Non-Asian Massage Parlor Reports

[QUOTE=Ccup2; 1449213]Real tantra providers are always expensive and they vary in what they do, if you do not what to spend atleast 300 I would look elsewhere. If you have the coin then, you will be bathed, showered or feet washed; you will learn about breathing and maintaining your erection w / o losing it early. They promote intense orgasms. Some providers will allow mutual touching, some it is off limits, more visits means more exploration by the provider.

The two you mention in post I would not see. Many providers have it in their menu but they are not true providers of tantra, most use it as code that teasing will happen and you will get a HJ.[/QUOTE]Any reccos on an authentic tantra provider?

[QUOTE=Longjblues; 1450139]I don't believe that she has been active for some time. Although with that said, her website is still up, but there is no indication of any Activity.

She hasn't been to a Boston M&G for at least a year, I believe. She used to be fairly active in that Yahoo-Group.

Last Review was back in October. 2010.[/QUOTE]She left the business more than a year ago. I still hold out hope that she will return and shoot her an e-mail about every three months, but she hasn't responded.

I thought she was outstanding.

Hi,

I'm wondering 2 things:

1) if there is any advice to someone trying to start visiting these places. I'm generally more reserved but would like some extras when I do sonething. I am looking in the Revere Everett north shore area, and asians do not do much for me. Any reccomendations?

2) anyone visit this ad / know if its good?

[url]http://boston.craigslist.org/gbs/thp/3025029187.html[/url]

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[QUOTE=LB Prowl; 1450743]She left the business more than a year ago. I still hold out hope that she will return and shoot her an e-mail about every three months, but she hasn't responded.

I thought she was outstanding.[/QUOTE]I saw that her page was still up and thought she might be hanging around still. As far as massage and finish quality go, I still think she is the best.

Nancy (ad below) used to post a lot on BP about a year ago. I saw her and had a decent time. I reviewed her on the board that is now defunct.

The pics from the ad are of her. She's probably early to mid 40s with a decent body. She was hosting out of an apartment in Southie when I saw her. It was a very weird setup, and that's why I never went back, but I see that she's moved. If I remember correctly, her therapeutic massage skills are decent, and the HE was by hand. I think she may have gone topless and allowed roaming. I may see her again sometime soon.

The Best Massage On The South Shore By Nancey!

Hi my name is Nancy and I really do give the best massage I'll do my best to relieve of your stress wide verity of lingerie for you to choose from there is plenty of safe parking my fee is 150. 00 an hour 100. 00 for a half hour if you can't reach me leave a message an I will get back asap with discretion 617-756-7935.

[url]http://massachusetts.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/the-best-massage-on-the-south-shore-by-nancey/20096621[/url]

If you've read the forum at all you would know that the theme is for "newbies" to read the forum and report back. I'm still new but I've read alot of posts before venturing out. Try googleing the number searching the forum and if comfortable just going for it. Its a trust thing. Waiting to read your finding.

Dandri

[QUOTE=RearAdmiralJoe; 1451583]Hi,

I'm wondering 2 things:

1) If there is any advice to someone trying to start visiting these places. I'm generally more reserved but would like some extras when I do sonething. I am looking in the Revere Everett north shore area, and asians do not do much for me. Any reccomendations?

2) Anyone visit this ad / know if its good?

[url]http://boston.craigslist.org/gbs/thp/3025029187.html[/url][/QUOTE]

Guys I heard that she retiered and closed her place in Nashua. I hope its not true she was one of the best.

PM me if U have more info.

Thanks

[QUOTE=Natebost; 1449983]Wondering if anyone has seen Natalie up on the Northshore lately. She used to work out of her house in Malden / Medford area. She is a real friendly girl with true massage skills. Her tease is great and her finish is also great.

Any info would be appreciated. PM is fine too.[/QUOTE]Last time I spoke with her was over a year ago. I used to see her fairly regularly. She was definitely one of the most sensual masseuses I've encountered, and her therapeutic massage skills were simply unparalleled. Best of both worlds. She was very cute, too. Anyway, among some other major life changes, she told me that she was changing careers. It's curious that her website is still active, but I wouldn't hold your breathe waiting for her comeback.

[QUOTE=Jcrims;1448785]Has anyone tried a real tantra massage? I saw two interesting ads on BP, one for Cherish Amonda and Lori Dakini. I emailed both but the prices are way to expensive for me. 300+ for an hour.[/QUOTE]Lori is actually pretty good. Used to advert quite a bit and not so much right now. I saw her a few times and has been by far and away the best Tantric experience that I got. That being said, it is mostly bullshit. All of them try to get you to breath and have some sort of ceremony, hers is particualarly thourough as she is pretty into it. Bottom line is that the massage is pretty good, full time and then some. The bath ceremony is done in a small stnd up shower and should be skiped. If you play along, you will have fun.

[QUOTE=Bastardale; 1452186]Nancy (ad below) used to post a lot on BP about a year ago. I saw her and had a decent time. I reviewed her on the board that is now defunct.

The pics from the ad are of her. She's probably early to mid 40s with a decent body. She was hosting out of an apartment in Southie when I saw her. It was a very weird setup, and that's why I never went back, but I see that she's moved. If I remember correctly, her therapeutic massage skills are decent, and the HE was by hand. I think she may have gone topless and allowed roaming. I may see her again sometime soon.

The Best Massage On The South Shore By Nancey!

Hi my name is Nancy and I really do give the best massage I'll do my best to relieve of your stress wide verity of lingerie for you to choose from there is plenty of safe parking my fee is 150. 00 an hour 100. 00 for a half hour if you can't reach me leave a message an I will get back asap with discretion 617-756-7935.

[url]http://massachusetts.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/the-best-massage-on-the-south-shore-by-nancey/20096621[/url][/QUOTE]You remember right: Nancy used to post a lot and her place, near the Broadway redline T, was (to put it mildly) a pit. A small one-room apartment and a shared bathroom you had to walk down the corridor to use. She's cute, slender, in her 40s, no roaming below waist, and she had a few lingerie outfits. She had a cute enough figure that 100 for a half would have been worth it except for the environment and also, she's not really that great at HE, IMO. But if you're in the neighborhood, south shore, I think most guys would find her to be a cute MILF-type. Adobe

[QUOTE=Perfect Man; 1452708]Guys I heard that she retiered and closed her place in Nashua. I hope its not true she was one of the best.

PM me if U have more info.

Thanks[/QUOTE]I emailed her about a month ago and I never heard back. I've only seen her 2x but I'd love to see her again so I hope she's still around.

[QUOTE=Moogaar1;1453653]I emailed her about a month ago and I never heard back. I've only seen her 2x but I'd love to see her again so I hope she's still around.[/QUOTE]don't know if she's retired but last time I saw her (about 6-7 months ago) I emailed then called a few days later after no reply. She said she was no longer using the email I had from only a few months before. Please don't ask for the digits as I just went looking for them and couldn't find her card I'd written them on.

[QUOTE=Rogue05;1452910]Last time I spoke with her was over a year ago. I used to see her fairly regularly. She was definitely one of the most sensual masseuses I've encountered, and her therapeutic massage skills were simply unparalleled. Best of both worlds. She was very cute, too. Anyway, among some other major life changes, she told me that she was changing careers. It's curious that her website is still active, but I wouldn't hold your breathe waiting for her comeback.[/QUOTE]Last spoke with Natalie about 1-1/2 years ago and she told me she has switched career. No replies to my last few attempts to contact her but I heard through people we know in common outside the monger world that she is both engaged and expecting. As one who was lucky enough to have seen her many times over a number of years, I wish her the best and hopefully all who had the pleasure of her amazing skills will join in that wish.

[QUOTE=Perfect Man; 1452708]Guys I heard that she retiered and closed her place in Nashua. I hope its not true she was one of the best.

PM me if you have more info.

Thanks[/QUOTE]Sarah replied to my email.

Confirmed: Sarah Stunning has retired!

She has moved away to persue other interests.

Office is closed. Saw it with my own eyes.

Saw Barbara again, seems to have lost a little weight. (Not sure if it's a good thing) Still as talkative as ever. A little less enthusiastic and playful than before. Still good value. Maybe I caught her on a bad day. Very easy to schedule, that's a plus.

I know I'm still a noob here but wondering if anyone can suggest a good petite Brazilian. If I'm not established enough then I understand but if someone is feeling generous I'd really appreciate it.

[QUOTE=Bachelor584;1455542]I know I'm still a noob here but wondering if anyone can suggest a good petite Brazilian. If I'm not established enough then I understand but if someone is feeling generous I'd really appreciate it.[/QUOTE]Good luck! We've all been searching for a good Brazillian for longer than we can all remember. Please (double please) let us know if you find one. Or any (petite or not.) If you aren't donation challenged there is Paloma. You can google her name. Jill from RS recommended her to me. I will warn you to stay away from Julianna who advertises on BP as Brazillian but is mostly Latina and absolutely not worth it. (also fake pics. As usual). And most of those who advertise on BP (a lot from agencies in NY) aren't who they describe they are and if they are usually don't speak English and you'll be in and out in quick time. SO

[QUOTE=Bachelor584;1455542]I know I'm still a noob here but wondering if anyone can suggest a good petite Brazilian. If I'm not established enough then I understand but if someone is feeling generous I'd really appreciate it.[/QUOTE]Well, there is a lady out in the Cape area who claims to be half Brazilian. I haven't seen her, but it might be worth a trip. The worst that can happen is that she is not the girl in the pics, you thank her and walk away.

[url]http://massachusetts.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/the-sweet-escape-22/20114831[/url]

Try a new type of day spa with a feel-at-home environment. Leave feeling Mentally Relaxed as well Physically Refreshed.

We offer Asian, Couple, Hot Stone, Swedish, Foot, Deep Tissue, Thai, Sports, and Body Rub Massages.

This is a brand new location for the Reiki Spa. Features table shower massages.

We are on Route 110, Exit 32 on I-495.

REIKI SPA OF WESTFORD.

66 Littleton Road.

Westford, MA.

978-692-1010.

Photo of two white women.

Probably strictly legit based on the location, but man, that would be so convenient for me if it was more!

Chelsea alternative therapy might fit some peeps. Been there, but not in awhile. They are listed but utr.

Plusses: walk in ok, pick your girl, shower before and after, clean linens.

Minuses: quality of providers. Last there Madison is very pretty fit, but kinda too businesslike 4me. Angie is ok looking and nice. Others scary. (anyone have new intel or other thoughts?

My exp is nude hr 4 house+100 but I thin menu is complete.

[QUOTE=Wanttoforget; 1458763]Try a new type of day spa with a feel-at-home environment. Leave feeling Mentally Relaxed as well Physically Refreshed.

We offer Asian, Couple, Hot Stone, Swedish, Foot, Deep Tissue, Thai, Sports, and Body Rub Massages.

This is a brand new location for the Reiki Spa. Features table shower massages.

We are on Route 110, Exit 32 on I-495.

REIKI SPA OF WESTFORD.

66 Littleton Road.

Westford, MA.

978-692-1010.

Photo of two white women.

Probably strictly legit based on the location, but man, that would be so convenient for me if it was more![/QUOTE]They are associated with same name but in framingham and that place is legit. You never know but I would not go in expecting anything. Framingham place I got a drape free massage but no teasing, just some accidental hits to the shaft. Try it out and report

[QUOTE=PogoBouncer; 1458878]Chelsea alternative therapy might fit some peeps. Been there, but not in awhile. They are listed but utr.

Plusses: walk in ok, pick your girl, shower before and after, clean linens.

Minuses: quality of providers. Last there Madison is very pretty fit, but kinda too businesslike 4me. Angie is ok looking and nice. Others scary. (anyone have new intel or other thoughts?

My exp is nude hr 4 house+100 but I thin menu is complete.[/QUOTE]They are long gone and have never heard if they were busted or shut down by the city.

[QUOTE=Hackva; 1454009]Sarah replied to my email.

Confirmed: Sarah Stunning has retired!

She has moved away to persue other interests.

Office is closed. Saw it with my own eyes.[/QUOTE]That is terrible news. On the defunct board, I had rated her as one of my favorites. For those that enjoy a friendly and intelligent conversation during a rubdown, she couldn't be beat. I know that's an unusual attribute to praise, but it was really a pleasure to chat with this witty, eloquent, and humorous woman during her wonderful rubdown.

Thanks for the update. Too bad. Providers were low quality but I hoped theyd get new girls if I waited. Other than that the setup was great. Don't know any non_amps left with showers, choose a girl, and no screening. Oh well.

Happy hunting.

[QUOTE=Pubb69;1460054]They are long gone and have never heard if they were busted or shut down by the city.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RearAdmiralJoe; 1451583]Hi,

I'm wondering 2 things:

1) if there is any advice to someone trying to start visiting these places. I'm generally more reserved but would like some extras when I do sonething. I am looking in the Revere Everett north shore area, and asians do not do much for me. Any reccomendations?

2) anyone visit this ad / know if its good?

[url]http://boston.craigslist.org/gbs/thp/3025029187.html[/url][/QUOTE]I can only reply to question 1. Here are a few simple rules:

1. Be clean. That means showered, clean clothes and no vulgar language on your first visit.

2. If they have you take off all your clothes, that is a good sign.

3. If the lady leans into you on the massage see if you can rub your hand up and down her leg, this lets her know that you are interested in extras.

4. If she gets to the head of the table run your hands up her legs and gently squeeze her ass, this also lets her know that you want extras.

5. If she runs her hands up the inside of your legs when you are on your stomach, spread your legs more the higher she goes, making nice moans about how good that feels.

6. After 5 above she may do a nice finger tip massage, this is good, she will then ask you to flip.

7. Some ladies will go straight to the oil and your cock for a HJ, others may ask. Do some roaming see if they will take off any of their clothes.

8. Don't be vulgar use sex vs. F word, or you may not get, oral vs. Blow job. If you are a newbie, you may just end up with a fully clothed HJ the first time.

9. Don't haggle too much over price, Don't tell them the true amount of what you have in money. They may ask X you say Y and you might end settling on Z. Most ladies will negotiate down, but if you go to far down you may not get the same enthusiastic service.

10. Report back on this forum.

Wet

[QUOTE=Wetseeker; 1460754]I can only reply to question 1. Here are a few simple rules:

1. Be clean. That means showered, clean clothes and no vulgar language on your first visit.

2. If they have you take off all your clothes, that is a good sign.

3. If the lady leans into you on the massage see if you can rub your hand up and down her leg, this lets her know that you are interested in extras.

4. If she gets to the head of the table run your hands up her legs and gently squeeze her ass, this also lets her know that you want extras.

5. If she runs her hands up the inside of your legs when you are on your stomach, spread your legs more the higher she goes, making nice moans about how good that feels.

6. After 5 above she may do a nice finger tip massage, this is good, she will then ask you to flip.

7. Some ladies will go straight to the oil and your cock for a HJ, others may ask. Do some roaming see if they will take off any of their clothes.

8. Don't be vulgar use sex vs. F word, or you may not get, oral vs. Blow job. If you are a newbie, you may just end up with a fully clothed HJ the first time.

9. Don't haggle too much over price, Don't tell them the true amount of what you have in money. They may ask X you say Y and you might end settling on Z. Most ladies will negotiate down, but if you go to far down you may not get the same enthusiastic service.

10. Report back on this forum.

Wet[/QUOTE]Great list Wet. We should find a place to put this post as a good reference for newbies. As for my. 02 I would add that the best way to get a great session is to respect her. Keep in mind she doesn't know you from a hole in the wall (which hopefully you won't need later) and if you are clean, polite and respectful you will have a better chance of building some comrodery. (sic) If she is at ease then things should be all for the better. Of course there are still those ladies who will only do xx no matter how nice or polite you are. If that is the case just enjoy and move on. And lastly in spite of all the posts on the subject here. Don't be a cheapskate and try and rip her off or use and abuse her. You may get it for a little cheaper but it won't be nearly as good or personable if she is po'd at you. And in the long run a great session at say 60 bucks is a lot better and cheaper in the long run than 2 sessions for 80 bucks (40 ea). And that little extra may translate into a great session the next time. Enjoy and let us know. SO

[QUOTE=Pubb69;1460054]They are long gone and have never heard if they were busted or shut down by the city.[/QUOTE]Too bad. Well that officially ends the long run of what began as the Old English Health Club of Cambridge circa late 70's and 80's.

Guys, I heard they move to another town off of rt24. Don't know if they have new name or what the location is. If I find out I will let you know.

[QUOTE=Thickx;1461361]Guys, I heard they move to another town off of rt24. Don't know if they have new name or what the location is. If I find out I will let you know.[/QUOTE]Will the legacy continue. Will OEHC continue and be even closer for us on the south shore!

[QUOTE=Natebost;1452937]Lori is actually pretty good. Used to advert quite a bit and not so much right now. I saw her a few times and has been by far and away the best Tantric experience that I got. That being said, it is mostly bullshit. All of them try to get you to breath and have some sort of ceremony, hers is particualarly thourough as she is pretty into it. Bottom line is that the massage is pretty good, full time and then some. The bath ceremony is done in a small stnd up shower and should be skiped. If you play along, you will have fun.[/QUOTE]I have had a few visits with Lori. I was enticed into thinking there was always something more or something deeper. But! It was all smoke and mirrors with some hindu chanting. Everytime things would get hot and heavy, which means I was beathing with her and in tune, shebwould say " I may have contracted something on my ladt trip to India"

I saw her maybe a year ago when she was hosting in Quincy. I forget what she was calling herself back then. I try not to post negative reviews, but she should be avoided. Complete waste of time and money; no effort, bad attitude.

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Let me show you how it feels to spend time with a fun blonde cute chick. Mmm you are going to love me!

I am open minded kinky sensual great at massage and will def have you coming back.

*Gentlemen only please. No blocked calls or explicit talk please & thank you.

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[QUOTE=Thickx;1461361]Guys, I heard they move to another town off of rt24. Don't know if they have new name or what the location is. If I find out I will let you know.[/QUOTE]That would be great, also does anyone know where Madison from CAT went?

[QUOTE=Thickx;1461361]Guys, I heard they move to another town off of rt24. Don't know if they have new name or what the location is. If I find out I will let you know.[/QUOTE]When I think Rt 24, I think Bella! I would love to see her. After she closed there was some discussion here about a possible relocation. An intel?

[QUOTE=Bastardale; 1461752]I saw her maybe a year ago when she was hosting in Quincy. I forget what she was calling herself back then. I try not to post negative reviews, but she should be avoided. Complete waste of time and money; no effort, bad attitude.

100% REAL PICS.

ELiSe.

(857) 312-4008.

My name is Elise working nursing student, new in the area!

Let me show you how it feels to spend time with a fun blonde cute chick. Mmm you are going to love me!

I am open minded kinky sensual great at massage and will def have you coming back.

*Gentlemen only please. No blocked calls or explicit talk please & thank you.

[url]http://massachusetts.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/blonde-princess-near-you-my-place-857-312-4008-22/20015651[/url][/QUOTE]I would not want to see her because of her pics alone. Just something about a girl that does not look happy in her pics makes me think she won't look happy when she is with me. I know that is not always true, but a smiling face makes me feel better.

[QUOTE=Ampman44; 1462020]When I think Rt 24, I think Bella! I would love to see her. After she closed there was some discussion here about a possible relocation. An intel? [/QUOTE.

I used to visit Bella at Heavenly Touch quite regularly. I do hope she makes a comeback, but I'm starting to lose hope. I know it's unrealistic to expect top notch ladies to stay in the business for years and years. Bella, Natalie from Woburn, and Sara Stunning were my favorite 3 just over a year ago, but now they all are retired. Thank goodness for this forum to allow the hunt for new favorites to continue.

[QUOTE=Wetseeker; 1460754]I can only reply to question 1. Here are a few simple rules:

1. Be clean. That means showered, clean clothes and no vulgar language on your first visit.

2. If they have you take off all your clothes, that is a good sign.

3. If the lady leans into you on the massage see if you can rub your hand up and down her leg, this lets her know that you are interested in extras.

4. If she gets to the head of the table run your hands up her legs and gently squeeze her ass, this also lets her know that you want extras.

5. If she runs her hands up the inside of your legs when you are on your stomach, spread your legs more the higher she goes, making nice moans about how good that feels.

6. After 5 above she may do a nice finger tip massage, this is good, she will then ask you to flip.

7. Some ladies will go straight to the oil and your cock for a HJ, others may ask. Do some roaming see if they will take off any of their clothes.

8. Don't be vulgar use sex vs. F word, or you may not get, oral vs. Blow job. If you are a newbie, you may just end up with a fully clothed HJ the first time.

9. Don't haggle too much over price, Don't tell them the true amount of what you have in money. They may ask X you say Y and you might end settling on Z. Most ladies will negotiate down, but if you go to far down you may not get the same enthusiastic service.

10. Report back on this forum.

Wet[/QUOTE]This is indeed a great list. I fear that some CMTs will kick you out if they do not like #3 and 4, and you would miss out on a good legit massage. I've been thinking that maybe just let yourself get a hard on while on your front. After the flip, they will see it under the sheet. Legit CMTs will just have to ignore it. They can't say anything about it without breaking protocol. Our kind of CMTs, however, will probably end with something like "you want me to take care of that?" After that, you can openly discuss all possibilities. What do you guys think?

[QUOTE=Ampman44;1462778]This is indeed a great list. I fear that some CMTs will kick you out if they do not like #3 and 4, and you would miss out on a good legit massage. I've been thinking that maybe just let yourself get a hard on while on your front. After the flip, they will see it under the sheet. Legit CMTs will just have to ignore it. They can't say anything about it without breaking protocol. Our kind of CMTs, however, will probably end with something like "you want me to take care of that?" After that, you can openly discuss all possibilities. What do you guys think?[/QUOTE]I always put the towel, sheet off to the side and lie naked. If they put the sheet on me then I do not try # 3 or #4; if they don't then I atleast try to rub or bump there side with my hand as being totally naked still does not insure a HE; if they give hand massage I try to hold theirs alittle; anything to get a vibe. You can say things like you have very soft hands.

C. A. T.

Any one know where they re opened and who is working?

[QUOTE=Ampman44;1462778]This is indeed a great list. I fear that some CMTs will kick you out if they do not like #3 and 4, and you would miss out on a good legit massage. I've been thinking that maybe just let yourself get a hard on while on your front. After the flip, they will see it under the sheet. Legit CMTs will just have to ignore it. They can't say anything about it without breaking protocol. Our kind of CMTs, however, will probably end with something like "you want me to take care of that?" After that, you can openly discuss all possibilities. What do you guys think?[/QUOTE]Well stated reply to this awesome list.

"Our Kind of CMT's". Good point we know the type of "therapist" and the type of place to find.

I have been a forced hiatus due to finances and family circumstances. If money is tight for you experimentation is even tougher.

I have learned from past ecperiences to not fish where I won't get a good catch.

Go to a CMT if you seek a good massage.

That list of tips is good and I have used some of those techniques. Mostly in setting of "therapeutic AMP" settings. I ve gotten DIYs sometimes more but I couldn't imagine getting DIY's in most other therapeutic settings.

I have talked to legit licensed CMT's in the past. My sister had a good friend who was a CMT. She was also a trainer.

She was athletic and attractive too. I got a legit massage from her once.

But in the context of friendly chat with sis and her freinds about our jobs and we were asking her about her "hotness" and being a masseuse, how dealt with her male clients.

She also said the lure of "extra money " wasn't even a consideration to her or her other CMT friends.

Professional legit CMT's are not phased by a guy if he gets a woody or pitches a tent during a session. Experienced CMT's are aware that certain therapeutic "zones" can trigger erections and are not phased by it during a session if her male client respects her personal space and boundaries, plus she doesn't want him to feel embarrassed. Also she is still hoping for a nice "gratuity" still and repeat clientele.

I pitched a woody during a legit massage and I even told my masseuse I felt embarrassed and apologized. She told me I was far from the 1st guy that experienced that and not to sweat it. I even went back for follow up treatments because she was very professional about my reaction.

A legit CMT will terminate the session ASAP if any boundaries are challenged or threatened. Leaving you short on a massage and your money.

Cheers

[QUOTE=Wetseeker; 1460754]I can only reply to question 1. Here are a few simple rules:

1. Be clean. That means showered, clean clothes and no vulgar language on your first visit.

2. If they have you take off all your clothes, that is a good sign.

3. If the lady leans into you on the massage see if you can rub your hand up and down her leg, this lets her know that you are interested in extras.

4. If she gets to the head of the table run your hands up her legs and gently squeeze her ass, this also lets her know that you want extras.

5. If she runs her hands up the inside of your legs when you are on your stomach, spread your legs more the higher she goes, making nice moans about how good that feels.

6. After 5 above she may do a nice finger tip massage, this is good, she will then ask you to flip.

7. Some ladies will go straight to the oil and your cock for a HJ, others may ask. Do some roaming see if they will take off any of their clothes.

8. Don't be vulgar use sex vs. F word, or you may not get, oral vs. Blow job. If you are a newbie, you may just end up with a fully clothed HJ the first time.

9. Don't haggle too much over price, Don't tell them the true amount of what you have in money. They may ask X you say Y and you might end settling on Z. Most ladies will negotiate down, but if you go to far down you may not get the same enthusiastic service.

10. Report back on this forum.

Wet[/QUOTE]Numbers 3 & 4 should be avoided, as a 1st move. If it is a legit CMT, the least that could happen is the session will abruptly end. As to #4, it could earn you an assault charge.

I think in most cases, we should be able to tell the difference between a masseuse whom is providing a strictly therapeutic massage and one whom is providing extra service. In my {not so} humble opinion, a masseuse that is providing extras will give a sign that more is available. This may be spending an inordinate amount of time on your buttocks, or she may even lightly brush a sensitive part. For me, a part of the fun was wondering what the tip-off might be. Maybe she'll even run her fingers up the crack of your butt; no one offering a strictly therapeutic massage would do that.

Some years ago I visited with a woman in the Acton area. She had a hot tub available, and no she did not join you. During the massage she brushed my testicles and quickly apologized. I just said she needn't apologize and it felt good. That was all that was needed.

Some years ago there was a place just off of Porter Sq. In Cambridge. I was only there once, as it was in a residential neighborhood and it didn't take long before they got busted. In fact, as I walked up the street, I even thought to myself, this place won't last long. I got a great massage and when it was over, or in this case, nearly over, the masseuse asked me if there were any body parts that she had not yet massaged. Being a bit insecure, I hesitated for a moment, then gently took her hand and slowly moved it over to what I needed massaged. By slowly moving it, she could have pulled away at anytime, but did not.

I visited one place in Davis Sq. For a "hot rock" massage and she put the warmed stone on my stones. It felt incredible and that was a sure sign.

As to telling the difference beforehand, look at where the ad is placed; if it's in Boston Magazine, maybe or maybe not. I lean towards the maybe not, but if it's in the Boston Phoenix, then probably extra services are available. At certain points in my life, money has been tight. On occasion I have gone to a legit (I tend to not like to use that word, as the opposite is illegitimate) place, but I've rarely left disappointed even without getting extras, as I still got a great massage.

So to sum it all up, you should have a good indication before you walk in the door. Like the list suggests, be freshly showered, a gentleman and respectful. Let the provider make the first move and never touch her until she does.