girls behind me, one must have been PR or a mix, great body. If she was 95 lbs that was a lot.

The other, a chubster in a okay way and look. Both about 5'.

So the are talking about outfits and not being allowed to wear shoes on stage. No I am tuned in and make small talk.

Now inside, they start counting their money, all ones and a few fives. I said "well we know what you two do" they laugh.

I asked where they work and respond Main Event. So then we started talking about that and reopening a few days prior.

There were just too many people around to bring the conversation to the next level. I had No Balls that day.

Man, but the smaller one, I certainly would max out donation wise on a trial in available. Real light skin, hair a slight wave / kink and all pulled up to the top of her head.

Later in the week Main Event is on my list of stops. Out of the way, but certainly going to stop.

Anyone been there since the Reopening?[/QUOTE]I believe you could get lucky if you do a follow up at the Main Event with that girl. I have been at Curaleaf in Bellmawr twice, but no luck so far, I saw only guys at the end of the line, and the girls I saw were farther to the front, so I bailed, second time was the same. I believe I will go back when it gets warm and hopefully I will have better luck.

Hi all,

Been a while. My going out to bars was very fruitful, and I've been spending a lot of time with one I have great chemistry with. Plan to catch up on reviews, but I've been keeping tabs on STG a bit and man. It has somehow gotten even worse out there.

Question for all. Can you list any hotels or motels in lower Burlington county and camden county that offer hourly rates or day stays? Thanks, and be safe.

Is she still around? Or another similar good one?

[QUOTE=CookyJar;4571232]I guess I agree with you...a little. Five pounds wouldn't hurt, but 10 would probably be to much.

It's all a matter of taste, personal preference. Some guys like it to jingle, bounce a little when they hit it. They don't mind a few bumps, ripples and a little cellulite. Not me! Sometimes a fat ass just gets in the way. By the time my dick makes it pass all that cheek, there is not enough left to reach the goal. I like mine firm, fit with a nice shape. I want to be able to watch it tighten and flex when I'm in it deep. Round, firm and fully packed is how I like it.

Check-out, Lauren 007. That's what I'm talking about. Easy access!

IMHO, Lauren has a nice fit spinner body with a pleasant and willing attitude to go with it. Plus, her raspberry size nipples stiffened up and respond with the slightest touch. Whatever she may lack in boobs, she made up with nipples, ass and personality.

That's another preference of mine. I'll take a small chest over big saggy boobs, anytime.

CookyJar.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=Vaneser;6369024]Is she still around? Or another similar good one?

.[/QUOTE]Last time I saw Lauren from the Cooky jar photos was end of 2019. She posted for a bit on STG. Met her at a hotel incall.

Never saw her after that. Another poster claims to have taken her to a rehab.

Who knows. These girls come and go.

Been thinking about and looking into getting one of the the themed hotel rooms at one of the "inn at the dove" places or the feather nest. Wondering if you gents (or ladies) had any info on either of the 3. Reviews seems basic and the websites each place sucks! Was thinking about getting the pool room, a few girls and having one hell of a night. Any info on the hotels or girls that would be down would be very helpful!

[QUOTE=BdTravel42;6369792]Been thinking about and looking into getting one of the the themed hotel rooms at one of the "inn at the dove" places or the feather nest. Wondering if you gents (or ladies) had any info on either of the 3. Reviews seems basic and the websites each place sucks! Was thinking about getting the pool room, a few girls and having one hell of a night. Any info on the hotels or girls that would be down would be very helpful![/QUOTE]I have had great times at the feather nest inn with girlfriends. They used to offer short stays during weekdays, but I think they dropped it.

Imo avoid inn of the dove. A lot of young people hold big wild parties there and violence has popped off at times.

Hey Jersey Devils, a little help for a Philly guy who has lost his home away from home to a fire. The Carlyle has burned out. Literally. Are there any spots near the Ben Franklin or Walt Whitman that do hourly or a few hours at a decent price? I remember a few from years ago but I'm talking 20 years. Any intel is appreciated.

[QUOTE=GreyGrope;6374865]Hey Jersey Devils, a little help for a Philly guy who has lost his home away from home to a fire. The Carlyle has burned out. Literally. Are there any spots near the Ben Franklin or Walt Whitman that do hourly or a few hours at a decent price? I remember a few from years ago but I'm talking 20 years. Any intel is appreciated.[/QUOTE]Budget on black horse pike is the cheapest, maybe $50? And Express on 38 just past the 38/70 split, but it's more at like $75. There are one or two dumps near the Betsy Ross that do hourly (I think) but it's been a long while. One is on 73 right where it goes over 130, on the north side, has some shitty titty bar in the front.