Some people are just A-holes
[QUOTE=LoveTheLips;4696798]This just reeks of someone that seems to have a bit of envy.[/QUOTE]It smells like an a $$hole to me.
[QUOTE=DjBiker;4696287] raise your hands which one of you are teachers in a school?[/QUOTE]This site is used by all types of mongers; skilled tradesmen, teachers, accountants, doctors, lawyers, artists, whatever. It's hard to say who's who on here except for those that continually make an ass out of themselves.
It's probably time we all just drop it and get back to reviewing providers.
Going back to the original issue.
I agree with the way you put #5. However, that said, #1 is the original issue at hand.
#1: A provider, whether she's been around the block for 20 years or 2 months doesn't matter. Asking for a guy's license as a default Requirement is ridiculous. The best I could see it as would be an exception to allow a guy to see her if she was UTR and wasn't wanting to see any newbies, as he had no references, but for whatever reason he was pushing it to try and have a session with her (still Bad practices by him). But to Expect it from guys when reaching out to newbies, No. It be wrong procedure to tell rookie Mongers to give our your I'd (LOL) to gals as some procedure. Even as an uncommon procedure to take part in. Don't do it. Not just an opinion. Otherwise, if a girl would Only take checks, it'd be constituted as OK to write checks to girls you're first seeing. Or even throw in sending her a mail-order PRIOR to the meet up. Umm, no. Not just my opinion or taste.
So I don't think one should be criticized if they go "WHOAH, NO!" to the notion of writing checks or giving out your drivers license to girls out on the market. It's objectively Deserving of criticism, hence, deserving criticism of any gal Demanding it as an Expected Requirement as if it's Reasonable and "what a monger should do. ".
#2: Depends on the context and the experience with the gal. If she's clearly a junkie, you can call her a junkie. If she has a Big Large Ass, well, some girls advertise it as a good thing. I agree not to say "fat ass" in a Bashing way where it's coupled with universal negative remarks, if she was otherwise a decent girl and looked close to her pics online. But it certainly can be said in a way that's attributing to something you may like, or in a neutral way -- to just describe. Kind of like Gap Tooth Nikki. Not bashing, just describing & differentiating between others.
#3: The only info one should be advised to give is a 'screen name', and what one likes in the sack. That's about it. Expecting more to be "fair" to a provider is pushing it. But if you get to know a provider well, spending a bit of time off the clock chatting and what-not, yeah some more info to some extent can be fine. But it's ill-advised for it to be personal info linked to your real life on Any level.
#4: You can be charged with stuff without any real weight for conviction on things. That said, what you want to avoid is being hit up by those who could even charge you, good judgement or not on their part. Your #1 thing to do is avoid That 100%. It's going to be advised to Mongers that it's silly to give out drivers license information to any provider. Common sense.
[QUOTE=GMacMan;4683955]A few comments for this forum to clarify my position on some of the points you make for the lurkers on this board, then we take it over to the pugilist page if you want to discuss further.
1) She sounds "bitchy" to those that don't like her requirements. She has just as much right to protect herself just as we want to protect ourselves. If someone doesn't like it, they can move on, but she has never been bitchy with me.
2) Calling providers "fatass" is completely unecessary. I certainly have never called a provider any derogetory names regardless of whether I have had a bad or good experience with them. Respect is currency.
3) I don't give all providers my info. There is a level of quality difference between providers like her and ones that live and work from a hotel room and / or post a million ads a day.
4) As far as legal issues, just someone having my name and extra info about me will not lead to a conviction for anything. Regarding extortion, I don't leave that as an option. I don't take out billboard ads, but I don't hide that I play either.
5) We all take riskes in this and will continue to do so until this activity if fully decriminalized. I make measured risks based on my circumstances and goals, which may not be suitable for everyone.
In the end, she a solid mature BBW provider with some requirements to protect herself. The guests on this board can decided if they want to pay to play or if they want to take a pass. All without needing to resort to derogetory name calling.[/QUOTE]