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[QUOTE=USABarry;3742560]I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.
Do any of you have permission from the SO for hobbying?
Would it make it easier to enjoy the hobby if you did?
Is it the secrecy of the visits that makes it better for you?
Did you ever feel some sort of guilt after the first time?[/QUOTE]No permission and no guilt. Love the wife, sex is good but I need to explore other women physically at times.
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[QUOTE=USABarry;3742560]I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.
Do any of you have permission from the SO for hobbying?
Would it make it easier to enjoy the hobby if you did?
Is it the secrecy of the visits that makes it better for you?
Did you ever feel some sort of guilt after the first time?[/QUOTE]Not married but would like to know what boundaries she set.
In place.
[QUOTE=USABarry;3742560]I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.
Do any of you have permission from the SO for hobbying?
Would it make it easier to enjoy the hobby if you did?
Is it the secrecy of the visits that makes it better for you?
Did you ever feel some sort of guilt after the first time?[/QUOTE]No never would say a thing to the SO. Love only her. Escorts I visit is like a fun hobby for me. No emotional attachment. Instead of stroking one out alone I'd rather use someone with good skills. Then I'm out ASAP. I've asked the SO to try and do certain things but she won't or doesn't like to, so yeah I go elsewhere to try out those things. As far as guilt? Hmm nah not really. I think I've had enough of my fill. Probably going to quiet this hobby soon.
[QUOTE=USABarry;3742560]I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.
Do any of you have permission from the SO for hobbying?
Would it make it easier to enjoy the hobby if you did?
Is it the secrecy of the visits that makes it better for you?
Did you ever feel some sort of guilt after the first time?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JusTheTip;3743832]No permission and no guilt. Love the wife, sex is good but I need to explore other women physically at times.[/QUOTE]First, I agree with JusTheTip. To answer USABarry's questions in order:
1. No permission as I am not married. If I were married, no way in hell my ex would've given permission.
2. Of course it would be easier to hobby if an SO gave approval, but I'm sure few, if any, guys get permission.
3. When I was married, the secrecy of the visits had no effect. I hobbied to fulfill things I wasn't getting at home, plus there's nothing like variety.
4. I felt a little guilt initially but then reminded myself what a stubborn woman I had (wedding cake is the leading killer of blowjobs) so I quickly forgot about it.
Are you prepping for a Dr. Phil show?
Guys, I just had the weirdest experience.
So I am a total newb to this whole game so I've been following this forum for guidance. I finally found a girl I like in BP and she has a snapchat. I've been following her snapchat for a couple of weeks now and she is legit. She looks just like her pics and does some nude video snaps as well. So today as soon as I got off of work and I called her to set something up for tonight. She provided me the details and address. Now when I am driving back home from work I go get something to eat, (about 30 minutes after I called her) and then boom all of a sudden in the restaurant I am ordering at, two GBI agents walk in right behind me and I am freaking out LOL. I was like really? Is this a sign? How did they know so quickly? This is only my first call to a girl! WTF! I am a total newb to this. So I quickly ordered my food and left. And I was like that must have just been a coincidence. It has to be. So when the time approaches to meet her, I still have those GBI agents in the back of my head and I start getting really paranoid but I insisted on seeing her so I left to the address she provided and when I see the hotel she gave me there were barely any cars in the parking lot. And I noticed a black chevy suv with head lights on and quickly I got paranoid thinking they are LE so I just left.
I am very confident that this girl is legit because of all her snaps. Am I just being paranoid? Was the two GBI agents just a coincidence? Was the parking lot empty with a black chevy SUV just a coincidence?
[QUOTE=LetsTalkNow;3577418]There are a few girls what are comfortable with gangbang idea:
Liz. She said she will be traveling this coming week.
Robyn. Tennessee girl. She hasn't come to Atlanta in last couple of months. May come if there is good opportunity. She is the best ever though.
Brooke. Not 100% sure about her.
Chanel. Marietta.
There is another girl named Sasha who usually has a friend working with her, they like to play safe and wear protection, not sure what you're preferences are there.
Let me know in case you seek further info about any of these girls.[/QUOTE]Man I love for Robyn or Brooke to come back.
[QUOTE=Doffy;3745423]Guys, I just had the weirdest experience.
So I am a total newb to this whole game so I've been following this forum for guidance. I finally found a girl I like in BP and she has a snapchat. I've been following her snapchat for a couple of weeks now and she is legit. She looks just like her pics and does some nude video snaps as well. So today as soon as I got off of work and I called her to set something up for tonight. She provided me the details and address. Now when I am driving back home from work I go get something to eat, (about 30 minutes after I called her) and then boom all of a sudden in the restaurant I am ordering at, two GBI agents walk in right behind me and I am freaking out LOL. I was like really? Is this a sign? How did they know so quickly? This is only my first call to a girl! WTF! I am a total newb to this. So I quickly ordered my food and left. And I was like that must have just been a coincidence. It has to be. So when the time approaches to meet her, I still have those GBI agents in the back of my head and I start getting really paranoid but I insisted on seeing her so I left to the address she provided and when I see the hotel she gave me there were barely any cars in the parking lot. And I noticed a black chevy suv with head lights on and quickly I got paranoid thinking they are LE so I just left.
I am very confident that this girl is legit because of all her snaps. Am I just being paranoid? Was the two GBI agents just a coincidence? Was the parking lot empty with a black chevy SUV just a coincidence?[/QUOTE]Doesn't mean someone's not out to get you! LOL! Strictly coincidental. How would the GBI know that it was you that called? Come on man! If you are that worried about it, put your aluminum foil helmet on next time so they can't hear your thoughts.
[QUOTE=USABarry;3742560]I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.[/QUOTE]First let me tell you that it may start with a HE at the AMP when next thing you know you're CIPing a SW on FIB LOL.
Answers:
No permission. She "doesn't know" and most SOs would go for it.
It would probably make me guilty if she gave me permission, but then I'd get used to it and stay out there day and night.
Yes. Secrecy ads to the excitement a little.
A little guilt the very first time. But quickly got over it. Like when I was young and jerked off for the first time, that guilt was not going to stop me. Nothing is.
Happy mongering and stick to the rules. (Look them up on here if you don't know them).
[QUOTE=Doffy;3745423]Guys, I just had the weirdest experience.
So I am a total newb to this whole game so I've been following this forum for guidance. I finally found a girl I like in BP and she has a snapchat. I've been following her snapchat for a couple of weeks now and she is legit. She looks just like her pics and does some nude video snaps as well. So today as soon as I got off of work and I called her to set something up for tonight. She provided me the details and address. Now when I am driving back home from work I go get something to eat, (about 30 minutes after I called her) and then boom all of a sudden in the restaurant I am ordering at, two GBI agents walk in right behind me and I am freaking out LOL. I was like really? Is this a sign? How did they know so quickly? This is only my first call to a girl! WTF! I am a total newb to this. So I quickly ordered my food and left. And I was like that must have just been a coincidence. It has to be. So when the time approaches to meet her, I still have those GBI agents in the back of my head and I start getting really paranoid but I insisted on seeing her so I left to the address she provided and when I see the hotel she gave me there were barely any cars in the parking lot. And I noticed a black chevy suv with head lights on and quickly I got paranoid thinking they are LE so I just left.
I am very confident that this girl is legit because of all her snaps. Am I just being paranoid? Was the two GBI agents just a coincidence? Was the parking lot empty with a black chevy SUV just a coincidence?[/QUOTE]First, welcome to the best damn hobby any guy can do. Much better than stamp collecting. What's up with that, anyway? Talk about a perversion, collecting something designed to lick but you don't want to lick so you can hide it from the sun.
I once pulled up to a hotel to meet a well known hooker. There were a half dozen cop cars with lights going and the cops were in the lobby. Don't know why. I walked by like I belonged there, took the elevator up and had an amazing fuck. Walked by the cops on the way out. I figure that was the safest hooker in town with all that police presence.
Don't over think the hobby. See only well reviewed girls who don't fuck with the way business is conducted and you will be fine. It is illegal to mention sexual services and compensation in the same conversation. So don't do that. It is illegal to pay for sex so don't do that out in the open or don't pay before some sort of sexual activity. You are pretty safe if you avoid that.
Don't over think it. That is what will get you in trouble.
C3.
[QUOTE=Camera3;3746156]First, welcome to the best damn hobby any guy can do. Much better than stamp collecting. What's up with that, anyway? Talk about a perversion, collecting something designed to lick but you don't want to lick so you can hide it from the sun.
I once pulled up to a hotel to meet a well known hooker. There were a half dozen cop cars with lights going and the cops were in the lobby. Don't know why. I walked by like I belonged there, took the elevator up and had an amazing fuck. Walked by the cops on the way out. I figure that was the safest hooker in town with all that police presence.
Don't over think the hobby. See only well reviewed girls who don't fuck with the way business is conducted and you will be fine. It is illegal to mention sexual services and compensation in the same conversation. So don't do that. It is illegal to pay for sex so don't do that out in the open or don't pay before some sort of sexual activity. You are pretty safe if you avoid that.
Don't over think it. That is what will get you in trouble.
C3.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice dude! I had a chance to think upon it overnight and now I feel like I definitely overreacted. But what bothers me is that when I contact them, they text back their rates and I hate it when they text back their rates. We can worry about rates when we meet. What do I do when they text their rates to me?
And at BodyToBodyBri LOL yep, it has to be. I just had bad luck. It was my first time so I was paranoid. First time I ever saw GBI. Didn't even know they existed.