Somewhere between dog and grandma
In November 2023, my sugarbaby named Amy from last year asked me to come back to her. We've been dating about once a week since. The dates last 5 to 8 hours, $300 per date, and we do various things in addition to the hot sex like visit a museum, have a meal, or (her favorite) shopping. The shopping is for essential items, not luxury items. Amy wants me to take her camping sometime (cabin or RV) or on a trip to Europe. Amy is a tall, slender, beautiful and intelligent student at a community college with a solid career plan. She is poor and has a menial job. She appears to be exclusive to me.
While I'm writing, let me offer some general comments about sugarbabies. I know that everyone is different, so this may or may not work for you.
I keep it simple and light, with 1 to 3 texts per week to show I'm interested. If you're only seeing them once a week, like I do, you should leave her alone for 1-3 days at a time. Texts are short, for example "Happy Groundhog Day". A fraction (about 1/3) of the texts are accompanied by small amounts of money ($50 to $100). This is gas money. Words are nice, but money says more.
I explained to Amy that there are different kinds of love, like the love you have for your dog, which is different from the love you have for your grandmother or your boyfriend or your eventual husband. "An SD is somewhere between dog and grandma", I said. That made her laugh.
I'm always positive and keep the relationship moving forward. Because it's nothing serious. As an example of how I interact with Amy, once she had me take her to run an errand, she was away for 20 minutes and apologized for keeping me waiting. I said "No problem. By definition, a sugarbaby can never do anything wrong. " She laughed and said "You're adorable. ". But what I meant by that is that a SB / SD relationship is a light-hearted affair. If things were to go wrong, you can simply end the arrangement.
It's funny that while medical doctors and health books give lots of advice on how to stay healthy (exercise, diet, sleep, etc) they never advise to take on a sugarbaby. Why? Largely because of morality, and there's a risk that things go wrong. However, I've found a SB super beneficial to my health: makes me happy and it provides a strong incentive to do the diet and exercise regime to keep my body looking "good for my age".
Fired up the SA membership
Here are some "let's do some online content first" time wasters.
Classy Duchess.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bda23d10-3524-4203-a757-94a311a4eeb4[/URL]
Funny Gorgeous.
She blocked me when I called her out.
Start Loving.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fb503ceb-3ed1-4f43-8a5e-9b480cb6035c[/URL]
This one is using porn star Anastasia Rose's pictures.
Traveled Mizz.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cd6eb9a4-50bf-411a-9931-d261619a2af7[/URL]
Good luck out there.
Stay away or get ripped off
This one has popped back up in Atlanta, somehow she's shaved off 3 years in age.
Kylaa- [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d7d7ff66-b810-455a-98dd-7e9f45351cc6[/URL].
She doesn't remember me from cash and dash and she's going to have an expensive day tomorrow. If she follows thru on meeting me.
Seeking Suspension vs Ban
Guys,
After 5 years on seeking, my account got suspended few days ago. The email says "suspension" not a ban. Does anyone know if there is a difference between a suspension and a ban or all get the same e-mail? The following is what the e-mail says.
"We have detected some unusual activity on this account, resulting in suspension. During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services.
Please note that account suspensions are issued for either of the following reasons:
A violation of our Terms of Use.
Actions that trigger our automated security system".
It gives me an option to e-mail customer service if I want to provide further details. Just wondering if I should e-mail or not. Anyone with any experience, would like to hear. I am usually careful what I discuss there, but it is possible a girl I declined reported me. Another possibility is that I sent a lots of messages a day before my subscription ended, it may have triggered something.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.
Is $500 the new norm for a Meet??
I ask this question because most girl now are asking $500 per meet which I flatly refuse to pay and most are not backing down on the price.
Who is paying these girls $500 per meet?