Hold out till they reach out
[QUOTE=Niceguy808;2239204]I'm wondering how common this issue might be:
I've noticed a recurring problem over the years that I've been in the Hobby. Often, when I see a provider for the very first time. And I mean a top-rated provider who seems to currently be all the rage on the forums that week or month. My first time with her would be amazing, absolutely amazing. I would be so impressed with her that I'd make it a point to see her again and even become a regular, if time and finances allow.
The second appointment would still be good, but not as good as the first time. The third time would show a marked decline in service quality where she's obviously not putting in the same effort as the first or even the second.
If I see her again on a fourth or fifth time, the service is really getting rather bland. It might still be good, but I might be getting short-timed or rushed to make way for the next guy that day / night.
It's become almost an expected development for me. The first or second time is often way better that sessions afterwards and I started to feel taken for granted, as if she doesn't have to work so hard for me anymore.
I've usually responded by just stopping after the third try and moving on, hoping that a return will result in first time quality again. Sometimes that happens, but not always.
Playing the field doesn't fit my nature, I guess, and I suppose some providers realize this and assume that I'll be back sooner or later.
Any advice?[/QUOTE]I didn't know there was a drop off in service when you visit a provider the more often you go in for a visit, I've had the total opposite as my first visit with a provider got better each visit, but then again 99 percent of the times I just go for a chat session.
My advise would be for you to wait for them to text or call you then go and visit them, I'm very sure that you'll get great service whenever they reach out to you like that.
YMMV over time with providers
[QUOTE=Niceguy808;2239204]I'm wondering how common this issue might be:
I've noticed a recurring problem over the years that I've been in the Hobby. Often, when I see a provider for the very first time. And I mean a top-rated provider who seems to currently be all the rage on the forums that week or month. My first time with her would be amazing, absolutely amazing. I would be so impressed with her that I'd make it a point to see her again and even become a regular, if time and finances allow.
The second appointment would still be good, but not as good as the first time. The third time would show a marked decline in service quality where she's obviously not putting in the same effort as the first or even the second.
If I see her again on a fourth or fifth time, the service is really getting rather bland. It might still be good, but I might be getting short-timed or rushed to make way for the next guy that day / night.
It's become almost an expected development for me. The first or second time is often way better that sessions afterwards and I started to feel taken for granted, as if she doesn't have to work so hard for me anymore.
I've usually responded by just stopping after the third try and moving on, hoping that a return will result in first time quality again. Sometimes that happens, but not always.
Playing the field doesn't fit my nature, I guess, and I suppose some providers realize this and assume that I'll be back sooner or later.
Any advice?[/QUOTE]For the most part, much of what you say is true in a very general way. I've had a few (very few) girls that seem to tapper off in "quality" of service. But I have always attributed that to a burn out factor of the job itself, not so much "our" relationship. This is especially true for relatively new girls to business or to being here in Hawaii. Perfect example is the blonde "Julie" who started at P10 and would leave to return to Vegas every few weeks. She was a new girl who had stellar "gee whiz" attitude with every session. After awhile, it was a job and I know she was busy and in demand by many (senior mongers here will know who I am speaking about). As George Costanza would say, "it ain't you, it's me!" That is, the provider speaking. Julie turned into the proverbial DEAD FISH. Too bad for us. She was porn star quality. She disappeared and came back to Hawaii a few years later, showed up in a few AMPs and even tried solo biz. She NEVER got her groove back and long since disappeared.
After fucking 4 or 5 times a night (maybe twice that many if you add a few days into mix, too), and do that for a few weeks, it's time for a break. I suggest you reconsider the time frame you are talking about with your selected provider. Do you know if she has taken a vacay at all?? Chat her up and ask.
I've been seeing one girl exclusively these last several months. Mostly out of safety and security issues than anything else. She's a hot fuck! Every. Single. Time. I love it. As best I can tell she does too. I have no reason to think she has tired of me (uh, yet). I probably see her about every other month, due to schedule and funds. But it works for me. If I could afford to, I'd see her about once a week or ten days. But From past experiences, I know eventually I'll burn out on her too. That's what this hobby is all about. Finding new and exciting pussy, its as simple as that. If you wanted to fuck one pussy, no matter how fucking great it was, you'd get married. Eventually, you'd get tired of that too. I promise you. Ask other SR mongers here.
My favorite go to gal split to the mainland once and was gone for a few weeks. Came back and we hooked up. But I did NOT know she was gone. We fucked long and hard and it was the closest I've ever come to thinking I might be having a heart attack. She came more times than I remember and kept asking me to eat her out (her favorite! DATY), which I obliged. After we were done and wayyyy past one hour, she then mentioned in passing that was her first fuck since leaving here and she was horny. Lucky, fucking me, eh!? But otherwise, I figured it was just another session, right?
Great pussy is good to find. Great pussy over a long period of time, is something else. But great pussy over a long period of time that you hit over and over and over again, and it's still good? Well my man, consider yourself lucky and a rarity. THAT pussy you might want to settle down with.
