Ripoff Reports

Ally,

I am saddened to read this report. I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you.

Thank you for putting the alert out and making sure another lady doesn't give this creep the chance to behave as such again.

Pm me if you need a provider friend to talk to.

All the best to you,

Dawn

UOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1536612]He goes by MadPatter2001 on here and he not only didn't pay me, but he basically tried to rape me. I have info on him, and will be using it in the future. I enjoy this hobby very much, but there are limits, and he definitely went over mine this evening.

Be Safe. Be Careful.

Ally[/QUOTE]

Ally,

I am saddened to read this report. I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you.

Thank you for putting the alert out and making sure another lady doesn't give this creep the chance to behave as such again.

Pm me if you need a provider friend to talk to.

All the best to you,

Dawn

UOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1536612]He goes by MadPatter2001 on here and he not only didn't pay me, but he basically tried to rape me. I have info on him, and will be using it in the future. I enjoy this hobby very much, but there are limits, and he definitely went over mine this evening.

Be Safe. Be Careful.

Ally[/QUOTE]

Ally,

I went and checked out his 5 forum reports. Report # 1841 in the escort member discussions thread is what caught my attention. At the bottom of the report he replies. It's all mixed in with the quote from another member. He stated that he likes to play rough and such. This is by NO means taking up for the man, not at all. What happened between you two is way un cool and no provider deserves to be mistreated. We are ladies regardless of what we choose to do. We should be respected and all men should know that no means no. Guess I'm only posting this so as other ladies know that he indeed likes to get rough. He will undoubtedly reply to your claims and have a different story.

I'm very curious as to how his visit with Ms Candice played out.

Did you contact her prior to get a reference? Did she provide one for him?

Again, I'm very sorry to hear that you were treated in such ways. All of us ladies need to look out for each other and when things like this happen, it should be made known so other ladies don't have to experience the same thing. We should all play safe and look out for one another. Providing references is one of the ways of doing such. I Am under the impression that some of the ladies who post on this forum do not like to give references. How sad that is because that's one of the ways of helping us all stay safe.

Contact me if you need a provider to rant to. I'm sure such an experience can be very unsettling and emotional.

Take care,

Dawn.

[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1536612]He goes by MadPatter2001 on here and he not only didn't pay me, but he basically tried to rape me. I have info on him, and will be using it in the future. I enjoy this hobby very much, but there are limits, and he definitely went over mine this evening.

Be Safe. Be Careful.

Ally[/QUOTE]

She said the getting me for more part as to say I got a special. But she "had" to leave either way so I was lucky.

[QUOTE=ChickaAmante; 1536450]Same experience except for the threat of getting me for more. So technically it was not a rip off but wanted to share my review since it is appropriate here given the previous reports. She has bad attitude (short tempered) and that was enough for me. It was the first and last straw for me. LOL.

PS- she really doesn't care for this forum as she did mention that same thing to me as well.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1536612]He goes by MadPatter2001 on here and he not only didn't pay me, but he basically tried to rape me. I have info on him, and will be using it in the future. I enjoy this hobby very much, but there are limits, and he definitely went over mine this evening.

Be Safe. Be Careful.

Ally[/QUOTE]So sorry girl-that's sucks.

You should probably put his info on providerbuzz. Com and other blacklists, that way no one else will have to experience that.

Stay safe,

Molly

[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1536612]He goes by MadPatter2001 on here and he not only didn't pay me, but he basically tried to rape me. I have info on him, and will be using it in the future. I enjoy this hobby very much, but there are limits, and he definitely went over mine this evening.

Be Safe. Be Careful.

Ally[/QUOTE]Sorry to hear about that Horrible experince. Maybe it times to get a gun for protection or someone for security in case things goes wrong.

Like most hobbyist, I am grateful to you for your services and respectful of you as a person with feelings and a heart. Incidents like what happened to you makes me very mad. I am sorry this happened to you and appreciate you sending out a warning to the other ladies. Stay safe always!

[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1536612]He goes by MadPatter2001 on here and he not only didn't pay me, but he basically tried to rape me. I have info on him, and will be using it in the future. I enjoy this hobby very much, but there are limits, and he definitely went over mine this evening.

Be Safe. Be Careful.

Ally[/QUOTE]

This is Rhonda from CL, I advertise for massages, I was contacted also by this person, but after not wanting to give me an actual address an repeatedly telling me he was a member of this site, I refused to see him. He tried on numerous occasions to meet with me through email, left a number but refused to answer the call my guard was up very glad I didn't see him.

[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1536612]He goes by MadPatter2001 on here and he not only didn't pay me, but he basically tried to rape me. I have info on him, and will be using it in the future. I enjoy this hobby very much, but there are limits, and he definitely went over mine this evening.

Be Safe. Be Careful.

Ally[/QUOTE]Ally, I am Rhonda, a provider from CL, and was contacted by this same person. He would not give me an actual addresss, nor answer the number he gave me to call, at that point my guard was up. He kept repeating to me he was a member from this site as though he should instantly be trusted and told me he was a wealthy man who would pay well if treated right. I refused to see him, thankfully. I am sorry to hear this happened to you, really makes us all in the business take a second look.

Be Safe,

Rhonda

Ally,

Thanks for having the courage to go into more detail about your horrible and unwarranted experience.

It must not be easy to remember it, let alone go into detail about.

But your courage in not letting one bad man ruin the hobby for you proves your independence and integrity.

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions or concerns.

Molly

[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1537559]Dawn,

Yeah I did see where it said that he likes to play rough, and I will admit the tying up and the spanking turns me on and doesn't bother me BUT, when a safe word is used, and I am begging for you to stop what you are doing, and not only do you not, but you continue to do it harder and laugh and get off on the fact I am crying my eyes out (which I am a very strong person and it takes a lot for me to cry) , then enough is enough. I appreciate you being there for me, and Molly too. He actually contacted another provider last night and thanks to my email alerting them about him, she didn't see him. So I possibly saved someone from another bad experience.

He didn't see Candice, I am aware of that much. He did see Lovli though, and apparently the same things didn't happen. And I saw him before the session later that evening downtown in Cincinnati just to acquaint ourselves so that I wasn't nervous and we were okay with each other. I am disappointed and upset with myself for some of the things that could've been done better, but I guess I was more scared than anything. And thank god he did take me back and not do further harm to me.

That doesn't mean I don't want clients to see me. I love this profession, or else I never would've gotten into it. I enjoy very much what I do, and don't have one bad review, and I think a lot of the members can attest to that. So please don't stop seeing me just because one idiot tried to take something that wasn't his. I will just be more careful next time, and verify more.

Thanks Dawn and Molly again, you guys are the best!

Be Safe,

Ally[/QUOTE]That is a scary story. Glad you are getting the word out. Wish a pic could be circulated among you girls so a name change doesn't fool you either. All alone and helpless with safe word mocked with more punishment had to have been the worst scare ever. I love kink but that kind of shit ruins it. That could have escalated if this whack-job is a psychotic. I don't what you girls can do but please take care of youselves. JG

Went to see Zarah and things started okay at a no-tell in roselawn. Service was good (although not real enthusiastic) and she seemed very nice. I eventually took her to lunch and had a nice conversation. When we left, she got in the car a couple minutes before me. That's when my gold ring went missing from a pouch in the car. I eventually got it back from a pawn shop. They bought it from a guy looking a lot like Zarah's boyfriend who I saw her with while chasing down the ring.

Gatty23

[QUOTE=Gatty23; 1550809]Went to see Zarah and things started okay at a no-tell in roselawn. Service was good (although not real enthusiastic) and she seemed very nice. I eventually took her to lunch and had a nice conversation. When we left, she got in the car a couple minutes before me. That's when my gold ring went missing from a pouch in the car. I eventually got it back from a pawn shop. They bought it from a guy looking a lot like Zarah's boyfriend who I saw her with while chasing down the ring.

Gatty23[/QUOTE]That never happened I don't have a boyfriend and I sure hell did NOT steal anything from you that is a bull face lie!

[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams;1537559]Yeah I did see where it said that he likes to play rough, and I will admit the tying up and the spanking turns me on and doesn't bother me BUT, when a safe word is used, and I am begging for you to stop what you are doing, and not only do you not, but you continue to do it harder and laugh and get off on the fact I am crying my eyes out (which I am a very strong person and it takes a lot for me to cry) , then enough is enough.[/QUOTE]It's jerks like this, the ones who think a sub just wants to be hit and raped, who spoil it for the rest of us tops who actually understand what a scene is all about, why a real bottom likes it, and who like giving them what they want. I no longer wonder why I can't find a provider who will willingly play out a scene with me, at least not without meeting me several times before the fact. It's disgusting.

If you are really into that, I sincerely hope the experience doesn't put you off of the whole thing. It would be sad to have you afraid of something you enjoy, but for a trusted partner.

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