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[QUOTE=Goser;2411768]I need to see her before she moves again. With all the negative vibes on this board, I'd hate to see her go back to California and never come back.[/QUOTE]Take it for what it's worth.

She's a great girl, for sure a sweet provider, but I'm no scorned monger LOL.

You all know the deal here. Get it right! I'm not posting more dirt on her.

She has enough problems & she brought on to herself.

Let's call it "Baggage" perhaps?

As for seeing her again, she will pop up somewhere sooner or later.

I can only wonder where that might be. LOL.

I'm going to add, if a guy gets sloppy with his own emotions and starts falling for a provider, it is not 100% the providers fault. Blaming it on a girl who's job is to create a 'GFE fantasy' is misogynistic BS, like Adam trying to blame everything on Eve when he agreed to eat the apple.

See the double standard? If we want GFE, do we blame a girl when it's not a genuine "I love you." Or actually think we are the only guy getting GFE from a provider?

I've definitely fallen for providers, and it hurt, I felt burned. But as my dad might say to me, I'm a grown ass man and I get to take responsibility for letting my emotions get out of line.

Do I think Lux means it when she tells me "you are the best!"? No, she says that to everyone Lol. But I go with the flow and enjoy the ego massage for what it is.

[QUOTE=LonelySmiles;2412222]I'm going to add, if a guy gets sloppy with his own emotions and starts falling for a provider, it is not 100% the providers fault. That's misogynistic BS, like Adam trying to blame everything on Eve when he agreed to eat the apple.

I've definitely fallen for providers, and it hurt, I felt burned. But I'm a fucking adult and I take responsibility for letting my emotions get out of line.[/QUOTE]Exactly on point! I'm a Fucking adult also.

"Can't chase someone who already is being chased".

That's a fact! Peace out!

[QUOTE=LonelySmiles;2412222]I'm going to add, if a guy gets sloppy with his own emotions and starts falling for a provider, it is not 100% the providers fault. Blaming it on a girl who's job is to create a 'GFE fantasy' is misogynistic BS, like Adam trying to blame everything on Eve when he agreed to eat the apple.

See the double standard? If we want GFE, do we blame a girl when it's not a genuine "I love you." Or actually think we are the only guy getting GFE from a provider?

I've definitely fallen for providers, and it hurt, I felt burned. But as my dad might say to me, I'm a grown ass man and I get to take responsibility for letting my emotions get out of line.

Do I think Lux means it when she tells me "you are the best!"? No, she says that to everyone Lol. But I go with the flow and enjoy the ego massage for what it is.[/QUOTE]Outstanding post. I completely agree.

The one common denominator in all your bad AMP experiences is you.

Think about that a bit.

[QUOTE=LonelySmiles;2412175]

And @Atmatic and @Midgetmac. As for the 'bros before hoes' theme, I'm going to openly disagree. I never signed up to be a frat boy, treating women like they don't matter. I'll guarantee there are girls I like better than some of the mongers out there. The providers are not 'nothing' as Atmatic implied. People all the same. That is my personal opinion.[/QUOTE]Thank you for expressing what I've always felt about this board. Just like how we all partake in this hobby for different reasons, the providers are in it for different reasons too. They deserve respect regardless of their personal situation.

Lonely Smiles, you have my respect, for what it's worth.

[QUOTE=BulgogiBoy;2412390]Thank you for expressing what I've always felt about this board. Just like how we all partake in this hobby for different reasons, the providers are in it for different reasons too. They deserve respect regardless of their personal situation.

Lonely Smiles, you have my respect, for what it's worth.[/QUOTE]Agree and thanks for saying what I am sure a bunch of us were thinking.

[QUOTE=RatchetLover;2412399]Agree and thanks for saying what I am sure a bunch of us were thinking.[/QUOTE]Same here. I'm with the white knights.

[QUOTE=LonelySmiles;2412175]Agree, why exactly would we want to chase away talent?

And @Atmatic and @Midgetmac. As for the 'bros before hoes' theme, I'm going to openly disagree. I never signed up to be a frat boy, treating women like they don't matter. I'll guarantee there are girls I like better than some of the mongers out there. I call some mongers brother, this doesn't apply evenly, and I'm sure vice-a-versa is true. In my mind, this is not automatically a brotherhood. And I know for damn sure from my own work experience that some customers are much harder to deal with than others.

The providers are not 'nothing' as Atmatic implied. People all the same. That is my personal opinion.[/QUOTE]By no means am I under the impression that this is a brotherhood. Most mongers on here would put a provider over another monger everyday. I remember the backlash I got from a post I put last year which convinced me to reduce my activity on the boards. Everyone is an adult and everyone deserves respect, but in my opinion a lot of people on these boards are fake white knights and act like whipped be (w) itches.

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[QUOTE=Spartacus77;2410894]No AA = No African Americans = no pimps.

Too many young Black males chose pimping as a career choice. Kind of sucks for the honest / hard working monger of African American descent who just wants to get some. The pimps who try to recruit these indies screw everything up for them. I guess that's how it is.[/QUOTE]This a social comment rather than a beef. So, I moved this post as to not change the subject in the Hello Kitty thread. I first thought that AA stands for Asian Americans. I didn't thought of AA was for African Americans because it's usually used in politically correct forums. That reminds me of a joke on Howard Stern. He talked about Spike Lee's criticism of Quentin Tarantino use of the N word in his movies. He said that so in his movies that he should change the dialogue of rival gangs battle cry of, "Let's get those N words" to "Let's get those African Americans. ".

[QUOTE=LonelySmiles;2412222]I'm going to add, if a guy gets sloppy with his own emotions and starts falling for a provider, it is not 100% the providers fault. Blaming it on a girl who's job is to create a 'GFE fantasy' is misogynistic BS, like Adam trying to blame everything on Eve when he agreed to eat the apple.

See the double standard? If we want GFE, do we blame a girl when it's not a genuine "I love you." Or actually think we are the only guy getting GFE from a provider?

I've definitely fallen for providers, and it hurt, I felt burned. But as my dad might say to me, I'm a grown ass man and I get to take responsibility for letting my emotions get out of line.

Do I think Lux means it when she tells me "you are the best!"? No, she says that to everyone Lol. But I go with the flow and enjoy the ego massage for what it is.[/QUOTE]But it can get out of hand. When I started mongering I used to get hooked by providers texting me all the time. When I asked them out, they would go out with me. At this time I would only see one provider at a time. After spending too much time with them out of the work environment and with free sex, it gets confusing. But now for me, if I go to the AMP, its strictly business and I just laugh when they say stuff like, "When we get married" (Thai Sky / Apple) or "I want to suck your dick and make you breakfast in bed" (Tiffany Rappongi / Roses) or even the generic, you the best, you are superman etc.

[QUOTE=MongerZ;2413068]But it can get out of hand. When I started mongering I used to get hooked by providers texting me all the time. When I asked them out, they would go out with me. At this time I would only see one provider at a time. After spending too much time with them out of the work environment and with free sex, it gets confusing. But now for me, if I go to the AMP, its strictly business and I just laugh when they say stuff like, "When we get married" (Thai Sky / Apple) or "I want to suck your dick and make you breakfast in bed" (Tiffany Rappongi / Roses) or even the generic, you the best, you are superman etc.[/QUOTE]You bring up a fascinating subject. Always wondered why a dude would be interested in having a provider as a SO or gf. How does one get past the idea of walking down a street hand in hand with her without wondering if the guy who you just passed banged her yesterday? Or what she's thinking while she's lying in bed with you? Does it not faze you that she bangs guys for a living? Either you got to be super secure or just don't give a rip?

[QUOTE=Realdeal808;2413887]You bring up a fascinating subject. Always wondered why a dude would be interested in having a provider as a SO or gf. How does one get past the idea of walking down a street hand in hand with her without wondering if the guy who you just passed banged her yesterday? Or what she's thinking while she's lying in bed with you? Does it not faze you that she bangs guys for a living? Either you got to be super secure or just don't give a rip?[/QUOTE]I dated a provider. At first, I was wary of running into one of her customers while out in public and I felt like a sucker, but after a while I didn't give a shit because she just grew on me so much. It probably helped that she did everything covered except for with me. Plus she wasn't GFE.

I'm probably more secure than most dudes too. I remember one day we were in a gas station, and these dudes came in and start cat calling and trying to get her number (she was a very pretty girl, BTW). I paid no mind and went to the car with our stuff while one of the dudes was trying to run game. She came out and jumped in the car pissed off. She was like, "why didn't you say something to one of them?" I explained to her that I knew regardless of what they were talking about in there, I was the one she was going to come home with. And if not, I shouldn't be wasting time on her anyway. Apparently this turned her on and we fucked like crazy once we got back to my place LOL.

[QUOTE=LarryHoover;2414204]I dated a provider. At first, I was wary of running into one of her customers while out in public and I felt like a sucker, but after a while I didn't give a shit because she just grew on me so much. It probably helped that she did everything covered except for with me. Plus she wasn't GFE.

I'm probably more secure than most dudes too. I remember one day we were in a gas station, and these dudes came in and start cat calling and trying to get her number (she was a very pretty girl, BTW). I paid no mind and went to the car with our stuff while one of the dudes was trying to run game. She came out and jumped in the car pissed off. She was like, "why didn't you say something to one of them?" I explained to her that I knew regardless of what they were talking about in there, I was the one she was going to come home with. And if not, I shouldn't be wasting time on her anyway. Apparently this turned her on and we fucked like crazy once we got back to my place LOL.[/QUOTE]Good for you bro.