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[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5082526]What area do you stay? I know of a could on SA that look for 3 some. The guy is an older SD that likes to see the girl fucked by other men.[/QUOTE]I am over at Irvine and might be interested. Appreciate a DM with details if you are ok with connecting. Thanks!
I'm using a voice text so my apologies for typos and grammar So the conclusion is she has a boyfriend I seen on social media that they have been together for 3 years since high school from age 17 to 20 which is a long time at her age That's a big portion for dating life so far. So I understand the connection that they have and their history to be honest I didn't plan on falling for this girl and I had this so many questions of course if they're talking the whole time and why wasn't she honest with me or they on a break was he out of town because in the military and now he's back I'm still the way she goes with me hurt a lot especially because I thought I had hurt her and if you know me in real life you know I'm a good person I'm just an average guy that loves sex and women. Like I said this has so many questions about what was true and not true You know she never really asked for anything I gave as my own choice. To be honest my sex drive has been killed for the whole last week I've been like that depressed I went pretty far out knowing the campus apartment she stays at but not the room but I found out so much information by her accidentally show me her real name one time and a photo and just piecing everything together honestly don't wish this upon anybody and I know I want to make sure going for that I'm always honest with women.
It used to be if you stopped paying on your SA account after about a month or even less they would offer you a free month to get started again. No more.
[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5090383]I'm using a voice text so my apologies for typos and grammar So the conclusion is she has a boyfriend I seen on social media that they have been together for 3 years since high school from age 17 to 20 which is a long time at her age That's a big portion for dating life so far. So I understand the connection that they have and their history to be honest I didn't plan on falling for this girl and I had this so many questions of course if they're talking the whole time and why wasn't she honest with me or they on a break was he out of town because in the military and now he's back I'm still the way she goes with me hurt a lot especially because I thought I had hurt her and if you know me in real life you know I'm a good person I'm just an average guy that loves sex and women. Like I said this has so many questions about what was true and not true You know she never really asked for anything I gave as my own choice. To be honest my sex drive has been killed for the whole last week I've been like that depressed I went pretty far out knowing the campus apartment she stays at but not the room but I found out so much information by her accidentally show me her real name one time and a photo and just piecing everything together honestly don't wish this upon anybody and I know I want to make sure going for that I'm always honest with women.[/QUOTE]Mongering 101. If you plan to partake in these endeavors whether it be Sugar Daddying or seeing professionals, you have to learn to leave your emotions behind before partaking. Otherwise, as you're experiencing, you will always be the one getting hurt since the girls are rarely and most likely never in it with you for the long haul. And of those I've witnessed actually establishing long term relationships or marriage with these women, it never ends well. So as stated, move on and have enjoy finding a new one but don't get fixated. If you do aspire to seek longer arrangements with someone and have difficulty suppressing your emotions, forego all of this and just go and be active on dating sites and remember this rule, if you have difficulty in acquiring girls of a certain caliber of girl irl, there is no way you will be retain them via mongering or sugar daddying long term so enjoy it while lasts.
[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5090383]I'm using a voice text so my apologies for typos and grammar So the conclusion is she has a boyfriend I seen on social media that they have been together for 3 years since high school from age 17 to 20 which is a long time at her age That's a big portion for dating life so far. So I understand the connection that they have and their history to be honest I didn't plan on falling for this girl and I had this so many questions of course if they're talking the whole time and why wasn't she honest with me or they on a break was he out of town because in the military and now he's back I'm still the way she goes with me hurt a lot especially because I thought I had hurt her and if you know me in real life you know I'm a good person I'm just an average guy that loves sex and women. Like I said this has so many questions about what was true and not true You know she never really asked for anything I gave as my own choice. To be honest my sex drive has been killed for the whole last week I've been like that depressed I went pretty far out knowing the campus apartment she stays at but not the room but I found out so much information by her accidentally show me her real name one time and a photo and just piecing everything together honestly don't wish this upon anybody and I know I want to make sure going for that I'm always honest with women.[/QUOTE]Dude, don't want to be mean but you knew this girl for a month. She's not special, theres 1000's of girls just like her and better out there. And the hard truth is she didn't like you as much as youd like. Happens to all of us. Girls operate in mysterious ways. They can seem incredibly interested in when you're together but it turns out the next day they found an upgrade and complete forget about it. It happens to all of us. It just sucks cause you found someone you like and its not easy to find another immediately. Thats what the game is all about. Go out and see other girls. Theres always another "the one" out there.
[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5089337]Okay so I've been banned again. I have a burner phone from Target that I used But now I think that number cannot be associated with my account also I use Green Dot to pay but using Green Dot you need to have his phone number associated with it I tried using a phone app but it's not recognised any tips.[/QUOTE]I recently joined the site. How does someone get banned?
[QUOTE=GagaMash;5092415]I recently joined the site. How does someone get banned?[/QUOTE]Never talk about lowball money for sex with a white girl.
[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5089393]I posted recently about catching feelings for a girl I met on SA and how she ghosted me after 4 wks. This is more to vent and maybe get insight. There's too much to this but I think this happened because she caught feelings too and it was too much and too soon for her to get serious so she bailed without a word. This was her first time doing this and she was looking for an SD but I don't think she knew what to expect. I've seen that a lot. She is 20 and attends local university. Her parents are divorced. There's drug addiction in her family and she has trust issues with men and friends. We clicked from the moment we met and she never asked me for anything. Anything I did for her was on my own such as treating her to items for her college apartment or surprising her with a jacket or snacks. I actually treated her good like I would any regular girl that I would go out with. There were times where she needed help (money was not asked for) and I gave her what I thought would be needed to help. She would also return whatever was not needed and a few times gave everything back when she didn't need it at all. One of the last times she saw me she said she was afraid to like me more than she already did. My apologies for venting. I just have to get some of this off myt chest and no t having closure is killing me.
[/QUOTE]Apologies in advance for busting your little bubble but there has never been a girl that will cut it off because she likes you too much. She wanted out and didn't want to hurt your feeling so she came up with some BS she knew you'd fall for. Seriously, you need to see other girls and forget about this one. She is nowhere near what you thought she was and she didn't care much about you. Don't be upset, it's just how girls are. My guess is that you were one of several guys in her life and she just wanted to replace you in her rotation. Always keep in mind: you don't own her, it's just your turn.
Did you only see her for four weeks and this happened? The chances of BOTH people getting hit by lightening bolts of attachment that quick at the same time is vanishingly small. More likely, you were the one who was smitten, you over-reacted and scared her then she made up an excuse to bail. It happens; you will survive; the pain most likely happened because she took the initiative to get out. Try to see yourself a year from now out of the emotional vortex happily doing young, lissome coeds. Two things that have helped me: can you imagine her on the toilet taking an especially noisy dump? Come on, you know that happens. If you cannot imagine it, you are smitten with some unreal vision not a real person. Second, if you were not apart, where do you think you would be with her ten years from now? Those fire are not going to burn hot that long. You would at some point be dumping her. A nice guy would not lead a gal on that long. Own it.
Bam.
[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5089393]I posted recently about catching feelings for a girl I met on SA and how she ghosted me after 4 wks. This is more to vent and maybe get insight. There's too much to this but I think this happened because she caught feelings too and it was too much and too soon for her to get serious so she bailed without a word.
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Never talk about ANY money, and sex at or near the same time, with ANY woman, on Seeking. Hollywood is about the only guy to even try to get away with lowball offers. (I know one more but he offers to do them on his yacht while on a boating excursion which is not the same thing at all. He also lets them take home a case of restaurant wine.) Just avoid talk of any quid pro quo until you get them off the site.
Bam.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5092643]Never talk about lowball money for sex with a white girl.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TylerDurd;5091819]Dude, don't want to be mean but you knew this girl for a month. She's not special, theres 1000's of girls just like her and better out there. And the hard truth is she didn't like you as much as youd like. Happens to all of us. Girls operate in mysterious ways. They can seem incredibly interested in when you're together but it turns out the next day they found an upgrade and complete forget about it. It happens to all of us. It just sucks cause you found someone you like and its not easy to find another immediately. Thats what the game is all about. Go out and see other girls. Theres always another "the one" out there.[/QUOTE]Right on point on how the girls operate. They are mysterious and the best thing to do is look for multiple babes instead of sticking to one, as there will always be a rich SD who will be making moves. Not from the La area but found out from the home page and felt like adding a post. Hollywood Guy, EvilTmp, Tomatillo every one are so nice to stand with you huntsman. Move on and find another girl. It will never be the same but may be even better.
[QUOTE=BamBam;5092902]Did you only see her for four weeks and this happened? The chances of BOTH people getting hit by lightening bolts of attachment that quick at the same time is vanishingly small. More likely, you were the one who was smitten, you over-reacted and scared her then she made up an excuse to bail. It happens; you will survive; the pain most likely happened because she took the initiative to get out. Try to see yourself a year from now out of the emotional vortex happily doing young, lissome coeds. Two things that have helped me: can you imagine her on the toilet taking an especially noisy dump? Come on, you know that happens. If you cannot imagine it, you are smitten with some unreal vision not a real person. Second, if you were not apart, where do you think you would be with her ten years from now? Those fire are not going to burn hot that long. You would at some point be dumping her. A nice guy would not lead a gal on that long. Own it.
Bam.[/QUOTE]I know everyone is trying to help and I know people have caught up in stuff all the time. But I think she really did like me We really connected. I think it was because she has a boyfriend and from the social media I can season the military they're dating since they were 17 I think maybe he was away and she just wanted some fun. I think she was looking for a way out because the boyfriend was coming back home and I think she did like me I mean I can't describe it the look she gave me her eyes already were together. I know everyone who say hey that's an act or a trick but we had some really good times. I know mostly skeptical. You know there were times like that week where a car broke down and she hasn't come get her and I sent her money to fix it was on my way and she got a jump start and she sent it back. Anyway I know it's over I know mission exactly what I thought she was obviously she lied about the boyfriend. But we did like each other and I think it's what most things were it's short and intense and people get caught up with feelings that they shouldn't get And also on both sides.
Almighty. Everyone's chimed in, and the OP is still convinced in what he believes. Time to turn the page, folks.
[QUOTE=SFVsag;5094104]Almighty. Everyone's chimed in, and the OP is still convinced in what he believes. Time to turn the page, folks.[/QUOTE]You're right. I have to let it go. I just had to vent here that's all.
My BFF is an x SB from a long time ago. Now she does only fans. She says she needs to do some POV videos. Just some foot fetish stuff that ends happily with a HJ or FJ. This is about the best my broke ass can do these days. She should be paying me. LOL. But I"ll take what I can get. Got another x that got married a while back but she says she will be in vegas for new years (my current home). She is going to try and sneak off for a bit. Another freebie. I know its pathetic, but until I get rolling again this is all I got, cept for my one regular that I been seeing for a year now (yawn).
And sorry for no more pics, but I got burned big time on the vegas thread by some captain save-a-ho. You know the type. Or maybe he thought he was gonna score some coochie points, either way I lost a real winner because of that a hole.
But I did find a high res video on PH of another one of my discoveries from a few years ago. Not sure If I can post it. but here it is. Its a 3 girl video. The one I am referring to is the last one. The 5'7" 95 lb super spinner. Dated her about 7 times, should have made time for a dozen more. Great attitude, loved sex, loved me...lol... She used to drive to my house like 90 minutes RT for that $.
On second thought, if you wanna see it .. message me. Must love AA super spinners