Amen to that! No time for the hassle.
[QUOTE=DNut;2416143]Guys-- why are you chasing pussy like you're not paying for it? For crying out loud, if they try to make you jump through hoops leading you by your dick, move on! You can beg, plead, jump through hoops, do the hokey pokey, jump out of an airplane if the pussy is free. But when you are paying for it, only idiots would bother with the hassle.
No pussy-for-rent is worth that. Not a single one. You rent because it's supposed to be easier than buying (marriage) or doing a lease (dating). It's a buyer's market out there. There is more hours in a day than there are customers.
Here, let me help you out. Here is a list of other options who will gladly take your money in exchange for an hour's rental fee:
[URL]http://usaadultclassifieds.info/classifieds/350/posts/Cincinnati/&catid=[/URL][/QUOTE]Case in point. Scarlett Cruise. I reached out several times. Did the reference check thing. Received numerous emails and texts, its on, then crickets, it on again, etc. Finally after having the third date and time set (I'm thinking three times is the charm), got a text the night before, "I really don't know you. " LOL! I was done after that one. Moved on just like DNut suggests. Too many out there that will treat you right (several of whom are on the link he provided). Granted Ms. Cruise has a job that hinders her availability, but finally just had to move on. Too unreliable.
Sometimes Senior Advice is the BEST advice.
Stay safe.
TGM.
Interesting Observation. Men are visual sexual partners
So, I posted a bunch of ads (5 I think) for my April tour. I posted 7 - 9 pics, nudes, clothed, front, ass full body, etc. , and one vay-jay-jay pic. The number of views of the single vay-jay-jay pic in each ad has at least double, if not triple, the number of views as the rest of my pictures. I'm not shy.
Heard from a provider today
A guy she had seen twice before, wanted a two hour appointment, (He knew her hourly rate already.) She agreed. Then he says 7:30-10:00. She says that's 2. 5 hours, you sure you want to do that long. He says yes. So she figures it will help her out and decides yo give him the half hour free. She decides to give him a deal and only charge him 250.
So the guy gets there and places cash on the desk. The provider trying to not be rude and look like she is I just worried about the money, doesn't count the money just carries on as if she is not worried. Fast forward to end of appointment and the guys bolts out the door and is out of the parking lot in a flash. She now goes to get the money and the guy left only 160.00. Tries to go stop him but he is gone. Tries to call and text him, no answere, no reply.
This is the kind of shit that make women want their money up front and why they count it. Personally I don't now why guys get so bent out of shape when a girl ask for her money up front. Count it ten times if you want. Make sure I've given the correct amount. If I were a provider I'd do exactly that. It's nothing personal. It's business. For every girl out that that is a pulling shit on guys ther are just as many guys pulling shit on girls. Probably way more. Can't count how many times I heard of a guy staying an hour then saying oh I've only got this much,(not the agreed amount). Throws it out and leaves. What's a girl to do? Beat him up, call the cops? Come here and complain? None of those are options. The only true way is to have a huge biker dude with a gun, stand by the door and collect money. Again not an option. It blows my mind that guys are such douche bags. She saw this guy twice before and he was along time regular of two providers that referenced him. Hell I walked out on Nattti about the fourth time I saw her with out paying, I got to my car before I realized it. She was just standing at the door looking at me I'm sure thought I was going to fuck her over. Was not my intention at all I was just so in awe of the time I just had. I was not thinking of money. I was thinking about the next time I could see her.
My point is, by mistake or intentional fucking a girl can come up short if she trust a guy 100%. She is running a business and people steal from businesses everyday. Don't take it personal when one ask for and counts your cash up front. It is just as rude and a turn off to them to have to ask for or wait till the end and hope the guy pays them the agreed upon price as is seems to be for some guys when she ask for it up front. If you are that scared they are going to take your money and run Stay off CL & BP. Stick with known quality providers. Gatty listed several in a post earlier. There are several more that could be on that list.
Ladies I say take the money at the door and count it out loud.
And guys, if you wonder why she wants the money up front, If it truely offends you, just remember it's not you that caused them to do this, it's some other asshole's fault. Who ever's fault it is, their concern is a valid one.
But WTF do I know?
BuyingSmiles!
Having to cancel an appointment with Class A Sweetie. Aka Sandy
I was on my way to a hook up with Class A sweetie. Taking a long lunch break looking forward to it. I was minutes away when that 911 call comes from work. I won't go into details.
About the call. Was very important and I needed to return ASAP. I turned around and returned and began to text Sandy apologizing and explaining my situation. I was then blasted with several texts from her.
Blaming me and crying about the gas money and time she spend to get to her in call location (I thought she lived there?) She made it a big deal saying she rarely sees clients as it is. Like that is my fault?
I was wondering what the others have encountered with having to cancel appts with Sandy or others. These things happen and are not in our control. I will probably not return based on how I was treated.
Stood up response. Both ways
[QUOTE=Massagedavid;2418943]I was wondering what the others have encountered with having to cancel appts with Sandy or others. These things happen and are not in our control. I will probably not return based on how I was treated.[/QUOTE]You'll forget and she'll forget or let it blow over after some time. This has happened with me several times. You learn a lot about the person by the response she gives. It is about 50/50 between you're an F'ing A-hole and don't worry about it. I have even gotten both responses from the same provider, depending on their situation.
Obviously, none of us want to be stood up but sometimes there is nothing you can do. However, if it happens to me twice by the same provider, I won't go back for a long time. By then, of course, I have forgotten and want to get laid, so all is good. Hah.