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[QUOTE=PRMan12;7042855]I met her last week! DTF, price was a little high for what you get. Won't repeat as no vibe. I think she is UTR highish volume, tries to downplay.[/QUOTE]You are the most prolific monger here. I now have to question, as I am quite prolific myself. I talk to the exact same girls. Is it realistic that you are closing all the girls that my 6'5 handsome self couldn't?
I am starting to wonder.
[QUOTE=PRMan12;7042855]I met her last week! DTF, price was a little high for what you get. Won't repeat as no vibe. I think she is UTR highish volume, tries to downplay.[/QUOTE]You are the most prolific monger here. I now have to question, as I am quite prolific myself. I talk to the exact same girls. Is it realistic that you are closing all the girls that my 6'5 handsome self couldn't?
I a. Starting to wonder.
[QUOTE=PRMan12;7045263]This is one is coming through DC and just landed. Will meet for $400.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11f5290b-962d-402f-847d-a87f3a4e9b69[/URL]
Have not pulled the trigger and probably won't but pics look good![/QUOTE]Seems like the kinda girls that rotates in for a couple weeks, sets up shop in CP or NOVA and the SA profile is another form of marketing.
Just my $0. 02.
[QUOTE=PRMan12;7045053]Any Intel on this one:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1309fdb9-6019-412a-981d-d81903a5943f[/URL]
Ready to meet right away, ask was high, but negotiated quickly down.
Tia![/QUOTE]Yikes a neck tattoo. That should tell you all you need to know.
[QUOTE=TheCurve;7044062]Time stamp on this quoted post is October 1st. Of this year. How the fuck?[/QUOTE]And it keeps popping up over and over at the top of the thread. It's bizarre LOL.
[QUOTE=PRMan12;7042855]I met her last week! DTF, price was a little high for what you get. Won't repeat as no vibe. I think she is UTR highish volume, tries to downplay.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=VictorSmitham;7009391]Yah man she has hooker written all over her. She said that she has a kid too. Sheesh.[/QUOTE]Once upon a time, not any more.
This one's fake af. Started texting and exchanged pics. Pics didn't match profile pics at all. After an image search the pics she sent were of someone named Valentina Nappi. Some porn star I've never heard of. Don't waste your time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49dda2b9-3fdb-4107-ba75-b81fb19b19e9[/URL]
[URL]https://www.instagram.com/instavalentinanappi?igsh=MWFoY3J4Njd5NGVwMg==[/URL]
[QUOTE=JonFisher;7047187]Once upon a time, not any more.[/QUOTE]I saw her Facebook she looks very raggedy. Looks older than her age probably from stress and life.
Plus the fact she's in the hood area. Pics of her social circle looks like they're from the ghetto.
She's was pretty when she was in her early 20's. After being blasted by all you mongers. - it's a big no.
Meetup with her 2 years ago. She is real. Meetup with her in Rio Lake MD. She insistent for me to put bills down 1st. I agree to only put half the allowance down. She grabbed it and ran off. She had it plan, because saw she had a car waiting outside through the hotel window.
[QUOTE=PRMan12;7045053]Any Intel on this one:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1309fdb9-6019-412a-981d-d81903a5943f[/URL]
Ready to meet right away, ask was high, but negotiated quickly down.
Tia![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6521635]There is a SB that I'm am currently seeing more "on than off" and have for the last 3 years. During this time, she disappeared. No breakup, just silence. Then, out of nowhere, several months later, she texted and wanted to see me. Told me she went back home to the midwest to help her family. Fast forward to several months ago when I ran her face through FaceCheck and her mug shot for child endangerment (assuming they were her own) popped up. Now I realize that she was away either locked up or getting her act together (or something else), but definitely not visiting family.[/QUOTE]I know this young lady had a few of us as SD's. She was in my rotation for a long time as stated above. Last saw her 2 months ago for our usual great time. Left with a hug and a smile with plans to meet up again soon. Then radio silence, no response to my texts, and now her phone number is disconnected. Perhaps one of you made her an exclusive offer? Just hoping that she is OK.
Another fake one as the location is showing as UK.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/28fba801-f2d0-45ce-bec8-357af15e1a0d[/URL]
[QUOTE=SteveStone123;7048101]Another fake one as the location is showing as UK.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/28fba801-f2d0-45ce-bec8-357af15e1a0d[/URL][/QUOTE]I've noticed over the past week or so probably a half dozen profiles that all have that phrase "love circuit" in their profile. Clearly the same person making all these profiles and just recycling the same words, just too lazy to come up with better verbiage.
[QUOTE=Dimples572;7048393]I've noticed over the past week or so probably a half dozen profiles that all have that phrase "love circuit" in their profile. Clearly the same person making all these profiles and just recycling the same words, just too lazy to come up with better verbiage.[/QUOTE]"Love circuit" or LOVE in the title is a particular scam. They tell you that they only date through an exclusive 3rd party site or chat room called LOVE. You have to pay to get in. Once they have your money, they block you.
LOVE scammer:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/28fba801-f2d0-45ce-bec8-357af15e1a0d[/URL]
Who wants to tell her that her friends are lying when they say they aren't fucking their SDs?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/091047bf-070c-4adf-a231-b50ad36af7c5[/URL]
Hannah is back (never met her myself).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8dc92554-f3e4-46cb-82cf-719857300ea2[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb21a862-151c-4e3c-a9cf-5798252039c0[/URL]
Seems real, private pics are attractive, slim, vaguely Eastern European. Wants 5 k / mo or 1200/ meet.
[QUOTE=JonFisher;7047187]Once upon a time, not any more.[/QUOTE]Does anyone have a new link to her profile? Couldn't find anymore.
For those of you who enjoyed her last time.
[QUOTE=NovaNova;6881838]A Few for the board:
Jessica (aka Franchesca).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6cc8c45a-461f-4c13-8a27-1b71956866fe[/URL]
She has been reviewed before with the same profile and different username. Finally got to meet her as she is back in town and picking up the pro or at least semi-pro vibes. Really nice person and her English is good though not perfect. Easy to communicate and setup meeting with. Head game was awesome with DT and sloppy. She really gets into the act. Would repeat at some point. Damage was $400.[/QUOTE]
Have one in rotation; just turned 21; bare all access; tight young body. Amazing in bed, multi pops per session; screams "do whatever you want to me daddy" as I fuck her missionary in the ass while choking her. Loves being filmed as I desecrate her body in so many ways and Ppm is well under $300.
She is batshit crazy tho; has the need to mark me (scratches my back up while I'm nailing her); sucks me off after hitting her anal in an attempt to get me hard again; begs for me to piss in her mouth; etc, etc.
I know I need to ghost her and never look back, but my little head keeps telling me to hit it just one more time.
Fml.
And the other offers, but truly not sure if I am ready to give her up just yet.
Not going to respond to all the individual PMs I received, but didn't want you all to think I was ignoring you. Going to have to empty my inbox again soon. Fml.
[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;7050225]Have one in rotation; just turned 21; bare all access; tight young body. Amazing in bed, multi pops per session; screams "do whatever you want to me daddy" as I fuck her missionary in the ass while choking her. Loves being filmed as I desecrate her body in so many ways and Ppm is well under $300.
She is batshit crazy tho; has the need to mark me (scratches my back up while I'm nailing her); sucks me off after hitting her anal in an attempt to get me hard again; begs for me to piss in her mouth; etc, etc.
I know I need to ghost her and never look back, but my little head keeps telling me to hit it just one more time.
Fml.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Shinshi;7008691]Already been reported on a handful of times (see below). In fact, you were the one asking about her last year. Personally, I reached out twice around that time. But I was left on read in both instances so I gave up.[/QUOTE]Yah man she has hooker written all over her. She said that she has a kid too. Sheesh.
These two profiles have the exact same text, must be cut and paste spammers:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f3ef18cc-6a20-49e9-877f-fae39a12d69d[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/532b6189-268e-451e-bf60-89b01e727d66[/URL]
Fake, this is a porn star whose name I do not know:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1bce0bf4-cb3f-4696-b3f5-c94f8cabb5c2[/URL]
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!
You sure cast that net far and wide. You posted this question in the forums for about 10 different cities. Why? My spidey senses are activated.
[QUOTE=Xcvxxx;7051578]Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Xcvxxx;7051578]Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice![/QUOTE]Generally. It's like dating. The girls in the sugar bowl run the gamut. They don't operate off of a more or less uniform set of standards like escorts do. You got girls who want you to pay them for platonic dates and nothing else. You got girls who double as escorts and want to be paid by the hour or the night. You got girls who want a financially secure relationship that leads to marriage. You got girls that want a boyfriend who'll buy them nice things. You really have to treat each one on a case by case basis and feel them out. Then once you find her.
The best thing to do is to be as anonymous as possible and state your intentions up front. Tell them you're married and intend to stay that way. Be brutally honest and reinforce it if need be. Don't assume that they're OK with married men. Don't assume that they're going to continue to be OK with married men as things progress. The biggest threat to your marriage is a girl who feels like you played her or lead her on. Being honest and upfront about your marriage is the best protection.
And you have to maintain boundaries too. That means letting her live her life outside of whatever arrangement you have with her. If you break the contract by trying to encroach on her life, you invite her in to do the same to you. Do not overstep if you intend to stay married. Do not let jealously wreck things.
To start.
Ai and social media are becoming increasingly smart.
I noticed that snap was suggesting friends that looked familiar. Realized many of the suggestions were girls from seeking. I am guessing the following is occurring:
Once you add enough user ids from girls you meet on seeking; snap is identifying overlaps. So when snap sees that I'm friends with girls X, why, and Z; it is suggesting that I add some of you mongers and girls A, B, and C (which you mongers have added, but I didn't because I ended up being left on read when I messaged the same ladies and never reactivated my account).
Been messaging some of these ladies and will report back if this new technique pays off. Would be a fun way to maximize room usage (eg sugar babies 1 and 2 get scheduled) and then rando from Snap fills time in between.
Footstomp on all of this; but emphasize that OPSEC is key.
Even if you don't encroach, maintain boundaries; and establish clear rules of engagement, you may find yourself on the wrong end of batshit crazy. Like the line from the movie Heat: "never let yourself get attached to anything that you cannot walk out on in 30 seconds if you feel the heat around the corner. ".
Just because you give her space and respect her boundaries, that doesn't mean she will do the same. It's more likely to happen if you do; but not all girls are built the same. Many who are on seeking are mentally unstable.
That said, the difference between the sugar game and escorts is the connection you develop and the "feel" of normal dating. In other words, if the person you found on seeking is asking for cash; sets a time limit for how long you see her; and has strict rules for what happens behind closed doors. You've found an escort who is using seeking as her backpage site.
The allure of the sugar world (at least for me) is when I find a 20 something year old who will let me do anything I want to her; wants to cuddle after I leave a creampie in between her legs, ass and mouth; and sends me naked pics and videos of herself masturbating to try to get my attention when I get busy with work and forget to respond to her text.
This of course leads to problems because that sort of relationship tends to come with more emotional attachments. And so the key is to compartmentalization your life and follow the "heat" rule while most young ladies lack that ability. My past is littered with SBs becoming jealous and obsessed. That's when I have to throw them back. The most recent one that started blowing me up was the one I posted about that many of you mongers were PM'ing me about for more details (not the batshit 21 year old, but the older one that tomfordmodel was asking about who had the stink puss. That one was blowing me up and trying to give the milk for free. Which is a clear sign to me that she wanted something more. Her high volume was also a bad signal).
Good luck navigating this world. It's hotel California for you now. My two cents for whatever it's worth.
[QUOTE=Gourmand56;7051940]Generally. It's like dating. The girls in the sugar bowl run the gamut. They don't operate off of a more or less uniform set of standards like escorts do. You got girls who want you to pay them for platonic dates and nothing else. You got girls who double as escorts and want to be paid by the hour or the night. You got girls who want a financially secure relationship that leads to marriage. You got girls that want a boyfriend who'll buy them nice things. You really have to treat each one on a case by case basis and feel them out. Then once you find her.
The best thing to do is to be as anonymous as possible and state your intentions up front. Tell them you're married and intend to stay that way. Be brutally honest and reinforce it if need be. Don't assume that they're OK with married men. Don't assume that they're going to continue to be OK with married men as things progress. The biggest threat to your marriage is a girl who feels like you played her or lead her on. Being honest and upfront about your marriage is the best protection.
And you have to maintain boundaries too. That means letting her live her life outside of whatever arrangement you have with her. If you break the contract by trying to encroach on her life, you invite her in to do the same to you. Do not overstep if you intend to stay married. Do not let jealously wreck things.
To start.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Xcvxxx;7051578]Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice![/QUOTE]1. Don't use your real name (ever).
2. Don't use your real phone (ever); caller ID.
3. Don't use a joint account (banking).
4. Don't have credit cards send physical mail.
5. Don't share your location with SO (get her an android, or you get one). IPhones share a lot.
6. Lock your devices with Looooong unlock codes.
7. Don't use an email your SO has access to.
Probably more, but that is the basics of OPSEC.
[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;7050225]Have one in rotation; just turned 21; bare all access; tight young body. Amazing in bed, multi pops per session; screams "do whatever you want to me daddy" as I fuck her missionary in the ass while choking her. Loves being filmed as I desecrate her body in so many ways and Ppm is well under $300.
She is batshit crazy tho; has the need to mark me (scratches my back up while I'm nailing her); sucks me off after hitting her anal in an attempt to get me hard again; begs for me to piss in her mouth; etc, etc.
I know I need to ghost her and never look back, but my little head keeps telling me to hit it just one more time.
Fml.[/QUOTE]So tell us how you got PPM under 300 if you don't mind. Maybe this will help me. On a scale of 1-10 in looks, where does she land?
[QUOTE=ChadwickX;7053192]So tell us how you got PPM under 300 if you don't mind. Maybe this will help me. On a scale of 1-10 in looks, where does she land?[/QUOTE]Not the op but there's no method. Sugaring online is like dating online but paying to do it. It's hit or miss. It's chemistry. It's happenstance. You'll be just one girl's type in one case and in another girl's case not so much. You'll catch one when she's feeling hot and adventurous and the next guy will catch her when she's not into it at all. It's a totally different mindset than the girls who escort or give HE's on demand. It's all the hassle of dating, but with a slightly better chance of getting laid.
The exception is you happen to meet a girl who's about to make her way into being an escort or an escort who sugars. And if you do that, it's not probably not going to be 300 PM for everything you hoped for.
The most success I've had sugaring is with girls I met in person. I don't know how old you are, but if you're my age, and a 24 year old flirts with you, she's most likely down for an arrangement.
[QUOTE=ChadwickX;7053192]So tell us how you got PPM under 300 if you don't mind. Maybe this will help me. On a scale of 1-10 in looks, where does she land?[/QUOTE]You ask her PPM, and either counter, or say OK.
Sometimes, they lowball themselves. It has happened.
[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;7053368]You ask her PPM, and either counter, or say OK.
Sometimes, they lowball themselves. It has happened.[/QUOTE]I've had more than a few for 300, average is 500, lowballed a few one and dones for less than 300, but knew.
I would never see again. Bottom line need to negotiate and depending on how hot is how the negotiation goes. I usually start with I have a range, especially for the ones that start at 800 or above. They will come down most of the time.
[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;7051875]You sure cast that net far and wide. You posted this question in the forums for about 10 different cities. Why? My spidey senses are activated.[/QUOTE]Someone else asked her was my answer.
You're right I did post in multiple places. They're not at random. I've actually visited those places before, but the reason why is because there is a wealth of knowledge out there men with real experience. Unfortunately, in my hometown, the game is dying if you look through the sugar baby forum you'll see how bad it is. So if I post it in Myrtle and only Myrtle, I would've never gotten great advice . We're all here for the same reason why settle for one when you can have as many as you'd like.
Why settle for for one post in one area when posting in a few pages will increase my chances of getting real advice.
1. Don't play the numbers game. If a lady insists on a number up front then she isn't in the game for the dating aspect. Focus on the ladies who are looking for a side piece. If there is a discussion about numbers, I tend to focus on broad ranges. The objective is to get to the M&G. This is where deals are closed, in person, after they get to know you. Based on percentages and numbers, I've concluded that if you can get a lady to an M&G and get her to laugh, you are more likely than not going to be able to bang her. The idea here is to make her feel like she would fuck you even if you weren't giving her any ppm / allowance. I focus and set my search filters to "newest" instead of "recently active" because the real profiles who are new are less likely to be bookers using seeking as a backpage site.
2. There are exceptions to general rule 1 above. I break them if the profile is hot or interesting enough and will engage with a numbers discussion before meeting if the lady merits it. GPS vibe before meeting- no thanks. As with above, I will provide a broad range. This will generate questions about what factors I use to determine exact amounts. Again, I give general answers, like can she host, what is she looking for, what she wants our dates to be like, but mainly focus on what our in person chemistry will be like.
3. If during the M&G there is a GPS or hooker vibe. No thanks, I move on. Plenty of fish in the sea and new profiles appear every day. Current rotations need attention. Prior SBs who have had changes in circumstances need attention too. Girls I have thrown back into the pool are often up for a spin when I'm in a pinch. Junior and the checking account can always use a break. If during the M&G the chemistry is good and it's clear she is into me; then more often than not, we won't ever even have an allowance discussion. If we do, and she's worth it, I'll be happy to provide it, but any senior knows that the allowance / PPM amounts are subject to downward change. Once a lady gets comfortable with you, the covers come off and condoms aren't required if you forgot to bring them after the fifth or sixth date and then going forward you don't ever have to. At some point, you may experience a financial difficulty (ie laid off, kid has to go to private school, etc) and so you tell her, "I really want to continue seeing you, but can't afford to." if she enjoys your company then more often than not you'll find her negotiating against herself.
But more often than not, if you focus on not engaging in the numbers discussion up front and show a lady a good time on a date; you'll find that numbers drop considerably. And most importantly, make sure you start working out. Lose the gut, dress nicely, stay well groomed, show her a good time, and don't be a douche.
Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.
[QUOTE=ChadwickX;7053192]So tell us how you got PPM under 300 if you don't mind. Maybe this will help me. On a scale of 1-10 in looks, where does she land?[/QUOTE]
Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.
[QUOTE=RJKing1221;7054109]Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.[/QUOTE]50 and then 60 hit you in the face. Particularly 60. LOL.
[QUOTE=RJKing1221;7054109]Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.[/QUOTE]Work on loosing your fat gut. Most of us don't want to bang a fat girl and most of these girls don't want to bang a fat dude unless they are compensated more. The hottest girls spend a lot of time in the gym so if you are overweight, she knows right off the bat that that you and her do not have that in common. I was about 30 lbs over weight. I made minor changes to my diet while begining moderate excercise and have been able to shed a little over 20 lbs. In a few months. Not only does this help with your sugar relationships, you will also feel better about yourself.
Also agree on treating them appropriately while not being a simp. A small gift after a few dates that shows you have actually listened to what she is interested in goes a long way.
Yep. Appropriate is the key. If you're a douche, you're paying more. If you're a simp, you're paying more and you're not getting fcked.
Key here is Goldilocks. You need just the right mix of treating them right without being a douche or a simp. You're not trying to get her to marry you, you're trying to be the guy she calls when the dude who takes her out on a date expects her to pay; and the guy who paid for dinner at the Michelin star rated restaurant expects her to take it up the ass raw after the first date.
Play your cards right she'll be taking it up the ass raw and then sucking her shit off your junk.
Having a good rotation helps moderate how eager you are. It’s like planting seeds. Once you have a nice crop that is growing plenty of fruit, you can pick and choose which tree to harvest.
[QUOTE=NovaNova;7054518]Work on loosing your fat gut. Most of us don't want to bang a fat girl and most of these girls don't want to bang a fat dude unless they are compensated more. The hottest girls spend a lot of time in the gym so if you are overweight, she knows right off the bat that that you and her do not have that in common. I was about 30 lbs over weight. I made minor changes to my diet while begining moderate excercise and have been able to shed a little over 20 lbs. In a few months. Not only does this help with your sugar relationships, you will also feel better about yourself.
Also agree on treating them appropriately while not being a simp. A small gift after a few dates that shows you have actually listened to what she is interested in goes a long way.[/QUOTE]
Completely understand what this man is saying. I feel seen. Getting older means losing muscle. But oddly, exercising to get pussy means we will live longer.
[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;7054303]50 and then 60 hit you in the face. Particularly 60. LOL.[/QUOTE]
Very good advice from the gentleman: just a few thoughts, I was very into the SB lifestyle with many different hot girls, I enjoy peak of seeking arrangements and have a few amazing stories to share, but warning was I met a few crazy girls that black mailed me for money all the time. I had 3 sb get pregnant and had to pay for abortions, but they might have been scamming me too. Going raw is addicting and makes you only want it more. I had a few SB I couldn't get rid of. After a very turbulent time period I gave up on sb and only deal with AMPs or a few apartments. Good luck.
[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;7053014]1. Don't use your real name (ever).
2. Don't use your real phone (ever); caller ID.
3. Don't use a joint account (banking).
4. Don't have credit cards send physical mail.
5. Don't share your location with SO (get her an android, or you get one). IPhones share a lot.
6. Lock your devices with Looooong unlock codes.
7. Don't use an email your SO has access to.
Probably more, but that is the basics of OPSEC.[/QUOTE]
Brother X, I owe you an apology for doubting your motives. Your explanation makes perfect sense.
I must admit, I've enjoyed reading the updated, collective wisdom of the other brothers responding to your inquiry. The replies here in NOVA and those on the LA and Atlanta Boards were very informative. I say updated wisdom because when I first started in the game a few years ago, I started from the first post on Richmond SB thread and read forward. While many of the OGs have moved on (and many remain), reading about their exploits, tips and tricks was truly enlightening. The brothers who responded to your inquiry provide an updated, concise "best practices" of how to navigate the bowl. Heed that advice.
[QUOTE=Xcvxxx;7053880]Someone else asked her was my answer.
You're right I did post in multiple places. They're not at random. I've actually visited those places before, but the reason why is because there is a wealth of knowledge out there men with real experience. Unfortunately, in my hometown, the game is dying if you look through the sugar baby forum you'll see how bad it is. So if I post it in Myrtle and only Myrtle, I would've never gotten great advice . We're all here for the same reason why settle for one when you can have as many as you'd like.
Why settle for for one post in one area when posting in a few pages will increase my chances of getting real advice.[/QUOTE]
Bucknaked's opsec post is a good one.
Opsec is key. When the crazy one tells you that the baby is yours, walk out the door without looking back. You can't do that without good opsec.
Been in the game for a long time now. Never paid for an abortion, but been accused of making babies that I know are not mine. Ladies be posting pics of babies that could not have come from my seed, because the skin tones are all wrong. Might have had to pay out had opsec not been top notch.
[QUOTE=JimRob;7054565]Very good advice from the gentleman: just a few thoughts, I was very into the SB lifestyle with many different hot girls, I enjoy peak of seeking arrangements and have a few amazing stories to share, but warning was I met a few crazy girls that black mailed me for money all the time. I had 3 sb get pregnant and had to pay for abortions, but they might have been scamming me too. Going raw is addicting and makes you only want it more. I had a few SB I couldn't get rid of. After a very turbulent time period I gave up on sb and only deal with AMPs or a few apartments. Good luck.[/QUOTE]