Seeking Arrangement

[QUOTE=FunnyBoner;4238286]I've tried the vannilaone prepaid card three times with SA and it failed every time (added the zip code first for online transactions).

Is there some way to get it to work right. Different prepaid maybe??

Those cards state that they are only good for US transactions and I think SA is outside the US.

I would LOVE to figure this one out though.[/QUOTE]I have only used the Vanilla One cards and never had an issue. I use the phone and address of the store I bought it from with a made up name. It's always worked unless they have changed something as I haven't paid to "upgrade" in a few months.

[QUOTE=Perusing;4241607]I have only used the Vanilla One cards and never had an issue. I use the phone and address of the store I bought it from with a made up name. It's always worked unless they have changed something as I haven't paid to "upgrade" in a few months.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the tip. I've been meaning to go back to SA and look for some new "friends", but cannot risk using my credit card. Perhaps the issue with prepaid cards is putting a valid address, so this is a great tip. It was great when I could use Paypal.

Anyone have and experience with her?

[QUOTE=BangChico;4237525]How did it go with this one?[/QUOTE]Never follows through. Rather irritating but I've moved on. Currently have 4 in the pipeline.

2 of them removed their profiles.

1 of which I am already regretting. She's a bit flighty and thinks she is a supermodel. Always seems too busy to meet. Always an excuse. I did get my doses early on in the arrangement for helping with graduation dress, a futon and some other crap, but its a rookie mistake.

Another one is eastern european firecracker that demands 400 per, which I refuse to accept. She digs me so I'm using that. Lots of texting, met me near my office once just for a meet and greet in her car.

Another is is of ME descent, short, thick, huge rack and lots of fun so far.

Last one is a full on sub who wants to be degraded on the constant, which is a tad fun.

As I become bored of these, I'll be happy to exchange / pass.

In the last several weeks, I've had as many last-minute ghosts as I've had the prior five years I've been on SA. There's no particular pattern that I can see. One I had been talking to for a couple of weeks, and we were supposed to meet for lunch and then move to a hotel if we liked each other; my last text from her was the night before the proposed meeting, but the next morning, she didn't respond to texts, and I haven't heard from her since, although she's been on SA. One had given me the address of her apartment and told me to text her when I was there. I texted her from the parking lot, and she told me what apartment to ring. I rang a few times and got no response. I left, and about two hours later got a text asking me what had happened. The most recent was just an M&G at a restaurant. We had been trying to set something up for a couple of weeks, and we texted back and forth confirming the time and place the morning of; I went to the restaurant and waited for almost 30 minutes before ordering food for myself and having a solo lunch. Each of these incidents involved arranged times and places, and the latter two involved my actually going to the appointed place. I'm wondering whether I'm just having bad luck (fortunately, I've also had some good luck recently, too), or whether there's some kind of new sport where girls play games like this to feel like they have some power.

These events are more serious than the regular ghosting that occurs when someone you've been talking to stops responding to your messages. These cases involved my arranging time off of work and a fair amount of time driving around. Has anyone else noticed such a pattern?

[QUOTE=LoVecchio;4266352]In the last several weeks, I've had as many last-minute ghosts as I've had the prior five years I've been on SA. There's no particular pattern that I can see. One I had been talking to for a couple of weeks, and we were supposed to meet for lunch and then move to a hotel if we liked each other; my last text from her was the night before the proposed meeting, but the next morning, she didn't respond to texts, and I haven't heard from her since, although she's been on SA. One had given me the address of her apartment and told me to text her when I was there. I texted her from the parking lot, and she told me what apartment to ring. I rang a few times and got no response. I left, and about two hours later got a text asking me what had happened. The most recent was just an M&G at a restaurant. We had been trying to set something up for a couple of weeks, and we texted back and forth confirming the time and place the morning of; I went to the restaurant and waited for almost 30 minutes before ordering food for myself and having a solo lunch. Each of these incidents involved arranged times and places, and the latter two involved my actually going to the appointed place. I'm wondering whether I'm just having bad luck (fortunately, I've also had some good luck recently, too), or whether there's some kind of new sport where girls play games like this to feel like they have some power.

These events are more serious than the regular ghosting that occurs when someone you've been talking to stops responding to your messages. These cases involved my arranging time off of work and a fair amount of time driving around. Has anyone else noticed such a pattern?[/QUOTE]Same thing happening on SB. I think they are playing around for us to pay more money for more messages etc.

[QUOTE=Bzerkley;4266357]Same thing happening on SB. I think they are playing around for us to pay more money for more messages etc.[/QUOTE]Just so I understand your abbreviations, what are SA and SB?

[QUOTE=Bzerkley;4266357]Same thing happening on SB. I think they are playing around for us to pay more money for more messages etc.[/QUOTE]I think on SA they are just working several to see who will pay the most. I've been ghosted a couple of times in the last two weeks at the point of setting a date to meet.

[QUOTE=John3030;4266394]I think on SA they are just working several to see who will pay the most. I've been ghosted a couple of times in the last two weeks at the point of setting a date to meet.[/QUOTE]Of the three I mentioned, there had been a money discussion only with the one whose apartment I went to, and she is the one who suggested an amount to which I agreed.

[QUOTE=IWonderWhy;4266372]Just so I understand your abbreviations, what are SA and SB?[/QUOTE]Two different websites. SA is Seeking Arrangement. SB is Secret Benefits. I've only had one ghosting experience on SA. I had already ordered the hotel and gift (lingerie), and she stopped responding the day before the meeting. Luckily another chick just so happened to message me that day, and we quickly arranged to meet so I was able to use the hotel and give her the gift LOL.

I think SA is legit overall. I've never gotten the impression I was speaking to a bot or a catfish account. On the flip side, SB is definitely sleazy. It's very clear that many profiles are fake. They seem to harvest pics from local girl's IGs and use them without their consent. I noticed a pattern where the minute you're almost out of credits, you'll receive a bunch of messages. Once you're out of credits, the girls you wasted credits on disappear or stop responding. Likewise, when you unlock their first messages it's almost always a very generic copy / paste message so you know it's being sent to multiple guys. For those who aren't familiar, SB requires you to purchase credits (with money) in order to unlock conversations with girls. Once you unlock a conversation, all messages with that girl are free. So if you get tricked into unlocking a message from a bot, you've wasted your time and money.

I've only met one chick from SB. She was pretty cool and we met about 3-4 times but the chemistry was off so I didn't pursue it anymore.

On the flip side I've met many chicks on SA and had a few arrangements. Only had one bad experience.

New to this site, but been around SA for a while. Willing to swap info. PM me.

[QUOTE=ImBadBoy19;4267585]New to this site, but been around SA for a while. Willing to swap info. PM me.[/QUOTE]Check your inbox. I sent you a message about trading.

I wouldn't recommend using Secret Benefits but if you do, create two profiles (with separate emails). One as your real account with pics and a bio. And the other with no pics and an extremely sparse bio. Chicks who message you on both accounts are fake / bots. Real women aren't going to send messages to a male profile with no pics or info, 8 out of 10 times. It's a good way to weed out fake profiles designed to make you waste your credits / money.

That being said I've only talked to (and ultimately met) one chick on that site. It's not worth the money. Stick to SA.

Have any of you been sufficiently stupid and gullible to feel sorry enough for a girl to help her out financially for nothing in return? Well, I have. I mistakenly thought that one girl was almost like Cinderella, owing to her Scheherazadesque verbal portraits of incessant catastrophe that she painted for me which made her seem like a female Job. Well, it turns out that she is just a pathologically lying parasite whose only means of surviving in this world is to live as a parasite on people who actually endeavored to work at any manner of job rather than taking the easy way out and resorting to the expedient quick fix that has a high short term payoff but guarantees that one's own future will be bleak. She uses five plus year old pictures to try to lure men in, so that once she is within their orbit she can mesmerize them with her Siren song of relentless woe, in which she is the innocent victim, rather than the volitional agent who just continually made stupid, irresponsible decisions which she hoped to be bailed out for by men desperate enough to find her tale and her atrophying appearance appealing enough to try to intervene on her behalf by taking the bullet for her. Her attitude is as pungent and acrid as her halitosis. She knows her looks are leaving her faster than fleas bailing from a freshly deceased corpse. Her body is droopy and flabby from the rot of inactivity. She is slovenly and sloppy, and does nothing but complain. She wields the misery she created for herself due to her refusal to ever think as if it was a whip, which she beats all onlookers with to force them to open their eyes wider, in the malevolent hope that the hell that she has made her life into will be so unbearable to the onlooker that they will want to intercede and intervene on her undeserving behalf. Despite repeatedly expressing thanks for my charity, she has never done a thing for me, even as she sells herself to ever lower bidders owing to her continual physical, financial, and moral degradation, all of which she made for herself by her refusal to ever take the hard road even for a minute. Just use your looks and try to get away with everything. Why should I pity her, when people from equally appalling backgrounds do the right things, and the more difficult things, and live with at least a shred of honor and dignity. Anyways, she's available if you want her.

[QUOTE=SpitzerWeiner2;4298989]Have any of you been sufficiently stupid and gullible to feel sorry enough for a girl to help her out financially for nothing in return? Well, I have. I mistakenly thought that one girl was almost like Cinderella, owing to her Scheherazadesque verbal portraits of incessant catastrophe that she painted for me which made her seem like a female Job. Well, it turns out that she is just a pathologically lying parasite whose only means of surviving in this world is to live as a parasite on people who actually endeavored to work at any manner of job rather than taking the easy way out and resorting to the expedient quick fix that has a high short term payoff but guarantees that one's own future will be bleak. She uses five plus year old pictures to try to lure men in, so that once she is within their orbit she can mesmerize them with her Siren song of relentless woe, in which she is the innocent victim, rather than the volitional agent who just continually made stupid, irresponsible decisions which she hoped to be bailed out for by men desperate enough to find her tale and her atrophying appearance appealing enough to try to intervene on her behalf by taking the bullet for her. Her attitude is as pungent and acrid as her halitosis. She knows her looks are leaving her faster than fleas bailing from a freshly deceased corpse. Her body is droopy and flabby from the rot of inactivity. She is slovenly and sloppy, and does nothing but complain. She wields the misery she created for herself due to her refusal to ever think as if it was a whip, which she beats all onlookers with to force them to open their eyes wider, in the malevolent hope that the hell that she has made her life into will be so unbearable to the onlooker that they will want to intercede and intervene on her undeserving behalf..[/QUOTE]Yet, you leave no name for us to avoid. Thanks a lot!