Nothing New on the Phone Number Exchange
[QUOTE=Little Wad;1618505]I had been frequenting The Living Room over the past couple months, and had gotten pretty chummy with a girl from there named Dreama. We exchanged phone numbers a while back, and every now and then I would get a text from her asking if I could come to the bar. Sometimes I did, sometimes I didn't. I think that this is something new the dancers are doing. Harvesting numbers to drum up some dollars from good customers when times are slow in the bar.[/QUOTE]The phone number exchange is nothing new, I've been giving my number to hot dancers for at least 4 years. I'm a good guy and tip well, so they want to text me when they are going in on a slow night, or when their rent is due, and they wasted their money on blow (or whatever). Of course it takes some time to understand which girls are just milking you for cash, versus the ones that want OTC for money.
Now you know you've been had, so I don't need to cover that. But you should have let her know that she just lost a revenue stream, for the bait and switch. Definitely remind her if you see her again. And do not ever give her another dollar, unless you just took you dick out of her.
Here's the real challenge for you: DO NOT speak about you OTC meeting with any of the dancers or club employees. It simply never happened. Dancers will background check you against gossip and other dancer's stories. So if you come in the club complaining, chances are you'll never pull another dancer out.
Good luck.