Some mongering philosophy
Thanks Sitruc12 for the props. Knowing that there acturally are people who read the posts and benefit from them makes it worth the effort.
Sitruc12, you say you're 24. I'm over 60. My advice for you is to stop mongering. Here's why. Lets say for whatever reason you date only 8s and 9s (on the scale of 1 to 10). After dating only 8s and 9s, a 6 or 7 won't do it for you. At your age you may be thinking about getting married some day. If you don't qualify for an 8 or 9, you'll be stuck with a 6 or 7, and she won't be able to turn you on. I've been divorced over and over, so it doesn't matter for me, I'm not getting married again. But my point is that mongering can damage your ablity to connect with a real (not sw) woman.
I've gotten to know several sw types pretty well. If a girl is a heroin addict, and she has a boy friend who is also an addict, she can relate to him. If they're both hurting (from lack of drugs), then they get some, he can melt it in the spoon, fill 2 needles, and offer her the one that is the fullest, and she'll really feel that he loves her. She knows he is hurting, but he cares so much about her that he wants her to get high more than he wants it for himself. You or I can't show her that much love. Its sick and twisted, I know.
If you're just running into a dry spell when it comes to getting some from non-sw types, here's my advice. Don't abuse yourself, don't look at porn, and go to the bar to pick up girls. Dress good, especially your shoes (girls notice shoes). Pick the fattest, oldest, ugliest woman there and hit on her. The idea is to score. This will give you confidence, and after being with a 3 or 4, a 5 or 6 will look real good to you.
The best ways to get women (for free):
1) Be a drug dealer. Of course this has its own problems.
2) Be a bartender. Of course after partaking of a drunk bar fly, it could be difficult to cut her off next time she has too much to drink.
3) Be a landlord. Of course after trading play for rent, it could be difficult to ever evict her.
4) Be a rock star.
5) Own an airplane, boat, motorcycle, or horses.
6) Learn to dance really well.
An excellent book is "How to Pick up Girls" by Eric Weber.
Sitruc12 maybe or maybe not
[QUOTE=Sitruc12]Great advise. I'm self medicating and tryin to break the habit before I go to jail for it or go broke!
It can cost some seroius coin when you happen to find some good lookin girl.
I just love the disconnect with emotions that I get from payin for it. I hate pretending that I want to cuddle with a girl when I am done fuckin her. Strange to admit, I also don't wanna fall into the rut of marriage. Why would I wanna pretend that I enjoy doing a bunch of dumb shit that women like to do. Hahahaha
Does anyone find it weird that its never been socially acceptable for adults to be single/unmarried/divorced?[/QUOTE]I am not real sure but maybe there are some benefits to having a steady girl if not married. She may actually not be done with you when you are done fuckin her. She may want more, lots more has been my experience. I have dated a few dancers who are actually real women. Once you get in their inner circle they just really love to fuck. Oh yeah they hate men but they love to get off.
I don't know much about single, unmarried, divorced which I am not. But paying for it all the time may not be the answer either. Think about it. You don't want to pay and fuck them. You want to pay once and fuck them and have them want to fuck you over and over again. The fun is finding the right stripper who wants you over and over.
I am not saying you treat them well by doing all their dumb shit women like to do if I am quoting you right. Try being the bad boy and never do what they want. They either want to be with you or they don't. Some will regardless of how you treat them.
Just a thought.
They either want you or they don't...
[QUOTE=Wmwmwm]Try being the bad boy and never do what they want. They either want to be with you or they don't. Some will regardless of how you treat them.[/QUOTE]
That is exactly true. The older, fatter, uglier they are the more they want to be with you, and the less you have to treat them real well. And that's the problem with mongering, it makes you less tolerent of old, fat, ugly women. Now in my case, I just like slutty women. The problem with being with a slutty woman is you don't know if your kids are yours. So I just monger when I can afford it, which is less and less these days.