The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5293111]I can understand what you're saying.

In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.

I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.

Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.

I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.

If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.[/QUOTE]**Your last paragraph: Nah, you're in the right spot.

I appreciate your reply. Even though it's a different angle from the way I see it, it's still a genuinely honest perspective. Thanks.

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5293111]I can understand what you're saying.

In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.

I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.

Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.

I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.

If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.[/QUOTE]You're not wrong! Before moving here in 2010, I spent 10 yrs in Philly. And it's a WHOLE other world up there. Be it on their versions of BP etc and other sites. And yes even on CL before they got rid of all their 'adult' categories.

It was much easier to find someone you could see regularly without all the bs and nonsense you see here. And all the candy addicted wannabes that are just looking for their next fix, hobby be damned. And who cares who it is or any of the 'details' as long as they get their fix.

It's a much more tiring game here than it is up there. But that's just how it is.

It's truly like living on 2 different planets.

Sure there have been the occasional one here or there from SA that have worked out for a bit. But in the overall grand scheme of things, the two markets are MILES apart. It is what it is.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;5293202]You're not wrong! Before moving here in 2010, I spent 10 yrs in Philly. And it's a WHOLE other world up there. Be it on their versions of BP etc and other sites. And yes even on CL before they got rid of all their 'adult' categories.

It was much easier to find someone you could see regularly without all the bs and nonsense you see here. And all the candy addicted wannabes that are just looking for their next fix, hobby be damned. And who cares who it is or any of the 'details' as long as they get their fix.

It's a much more tiring game here than it is up there. But that's just how it is.

It's truly like living on 2 different planets.

Sure there have been the occasional one here or there from SA that have worked out for a bit. But in the overall grand scheme of things, the two markets are MILES apart. It is what it is.[/QUOTE]A lot of what you describe could be said for Jax 10+ years ago. I think, like everything else, this game just changes over time. I especially hate the OnlyFans effect it's had on the game. Girls that might have otherwise been a provider (even if only occasionally or UTR, etc) now don't have to. They can make as much or more by selling their pics / vids. I still detest SA for allowing them to do it and not really enforcing their rules. But they're always going to take the path of least resistance and do whatever gets them the most traffic. Traffic = revenues. Mr Ward could care less how hard you have to look for a new spinner to spin.

So I found the email seeking sent me notifying me of my account being suspended in my spam mail so I decided to email them back just to find out which message violated the terms and conditions. I had explained to them that the extent of my conversations always confined to the options listed on the site such as no strings attached-discrete-mutually beneficial-meet for dinner / drinks and that if intimacy was ever discussed it had nothing to do with the monetary allowances requested. I recieved a return email that said if I read the terms and conditions again and return an email stating in writing that I acknowledged and would abide by those terms that my account would be reinstated. I did that and my account was reinstated. Still no clue of what message or messages got me suspended in the first place but I figured it best I didn't press to much for an answer. I only have a week left on this membership and probably won't renew for awhile.

[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;5291760]First let me say I was surprised that they did. But they did. A couple things up front:

*I was accused essentially of offering compensation for action. I try to be careful about that sort of thing, but probably screwed up with somebody I was texting- but had no specific memory of it! I believe they will ban guys after a complaint but no specific evidence.

*I ended up exchanging a couple of emails back and forth with SA about this issue. Ultimately, as a condition of re-instatement the person at SA I had to state in a follow up email that I had re-read the rules and would comply going forward, Easy enough!! Re-instated in 48 hrs.

*Your situation is unique to you so don't write them with exactly what I did, mix it up a little bit with your wording etc.

OK- first, once they deactivate you, you can't just go to their help desk, so you need to address your email to: [EMAIL]support@seeking.com[/EMAIL]. Compose your email from the email address associated with your banned account (so they at least know who it is).

*BTW, I think this is only likely to work if you have been banned VERY RECENTLY. I would suggest you not try it otherwise.

*Here is essentially the Letter I wrote to them:

"To Whom it may concern.

I received an email today telling me that my account was permanently banned for "soliciting sex for compensation". I would like to be provided with some explanation of why this action was taken against my account.

In my profile I had stated that I would like intimacy to be part of an agreement if possible which I believe is probably not an uncommon hope of most men on the site. Additionally, I stated I expected to provide spoiling and an allowance as part of an agreement which I believe most women are expecting on SA. I do not think this means I was "soliciting" or anything of the sort. SA approved my profile so I assumed it was perfectly fine.

Let me finish by saying I have had members on SA who have reacted badly to completely civil conversations if they don't like the exchange, issue an insult and then abruptly block me. My concern is such a person may have made bogus claims to have me removed from SA.

I am hoping this situation can be reviewed and resolved and my account reinstated as soon as possible.

Best regards".

SO THAT'S IT. MIX UP YOUR WORDING IF YOU WRITE THEM. IF A BUNCH OF YOU JUST CUT AND PASTE THIS VER BATIM THEY WILL BE ONTO IT IN NO TIME!!

THEY RESPONDED TO THIS INITIAL QUERY AND WITHIN A FEW EMAILS BACK AND FORTH I HAD MY ACCOUNT REACTIVATED.

Hope this helps someone![/QUOTE]It's been at least a year since SA deleted or whatever my account. Let me see if I can find out what for an maybe bullshit my way back in. Too many girls trying to sell pictures and videos either way.

[QUOTE=Fishguy717;5292751]This one came out of the box wanting to text, first red flag. Then sent me a hot pic (attached here) that was TGTBT. Then sent me a link to a site that says it's for group chat, but my pc is pretty well protected, and detected a virus in the little app they want you to run. I would avoid.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3ffca668-decf-4c0c-ac49-7558245afafa[/URL][/QUOTE]Hell YEAH I'd pay for that! It's got to be a fake profile.

I got a PM from this lady, and she wanted to know if I was in JAX sometime. Her private photos show a nice, MILF type with what I suspect are not OEM boobs. She said she wanted something that included intimacy and would prefer meeting for lunch than dinner. She preferred to 2-3 hour meet up. I'll admit I am curious.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/528f3e99-d9f4-4ee3-bc72-d8765463ec7c[/URL]

[QUOTE=SkyRyder;5298474]I got a PM from this lady, and she wanted to know if I was in JAX sometime. Her private photos show a nice, MILF type with what I suspect are not OEM boobs. She said she wanted something that included intimacy and would prefer meeting for lunch than dinner. She preferred to 2-3 hour meet up. I'll admit I am curious.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/528f3e99-d9f4-4ee3-bc72-d8765463ec7c[/URL][/QUOTE]The obnoxious drunk🥴🤪 "Meet For Drinks" girl

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5293111]I can understand what you're saying.

In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.

I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.

Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.

I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.

If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.[/QUOTE]When it comes to sex providers I've run the gamut, from high end to low end and everything in between though I personally have never been attracted to the street walking scene, car dates just aren't my style. While all of us are searching for that thing that gets us off, which differs from monger to monger, finding that thing can be an exercise in frustration at times. I can't tell you the money that I've blown through trying to satisfy that urge. When the "right one" comes along, which doesn't happen very often, it's personally worth all the time, money and effort I've put forth. For many of us it's more about the hunt which while trying to find "the one" leads us to see many women, some decent some not so much. But that first encounter always sends a bit of adrenaline coursing through my veins, one vein in particular! That first feeling of satisfaction as my cock is entering their pussy then sometimes again as I'm about to plunge my cock into their asshole is all part and parcel of the game we're all ultimately involved in. Such is the life of a sporting man. JD.

[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;5298146]So I found the email seeking sent me notifying me of my account being suspended in my spam mail so I decided to email them back just to find out which message violated the terms and conditions. I had explained to them that the extent of my conversations always confined to the options listed on the site such as no strings attached-discrete-mutually beneficial-meet for dinner / drinks and that if intimacy was ever discussed it had nothing to do with the monetary allowances requested. I recieved a return email that said if I read the terms and conditions again and return an email stating in writing that I acknowledged and would abide by those terms that my account would be reinstated. I did that and my account was reinstated. Still no clue of what message or messages got me suspended in the first place but I figured it best I didn't press to much for an answer. I only have a week left on this membership and probably won't renew for awhile.[/QUOTE]I think what we are finding out is that they likely re-instate if you send them a query (at least soon after they deactivate you). Which tells me that somebody's "report" or complaint to them is about all it takes to trigger the event in the first place and they do not have the time or inclination to actually "investigate" anything in the first place. It's just a cya business move on their part.

[QUOTE=AMnnos;5298498]The obnoxious drunk🥴🤪 "Meet For Drinks" girl[/QUOTE]The amount quoted seemed a bit steep for only drinks, although she did say she couldn't host. Doesn't sound like a fun afternoon.

[QUOTE=SkyRyder;5298874]The amount quoted seemed a bit steep for only drinks, although she did say she couldn't host. Doesn't sound like a fun afternoon.[/QUOTE]You just have to push through her embarrassing tirade after she's thrown back a couple at like a dinner date. Having seen her a couple times in 2014-2015 *forgot actual years, she was practically just getting drunk for free. April / Summer was pretty hot back then. Don't know how she is now.

Any intel on:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a[/URL]

Or:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb[/URL]

[QUOTE=ArtsLu32;5307030]Any intel on:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a[/URL]

Or:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb[/URL][/QUOTE]Messaged her, but no reply. She does like to advertise her back door tho.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb[/URL]

Texted back and forth and it seemed like it would go somewhere. When it came time to meet up comms went dark. Happened twice. Then agreed to meet up at a coffee shop first. She ghosted me. Three strikes. Should have stopped wasting my time after the first.