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[QUOTE=ArtsLu32;5307030]Any intel on:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a[/URL]
Or:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb[/URL][/QUOTE]I've never met her. She messaged me on SA the other day, but my membership expired 3/11. But she's got a recent post on STG. She lost me with the non GFE comment in the ad.
[URL]https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/redhead-girl-nextdoor/223672578213[/URL]
[QUOTE=HoosierDaddy69;5309578]I've never met her. She messaged me on SA the other day, but my membership expired 3/11. But she's got a recent post on STG. She lost me with the non GFE comment in the ad.
[URL]https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/redhead-girl-nextdoor/223672578213[/URL][/QUOTE]Interesting. I didn't see that stg post when I searched earlier. I was supposed to meet up with her. She flaked on me a couple times and went comms dark. Waste of time.
This one is in Singapore, trading bitcoin. Plus pic looks a lot younger than 37 years old.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1406b3de-e0cb-47dd-af95-869c11c5187e[/URL]
I messaged her, and she messaged back immediately, asking to text. Red Flag #1.
She then says she's in a sorority and needs to be discreet. Reminded her she didn't hide her face, and her sorority sisters could see her SA ad if they look. Red Flag #2.
Asked her where she lived, and she replied "Brentwood" - Yeah right. Red Flag #3.
Then I asked for the particular pic to see that she is for real, and crickets since then.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ab8fde95-4499-4dc9-a5f9-265e3c80d25c[/URL]
Another fake, don't waste your time.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f939dce7-5b36-4416-9c54-ac0c678b25c7[/URL]
[QUOTE=SkyRyder;5298874]The amount quoted seemed a bit steep for only drinks, although she did say she couldn't host. Doesn't sound like a fun afternoon.[/QUOTE]I like April and have seen her for years. She likes to have a couple of cocktails or glasses of wine and then off to the hotel. Soon she will be able to host again. She has never been sloppy drunk with me but does relax some. She is open to wearing sexy outfits and is a sweet lady in my opinion. I have seen her about 10-15 times and never an issue.
Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.
[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.[/QUOTE]I experienced that years ago, and just knew that I needed variety. So the only way to combat it is to build up an inventory of different girls, where you can go thru the rotation. Some I see more than others, for sure. But the others, when you only see them 'once in a while' that usually makes it better. Plus a lot of times those girls know they want to see you more often, and will try harder to impress you to make you want to 'come back sooner'.
[QUOTE=Fishguy717;5314159]Another fake, don't waste your time.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f939dce7-5b36-4416-9c54-ac0c678b25c7[/URL][/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f939dce7-5b36-4416-9c54-ac0c678b25c7[/URL]
Her spiel in text:
I want to meet a man who know's what he wants and isn't afriad to go the extra mile for his lady, He's happy to see the beauty in life. I am looking for a man who has experience wih life. I want a Possible SD&SB Relationship.
Because I like older men who know what they want, that's ready and willing to support my dream and Appreciate who I am because I have been taken for granted far too many times, Friday, April 23 2021,6:28 AM.
[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.[/QUOTE]I'm no longer seeking but IMHO. I like variety, that's why I have previously enjoyed meeting up with some younger women. I usually saw them about 3-4 x for an outing and some playtime before the thrill of a new partner for s*x waned off. They by nature of being quite younger have limited life experiences and therefore provide no intellectual stimulus for me. I also did not feel anytype of ego boost when escorting a young pretty woman on my arm when out in town (I know some mongers do). I liked your comment about the work you put in to "catch" them. The SB also put in effort to "find" you so therefore wants the arrangement to continue.
[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.[/QUOTE]Sometimes the thrill is in the hunt.
I've been with the same SB since early 2018. She was 18 when we met. She's not really the SB type, although she loved the idea of it. She had seen a few other guys while we were in our first few months, and I encouraged it, since I knew I would not be able to offer as much $ as she wanted. She eventually grew tired of the flakiness of the other guys and decided to "settle" on just one. Me. Although, it wasn't really settling for her. She developed feelings for me, which wasn't too surprising, considering that she openly admitted from the start that she has daddy issues. No worries, there. She's a good girl, super smart, accomplished, and she will go far. I enjoy her company and she's very attractive to me. There's definitely a maturity difference between us, but I've met 20-somethings who can't hold a candle to this girl in terms of intellect. We have great sex, and she's allowed her limits to be pushed along the way. I even get to go raw with her, which is a real treat, of course. Haha! She's getting close to being done with college and moving onto her graduate studies, and will likely have a full time job in the next month or two. That will cause our relationship to change, although she doesn't want to lose me. She'd marry me, if I left my wife, but a roughly 30 year age difference just isn't practical. I haven't paid her anything all year, because my business income has suffered for several months. She accepts that, but still wants me around. OK, no problem. I'm not a bad guy to be with.
Have I gotten bored, at times? Yes. I have run a premium membership on SA several times over this 3 year period. I've only slept with one other girl during this time, and I've had platonic lunch dates with a handful of others. It wasn't that I didn't desire to fuck other girls. I've just not found the same connection with anyone else and most of the girls are asking that high dollar amount that we're all seeing, so it just hasn't happened. The quality of these girls simply isn't what I experienced between 2014-2018 on SA. I didn't even find my current girl on SA, I found her on Ashley Madison, which is a sorry excuse for an affair dating website, by the way.
I don't know if this helps you much, but I figured I'd at least share about my "unicorn" experience.
[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.[/QUOTE]I have a similar problem. Although lately the sugar game has gone downhill. But pre-scamdemic, I was fairly successful at it. I have a pretty fetish. Anything from 18 to 32 is fine, but she has to be one of "those" girls. The one that every guy checks out when she walks into a place. So SA was my go to site for that. I would start out with fairly vanilla sex but then my enjoyment came from pushing their sexual comfort zone a little more each date. At first it was the usual. Nice bare blowjob followed by covered cowgirl then doggy followed by finishing in the condom. Then I'd move them to bareback. Then into finishing with facials or swallowing. Then anal. Sometimes a threesome with another person. A couple of times that actually included another straight male hobbiest for a MFM. But you can see what happens. When I get to the point where this beautiful girl half my age is letting me fuck her in the ass and then cum in her mouth, there's no more frontier to explore. Once you're on top of Mount Everest, you lose interest in the climb. With some women this whole scheme only took four or five dates, with some it took much longer. But then I was done. I felt that I had to find the next pretty young woman to make into my dirty little *****. Oh well, we all have our "thing" I suppose.
[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.[/QUOTE]I'm kind of opposite in that I don't mind having an ongoing thing with just 1 - for a couple reasons.
First, there does HAVE to be a mutual chemistry / connection. So if that's not there, then it never get to 2 months for me. But if there is, since it's hard to find, I'm fine with just one good one.
Secondly, I think things can get better the more you see each other (again, IF my first point above is there).
But I certainly do see both sides of the coin. And sometimes the chase is fun as well.
Such a fun hobby we have LOL.
[QUOTE=Scooter6;5317245]I'm kind of opposite in that I don't mind having an ongoing thing with just 1 - for a couple reasons.
First, there does HAVE to be a mutual chemistry / connection. So if that's not there, then it never get to 2 months for me. But if there is, since it's hard to find, I'm fine with just one good one.
Secondly, I think things can get better the more you see each other (again, IF my first point above is there).
But I certainly do see both sides of the coin. And sometimes the chase is fun as well.
Such a fun hobby we have LOL.[/QUOTE]Can I just say, for me, when the boredom sets in. It's usually not sexual or physical boredom. It's just the company. I mean they don't suddenly become offensive either. It's just that girls, and maybe people in general, are actually quite boring in their twenties with their endless partying and their shitty fucking music, and their refusal to read anything longer than a goddamn tweet, and their "woe is me" whining. I don't see myself ever getting bored with putting my dick in the same pretty mouth over and over. It's the crap coming out of that mouth that drives me on to the next one.