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Considering venturing into the SA waters. Probably my greatest concern is potential drama from younger and inexperienced women. For those who use SA, do you find drama with ladies on SA a regular thing to be dealt with? You sharing your thoughts and experiences would be much appreciated.
[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;4432302]Considering venturing into the SA waters. Probably my greatest concern is potential drama from younger and inexperienced women. For those who use SA, do you find drama with ladies on SA a regular thing to be dealt with? You sharing your thoughts and experiences would be much appreciated.[/QUOTE]Well they are women so of course there is drama. I look for the ages of 25-35 so it cuts out some of the drama. I am married and had a couple dates with a 21 Year old from SA and that evening she got drunk and called and texted me 21 times. Luckily it is an app and it didn't alert me but I learned my lesson. Certainly should use an app until you get to know them. I am looking for more of Long Term emotional connection type SD SB arrangements so I don't know about the girls who are pay for play. The worst thing ever happen to me from there is I got emotionally involved with a late 20's girl I saw for awhile and when we agreed to end it I got hurt.
[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;4432302]Considering venturing into the SA waters. Probably my greatest concern is potential drama from younger and inexperienced women. For those who use SA, do you find drama with ladies on SA a regular thing to be dealt with? You sharing your thoughts and experiences would be much appreciated.[/QUOTE]I've had the best luck with girls 25-30 that made a mistake and have a kid. They can usually host and don't have roommates. Plus by then they really need the help and know there way around a dick!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ab2c91f1-a4cc-4c70-8e44-a375dceeb8ae[/URL] Any info on this on thanks.
[QUOTE=JimTom31;4433079][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ab2c91f1-a4cc-4c70-8e44-a375dceeb8ae[/URL] Any info on this on thanks.[/QUOTE]I talked to her. She seems to want a platonic SD. Basically wanting something for nothing.
Fellow Mongers,
I will, in the near future, be dipping my "wick" in the SA pool. I have read back at least 60 pages on the SA thread and have gleaned a few pointers. Use a prepaid Vanilla Visa, watch how you word your messages, move the convo off SA as soon as possible are a few. I would appreciate any other pointers you have concerning this subject. A question I do have for the ones who are now on SA is if you provided a pic of yourself? I will say thank you in advance for any assistance.
Contacted me on SB. Typical B. S. Can you help me out and send me some cash to my cash app, broke down and stuck in N.C. , I will make it up later. These girls need to come up with a better line,told her can't leave home and travel if you can't get back or have the cash to get back.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d3240a09-b255-4cee-abfd-92c0abd843af[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/profile/4f58e27fad5ffb05[/URL]
[QUOTE=UrTexasBiker;4433458]Contacted me on SB. Typical B. S. Can you help me out and send me some cash to my cash app, broke down and stuck in N.C. , I will make it up later. These girls need to come up with a better line,told her can't leave home and travel if you can't get back or have the cash to get back.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d3240a09-b255-4cee-abfd-92c0abd843af[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/profile/4f58e27fad5ffb05[/URL][/QUOTE]I've seen her before and can vouch that she can perform, and perform well at that.
But yeah, sounds like typical B. S. I wouldn't ever prepay for services, even if I've seen them before.
YRWISH12 she has been on the site for some time showing Knoxville. Does anyone have news on her?
[QUOTE=KnoxOldGuy;4432570]I've had the best luck with girls 25-30 that made a mistake and have a kid. They can usually host and don't have roommates. Plus by then they really need the help and know there way around a dick![/QUOTE]Old guy has it right. Collect some #s and realize you are not going after a pro.
[QUOTE=Jd195;4436005]YRWISH12 she has been on the site for some time showing Knoxville. Does anyone have news on her?[/QUOTE]She puts Knox in her bio, but is actually in Greenville, TN. We agreed to meet in Straw Plains and she ghosted me. She sis ask for "gas" money which I told her I'd give her when we met so she may just be a scammer.
[QUOTE=Macintn;4433271]Fellow Mongers,
I will, in the near future, be dipping my "wick" in the SA pool. I have read back at least 60 pages on the SA thread and have gleaned a few pointers. Use a prepaid Vanilla Visa, watch how you word your messages, move the convo off SA as soon as possible are a few. I would appreciate any other pointers you have concerning this subject. A question I do have for the ones who are now on SA is if you provided a pic of yourself? I will say thank you in advance for any assistance.[/QUOTE]Decide what you want. It is easy to ask the lady if she is looking for a "long term arrangement" or "short term encounters" and by that you can tell what they want typically. My public pic is a picture that looks kinda like me and is blurred. My private pictures are me and I have one of those. Typically I save sending pictures until we text and I use Google voice for texting. I use a fake name and the app to keep myself private until I am comfortable revealing all that info. I am looking for long term, so typically we start texting sending pics etc. Then we have a lunch in a public place and I give between $60 and $100 just for meeting. I then decide if I want to see them again and make a second date or tell them that we just don't have the connection I am looking for. I have met many of the ladies between 25 and 35 on the site and have a few I have seen more than once but still deciding and searching of who I want to settle in with long term.
[QUOTE=LayenLow;4437185]Decide what you want. It is easy to ask the lady if she is looking for a "long term arrangement" or "short term encounters" and by that you can tell what they want typically. My public pic is a picture that looks kinda like me and is blurred. My private pictures are me and I have one of those. Typically I save sending pictures until we text and I use Google voice for texting. I use a fake name and the app to keep myself private until I am comfortable revealing all that info. I am looking for long term, so typically we start texting sending pics etc. Then we have a lunch in a public place and I give between $60 and $100 just for meeting. I then decide if I want to see them again and make a second date or tell them that we just don't have the connection I am looking for. I have met many of the ladies between 25 and 35 on the site and have a few I have seen more than once but still deciding and searching of who I want to settle in with long term.[/QUOTE]Try to keep yourself hidden as much as possible. I have had a few try and blackmail me through social media and say they got my tag number. I have even had one cause a seen at a restaurant because she said I didn't give her enough money for the date. Those are far and between. But it is still well worth it. In my opinion.
My job has me on the road a lot. I rarely play when I'm home but when I'm out it's easy. Is SA something that would work in most areas? Never used it as the price has always been more than I'm interested in.
[QUOTE=LayenLow;4437185]Decide what you want. It is easy to ask the lady if she is looking for a "long term arrangement" or "short term encounters" and by that you can tell what they want typically. My public pic is a picture that looks kinda like me and is blurred. My private pictures are me and I have one of those. Typically I save sending pictures until we text and I use Google voice for texting. I use a fake name and the app to keep myself private until I am comfortable revealing all that info. I am looking for long term, so typically we start texting sending pics etc. Then we have a lunch in a public place and I give between $60 and $100 just for meeting. I then decide if I want to see them again and make a second date or tell them that we just don't have the connection I am looking for. I have met many of the ladies between 25 and 35 on the site and have a few I have seen more than once but still deciding and searching of who I want to settle in with long term.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the tips LL and VW.