Welcome to the Golden P of the Month Award
A client made contact with a lady of impeccable character When asked what he was look for she was told PSE natural play. She responded that if he went to his physician and got a clean bill of health she would accommodate his needs. He set up a doctor's appointment and then proceeded to ask her her hourly needs for her time 800 and hour was her response. He informed her there wasn't a POA in Indiana worth that for an hour of her time. While it is generally accepted that a provider has a right to set her hourly rate, the operative words yes and no come into play in this situation. The market of quality ladies is limited but also are blessed with more reasonable needs for time. Another well known lady was found to meet the clients needs once the tests are taken and a CBOH is provided by his physician. Have a good week gentlemen and please do not PM asking for the goddesses name for 8 and hour or the one at a much lower need. We all have needs at it is up to each client and provider to meet security issues and medical concerns of each other. Have a great day and remember to be kind to those who provide what we need and who give us reasonable requirements to assuage their concerns in this. This is a symbiotic relationship after all.
You can have your opinion.
[QUOTE=BigMack;3082520]And you have every right to ask for 8 but anyone has the right to say no. As far as high risks with a Clean Bill of Health the risks go down considerably and the fact YOU AGREED TO THE TERMS YOU SET, THEN MAYBE IT is a case of mutual risk taking because who knows if this would be your only venture into the taboo area. You were purposely left out of the equation to protect your "honor" however you chose to open the door and come out and admit you were willing to "go all the way" under the terms revealed without the name of the lady who would be effected. Not a wise thing to do in my opinion but your decision. Have a good week AJ and I am sure you might just have opened the door to your menu depending on the willingness of the gentlemen to take the chance as well as donate to your cause. Can't believe you outted yourself. I had more respect for your privacy and discretion than you evidently have for yourself but your choice[/QUOTE]BUT that statement is unfair. AJ has a GREAT deal of respect for herself and perhaps she felt the need to explain or stick up for herself on a situation you decided to post. If you had any respect for her in my opinion you wouldn't of felt the need to post this BM. You are right clients have the right to say no to our rates just like we have the right to say not interested to clients.
Risk Assessment vs Market Value
[QUOTE=BigMack;3081899]A client made contact with a lady of impeccable character When asked what he was look for she was told PSE natural play. She responded that if he went to his physician and got a clean bill of health she would accommodate his needs. He set up a doctor's appointment and then proceeded to ask her, her hourly needs for her time 800 and hour was her response. He informed her there wasn't a POA in Indiana worth that for an hour of her time. Have a great day and remember to be kind to those who provide what we need and who give us reasonable requirements to assuage their concerns in this. This is a symbiotic relationship after all.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigMack;3082520]And you have every right to ask for 8 but anyone has the right to say no. As far as high risks with a Clean Bill of Health the risks go down considerably and the fact YOU AGREED TO THE TERMS YOU SET, THEN MAYBE IT is a case of mutual risk taking because who knows if this would be your only venture into the taboo area. Have a good week AJ and I am sure you might just have opened the door to your menu depending on the willingness of the gentlemen to take the chance as well as donate to your cause.[/QUOTE]Definition: A systematic process of evaluating the potential risks that may be involved in a projected activity or undertaking. BBFS is a risk that needs to be assessed and one persons assessment of this risk may be much higher than another persons assessment no matter what the actual "CBOH RISK" may be.
Big Mac. I have known you a long time and your desires have been clearly posted in the "Mongers in Search of" blog in Louisville, Cincinnati and Indianapolis and I believe in other cities as well. All of your posts clearly state your preference. There is nothing wrong with that, it's your choice. You are looking for a clean lady who is willing to provide a PSE experience and in your mind that means "skin type flute play". Again no problem but just realize that because a provider offers PSE it does not always mean BBFS. Hell even some real porn stars use a cover. The other thing that is always evident in your posts is you are not willing to pay GPS pricing for your desired experience. Once again no problem with that.
Now to my point. If said lady with impeccable character didn't want to upset said client who she already knew what type of "Services" he wanted and knew what his "Market Value" was for said services, said lady would agree to your request to keep things peaceful but price herself out of your market. For you it's $800 hr. For a client with a higher income allowance it might be $1500 hr because she knows even the higher income client won't pay that amount for that type of service. The higher the "Risk" of providing that service means the higher the "Market Price" it becomes because she want's to reduce the demand for her to provide that service to "ZERO". Thus her risk assessment is, the service is available but your market can't afford it, thus the risk becomes zero which is where she wanted it to be in the first place.
Now my friend here is where the problem lies. You don't stop asking ladies of impeccable character even when they say NO. You wait 1, 2, 3 or 4 months and then ask again thinking, hoping something may have changed, but the answer still comes up NO. Let's face it, this can get very tiresome because you are a very persistent monger. I have told you if you want some skin play then go see an addict like Leslie, but you want it drug free also and I understand. So now that you have found a lady that can accommodate your needs then hopefully it turns into a long term positive symbiotic relationship not a parasitic one.
[QUOTE=FirstHalf;3082303]I don't have any idea what you are talking about. Did you pay a chick $800 for her time? What's a symbiotic relationship?[/QUOTE]No First Half he won't pay the chick that amount. A symbiotic relationship benefits both parties. Sometimes it's mutually beneficial relationship and sometimes the relationship is not necessarily beneficial to both. Parasites, for example, have a symbiotic relationship with their hosts, but only the parasite benefits.
So the moral of this story is assess your risk, determine your market value for said risk and don't be a parasite where only one is benefiting in a symbiotic relationship.
FF my dealings with her were done privately and she set parameters and
[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;3082720]Definition: A systematic process of evaluating the potential risks that may be involved in a projected activity or undertaking. BBFS is a risk that needs to be assessed and one persons assessment of this risk may be much higher than another persons assessment no matter what the actual "CBOH RISK" may be.
Big Mac. I have known you a long time and your desires have been clearly posted in the "Mongers in Search of" blog in Louisville, Cincinnati and Indianapolis and I believe in other cities as well. All of your posts clearly state your preference. There is nothing wrong with that, it's your choice. You are looking for a clean lady who is willing to provide a PSE experience and in your mind that means "skin type flute play". Again no problem but just realize that because a provider offers PSE it does not always mean BBFS. Hell even some real porn stars use a cover. The other thing that is always evident in your posts is you are not willing to pay GPS pricing for your desired experience. Once again no problem with that.
Now to my point. If said lady with impeccable character didn't want to upset said client who she already knew what type of "Services" he wanted and knew what his "Market Value" was for said services, said lady would agree to your request to keep things peaceful but price herself out of your market. For you it's $800 hr. For a client with a higher income allowance it might be $1500 hr because she knows even the higher income client won't pay that amount for that type of service. The higher the "Risk" of providing that service means the higher the "Market Price" it becomes because she want's to reduce the demand for her to provide that service to "ZERO". Thus her risk assessment is, the service is available but your market can't afford it, thus the risk becomes zero which is where she wanted it to be in the first place.
Now my friend here is where the problem lies. You don't stop asking ladies of impeccable character even when they say NO. You wait 1, 2, 3 or 4 months and then ask again thinking, hoping something may have changed, but the answer still comes up NO. Let's face it, this can get very tiresome because you are a very persistent monger. I have told you if you want some skin play then go see an addict like Leslie, but you want it drug free also and I understand. So now that you have found a lady that can accommodate your needs then hopefully it turns into a long term positive symbiotic relationship not a parasitic one.
No First Half he won't pay the chick that amount. A symbiotic relationship benefits both parties. Sometimes it's mutually beneficial relationship and sometimes the relationship is not necessarily beneficial to both. Parasites, for example, have a symbiotic relationship with their hosts, but only the parasite benefits.
So the moral of this story is assess your risk, determine your market value for said risk and don't be a parasite where only one is benefiting in a symbiotic relationship.[/QUOTE]Agreed to meet my wishes but at a price too high for me. My post at no time mentioned her name as I do not do so. She outed herself why I do not know. I clearly state what I am looking for publicly but also do other methods of meeting my needs. There are a number of well known ladies who do play naturally and set parameters to do so and there is no established clear market value I am aware of for natural play. It is the woman's choice and the man's to say no. I am sorry she felt the need to come out publicly. My relationships are sought to be symbiotic not parasitic but my time and money are valuable just as a woman's are. If a lady is to high for me I let her know as it is the fruits of my labor involved. That doesn't make me a parasite It does make me a selective shopper. And yes I travel to find what I want but clearly state what I am looking for to give choices. Sometimes I settle for less which is fine. Again her name was NEVER MENTIONED BY ME and why she came on the board instead of going PM I do not know but she did so I did not out her publicly for offering BBFS she stated succinctly she would by offering me a rate for it. Case closed. Again whether you agree with me and my wants is your business but let me state for the record there are a number of quality ladies on the boards who offer it at much less so I do assess the risks for their needs to meet mine. I just do not divulge who meets my needs and would not do so. Enjoy the rest of the week.
Its is so nice to have a public mind reader on the boards MW
[QUOTE=Mwdude;3082871]Uh, if you talk about it publicly then you're not exactly being as discreet as you think, since you're essentially baiting the hook for the aggrieved (provider) and throwing chum into the water for the Sharks (curious mongers). Now stop with the altruistic bullshit that you never intended to out her. Your entire intent was to embarrass her.
Your entire purpose was to embarrass a provider. Congrats, you seem to have accomplished that.[/QUOTE]If my purpose was to embarrass I would have named names I did not. I am not altruistic When I have something to say I do PERIOD. If AJ wanted to deal with she could have done so PM Plain and simple. Feel secure in knowing that you have done your job as a board savior and white knight for the oppressed ladies of USASG. If Want to embarrass anyone I am quite capable of it but not my style. My post could have been about any of a number of ladies on this and other boards but was not nor as I stated where names mentioned Unless you are a great mind reader if she had not appeared to "defend her honor" when no names were mentioned you wouldn't have had a snowballs chance in hell of knowing who it was about. So get off your horse and go back to doing whatever it is you do best.
Thanks for sharing your opinion MMGEG
[QUOTE=Mmgeg;3082932]It's NOT your style?? Oh come on BM WE all know your style and ditto if YOU had a issue you could if PM'Ed her and we know how smart you are and how you come across. You have done that to several providers sorry sir but you have. YOU knew what you were doing. So DON'T get offensive when people are defending AJ because YOU were being disrespectful and don't start accusing people of " white knighting " when you were in the wrong. Don't act like your innocent here. You opened this door.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mmgeg;3082932]It's NOT your style?? Oh come on BM WE all know your style and ditto if YOU had a issue you could if PM'Ed her and we know how smart you are and how you come across. You have done that to several providers sorry sir but you have. YOU knew what you were doing. So DON'T get offensive when people are defending AJ because YOU were being disrespectful and don't start accusing people of " white knighting " when you were in the wrong. Don't act like your innocent here. You opened this door.[/QUOTE]The lady made an offer with parameters and I accepted. The main one was to get a clean bill of health which I was willing to do. Before I went I asked her needs for our encounter and she gave me a figure which was way off the charts. If she didn't want to do anything JUST SAY SO. She gave me a number. Now assuming she was willing to do it I would have expected her to also have a clean bill of health. Make sense? Does to me. I am not the first to complain about women who have the golden p syndrome and won't be the last so save your self righteousness for those who buy into it. Not me. You have changed your rates more than once which we have discussed and when asked why "WELL I AM WORTH MORE" Fair enough but so have others in this. If you are making such good money charge what you can. I'll say it one last time MMGEG if I would have wanted to blast AJ I would have publicly put her name out in public forum like some ladies have done recently as one man pointed out to me. I have never done that to a woman and unless one REALLY PISSES ME OFF won't. There was no need for her to respond and publish her story. Again alluding to FF's statement If you do not want to do something SAY NO. Please however accept the reality that many times although women say no they change their minds for whatever reason. They have to me when trying to find alternative methods of play and will continue to do so in the future. She could have said nothing and it would have all passed on and ended there. As for Pming her before the post I did and told her that in my opinion there was not an 800 dollar POA in Indiana and she was way too high. Just my opinion and protecting my dollars to make them go further. I get a CBOH so should other ladies who want to do this. Reduce the risks reduce the prices. Isn't that what ladies say it is a risky business so test. In that case everyone should do so. Simple economics. Have a good day MMGEG.
GPS has Uber connotations beyond money
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3083092]This thread is so entertaining just can't help but stir.
The post should never have been made.
The title G P of month was sad. To me gps is a term used by pissed off mongers who can't get a provider to fuck them at mongers price. Whats GPS to you isn't to someone else so if you can't afford them say thanks but to rich for me and move on. Don't cry about it or get pissed. Its called life. Move on \o a girl who is in your range.
Last time I checked no means no. Once used the topic is closed. A provider shouldn't have to make a page disclaimer on anything. No ends conversation.
Now with that said was a price even talked about before you got the clean bill of health then raised? If that happened then you would have grounds for a complaint. If you never asked the price before doing this its ba: k on you again.
Its not rocket science.[/QUOTE]So the one example I can give is a provider down in Louisville I gave a flattering review to and I rated her 4 stars. On the site there was a definition for each star level, 3 being "meets expectations" 4 being "exceeds expectations" and 5 being "excelen toe elite". She proceeded to put a comment below the review to in box her for an explanation about "what happened" and she wished she could review the guys. Mean while she is attractive and gave good service, I reserved the 5 star for only my best experiences. Such as Abby Amore. So this provider had such GPS that she couldn't even accept a good review unless it was just totally kissing her ass and over valuing her contribution to the Hobby.
You make some valid points but most of us turn into babies when the poon-nani is denied us. "Wah! Wah! I want the pussy!" Who hasn't cried that a time or two?
Would like to take this opportunity
To thank AJ for her kind email thanking me for increasing her business tremendously due to the post. She even gave me an invite to come see her down the road if I bring her donation and meet her parameters for my needs. It does show that the lady has real "class" I of course have to refuse as I believe that an STD test is only as good as ones first client or provider so since business is booming for her the timing would have to be impeccable and worked out with the assurances that BOTH of us would have to have a clean bill of health with no client / provider interactions before the deed is consumated since her business is doing so well from her plethora of offerings. Thanks AJ you are a benevolent lady with a "giving demeanor" and I am sure many men are smiling due to your open spirit of giving. Have a good weekend to you and to all of those caring men of USASG who are taking advantage of her giving and $$weet attitude towards the men who "love" her.
T2 A appreciate the concern and
[QUOTE=TryinAgain2;3087124]It's become a pissing match, and while you might have the tools for better aim, I don't think you're doing yourself any favors competing. I've respected you in the past, I've been there when I've felt mislead and it seems no one is on my side, and I understand why you were irritated. But this isn't working for you. Let it go. I don't think the insinuation that she's doing a bunch of BBFS is fair either, since, as she asked you for 800 bones, I doubt anyone on this board is going to be ponying up those kinds of funds. And FTR, I've never met her, haven't tried, and was not nor am now trying to. Just hate seeing you go down this road. Seems only to be hurting yourself.[/QUOTE]Like you doubt anyone on her would be fatuous enough to drop 8 bills no matter how good she is in the hay with or without raincoats. She sent me a zinger I returned the flavor. I am done with this and moving on so nuf is enuf. She is welcome to the last word. Have a good day T2. Mack.
Fourth talent public service.
Have to admit, most of the time when I read your posts, my perspective changes and I just want to break out in song like the old Coke commercial, 'I'd like to teach the world to sing. '! Great attitude man!! Keep it up!
[QUOTE=Kyussfan;3083039]Years ago I used to ride to establishments that other motorcycle enthusiasts would frequent. Some would comment on the paint work on my bike, and I would tell them that I had done it, for that is one of my three talents. (juggling and burping the alphabet being the other two) So people would ask me to paint their bikes. I did it at first for below market value because I enjoyed both doing the work, and helping someone out. I then became so busy, that I found myself working on everyone else's bike, instead of riding my own. So then I would only take on work during the winter time. Still, what was once fun was now a chore. So I began quoting astronomical prices to deter individuals from wanting to use my services. However a few times this backfired, and I was stuck doing the work, although at a much higher rate. Eventually I had had enough and just let everyone know that I was no longer interested in doing paint work anymore. I felt bad at first, like I was letting everyone down, but a pint of Haagen-Dazs vanilla helped to heal my pain.
All of this story is pretty much pointless, except that I've wasted one of my three talents, and there are a few similarities with this story, and the current situation that has unfolded upon this board. Everyone relax, and have fun!! The world isn't really that serious, after all!
Kyussfan.[/QUOTE]
Is Ronald McDonald a true red head
[QUOTE=Jake4795;3088994]Have to admit, most of the time when I read your posts, my perspective changes and I just want to break out in song like the old Coke commercial, 'I'd like to teach the world to sing. '! Great attitude man!! Keep it up![/QUOTE]Ha! See mom? There ARE others like me! They like the same thing I do. Wax paper, boiled football leather, the smell of a female German's unshaven left armpit after winning the bronze in the Olympic pole vault. These are the kind of things that bring a high even Willie Nelson at the top of Mt. Everest couldn't get.
I'm not always this happy though. I've had my share of bumps in the road. Sure, one of them might have been a slow moving old lady trying to cross the street, but I was texting my parole officer, and dreaming of Mmgeg's legs, so that one didn't count. You'll walk faster next time granny, won't ya?
Anyway, here's what has always helped me through those dark moments. I head down to the nearest White Castle, buy me a sack of ten, and on my way back to the car I open up the bag and take a big wiff, and I think to myself, this is living man. This is life.
I then schedule an appointment with a provider afterwards, and spend an hour making Dutch oven pies. I'm glad that my mental instability serves a higher purpose than to keep my psychiatrist in his new Range Rover. Cheers!
I thought you were going to stop
[QUOTE=LancePkrbttm;3089922]One more post![/QUOTE]I thought you were going to stop at 66 (5 + 1) I can't even put the last 6 on that.
It's actually TaZ, as in the devilish sort
[QUOTE=LancePkrbttm;3090597]And someone will try to verbalize this as well (So-aahg ee-ah-tah-tu? Perhaps I could shorten it to TA2? Pronounced like Tattoo![/QUOTE]And I feel the two of you should get a room together, since you obviously entertain one another so much.