Gator's b*tches better be using jimmies!
Not a review, but a concerning observation.
Had 2 different providers, one of whom is an occasional BP advertiser, the one a UTR, offer within 48 hours of each other recently to perform all services uncovered. I even got the "I'm fixed, so it's okay" line both times. I declined both times. I'm as much a fan of a great BBBJ as the next guy, but once we're south of your chin we're in territory where I insist on coverage.
One provider making the offer wouldn't have concerned me that much, though I still would have declined. That 2 of them who seemingly have no connection (they're 20 miles and 20 years apart) really alarmed me. What's the thought process? Do they believe allowing uncovered service will make clients more likely to repeat?
Has anyone else here run into this recently?
Re: Looking for some Advice
[QUOTE=CanesMan82;3313496]At approximately 3 PM today I had an under the radar girl stop over who I have met in person a solid 10 times I've been friends with on Facebook for quite a while and almost no her entire life story stop by for a visit.
She ran in my bedroom where she's been multiple times and grab the donation offer from my dresser which I had already set out my own damn fault but I've met her so many times I didn't think anything of it. And then declared that her cell phone was out in her car or she possibly just left it on the cash register at the gas station I was like OK didn't think anything of it walked out my driveway hopped in her car and drove off.
I pretty much knew within a minute to a minute and a half that I've been ripped off but I had known her for so long I was thinking to myself there's no friggin way she just did that I popped up her profile on Facebook and she had already blocked me within five minutes of leaving. What would you guys do?[/QUOTE]Let it go. Last thing I would do is call the police and report a "theft. " "Stupid Money" has a way of disappearing one way or another.
Just cut bait and move on
[QUOTE=CanesMan82;3313496]At approximately 3 PM today I had an under the radar girl stop over who I have met in person a solid 10 times I've been friends with on Facebook for quite a while and almost no her entire life story stop by for a visit. We texted all day long as we always do she came in and parked in the driveway as normal came in and use the restroom and even played with my dog and shot the shit for a little while, she had a little handbag with her and some sweatshirt she was just carrying because it was chilly outside so I didn't think anything of it whatsoever after she use the restroom and played with my dog for a little bit longer she then declared that she couldn't find her cell phone and was going to see if it was in her purse or might have to run out to her car to grab it.
She ran in my bedroom where she's been multiple times and grab the donation offer from my dresser which I had already set out my own damn fault but I've met her so many times I didn't think anything of it. And then declared that her cell phone was out in her car or she possibly just left it on the cash register at the gas station I was like OK didn't think anything of it walked out my driveway hopped in her car and drove off.
I pretty much knew within a minute to a minute and a half that I've been ripped off but I had known her for so long I was thinking to myself there's no friggin way she just did that I popped up her profile on Facebook and she had already blocked me within five minutes of leaving. To make a long story short I have video surveillance of her pulling in my driveway walking inside the house with the jacket and then walking outside the house probably nine minutes later without the jacket which she left here that stinks of cigarette smoke I already called my security company and they keep the video on file for 30 days, should I do anything about this alert the police or just cut my losses for $100 and never speak to her again the rest of my life? I've pretty much just been helping her out here in there just so she can get by because she's unemployed right now it's my own damn fault for leaving the money out but never in 1 million years did I think she would do this to me I'm just kind of wondering what you guys would do I have a crystal clear video of her walking out and leaving with the money, and now I have googled her name and saying that she's been in trouble with the law quite a bit before. What would you guys do?[/QUOTE]I'd just move on and chalk it up to experience. The way I see it, we mongers are just like illegal immigrants: people commit crimes against them (or their employers will underpay or subject them to OSHA violations) because they know the immigrants aren't likely to report them for fear of being exposed and possibly deported.
Mongers are in the same boat: ROB's know we're not as likely to report them because we'd have to explain what we were doing with a known prostitute in the first place, therefore exposing our own crime to the police and others we'd rather not find out about our activities (like wives, employers, etc). It's also why I don't get [B]TOO[/B] friendly with providers: even if a girl is "known" to you, you still have to remind yourself of exactly what she is. She can (and eventually will if given the chance) sell you out or rip you off. IMHO providers are about in the same category as lawyers and used car salesmen. I trust them about as far as I can throw them.
Your lucky it was only your money! - It's done. Move on.
Congratulations! You have learned a lesson. A relatively inexpensive one. As others have clearly pointed out, you should leave it be. You could have lost much more AND since she knows where you live, there is no telling what additional surprises you might "enjoy!
Sharing a photo in the RIPOFF REPORTS thread of the person who stole from you is the most useful thing you can do. It will warn those smart enough to use this kind of resource. The RIPOFF REPORTS thread is the most appropriate for this discussion and any additional info you can share about the provider.
If you are active in this hobby, this won't be your only encounter with thieves. In the years I've been a monger, I've had more than a few rip off experiences from which I have learned much. I don't make the same mistakes anymore.
I have said here many times, NEVER NEVER NEVER Pay Up Front! Doing so is an open invitation to theft. If a provider insists, RUN, don't walk, to the door and get out. Keep in mind that that is a BUYER'S Market. There are dozens of providers out there. If things don't work out with one, there are many more to try.
I have several regulars that I enjoy seeing every month (at their place, not mine!) Most are wonderful women who I've been seeing for months that give me great service for donations that are well below "market value. " But I NEVER Pay Up Front. I NEVER show the cash or reveal the location of the cash until the end of the visit.
On a more fundamental note, I don't ever invite a provider to my home. Other than Never Paying Up Front, inviting a provider to your home is the next worst idea ever! As has been pointed out here abundantly, inviting a provider to your home is the same as putting a sign out front that says, "Easy Pickins Right Here!
So you should have learned two lessons from this experience (if not several.) No matter how well you get along with a provider, never assume that you can trust them. NEVER! Have fun with them but never trust them.
Lick your wounds. Learn the lessons and move on.
RTG.
[QUOTE=CanesMan82;3313496]<snip> should I do anything about this alert the police or just cut my losses for $100 and never speak to her again the rest of my life? I've pretty much just been helping her out here in there just so she can get by because she's unemployed right now it's my own damn fault for leaving the money out but never in 1 million years did I think she would do this to me I'm just kind of wondering what you guys would do I have a crystal clear video of her walking out and leaving with the money, and now I have googled her name and saying that she's been in trouble with the law quite a bit before. What would you guys do?[/QUOTE]