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[QUOTE=LukeWarmWater3;6195358]I got wise to her games. For a while it was good. Then like I said it started to get boring. Like my ex wife! She decided to move out of state I helped her pack![/QUOTE]I hope you got a freebie or a deep discount for helping her pack. Did you at least kick her in the ass as she went out the door when you said goodbye?

You know the deal. No matter how tight you get with a provider where you are paying almost nothing to see them you know they could care less about you and are always trying to get something off you.

[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6195371]I hope you got a freebie or a deep discount for helping her pack. Did you at least kick her in the ass as she went out the door when you said goodbye?

You know the deal. No matter how tight you get with a provider where you are paying almost nothing to see them you know they could care less about you and are always trying to get something off you.[/QUOTE]I didn't really care by then. The big thing to be learned from this is always remember to keep hands on the wheel and always stay firmly in your lane. The 3 FS apply find them fuck 'them forget them.

Many of these have been mentioned before by myself and / or others. Way too many mongers have delusions about these girls. I don't know if that's due to ignorance or just wishing things were the way they wish they were to enhance their own experience. Anyway, I will list some truths that some will not like. That doesn't matter. This is what it is.

1) These girls Do NOT care about you.

They care about your money and what you can do for them. They do not give a shit about you. Let me repeat that. They do NOT give a shit about you. If you are under any impression that they actually care about you I have a bridge in Brooklyn to sell you. You may have a good working relationship with a provider. She has a comfort level with you because you are a regular and you are not a nutcase. You may have worked out a nice low rate for yourself. She may act cool with you. But that isn't because she cares about you. It is because she is comfortable with you as you are an easy stress free call. Do not confuse her being comfortable with you to her caring about you. She does not care about you. She will never lend you money. She will not give you a freebie. She will not go to your funeral when you die. She sees you as a source of money and whatever else she can get from you. Make sure it's only money and at the lowest rate possible.

2) These girls are all addicts.

Some mongers like to think the girls they see are not addicts. You see a lot of "no signs of use" in reviews. That is a helpful point in a review. But it only means they are smart about hiding it and / or aren't totally ruled by it yet. These girls are having sex with you for money to support their habit. They are not doing it for extra money to pay bills or pay off student loans. They pull in more money a week than you do and you see they live like shit. They aren't banking that money away for retirement. It is being spent that same day on drugs.

3) She only does BBFS with me.

No, she does BBFS with many guys. She may tell you it's only you or you and one other guy. She is lying. It's with many guys. It may not be with every guy but it is with quite a bit. So don't think you are that special. Somebody probably hit her raw right before and after you that same day.

4) She is trying to get her life together.

No. She is very happy the way she is. She just wants you to think that so you feel bad for her and give her extra money and do things for her. She does not want the life you have. She would hate that. She wants the one she has. She may leave the state but she is picking up her same life elsewhere. She may "retire". That just means she either has a large group of favorite regulars to see or she hooked up with a dumb lonely rich guy. Nothing else about her has changed. When she says she is trying to get her life together she only means she wishes she wouldn't have to see so many different guys fucking her in the ass every day.

5) She is Independent.

There are some girls who are totally independent but it is much lower than you think. Most girls have a pimp, a handler or a boyfriend who is very aware of what they are doing and are involved in some way. It is not likely that your favorite you just saw goes back to her apartment where she lives by herself and has no man involved or living off of what she does. While we seem to feel better thinking the girl we just saw is a true independent the reality just doesn't back that up.

I agree it's 100% true

[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6195430]Many of these have been mentioned before by myself and / or others. Way too many mongers have delusions about these girls. I don't know if that's due to ignorance or just wishing things were the way they wish they were to enhance their own experience. Anyway, I will list some truths that some will not like. That doesn't matter. This is what it is.

1) These girls Do NOT care about you.

They care about your money and what you can do for them. They do not give a shit about you. Let me repeat that. They do NOT give a shit about you. If you are under any impression that they actually care about you I have a bridge in Brooklyn to sell you. You may have a good working relationship with a provider. She has a comfort level with you because you are a regular and you are not a nutcase. You may have worked out a nice low rate for yourself. She may act cool with you. But that isn't because she cares about you. It is because she is comfortable with you as you are an easy stress free call. Do not confuse her being comfortable with you to her caring about you. She does not care about you. She will never lend you money. She will not give you a freebie. She will not go to your funeral when you die. She sees you as a source of money and whatever else she can get from you. Make sure it's only money and at the lowest rate possible.

2) These girls are all addicts.

Some mongers like to think the girls they see are not addicts. You see a lot of "no signs of use" in reviews. That is a helpful point in a review. But it only means they are smart about hiding it and / or aren't totally ruled by it yet. These girls are having sex with you for money to support their habit. They are not doing it for extra money to pay bills or pay off student loans. They pull in more money a week than you do and you see they live like shit. They aren't banking that money away for retirement. It is being spent that same day on drugs.

3) She only does BBFS with me.

No, she does BBFS with many guys. She may tell you it's only you or you and one other guy. She is lying. It's with many guys. It may not be with every guy but it is with quite a bit. So don't think you are that special. Somebody probably hit her raw right before and after you that same day.

4) She is trying to get her life together.

No. She is very happy the way she is. She just wants you to think that so you feel bad for her and give her extra money and do things for her. She does not want the life you have. She would hate that. She wants the one she has. She may leave the state but she is picking up her same life elsewhere. She may "retire". That just means she either has a large group of favorite regulars to see or she hooked up with a dumb lonely rich guy. Nothing else about her has changed. When she says she is trying to get her life together she only means she wishes she wouldn't have to see so many different guys fucking her in the ass every day.

5) She is Independent.

There are some girls who are totally independent but it is much lower than you think. Most girls have a pimp, a handler or a boyfriend who is very aware of what they are doing and are involved in some way. It is not likely that your favorite you just saw goes back to her apartment where she lives by herself and has no man involved or living off of what she does. While we seem to feel better thinking the girl we just saw is a true independent the reality just doesn't back that up.[/QUOTE].

Big Facts 100%.

[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6195430]Many of these have been mentioned before by myself and / or others. Way too many mongers have delusions about these girls. I don't know if that's due to ignorance or just wishing things were the way they wish they were to enhance their own experience. Anyway, I will list some truths that some will not like. That doesn't matter. This is what it is.

1) These girls Do NOT care about you.

They care about your money and what you can do for them. They do not give a shit about you. Let me repeat that. They do NOT give a shit about you. If you are under any impression that they actually care about you I have a bridge in Brooklyn to sell you. You may have a good working relationship with a provider. She has a comfort level with you because you are a regular and you are not a nutcase. You may have worked out a nice low rate for yourself. She may act cool with you. But that isn't because she cares about you. It is because she is comfortable with you as you are an easy stress free call. Do not confuse her being comfortable with you to her caring about you. She does not care about you. She will never lend you money. She will not give you a freebie. She will not go to your funeral when you die. She sees you as a source of money and whatever else she can get from you. Make sure it's only money and at the lowest rate possible.

2) These girls are all addicts.

Some mongers like to think the girls they see are not addicts. You see a lot of "no signs of use" in reviews. That is a helpful point in a review. But it only means they are smart about hiding it and / or aren't totally ruled by it yet. These girls are having sex with you for money to support their habit. They are not doing it for extra money to pay bills or pay off student loans. They pull in more money a week than you do and you see they live like shit. They aren't banking that money away for retirement. It is being spent that same day on drugs.

3) She only does BBFS with me.

No, she does BBFS with many guys. She may tell you it's only you or you and one other guy. She is lying. It's with many guys. It may not be with every guy but it is with quite a bit. So don't think you are that special. Somebody probably hit her raw right before and after you that same day.

4) She is trying to get her life together.

No. She is very happy the way she is. She just wants you to think that so you feel bad for her and give her extra money and do things for her. She does not want the life you have. She would hate that. She wants the one she has. She may leave the state but she is picking up her same life elsewhere. She may "retire". That just means she either has a large group of favorite regulars to see or she hooked up with a dumb lonely rich guy. Nothing else about her has changed. When she says she is trying to get her life together she only means she wishes she wouldn't have to see so many different guys fucking her in the ass every day.

5) She is Independent.

There are some girls who are totally independent but it is much lower than you think. Most girls have a pimp, a handler or a boyfriend who is very aware of what they are doing and are involved in some way. It is not likely that your favorite you just saw goes back to her apartment where she lives by herself and has no man involved or living off of what she does. While we seem to feel better thinking the girl we just saw is a true independent the reality just doesn't back that up.[/QUOTE]

FYI.

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A few days ago having a quick stop in Target near AC I saw a beautiful blonde MILF wearing white short shorts and a red crop top, I smiled and she smiled back. After a few passes in the aisles, I started a conversation with her, after about 15 minutes we started walking together picking up a few more items, we both exited the store and exchange numbers. After a few days she made contact and we had lunch, after lunch we had some fun. The cold weather is coming and we will have to wait until next year to see those bodies without so many clothes on.

[QUOTE=Gentleman007;6213569]A few days ago having a quick stop in Target near AC I saw a beautiful blonde MILF wearing white short shorts and a red crop top, I smiled and she smiled back. After a few passes in the aisles, I started a conversation with her, after about 15 minutes we started walking together picking up a few more items, we both exited the store and exchange numbers. After a few days she made contact and we had lunch, after lunch we had some fun. The cold weather is coming and we will have to wait until next year to see those bodies without so many clothes on.[/QUOTE]Nice one bud, great cans.

[QUOTE=Gentleman007;6213569]A few days ago having a quick stop in Target near AC I saw a beautiful blonde MILF wearing white short shorts and a red crop top, I smiled and she smiled back. After a few passes in the aisles, I started a conversation with her, after about 15 minutes we started walking together picking up a few more items, we both exited the store and exchange numbers. After a few days she made contact and we had lunch, after lunch we had some fun. The cold weather is coming and we will have to wait until next year to see those bodies without so many clothes on.[/QUOTE]Is she an escort? If not, why is she posted in the escort thread.

[QUOTE=PhillyDiscreet;6215420]Is she an escort? If not, why is she posted in the escort thread.[/QUOTE]PhillyDiscreet, she is not an escort, she used to be a dancer. From time to time I let mongers know, we have other opportunities out there besides escorts. I used to visit escorts regularly, but the potential risks made me look for a better way to find women, who are not pros, and it is cheaper, cleaner and the selection? The sky is the limit. From Supermarkets, Dollar stores, malls, even at the Zoo believe or not, I have found girls without shelling more than 80 to $ a meet. That's the reason I posted in the GeneralReports. Since my TER days, a very small group of us banded together to refine the approach, we still get together and we won't change that, until we get tired of it, or get serious with someone. Meantime, enjoy the view.

[QUOTE=ItsSecret;6215365]Nice one bud, great cans.[/QUOTE]That lady has amazing cans you are right Its Secret, she stand up like a sore thumb in the crowd. She is tall about 5'11" loooong legs, and a nice round ass, and certainly an animal in the sack. I think I'm done for the year, well maybe.

[QUOTE=Gentleman007;6215513]PhillyDiscreet, she is not an escort, she used to be a dancer. From time to time I let mongers know, we have other opportunities out there besides escorts. I used to visit escorts regularly, but the potential risks made me look for a better way to find women, who are not pros, and it is cheaper, cleaner and the selection? The sky is the limit. From Supermarkets, Dollar stores, malls, even at the Zoo believe or not, I have found girls without shelling more than 80 to $ a meet. That's the reason I posted in the GeneralReports. Since my TER days, a very small group of us banded together to refine the approach, we still get together and we won't change that, until we get tired of it, or get serious with someone. Meantime, enjoy the view.[/QUOTE]Actually I owe you an apology. I lost track of the forum I was in and assumed this was posted in the escort section. My bad.

[QUOTE=Gentleman007;6215513]PhillyDiscreet, she is not an escort, she used to be a dancer. From time to time I let mongers know, we have other opportunities out there besides escorts. I used to visit escorts regularly, but the potential risks made me look for a better way to find women, who are not pros, and it is cheaper, cleaner and the selection? The sky is the limit. From Supermarkets, Dollar stores, malls, even at the Zoo believe or not, I have found girls without shelling more than 80 to $ a meet. That's the reason I posted in the GeneralReports. Since my TER days, a very small group of us banded together to refine the approach, we still get together and we won't change that, until we get tired of it, or get serious with someone. Meantime, enjoy the view.[/QUOTE]It's always good to let others know what other options are out there to get pussy. I think the majority of the guys here are looking for the ease of escorts. It's the path of least resistance and least work. Call an escort and you can be nailing her less than an hr later. Doesn't matter what you look like or if you have zero women skills. There are other options whether it be cheap or totally free but they require more work. They also require that you be at least decent looking and have some sort of rap.

Your way is interesting. I have a few on my radar that would probably be down for it if I asked. Normal women with regular lower end jobs who could probably use the money. I may end up trying that and report back. I am sure I can pull it off because I am moderately good looking and certainly have a good line of shit. One is practically hinting at it so I should just jump. But you can't teach this. I am sure you get plenty of private messages. I know I do about my ways. But it seems they all want the easy way like there is a key word you can use and anyone can do it. I get the "well so what do you say? Who do you ask?" That all depends on a lot of things. It's not a one size fits all.

My way is the free route. First it was dating sites but now mostly married girls I run into thru work or whatever. But that requires time. I will nail them on the first or second get together but you got to spend the time working it. That could mean a week or a month of calls and messaging with a good line of shit. And then there is the awkwardness when you get bored and ghost them. So I may go your way. Spend a little but be done with it after the fuck (s).

Again, you can only say there are other options Many can also do it if they have a brain. But some just can't. Some guys here are not going to have a married woman be interested in them. Some guys here are going to get slapped or beat up if they approach a regular girl offering her money. You just can't teach how to do stuff like that. But cheap or free non escort non commitment sex is all around out there. Guys just got to find their niche and work it.

The chances of running into a woman at a retail or any other spot and ending up lucky is a rare event. Sure, you can go on the Hunt, but to me it's a huge waste of time and you are hopelessly looking around and wasting time. I did that once at the mall, wasted 3 hrs and nothing then went to food court and met one older MILF, but she wasn't into it, she is basically looking for a normal relationship. Wasted over 4 hrs. I could have met some of the worst provider for a QV and gotten way more satisfaction than I could have ever in hopes of meeting that one chick who is down to F. As far as UTR some of you guys are lucky if you can find someone, but it is impossible to get info. Guys act like it's a big secret and they want to trade for another, there isn't enough UTR's out here for that. If you still want to put in the time to find ladies, you are now dating, you might as well make a dating profile you will have much better chances. Well some of you are married or in a relationship so making a dating profile might be a problem. LOL

[QUOTE=JiggaMan69;6215847]The chances of running into a woman at a retail or any other spot and ending up lucky is a rare event. Sure, you can go on the Hunt, but to me it's a huge waste of time and you are hopelessly looking around and wasting time. I did that once at the mall, wasted 3 hrs and nothing then went to food court and met one older MILF, but she wasn't into it, she is basically looking for a normal relationship. Wasted over 4 hrs. I could have met some of the worst provider for a QV and gotten way more satisfaction than I could have ever in hopes of meeting that one chick who is down to F. As far as UTR some of you guys are lucky if you can find someone, but it is impossible to get info. Guys act like it's a big secret and they want to trade for another, there isn't enough UTR's out here for that. If you still want to put in the time to find ladies, you are now dating, you might as well make a dating profile you will have much better chances. Well some of you are married or in a relationship so making a dating profile might be a problem. LOL[/QUOTE]It should be impossible to get info on a UTR, at least my definition of what a UTR is. When I am down in NJ I see one of my UTRs. I have two left to choose from. I consider them UTRs because neither has posted in at least 6 years and were not very active posters when they did. They have their group of old trusted regulars they see. As for these dummies who post about trading UTR info, I question how UTR they actually are. If it's been a week since a girl posted these idiots would probably consider her a UTR. If she posts once a month they consider her a UTR. If someone is posting semi regularly they are not under the radar.

Dating sites were great to get free pussy even that same day you first made contact. I used Ashley Madison and PoF with great success. Most were not looking for anything outside of a one nighter or a fling. I was going to do that again but the guys here are saying it's mostly bots now.

As for approaching regular women and offering them token money or picking up some older married woman for free, that is a different animal. First off, not everyone has the skill to do that. You either have it or you don't. You should know right away if that girl is absolutely going to be a waste of time dead end. As for why someone would put in the time to do that when you can take the least path of resistance and get an escort, well the chase is exciting and the end result is usually much more fun than a drug crazed escort.

That being said, it is still nice to be able to pick up the phone and in under an hr be banging some escort.