There's a difference between GF and GFE
I've never seen Cate but she sounds like a good provider. Problem is because a provider does a good acting job while with a hobbyist. The guy will start to think that he is special to her. Well a good provider will act the same with every guy she is with. I dated a provider for a few years. A guy would pull up and she would think,"well the show must go on" She kind of hated the guys, just a good actress. She did a great acting job with me. Some of the gifts that hobbyist left for her? Wine, Bird Feeder Ect Thanks, I enjoyed them! I still have the Bird Feeder. LOL.
Don't forget they are there with you for the $ Call one of your ATF and tell them that you don't have any money but would like a session. Let us know, how that works out
You tried for over a year to see her? WOW! Move on to the next one! Don't get a provider mixed up with a GF.
I wish her good luck but I've seen so many try to quit. 99% never make it. Most come back in less than a year. They get addicted to the easy money and high pay. They aren't going to make 1000 a day at a reg job.
But, she may find a sucker with some money?
[QUOTE=Larry Reiff; 1428261]I won't disagree that Cate was a tough provider to get that first meeting with. It took me over a year to finally meet with her because I didn't have any references she knew. But once we met, she would always return my calls, texts and emails in a very timely fashion. Not once did she ever make it hard for me to schedule after she got to know me. She was just a very cautious woman because of all the dangers in the hobby. With some of the recent arrests in Indiana, who could blame a woman for being cautious. But I'm a strong believer that some of the greatest experiences in life don't come easy.
With all that being said, Cate was without a doubt one of the greatest providers the mid west ever had in my opinion. She was a sweet, caring, and beautiful provider that poured her heart into each and every session. I can honestly say that my sessions with her were the some of the greatest experiences of my life. I've never been around anyone that displayed so much passion. She was absolutely amazing in every way and I cherish the time we spent together.
For all the haters on this site, maybe the problem was you. I never once had any problems with her, but then again I always behaved like a perfect gentleman. She always treated me better than I ever expected a provider to. Maybe if some of you guys would treat these ladies better, you would get better results. I've read posts where some of the senior members feel like just because a they make a donation that the provider should kiss their behind in every way. Most of us men have jobs and get paid for doing work. If our bosses treat us like crap, do we give 110% at work just because we get a paycheck. NO! Now if our boss treats us great, gives us little perks once and a while, compliments our work and maybe gives us a bonus occasionally, then we work harder at what we do. Its only human nature. My gut tells me that all the Cate haters on here just don't know how to be a gentleman, because every time I was with her she treated me like I was the only man alive. And for those that don't know, she did retire back in February and has moved on with her life. She knew a lot of men through this hobby and made a lot of friends. But how does someone get on with their life and still maintain that contact. I think we all know that isn't realistic.
I personally miss her a lot and strongly feel that there will never be another provider that could ever replace her. Just my two cents worth.[/QUOTE]
Mr. Swimmer I beg to differ
B, these kinds of post as well as Mr. Mack really kind of take the fun and kinkiness out of a so called hobby. This is preciisly why I stopped wanting to do it in the first place, that and the break up of my partner in crime, however my kink and my love of other things brought me back. When I hear things like this it makes me feel like I need a shower and reminds me of things I would rather not think about. I understand that there is one part of this world however there IS another.
Posting jaded posts about your provider exgf kinda puts a damper on the suspension of disbelief we are all supose to have in order to let the good times roll. Just because some providers or the one you were with always put on a show that does not mean all of us do. Shit all anyone has to do is spend 10 minutes talking with me and you know I'm a huge nicey nicerton, doofus and smartass. I do not cater to anyone except in certain areas as some of you know! I enjoy all the time I spend with those with whom I choose to spend it with because I choose wisely through conversations and even those that are simply brief even those are fun! It's all kink to me with benefits of course. Which leads me to the freebie part of your post. I frequently gave discounts to my regulars (why do you think people are coming to Indy to see me since they have heard I have decided to Consult again) as far as freebies while no one I knew would ever be uncouth to do such a thing as to call and ask for a free consult, I did it of my own accord. Not frequently mind you as I was an elitist asshole and only saw very few regulars but they were rewarded in ways other than just saving a buck or two. I am a kinky, adventurous woman who loves to smile, laugh and have fun.
As far as gifts go, I think that it's kinda mean to giggle about how you enjoyed a hobbyists gifts. I recieved several things from my friendsies. Things that I needed. Things that I didn't need but were thoughtful and nice. It makes me extremely happy to know that I make someone happy enough, if only for a fleeting moment in time, that they would think of me later while cruising through Target or whereever and remember something that Pie needed or would like. With just a few genuine niceties, people will suprise you and you will suprise people. That is what I love about this hobby meeting new people, being dirty and bringing genuine happiness (to others and to myself). If only briefly LOL.
I may sound naive but it sure is fun and a part of myself I will never lose no matter what life throws at me or who.
Deep Thoughts by KB.
[QUOTE=Best Swimmer; 1428424]I've never seen Cate but she sounds like a good provider. Problem is because a provider does a good acting job while with a hobbyist. The guy will start to think that he is special to her. Well a good provider will act the same with every guy she is with. I dated a provider for a few years. A guy would pull up and she would think,"well the show must go on" She kind of hated the guys, just a good actress. She did a great acting job with me. Some of the gifts that hobbyist left for her? Wine, Bird Feeder Ect Thanks, I enjoyed them! I still have the Bird Feeder. LOL.
Don't forget they are there with you for the $ Call one of your ATF and tell them that you don't have any money but would like a session. Let us know, how that works out
You tried for over a year to see her? WOW! Move on to the next one! Don't get a provider mixed up with a GF.
I wish her good luck but I've seen so many try to quit. 99% never make it. Most come back in less than a year. They get addicted to the easy money and high pay. They aren't going to make 1000 a day at a reg job.
But, she may find a sucker with some money?[/QUOTE]