NoVA SugarBabies

[QUOTE=NovaNova;7017808]What are you referring to when you say "matching with"? As far as I have ever seen, you pick the search filters and SA just shows you profiles that match those filters. The results of your filters are displayed in the order you chose (ie: newest, distance, or recent activity). A girl searching does the same and you cannot hide your profile from showing up for any one particular group. If you could do that, I would hide my profile from anyone outside of my search area so I would stop getting messages and favorites by all the scammers. There is no filter for how hot the girl is and SA is not sending out a list of your "matches" as Buck mentioned.[/QUOTE]Matching with meaning those I've connected with, either via conversation or both of us favorited one another. You know on the home button, you get a feed of a bunch of girls? When I sign up for one month, I usually get girls within DC or NoVA. Now, after signing up for 90 days, I'm getting girls from all over the country and they are nowhere near my type. They are all older, not the body type I like, or have septum rings. It's like Seeking is fucking with me 😂.

[QUOTE=VictorSmitham;7018053]Matching with meaning those I've connected with, either via conversation or both of us favorited one another. You know on the home button, you get a feed of a bunch of girls? When I sign up for one month, I usually get girls within DC or NoVA. Now, after signing up for 90 days, I'm getting girls from all over the country and they are nowhere near my type. They are all older, not the body type I like, or have septum rings. It's like Seeking is fucking with me 😂.[/QUOTE]Oh, yeah that home page selection has been fucked for probably close to a year now. It used to show you local women, now it's totally random. If that's what you're using as your main reference point to try to find women you're doing it wrong. You need the use the search function and filter it down to the type of women you're looking for.

Does it bug you when you see your current rotation online (SA). I usually hide them so I don't know, but a few I have not.

My regular rotation is several deep (3-4) and another 3-4 as needed.

None are exclusive, but wondering what you guys do. I imagine some our rotations have a bit of crossover, but I never ask.

All of my SBs know about each other, and most have met each other (I am pretty open).

[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;7018268]Does it bug you when you see your current rotation online (SA). I usually hide them so I don't know, but a few I have not.

My regular rotation is several deep (3-4) and another 3-4 as needed.

None are exclusive, but wondering what you guys do. I imagine some our rotations have a bit of crossover, but I never ask.

All of my SBs know about each other, and most have met each other (I am pretty open).[/QUOTE]I think it bugs everyone so I just try not to think about it. You are not exclusive and most of these girls are not either. Once a girl enters the bowl and sees that it is easy money for them for very little effort naturally she is going to build a rotation to pay most of her bills so her regular job income can be used for other things like paying student loan, travel, or generally living beyond her means if she was not in the bowl. How many of these girls have you met that are shopping at Whole Foods, eating at restaurants multiple times per week with their friends, and over seas travel every year in their early twenties. Not sure about the rest of you but fresh out of college early 20 something me was working my ass off to pay my expenses, build up my investments, saving for a house, and nothing left over for luxury items that these girls enjoy. If I could have invested a few hours and earned an extra grand or more per week when I was that age you bet I would have, but unfortunatly I do not think there are that many sugar momas.

Now if she is on there every day for weeks on end, I would look at that as becoming a pro and probably rethink the arrangement.

True we can hide our profiles from from all girls. We can se do settings to make they can't see your profile if you see theirs. They can Only if you look at wishlist. thats what i do and have observed.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7017850]Not completely correct. You can hide your profile from search, from *all* girls. They can only see your profile if you go to theirs.[/QUOTE]

CarloRogue, your inbox is full.

[QUOTE=BugsyInnc;7010477]Did you meet her? Damage?[/QUOTE]She told me 500 but was adamant about the gift cards instead of cash as well. Seemed like a red flag. But then she is open to me giving the gift cards in person when we meet. So not exactly sure how this would be a scam. Anyone have any experience with her?

[QUOTE=Prince85;7021690]She told me 500 but was adamant about the gift cards instead of cash as well. Seemed like a red flag. But then she is open to me giving the gift cards in person when we meet. So not exactly sure how this would be a scam. Anyone have any experience with her?[/QUOTE]Maybe is US for short time.

[QUOTE=Prince85;7021690]She told me 500 but was adamant about the gift cards instead of cash as well. Seemed like a red flag. But then she is open to me giving the gift cards in person when we meet. So not exactly sure how this would be a scam. Anyone have any experience with her?[/QUOTE]Dude see my post about her 14148. Scammer.

[QUOTE=BugsyInnc;7011115]Yup, as a public service I played along. She insisted on gift cards from uber eats or steam and asked me to confirm when I had them in hand. At lunch I told her I did (of course I didn't really). She then directed me to this website: [URL]https://form.jotform.com/241844414257356[/URL].

That site is a seeing arrangement reservation site and had a place to enter in gift card numbers. Sophisticated scam. I suspect they are getting plenty of simps to upload gift card numbers.

Not from me.

Called her out and reported her (not that it matters). Scammers are getting fancy.[/QUOTE]That site is not part of Seeking. They stole the image to make it look like it. But this is someone's private piggy bank.

[QUOTE=Prince85;7021690]But then she is open to me giving the gift cards in person when we meet. So not exactly sure how this would be a scam. [/QUOTE]Dunno her in particular. Hundreds of profiles all over sites the girls will SAY "gift card in person only", then before they'll show they say they need a picture of the card to verify you bought it and verify the amount. Then they'll say "scratch the back but only give me 2 (or 3) of the 4 digit pin", promising they can't redeem the card without all 4. Well, give up 3 and it takes at worst 10 tries to get the 4th. Give up 2, at most 100. An automated card redemption program can run through 100 tries in what, less than a minute or two.

Actually buy the card if you don't mind having and using the card for yourself, and if she'll accept a photo of the card with Only what's visible as purchased, sure, go for it. But never ever reveal any of what is only visible once the card is opened / scratched / pealed.

Lou.

Had a m&g set up with Misiyah. She never showed up, despite confirming earlier in the morning we were a "go". 2 hours after the meet up time, she tells me she needs transportation. SMH. Avoid.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1e6291bf-bc29-4bd6-9e56-ee3d66f39b8b[/URL]

It used to bother me greatly when I was new to the bowl, but at that time, I didn't understand the dynamics at play. I got into this game to fuck pussy significantly younger than me. Such behavior is generally frowned upon from a married man, but a dead bedroom of many years will do that to a guy. Now, I couldn't care less if one of SBs is constantly looking, because I've.

1. Learned to compartmentalize my sugar life from my real life, and.

2. I never catch feelings for an SB (I. E. A sex worker).

When I started in the bowl, I read the Richmond Sugar Baby Forum from the beginning. Lots of very valuable insights. A couple of insights I share with you and others who may find value in these words:

Insight #1 – (Based on a Oct 27,2016 post from user Cephlapod).

Compartmentalize your sugar life from your real life. The SB relationship is about sex and all I care about a SB is anything that affects her ability to show up, get naked and give me the time of my life.

Insight # - (Verbatim from user Enzo Amore on his post dated Oct 26,2016).

All (98% or more) SA girls in some degree:

1. Lie.

2. Change their minds every 5 minutes or less.

3. Date, have sex, etc. More than one guy.

4. Have some form of mental disorder / problems.

5. Knows they deserve free money because they are special.

6. Thinks that SA is just a platonic site.

These girls are believe some or all of 1-6. Once your mind understands this, you can play the game and not have the game play you.

[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;7018268]Does it bug you when you see your current rotation online (SA). I usually hide them so I don't know, but a few I have not.

My regular rotation is several deep (3-4) and another 3-4 as needed.

None are exclusive, but wondering what you guys do. I imagine some our rotations have a bit of crossover, but I never ask.

All of my SBs know about each other, and most have met each other (I am pretty open).[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TomFordModel;6952582][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1bd159e-a981-4e7c-8bd4-a672169c53db[/URL]

Any info on this one.[/QUOTE]Not sure why this one is generating so much interest again. Like her profile says, she wants a boyfriend. Word on the street is that a few mongers are playing the game with her and hitting it for free. She doesn't even need to be wined and dined. Also understand that she has one or two simps that are overpaying though if those guys want to be taken advantage of, more power to them.

If you send me a PM or text asking me about her, I'm going to refer you back to this forum. She says she needs to develop trust but the panties drop of the first date. She isn't tomfordmodel skinny; but definitely not a whale. If you like them soft, she is worth a spin at least one time. Make sure you jimmy up though.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0bfc20a8-7057-4cb0-b89e-fa667579e20a[/URL]

Has been reviewed before. Very eager to meet right away. Asked for 6 and said the lowest she would go was 5. Decided to trust the forum and pass.

Just wanted to add the recent report. Photos are nice but not at that price point.

[QUOTE=MrPete;7024677][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0bfc20a8-7057-4cb0-b89e-fa667579e20a[/URL]

Has been reviewed before. Very eager to meet right away. Asked for 6 and said the lowest she would go was 5. Decided to trust the forum and pass.

Just wanted to add the recent report. Photos are nice but not at that price point.[/QUOTE]You made the right decision. Those are old pics. She's a nice person, but not sexy at all.

[QUOTE=DickLongwood;7024802]You made the right decision. Those are old pics. She's a nice person, but not sexy at all.[/QUOTE]Text her that.

She's been in the game for a while. Old timers remember. Can't link to the old post, but that line drove her apeshit.

[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;7024857]Text her that.

She's been in the game for a while. Old timers remember. Can't link to the old post, but that line drove her apeshit.[/QUOTE]While this is hysterical- I'm not going to do it. What a line! 🚗 Kudos to who came up with that.

[QUOTE=MrPete;7025126]While this is hysterical- I'm not going to do it. What a line! 🚗 Kudos to who came up with that.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;7024857]Text her that.

She's been in the game for a while. Old timers remember. Can't link to the old post, but that line drove her apeshit.[/QUOTE]How many miles on that old Accord LOL.

[QUOTE=NovaNova;7025470]How many miles on that old Accord LOL.[/QUOTE]My first dip into the NoVA / DC pool was in 2018 and she was on the short list. Never met her.

[QUOTE=JonFisher;7017761]Has anyone met this girl recently? - last few weeks in August?[/QUOTE]I have a date scheduled for later this week, any info?

[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;7010260]Just curious if anyone has "penetrated" Ray. From her profile, she claims she's looking for something non-sexual. So guys are supposed to pay her for just hanging out? I don't get it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3b775335-ae46-4b0b-8b2a-657638c76f36[/URL][/QUOTE]Wants 500 for a coffee-lunch-drinks-dinner date that's no more than an hour. Hard pass!

[QUOTE=WorkYard;7025909]Wants 500 for a coffee-lunch-drinks-dinner date that's no more than an hour. Hard pass![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;7010260]Just curious if anyone has "penetrated" Ray. From her profile, she claims she's looking for something non-sexual. So guys are supposed to pay her for just hanging out? I don't get it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3b775335-ae46-4b0b-8b2a-657638c76f36[/URL][/QUOTE]The SB Reddit forum has a lot of chatter about some of these girls getting crazy money for platonic dates. There are actually a few guys on there that talk about giving an allowance for platonic dates so it is a thing for some reason.

[QUOTE=WorkYard;7025909]Wants 500 for a coffee-lunch-drinks-dinner date that's no more than an hour. Hard pass![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NovaNova;7026090]The SB Reddit forum has a lot of chatter about some of these girls getting crazy money for platonic dates. There are actually a few guys on there that talk about giving an allowance for platonic dates so it is a thing for some reason.[/QUOTE]That's fucking outrageous! I chatted with her but never got around to a monetary discussion. From her Seeking profile and our texts, she seems entitled AF.

I didn't meet either of these two -.

Alicia - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/07ae15c7-e441-4ba6-8250-faf1fd5707a5[/URL].

Wants to move immediately to Telegram. May be real, who knows. I don't use Telegram.

Eva - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af4ab93d-1190-4d98-a8a2-f34bae48fa2b[/URL].

Texted with her. Seems real and DTF, Wanted $600. Better options out there IMHO.

Please report if someone TOFTT on these two.

Fake pictures stolen from Instagram. You would think this scammer would have at least used pictures where the chick is not wearing the same outfit.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/327dcf5d-8c88-4775-93d5-52154af4464a[/URL]

[URL]https://www.instagram.com/laurent_valensia/[/URL]

Scheduled two, but facecheck had me reconsider both.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce64f967-9af2-4ab8-962a-626ebbf986a9[/URL]

Aka Sammi Summers (porn star). Was ok initially, but covered, so no.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8819e40d-f0eb-4b08-b08c-cde46d8b06e0[/URL]

Found on Ondate and not feeling it either.

Get yourself a face checker.

[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;7026487]Scheduled two, but facecheck had me reconsider both.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce64f967-9af2-4ab8-962a-626ebbf986a9[/URL]

Aka Sammi Summers (porn star). Was ok initially, but covered, so no.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8819e40d-f0eb-4b08-b08c-cde46d8b06e0[/URL]

Found on Ondate and not feeling it either.

Get yourself a face checker.[/QUOTE]Agree on the facecheck. Currently using Primeye but it fucking sucks and do not reccomend. Half the time Primeye produces no results but google image search does and its free. Anyone had any luck with other apps? My earlier post today on the fake pics, Primeye produced nothing, google image search brougt me straight to the real person's instagram.

Selling content. If its the same girl she's leaving out a pertinent detail.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd783393-2415-497e-86c9-331dfd5adc86[/URL]

[URL]https://www.instagram.com/kayhoneyy/[/URL]

[QUOTE=SRH59;7026739]Selling content. If its the same girl she's leaving out a pertinent detail.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd783393-2415-497e-86c9-331dfd5adc86[/URL]

[URL]https://www.instagram.com/kayhoneyy/[/URL][/QUOTE]That's messed up leaving that info out LOL. And yes that's definitely the same gal.

[QUOTE=NovaNova;7026498]Agree on the facecheck. Currently using Primeye but it fucking sucks and do not reccomend. Half the time Primeye produces no results but google image search does and its free. Anyone had any luck with other apps? My earlier post today on the fake pics, Primeye produced nothing, google image search brougt me straight to the real person's instagram.[/QUOTE]Same! Pimeyes used to be great when I first started using a year or so ago. Now it barely returns any results. I feel like at the very least if no results are given that shouldn't take away from your daily searches.

[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;7026973]Same! Pimeyes used to be great when I first started using a year or so ago. Now it barely returns any results. I feel like at the very least if no results are given that shouldn't take away from your daily searches.[/QUOTE]Yandex, similar ops to google, but Russian based. Used this, google and pims in the past. Let Pims go, seems the social media outlets are making it harder to find the pics / more restrictive or the scammers figured out how to get access to a few private accounts. Anyway, good luck searching!

I hope this saves someone some time.

Violet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1dd7575d-0f7a-4736-bb41-fbe22f88bda3[/URL]

Asked for my number to text and then ghosted.

Valentina (Roselina).

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0af65b0-6681-4794-8a16-62caa84b3193[/URL]

Actually a scammer from Russia.

Coco and Claire.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/36147c13-5a03-4162-acb2-aeebcd958305[/URL]

Duo offering meetups for $2 K for "a few hours. "* Definite hotties and UTR pros. * They travel to DC about once a month.

Ella.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/374bbfd7-a140-4ae3-b91c-b0471a15723a[/URL]

Asked for my number to text and then ghosted.

Sophia100 x.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/960ad873-cc61-4070-87f5-17551436944f[/URL]

She has been discussed several times before. * 500 ppm MSOG.

Layal.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4a85a636-a2fe-4a10-a1d2-d8d633618c2b[/URL]

Looking for platonic only.

CaringMiss.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/627663c3-350a-4ecd-8875-86f2cb86c88c[/URL]

Chatted, came to terms on allowance, and then ghosted.

Ava.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cc82f1b4-ef04-4500-b35c-b721d8b68615[/URL]

Asked for my number to text and then ghosted.

Babybelle.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb21a862-151c-4e3c-a9cf-5798252039c0[/URL]

DTF for 1100 ppm. * I did not partake.

[QUOTE=Tyrex2;7030365]Yandex, similar ops to google, but Russian based. Used this, google and pims in the past. Let Pims go, seems the social media outlets are making it harder to find the pics / more restrictive or the scammers figured out how to get access to a few private accounts. Anyway, good luck searching![/QUOTE]For years I've been using this Image search app (for apple users). You upload the image and within the app it'll give you 4-5 different sources for you to check out the search results. First one is Google, second is Bing, third is Yandex and the last is TinEye. To this day I've never gotten a hit with Bing or TinEye but have hundreds of times with the Google and Yandex results. Super simple to use and it's free.

[URL]https://apps.apple.com/us/app/reverse-image-search-app/id1003144513[/URL]

[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;7026973]Same! Pimeyes used to be great when I first started using a year or so ago. Now it barely returns any results. I feel like at the very least if no results are given that shouldn't take away from your daily searches.[/QUOTE]As we always say here, YMMV. I just yesterday paid for Pimeyes. That was something that took me a while to figure out. I used a prepaid debit card issued by Blackhawk. The first payment page did not work, but they have an alternative that did.

I am getting hits on a lot of the pix I am putting through it. For a lot of them, they are photos on porn sites, or dating sites, therefore, they aren't really of the actual SB. That is good info.

Here is a weird one. One of the searches hit on a camgirl named Bella Babson. Amazingly, that was the profile name of the SB I was searching. So, I mean, the obvious, I told her (I wouldn't expect a camgirl to actually be on seeking, they would likely get kicked off anyway). She sort of freaked out. I had spoken w / her, I thought we got along well and she seemed reasonable, claimed to have a regular career, so IDK really what is going on.

[QUOTE=AdcFellow;7030574]I hope this saves someone some time.

Violet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1dd7575d-0f7a-4736-bb41-fbe22f88bda3[/URL]

Asked for my number to text and then ghosted.

Valentina (Roselina).

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0af65b0-6681-4794-8a16-62caa84b3193[/URL]

Actually a scammer from Russia.

Coco and Claire.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/36147c13-5a03-4162-acb2-aeebcd958305[/URL]

Duo offering meetups for $2 K for "a few hours. "* Definite hotties and UTR pros. * They travel to DC about once a month.

Ella.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/374bbfd7-a140-4ae3-b91c-b0471a15723a[/URL]

Asked for my number to text and then ghosted.

Sophia100 x.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/960ad873-cc61-4070-87f5-17551436944f[/URL]

She has been discussed several times before. * 500 ppm MSOG.

Layal.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4a85a636-a2fe-4a10-a1d2-d8d633618c2b[/URL]

Looking for platonic only.

CaringMiss.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/627663c3-350a-4ecd-8875-86f2cb86c88c[/URL]

Chatted, came to terms on allowance, and then ghosted.

Ava.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cc82f1b4-ef04-4500-b35c-b721d8b68615[/URL]

Asked for my number to text and then ghosted.

Babybelle.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb21a862-151c-4e3c-a9cf-5798252039c0[/URL]

DTF for 1100 ppm. * I did not partake.[/QUOTE]I've noticed a lot of the really good on site communication and then ghosting once phone number exchanged. Maybe some new scam for guys that actually give a real number. Anyone else experience an uptick in this?

Same deal, but she did respond. In LA "visiting parents". Back in October, wants to chat now. 99.9% scammer, but will play along for a couple of notes.

[QUOTE=AdcFellow;7030574]I hope this saves someone some time.

Violet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1dd7575d-0f7a-4736-bb41-fbe22f88bda3[/URL]

Asked for my number to text and then ghosted.

Valentina (Roselina).

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c0af65b0-6681-4794-8a16-62caa84b3193[/URL]

Actually a scammer from Russia.

Coco and Claire.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/36147c13-5a03-4162-acb2-aeebcd958305[/URL]

Duo offering meetups for $2 K for "a few hours. "* Definite hotties and UTR pros. * They travel to DC about once a month.

Ella.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/374bbfd7-a140-4ae3-b91c-b0471a15723a[/URL]

Asked for my number to text and then ghosted.

Sophia100 x.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/960ad873-cc61-4070-87f5-17551436944f[/URL]

She has been discussed several times before. * 500 ppm MSOG.

Layal.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4a85a636-a2fe-4a10-a1d2-d8d633618c2b[/URL]

Looking for platonic only.

CaringMiss.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/627663c3-350a-4ecd-8875-86f2cb86c88c[/URL]

Chatted, came to terms on allowance, and then ghosted.

Ava.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cc82f1b4-ef04-4500-b35c-b721d8b68615[/URL]

Asked for my number to text and then ghosted.

Babybelle.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb21a862-151c-4e3c-a9cf-5798252039c0[/URL]

DTF for 1100 ppm. * I did not partake.[/QUOTE]

Three missed M&G last week. Two ghosted. One responded with an excuse, and then ghosted.

One M&G from Reddit. Legit, but nothing will come of it 90%.

Love to see a positive post. LOL.

[QUOTE=NovaNova;7032154]I've noticed a lot of the really good on site communication and then ghosting once phone number exchanged. Maybe some new scam for guys that actually give a real number. Anyone else experience an uptick in this?[/QUOTE]

Here are a few chicks that I talked with:

Queenofyourdream.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c8712d35-e3bc-4886-9f0f-5f8274411b08[/URL]

Wanted to discuss everything on SA, want 1200 per meet. That's a no way for me.

Lucaso.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4a443399-c6a4-4c13-964e-ae014e3fbde9[/URL]

I messaged her on SA but no response.

Queenmaker.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9bfdf608-34d9-4a60-9523-f4b159ee014f[/URL]

Wanted payment upfront before meeting. Sounds like a scam to me. Now here location shows Hawaii.

Alex.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/72b62030-8d50-420e-8be8-453b02cb8b42[/URL]

Never responded to my messages on SA.

Bossy.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/165f070e-28c6-4a7d-8972-78cbd2c794b7[/URL]

She seems to have been around for a while. I got semi-pro vibes. She offered digits quickly, I didn't pull the trigger.

Any info on any of these?

Musiclover.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/59f27a76-22a8-46d4-8b71-faddabf44471[/URL]

Luna.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0dabb66f-e03f-4ed2-a3d1-6c3dc81fd019[/URL]

Lacy.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0819ac0e-8add-4258-9818-2b62d9ccd5c4[/URL]

Amanda.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/79ee09c4-769d-4fcd-8bcb-1bc50e6e9c8d[/URL]

Yourpincess.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d2814da2-f14c-4e5c-bfac-1a94bd8ee7da[/URL]