Massage Parlor Reports

[QUOTE=Lebowski69;2652713]With little to go on I stopped by lux nearby my hotel in buffalo grove. Met by older mamassan and greeted her with some Korean well wishes. She was surprised I knew a kittle Korean and showed me to the room. My therapist was shi shi an older 40 something k girl. Fit and still put together. She gave me an extremely thorough ts and after thanking her and telling her it felt good in Korean she got more playful in the shower. Off to the room where she delivered a nice hard massage with back walking at my request. Standard finish and when she picked up the. 4 I laid out for her she frowned and told me it was. 6. For standard visit. Since she was overtime and gave a very nice massage I caved and gave her the additional Jackson. Sorry to ruin it for you locals. All and all a good experience it pays to know a little Korean to break the ice with these girls. Any more suggestions of where to try (K AMPs) in the north burbs would be appreciated as variety is the spice of life.

Happy mongering,

The dude abides.[/QUOTE]Please, until you learn how to operate within local parameters and customs, stay out of the area; and stop unnecessarily inflating the going rate structure. . 40 is the rate for what you received. Give outcall a shot if you want to blow both wads.

Gentlemen, there's a new AMP in Oak Park on North Avenue between Ridgeland and Oak Park. It's a little hard to find; it's in a very small and not very visible storefront. I haven't been able to go yet, but I was wondering if any of you fellas visited yet. If not, I'll TOFTT soon and report.

I guess you knowing a little Korean did not matter too much for the tip.

[QUOTE=Lebowski69;2652713]With little to go on I stopped by lux nearby my hotel in buffalo grove. Met by older mamassan and greeted her with some Korean well wishes. She was surprised I knew a kittle Korean and showed me to the room. My therapist was shi shi an older 40 something k girl. Fit and still put together. She gave me an extremely thorough ts and after thanking her and telling her it felt good in Korean she got more playful in the shower. Off to the room where she delivered a nice hard massage with back walking at my request. Standard finish and when she picked up the. 4 I laid out for her she frowned and told me it was. 6. For standard visit. Since she was overtime and gave a very nice massage I caved and gave her the additional Jackson. Sorry to ruin it for you locals. All and all a good experience it pays to know a little Korean to break the ice with these girls. Any more suggestions of where to try (K AMPs) in the north burbs would be appreciated as variety is the spice of life.

Happy mongering,

The dude abides.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=OPIllini;2652823]Gentlemen, there's a new AMP in Oak Park on North Avenue between Ridgeland and Oak Park. It's a little hard to find; it's in a very small and not very visible storefront. I haven't been able to go yet, but I was wondering if any of you fellas visited yet. If not, I'll TOFTT soon and report.[/QUOTE]There is no extra service provided.

Try Yun in Mt Prospect. Sky One in Mt Prospect. Maybe Yedam in BG. These are the closest Korean places. Personally prefer Lux and Yun. Bob.

[QUOTE=Lebowski69;2652713]With little to go on I stopped by lux nearby my hotel in buffalo grove. Met by older mamassan and greeted her with some Korean well wishes. She was surprised I knew a kittle Korean and showed me to the room. My therapist was shi shi an older 40 something k girl. Fit and still put together. She gave me an extremely thorough ts and after thanking her and telling her it felt good in Korean she got more playful in the shower. Off to the room where she delivered a nice hard massage with back walking at my request. Standard finish and when she picked up the. 4 I laid out for her she frowned and told me it was. 6. For standard visit. Since she was overtime and gave a very nice massage I caved and gave her the additional Jackson. Sorry to ruin it for you locals. All and all a good experience it pays to know a little Korean to break the ice with these girls. Any more suggestions of where to try (K AMPs) in the north burbs would be appreciated as variety is the spice of life.

Happy mongering,

The dude abides.[/QUOTE]

Stopped by Moon yesterday. Normally it has been a very reliable spot. I drew Alice. Looks was a 4, massage skills 2, standard finish. I will go back to Moon but avoid Alice. Goes to show YMMV. Stay save.

[QUOTE=Bob521;2653256]Try Yun in Mt Prospect. Sky One in Mt Prospect. Maybe Yedam in BG. These are the closest Korean places. Personally prefer Lux and Yun. Bob.[/QUOTE]Had a nice visit at Yun met all expectations. Excellent massage as well. Thanks for the suggestions. Hit me up so I may return the favor if you visit the mouse in Orlando.

Happy mongering.

-the dude abides.

Based on a suggestion by a seasoned AMPist, I cheat-sheeted a few korean words I picked up from a web site. I have not had the right opportunity to use it. I do not know if I can say it with the right intonation.

Jjang-ee-da. As a way of approving something ('that is pretty cool').

Mohm-jjang. A conversation starter once you are in the room ('you have a great body'.

Eol-jjang. Same context. Means beautiful face.

Bul-geum. Sort of like TGIF, so use it on a Friday.

And for extra credit, women like to trash talk other women, it is universal. It makes them feel special if you prop them up and put their competitor down.
That is all is accomplished with
dwen-jang-nyeo - 'Cheap woman'. So bring up a conversation where you have been to other AMPs.. she asks how were they, you say dwen-jang-nyeo and that she is the opposite.

Seems more and more places are expecting. 6 for a standard finish. Gets very tiring going back and forth explaining that. 40 is it. The girls don't get that the door price is creeping up as well, so an extra 20 for them aint going to fly.

[QUOTE=Lebowski69;2652713]With little to go on I stopped by lux nearby my hotel in buffalo grove. Met by older mamassan and greeted her with some Korean well wishes. She was surprised I knew a kittle Korean and showed me to the room. My therapist was shi shi an older 40 something k girl. Fit and still put together. She gave me an extremely thorough ts and after thanking her and telling her it felt good in Korean she got more playful in the shower. Off to the room where she delivered a nice hard massage with back walking at my request. Standard finish and when she picked up the. 4 I laid out for her she frowned and told me it was. 6. For standard visit. Since she was overtime and gave a very nice massage I caved and gave her the additional Jackson. Sorry to ruin it for you locals. All and all a good experience it pays to know a little Korean to break the ice with these girls. Any more suggestions of where to try (K AMPs) in the north burbs would be appreciated as variety is the spice of life.

Happy mongering,

The dude abides.[/QUOTE]

I've been to spa's where women trash talk the other girls there and at other spa's. That's not cool for me and I ignore it.

[QUOTE=SamSinger;2654118]Based on a suggestion by a seasoned AMPist, I cheat-sheeted a few korean words I picked up from a web site. I have not had the right opportunity to use it. I do not know if I can say it with the right intonation.

Jjang-ee-da. As a way of approving something ('that is pretty cool').

Mohm-jjang. A conversation starter once you are in the room ('you have a great body'.

Eol-jjang. Same context. Means beautiful face.

Bul-geum. Sort of like TGIF, so use it on a Friday.

And for extra credit, women like to trash talk other women, it is universal. It makes them feel special if you prop them up and put their competitor down.
That is all is accomplished with
dwen-jang-nyeo - 'Cheap woman'. So bring up a conversation where you have been to other AMPs.. she asks how were they, you say dwen-jang-nyeo and that she is the opposite.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BlueUc;2654717]Seems more and more places are expecting. 6 for a standard finish. Gets very tiring going back and forth explaining that. 40 is it. The girls don't get that the door price is creeping up as well, so an extra 20 for them aint going to fly.[/QUOTE]Actually I was at a well established place in algonguin lately and absolutely no talk of tip and since I only had $30 on me that was good. If people are going to cave they are going to keep asking.

I went there yesterday and did some recon. Nice location, locked buzzer door, ts,sauna.

The lady that answered was heavy set and really messed up teeth. Didn't even look Asian. I asked if she was my mt she said yes. I said I was only there for info. She said theres 3 girls. I heard voices but saw noone else. This could be great place if they have hot girls. If anyone toftt hit me up with some 411. This is 222 dundee next to mcdonalds in Wheeling.

I went to mystic today to meet Mia. Hehe I know her from many AMPs in area and her and I always had a "special" time. Glad she resurfaced. Nice place and more girls coming soon. 65 hr plus tip.

I was in the mood for some relaxation today so I took a stroll to the AMP on Grand next to the pizza place. The place inside was not too elegant (especially the restroom) but good enough and they ask you to take off your shoes. I asked for one hour but got shorted on time, which was not horrible since the massage was sub par anyway. I wanted the therapist to walk on my back, but you need to get a different room with overhead bars, which they do have available. The therapist, whose name I did not get, asked for a tip beforehand so I obliged. Just in case, I went prepared for more than a standard end, a step above that, and was asked for $ but I talked her down for 20 less. I think that if you opt for a half hour here, they are more likely to accept a lower tip, since they are spending less time on you. Anyway, I left happy. Stay kool gents.

Well. Theres nothing wrong with someone asking what they would like for service theyre going to give. If a girl thinks its worth 120 for her to give a blowjob, then she's free to ask. If she thinks jerking someone off is worth 60 that's fine to ask too. Everybody gets to set their prices. But if I think its worth 40, then ill say, I've got 40. And if she says no, you can just agree to not agree and move on. Usually, they would rather have the 40 to stroke your dick for 4 minutes than 0 to not. So I've yet to find a provider that refuses to handjob me for 40, or 80 for a blow job or 100 for fucking. 100 is a lot of money. They might ask for 140 to fuck, but you also know at that point that they are willing to fuck, andif theyre willing to fuck a stranger for money, is 100 dollars worth turning down over an additional 40? I've yet to find the girl who thinks it is. Pay what you think things are worth, don't pay more than you feel comfortable with.

But also, pay too low and you might get a super shitty experience and then you're out money too for something that wasnt all that fun. And is that worth saving 20 $ for? If I'm going to pay 80 for a blow job and I think the chick seems pretty hot and seems like a wild time, I'm not going to haggle her down to 60 or something and have her be annoyed and then give a bland blowie. Ill just pay her the 100 have a fun blow job and then just not return.

[QUOTE=BlueUc;2654717]Seems more and more places are expecting. 6 for a standard finish. Gets very tiring going back and forth explaining that. 40 is it. The girls don't get that the door price is creeping up as well, so an extra 20 for them aint going to fly.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Eddinger;2656782]Well. Theres nothing wrong with someone asking what they would like for service theyre going to give. If a girl thinks its worth 120 for her to give a blowjob, then she's free to ask. If she thinks jerking someone off is worth 60 that's fine to ask too. Everybody gets to set their prices. But if I think its worth 40, then ill say, I've got 40. And if she says no, you can just agree to not agree and move on. Usually, they would rather have the 40 to stroke your dick for 4 minutes than 0 to not. So I've yet to find a provider that refuses to handjob me for 40, or 80 for a blow job or 100 for fucking. 100 is a lot of money. They might ask for 140 to fuck, but you also know at that point that they are willing to fuck, andif theyre willing to fuck a stranger for money, is 100 dollars worth turning down over an additional 40? I've yet to find the girl who thinks it is. Pay what you think things are worth, don't pay more than you feel comfortable with.

But also, pay too low and you might get a super shitty experience and then you're out money too for something that wasnt all that fun. And is that worth saving 20 $ for? If I'm going to pay 80 for a blow job and I think the chick seems pretty hot and seems like a wild time, I'm not going to haggle her down to 60 or something and have her be annoyed and then give a bland blowie. Ill just pay her the 100 have a fun blow job and then just not return.[/QUOTE]Perfect mind set, cares a bit more about of ensuring quality than quantity.

[QUOTE=Mmaforever;2656390]I went there yesterday and did some recon. Nice location, locked buzzer door, ts,sauna.

The lady that answered was heavy set and really messed up teeth. Didn't even look Asian. I asked if she was my mt she said yes. I said I was only there for info. She said theres 3 girls. I heard voices but saw noone else. This could be great place if they have hot girls. If anyone toftt hit me up with some 411. This is 222 dundee next to mcdonalds in Wheeling.

I went to mystic today to meet Mia. Hehe I know her from many AMPs in area and her and I always had a "special" time. Glad she resurfaced. Nice place and more girls coming soon. 65 hr plus tip.[/QUOTE]Go to the more appropriate Mount Prospect pages for in-depth descriptions. They are NOT in Chicago.

For example, today I saw a good friend. Gave her $80 tip. For legit massage. Tomorrow we are going to a hotel and fuck for three hours. No tip. Just sex. It all balances out. Also when I left the legit place today, I saw another friend. Make out session. Oral sex. Fully Naked. Got her off twice. $60. Tip. But she wants to see me on her day off now. The idea, is that both people should enjoy. Then it is less about money, and more about having a good time. And having a good friend. Bob.

[QUOTE=Eddinger;2656782]Well. Theres nothing wrong with someone asking what they would like for service theyre going to give. If a girl thinks its worth 120 for her to give a blowjob, then she's free to ask. If she thinks jerking someone off is worth 60 that's fine to ask too. Everybody gets to set their prices. But if I think its worth 40, then ill say, I've got 40. And if she says no, you can just agree to not agree and move on. Usually, they would rather have the 40 to stroke your dick for 4 minutes than 0 to not. So I've yet to find a provider that refuses to handjob me for 40, or 80 for a blow job or 100 for fucking. 100 is a lot of money. They might ask for 140 to fuck, but you also know at that point that they are willing to fuck, andif theyre willing to fuck a stranger for money, is 100 dollars worth turning down over an additional 40? I've yet to find the girl who thinks it is. Pay what you think things are worth, don't pay more than you feel comfortable with.

But also, pay too low and you might get a super shitty experience and then you're out money too for something that wasnt all that fun. And is that worth saving 20 $ for? If I'm going to pay 80 for a blow job and I think the chick seems pretty hot and seems like a wild time, I'm not going to haggle her down to 60 or something and have her be annoyed and then give a bland blowie. Ill just pay her the 100 have a fun blow job and then just not return.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bob521;2657340]For example, today I saw a good friend. Gave her $80 tip. For legit massage. Tomorrow we are going to a hotel and fuck for three hours. No tip. Just sex. It all balances out. Also when I left the legit place today, I saw another friend. Make out session. Oral sex. Fully Naked. Got her off twice. $60. Tip. But she wants to see me on her day off now. The idea, is that both people should enjoy. Then it is less about money, and more about having a good time. And having a good friend. Bob.[/QUOTE]Damn Bob you are a stud!

Looks like she's gone solo? Can anyone confirm or is this a ploy by LEO? She asks to text which is odd. Anyone have thoughts? Leave a message here or pm me please. Happy hump day!

[QUOTE=Bob521;2657340]For example, today I saw a good friend. Gave her $80 tip. For legit massage. Tomorrow we are going to a hotel and fuck for three hours. No tip. Just sex. It all balances out. Also when I left the legit place today, I saw another friend. Make out session. Oral sex. Fully Naked. Got her off twice. $60. Tip. But she wants to see me on her day off now. The idea, is that both people should enjoy. Then it is less about money, and more about having a good time. And having a good friend. Bob.[/QUOTE]Wow! Bob you are my idol! Rocket Dork.

[QUOTE=RocketDork;2657509]Wow! Bob you are my idol! Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]What a STUD. You're my idol too.

[QUOTE=RocketDork;2657509]Wow! Bob you are my idol! Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Maybe I could pick up a few pointers as to how he does it! .

[QUOTE=HottieHunter42;2657630]Maybe I could pick up a few pointers as to how he does it! .[/QUOTE]Bob is their friend first and fwb later. Its really simple. Rocket Dork.

[QUOTE=RocketDork;2657936]Bob is their friend first and fwb later. Its really simple. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]There has to be more to it. I'm nice to everyone. I'm friendly to everyone. It has never gotten me laid.

Maybe if I learned some Mandarin. .

Sometimes knowing Mandarin helps sometimes not.

[QUOTE=HottieHunter42;2658067]There has to be more to it. I'm nice to everyone. I'm friendly to everyone. It has never gotten me laid.

Maybe if I learned some Mandarin. .[/QUOTE]

Saw an ad on BP for a rub down. Booked an appointment with CeCe. Confirmed it was $160 for an hour massage with no tipping required. She was gorgeous, very happy with what I saw. Left very happy.

Because it was no tip required I only brought the cash to bring to the appointment. She never asked for more money but at the end I felt bad for not having brought more to compliment her for leaving me so satisfied. How do you handle these situations? If I wanted to return what would you suggest?

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/sexy-irish-brunette-that-all-men-adore/28647783[/URL]

She posts a lot on BP and my imagination is running away with me. Does anyone know if she is legit? I've tried looking other places without much luck.

[QUOTE=DMichaels69;2658308]Sometimes knowing Mandarin helps sometimes not.[/QUOTE]My point is, stereotype works both ways. It's a sad truth.

If you are White and know Mandarin, you are off a good start, if you are ethnic minorities, chances are not as good, but if you let them know you are a good citizen of Uncle Sam (your turn to sell the illusion of helping them get green cards), you odds may increase for getting these great deals like Bob's story.

A genuine personal connection is yet another unicorn in this hobby. Like meeting people in real life, it all depends on your look, $, charm and a million things. Sometimes it is a two way street, often time it's just a one way.

[QUOTE=DMichaels69;2658308]Sometimes knowing Mandarin helps sometimes not.[/QUOTE]Learning even something as basic as how to say "Hello" and "Thank you" helps. I've had far better sessions with Asians at MP's when I could address mamasan and the provider in their language. Most smart phones will give you access to a basic translation with an audio playback you can listen to and memorize. Just be sure to check translations: I once tried to learn something more complex, and after I'd memorized the phrase, I entered the text for a reverse translation. Found out I was asking for something *very* different (and slightly embarrassing).

[QUOTE=HottieHunter42;2658067]There has to be more to it. I'm nice to everyone. I'm friendly to everyone. It has never gotten me laid.
[/QUOTE]Don't feel you're alone in this regard. It hasn't worked for me either.

[QUOTE=Castlerae;2658567]Learning even something as basic as how to say "Hello" and "Thank you" helps. I've had far better sessions with Asians at MP's when I could address mamasan and the provider in their language. Most smart phones will give you access to a basic translation with an audio playback you can listen to and memorize. Just be sure to check translations: I once tried to learn something more complex, and after I'd memorized the phrase, I entered the text for a reverse translation. Found out I was asking for something *very* different (and slightly embarrassing).[/QUOTE]I'm white. Decent-looking (the girls all like to say "Oh! You so hansum!" but not sure if I can treally trust their sincerity, due to the circumstances LOL). Smart, funny good personality. NOt a lot of $$ though, but otherwise, I'm a pretty good catch LOL!

I do know how to say hello and thank you in Chinese. They do seem to perk up and respond when they hear you at least try to converse with themin their native language. I guess it shows that you're serious and show at least a bit of interest in them as a person.

And I guess that's where it starts!

I think RD summed it up pretty well. For what its worth, I'm 63 and have diabetes ED, use viagra, am married, and by no means am I a stud. I do pay a lot of attention to these women. I probably have a "type" that I go for. 40-50 year old (non-pro) divorced Chinese women, and a few 30 year olds. I don't deliberately pick them, but these are the ones that I seem to click with. For me 50 year old is "young", haha. Several of them speak little English, although over time, all are learning. In fact, I am teaching English to two right now. (Naked English lessons.) I also let two others practice driving using my car. I meet most of the women in foot spas, so they do not normally give hand-jobs to guys. These are all lonely women with no transportation, few friends, separated from their families. Also, it turns out, they have not had sex in quite a while. Until they meet me.

The real common theme is: Relationships. Not transactions. I actually care about them. Hopefully, it shows. For example, we posted about Island Spa. The current woman is probably 60. Scared to death of the police because she saw another woman arrested. It turns out this poor woman is putting her son through college in England. It breaks my heart to see the sacrifices these women make for their family. She's married, so I know sex is off the table.

I always get the name. And their Chinese name. Get to know where they are from in China. I memorize this shit. So when I see them again, I can ask about their mother, or son, or whatever. I save all this information in WeChat and my Google Contacts, along with the geocoordinates of where they live and work. I spend quite a bit of time. Hours - WeChatting with these people. So we truly have relationships and they all know I care about them. I buy presents. I learned about 100 Chinese words. And they love teaching me Chinese while I teach them English.

In a massage session, (sometimes even in a Foot Spa) I massage the woman, usually about 10 minutes into the hour. (Never ever get half hour).

So last Wednesday, for example, the woman I posted about was a legit masseuse, I've known for a couple years. WeChat contacts and many sessions at a foot spa. She's now at a conventional spa. (which shall go nameless to protect her). I went into the room with her, and asked her to stay. I took of my clothes in front of her. Then faced her and embraced her and kissed her. I happened to kiss her neck and she shudders and moaned and her knees sort of buckled. (Made a mental note to remember that "move").

I will digress to say, that since these women are non-pros, the whole idea is to give them pleasure first. They always reciprocate. And like I said, it's never about the money. Its about kindness, affection, and a good orgasm. A common theme in life. If you know how to give a girl a great orgasm, she will remember you.

So I went to the table laid down and asked her to lie next to me. Took all her clothes off, and made out. Whenever I did something that caused a moan or reaction, I filed that away and continued. By the way, oral sex is pretty uncommon in China, especially DATY. So each woman was initially afraid, but at the same time, tremendously aroused, since she probably never got it before. When we finished, she actually said, "I needed that". I felt good that I could give her that pleasure. I am certain, future sessions will be just as good. When I see her on her day off, I know there will be no charge. After all, she is not a prostitute. She's a woman who enjoys spending time with me and having sex.

The point here is not to talk about my session or my women. But rather to say it's just a mindset. Pick a few women you connect with. And make sure you take care of your partner, emotionally, and physically.

[QUOTE=HottieHunter42;2658842]I'm white. Decent-looking (the girls all like to say "Oh! You so hansum!" but not sure if I can treally trust their sincerity, due to the circumstances LOL). Smart, funny good personality. NOt a lot of $$ though, but otherwise, I'm a pretty good catch LOL!

I do know how to say hello and thank you in Chinese. They do seem to perk up and respond when they hear you at least try to converse with themin their native language. I guess it shows that you're serious and show at least a bit of interest in them as a person.

And I guess that's where it starts![/QUOTE]

Any MPs with a Latin flair? Had my fill of AMPs for the moment; PM me with details.

Any one been to the massage apartment in Lakeview?

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/tantric-mutual-touch-rubs-with-gorgeous-latina/24432943[/URL]

I know her pics are fake; I tried TTOFT but my spidey senses where in overdrive that night and I ended up standing her up probably over nothing. I think she works with a few other girls.

[QUOTE=HornyChi;2658463][URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/sexy-irish-brunette-that-all-men-adore/28647783[/URL]

She posts a lot on BP and my imagination is running away with me. Does anyone know if she is legit? I've tried looking other places without much luck.[/QUOTE][URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?7597-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2551429#post2551429[/URL].

[QUOTE=Bob521;2657340]For example, today I saw a good friend. Gave her $80 tip. For legit massage. Tomorrow we are going to a hotel and fuck for three hours. No tip. Just sex. It all balances out. Also when I left the legit place today, I saw another friend. Make out session. Oral sex. Fully Naked. Got her off twice. $60. Tip. But she wants to see me on her day off now. The idea, is that both people should enjoy. Then it is less about money, and more about having a good time. And having a good friend. Bob.[/QUOTE]3-4 years ago I use to have 3 setups like that from massage place, but they have moved on to far away places.
Good thing bcs I was getting involved with one of them seriously. And at my age that's dangerous.

and I have heard of this back then from the ladies but mostly to mature/older guys ,hardly any young guys ...and yes befriend them first and be clear if they might be shopping for green card

New to all of this. First time poster long time lurker. I am considering moving from AMP to incall. Anyone have intel on her? She has been advertising regularly on BP in body rub section. I did RTFF and don't see any posts on her. Posted in BP advertiser reviews forum as well.

Appreciate any info. Thanks.

[URL]http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/naughty_and_-nice_nude_-massage_with-_a_cute-_curvy_-brunette/3499977[/URL]

I meet most of the women in foot spas, so they do not normally give hand-jobs to guys. These are all lonely women with no transportation, few friends, separated from their families. Also, it turns out, they have not had sex in quite a while.

Perhaps that's a big part of it. Meeting these women in a (mostly) non-sexual context, I. E. A foot spa. Somewhere where sex is neither provided or expected. Where it is not a part of the overall equation from the start.

Maybe that's key. Maybe the reason that relationships rarely grow out of a routine massage parlor scenario is because the women working there know that it's a job that there is little opportunity or reason for attachment (though I'm sure it does still happen from time to time). They know what men are there for, and they know what THEY are there for (money) and that limits the potential.

A couple of years ago, I met a girl at a strip club. We have remained close friends, but she has made it fairly clear that there will never be more than that between us, since she knows where we met and believes that this would prevent us from ever being in a relationship, since I'll always remember her in that context, and she fears that it could be brought us and used against her during a future argument. Also, she knows why I was there, so let's be honest about that, too LOL! The whole working girl / monger dichotomy, preventing any future serious entanglements between anyone meeting under those circumstances.

But, if you meet in a non-directly sexual situation, you can perhaps grow it into some more. Maybe much more.

And yes. Being nice I'm sure helps, too.

HH.

[QUOTE=HottieHunter42;2660451]

But, if you meet in a non-directly sexual situation, you can perhaps grow it into some more. Maybe much more.

And yes. Being nice I'm sure helps, too.

HH.[/QUOTE]Been there done that. This has never worked for me. In fact it's more trouble than it's worth. For me meeting ladies the old fashoned traditional way is a waste. I want to have fun now, not in ten years. LOL. At least with a pro you know what to expect.

Actually, I do both. I see my relationship friends. But I also go to Anna's, Yun, Lux, etc. Actually, because I get the contact information, I've maintained contact with quite a few women that move on to other places. It is really just networking. Like in conventional "sales". Introductions, etc. Its really a numbers game. Bob.

[QUOTE=RonM;2660493]Been there done that. This has never worked for me. In fact it's more trouble than it's worth. For me meeting ladies the old fashoned traditional way is a waste. I want to have fun now, not in ten years. LOL. At least with a pro you know what to expect.[/QUOTE]