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[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;1952639]I was all ready to call, until I read the very end about the boyfriend standing outside. I huge no-no and pet peeve of mine. I've been hassled and robbed twice in my younger years by the, "boyfriend" scenario and the ole, "what the fuck are you doing with my girlfriend" act shocked and dramatic, routine. Once that happens to you a few times, any dudes hanging around and I move on. Also, it just does something to the little man downstairs knowing I'm fucking his girlfriend, whether he's totally cool with it or not. What if I get her to a point where she's not faking it and she moans too loudly with pleasure? What if he thinks we are taking too long? It's just a weird situation. The dude has to be out of the scene or it's a no-go for me.[/QUOTE]She is cute too, I am looking for a lady I can work with, but I do not want the boyfriend is he a pimp or a real boyfriend?

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;1952655]I saw her about fifteen times when she was over in Durham and even had her escorted to my place once. She is just my type. Her service is a 6 in my opinion, but that body and face pushes her looks to a solid 9 in my book, so I saw her regularly.
Also when I was there, I could hear someone upstairs. I'm assuming a black handler or boyfriend as his sneakers were right by the door. Never bothered us, but again, a big no-no for me.[/QUOTE]Hopefully you meant "a handler or boyfriend with black sneakers". By the way, I saw her recently and she was fresh & awesome! YMMV.

Review on Amy.. Well kind of.. Called and set up a visit, girl sounded a bit strung out on something, I got the America's Best V Inn off glenwood.. Ok ok I know 2 signs now.. 60 and A BVI.. Anyway, I get to the room, she opens the door and it is dark in the room.. She is fully dressed. I notice that she is a bit heavier than pic but she runs to bathroom area and says put something on the dresser. Comes out and grabs and runs back saying get myself comfortable.. Like an idiot, I do.

Comes back and now the light of the tv is on her. Yup def not girl in pic.. But its only 60 so WTF I am here. She gets comfortable and oh looky one tattoo..and not like any in the pic and a different spot.... Hmm where did the rest go? Maybe the added weight ate them!

Slaps cover on and I go to touch.. No don't touch me down there...then Suck suck.. Pause suck suck.. Pause.. Suck suck.. Off. Its not getting hard, then she lays down and spreads legs. I see she is all lubed, so I try.. For 3 minutes, then I am like F' this. I get up toss cover in the john and get dressed.

I leave and text her that the next time she posts fake pics, maybe not use a thin hot gal with tattoos she obviously doesn't have.. I get a reply:

"sorry, I don't know what the pix look like" .....Nice right.

Now I did the google search on the pic and it came up in different cites as an escort so I thought it was legit.. That and the area code is from an area that is cheap for this activity.

Recommendation: Avoid!
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But here we go gentlemen, Another one bites the dust!

Come one guys, get real. It's plain to see this girl is a fake, not to mention the whole setup is a pimp situation. 60, Best Value Inn and pics that obviously do not belong to the person you meet. You should have rolled out when she said "oh I am at the best value inn" These girls get their rooms paid for by the pimps that abuse them and let's get real, they use locations that DO NOT require a credit card for check in for obvious reasons.

Locations to avoid: Americas Best Value, Extended Stay America, Econo Lodge, Days Inn, etc etc. You get the picture. If a girl I visit is not at the Marriott, Hyatt, Embassy suites and so forth, you can forget it. I'm declining the visit.

If she has a 60 donation, forget it! You pay for what you get.

Last but not least..Get off backpage and go with validated/trusted/reputable providers. Stop wasting your hard earned funds on these wannabe's. A real date entails going to a nice upscale location, being greeted by a friendly, well put together lady, having stimulating intelligent conversation and feeling great about the date afterwards. Most of all, if there is even a shadow of a doubt..roll out!

Well if none of this makes sense, forget everything I said and keep on wasting your funds. However when you start to make another mistake, think "What would Smithwick do?"


[QUOTE=RaleighConnect;1953042]Review on Amy.. Well kind of.. Called and set up a visit, girl sounded a bit strung out on something, I got the America's Best V Inn off glenwood.. Ok ok I know 2 signs now.. 60 and A BVI.. Anyway, I get to the room, she opens the door and it is dark in the room.. She is fully dressed. I notice that she is a bit heavier than pic but she runs to bathroom area and says put something on the dresser. Comes out and grabs and runs back saying get myself comfortable.. Like an idiot, I do.

Comes back and now the light of the tv is on her. Yup def not girl in pic.. But its only 60 so WTF I am here. She gets comfortable and oh looky one tattoo..and not like any in the pic and a different spot.... Hmm where did the rest go? Maybe the added weight ate them!

Slaps cover on and I go to touch.. No don't touch me down there...then Suck suck.. Pause suck suck.. Pause.. Suck suck.. Off. Its not getting hard, then she lays down and spreads legs. I see she is all lubed, so I try.. For 3 minutes, then I am like F' this. I get up toss cover in the john and get dressed.

I leave and text her that the next time she posts fake pics, maybe not use a thin hot gal with tattoos she obviously doesn't have.. I get a reply:

"sorry, I don't know what the pix look like" .....Nice right.

Now I did the google search on the pic and it came up in different cites as an escort so I thought it was legit.. That and the area code is from an area that is cheap for this activity.

Recommendation: Avoid!
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[QUOTE=RaleighConnect;1953042]Review on Amy.. Well kind of.. Called and set up a visit, girl sounded a bit strung out on something, I got the America's Best V Inn off glenwood.. Ok ok I know 2 signs now.. 60 and A BVI.. Anyway, I get to the room, she opens the door and it is dark in the room.. She is fully dressed. I notice that she is a bit heavier than pic but she runs to bathroom area and says put something on the dresser. Comes out and grabs and runs back saying get myself comfortable.. Like an idiot, I do.

Comes back and now the light of the tv is on her. Yup def not girl in pic.. But its only 60 so WTF I am here. She gets comfortable and oh looky one tattoo..and not like any in the pic and a different spot.... Hmm where did the rest go? Maybe the added weight ate them!

Slaps cover on and I go to touch.. No don't touch me down there...then Suck suck.. Pause suck suck.. Pause.. Suck suck.. Off. Its not getting hard, then she lays down and spreads legs. I see she is all lubed, so I try.. For 3 minutes, then I am like F' this. I get up toss cover in the john and get dressed.

I leave and text her that the next time she posts fake pics, maybe not use a thin hot gal with tattoos she obviously doesn't have.. I get a reply:

"sorry, I don't know what the pix look like" .....Nice right.

Now I did the google search on the pic and it came up in different cites as an escort so I thought it was legit.. That and the area code is from an area that is cheap for this activity.

Recommendation: Avoid!
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[URL]http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-60-the-white-girl-playmate-leaving-soon-new-100-real-pics-up-scale-provider-18/15208534[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks for the report. I can't speak for others, but I was tempted on this one, too. I wish we had a better mechanism for reporting/discussing the fakes. Few things bother me more than the misrepresentation aspect.

[QUOTE=SouthernGuy;1952634]Easy to explain, there are alot of guys that are not on this site and do no research. You are correct, many use the wrong head to think with.[/QUOTE]SG, You're exactly right and I KNOW it.- it's just geez.- I walk away from blatent misrepresentation. I would hope / think we as a community do this in force to discourage it.

I beg to differ here. The problem is not Backpage, it is the failure to do the necessary research and WALK AWAY when the person immediately appears to be different from what was advertised. There were several warning signs that RaleighConnect ignored, mistakes that many will repeat again and again.

- She sounded strung out on the phone.

- She opened the door, the room was dark (Why one would even step into a dark room is beyond me). RaleighConnect, please tell us why you decided to step into a dark room. For all you know a dude could have been standing behind the door with a baseball bat.

- She comes back from the bathroom, it is immediately clear she is not the person in the pics, and he still stayed.

And much more...

While backpage itself isn't the exact problem, it's where you can always find the lowest common denominator and these problems. It's a crutch for a quick fix for guys and girls alike. The ignored warning signs are typical from providers that are in a bad situation, have no idea what they are doing, have severe substance abuse problems, have something to hide or all of the above. RaleighConnect should have backed out at the knowledge of Americas Best Value. I realize people are trying to save a buck and get a quick nut. Just remember it's a high risk game you play when you toy with these types of prossy's. Is it that important to STAY if the situation is already bad? I am not surprised that he didn't leave. Many guys encounter a bad situation and know it's going to be bad but they try to be captain save a ho anyway.

What kills me is the fact that people make this statement (Or something similar) "Yup def not girl in pic.. But its only 60 so WTF I am here".

What are you expecting when you drop 60? You surely cannot expect the best you ever had.

In this situation, things could have went really bad for RaleighConnect. Very true there could have been an individual with a baseball bat, a gun or better yet, Uncle LEO handing out silver bracelets.

Guys, if you are going to do something for yourself, be a MAN and do it up right. Don't sell yourself short and settle for less.

[QUOTE=Velasco;1953279]I beg to differ here. The problem is not Backpage, it is the failure to do the necessary research and WALK AWAY when the person immediately appears to be different from what was advertised. There were several warning signs that RaleighConnect ignored, mistakes that many will repeat again and again.

- She sounded strung out on the phone.

- She opened the door, the room was dark (Why one would even step into a dark room is beyond me). RaleighConnect, please tell us why you decided to step into a dark room. For all you know a dude could have been standing behind the door with a baseball bat.

- She comes back from the bathroom, it is immediately clear she is not the person in the pics, and he still stayed.

And much more...[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MrSmithwick;1953138]But here we go gentlemen, Another one bites the dust!

Come one guys, get real. It's plain to see this girl is a fake, not to mention the whole setup is a pimp situation. 60, Best Value Inn and pics that obviously do not belong to the person you meet. You should have rolled out when she said "oh I am at the best value inn" These girls get their rooms paid for by the pimps that abuse them and let's get real, they use locations that DO NOT require a credit card for check in for obvious reasons.

Locations to avoid: Americas Best Value, Extended Stay America, Econo Lodge, Days Inn, etc etc. You get the picture. If a girl I visit is not at the Marriott, Hyatt, Embassy suites and so forth, you can forget it. I'm declining the visit.

If she has a 60 donation, forget it! You pay for what you get.

Last but not least..Get off backpage and go with validated/trusted/reputable providers. Stop wasting your hard earned funds on these wannabe's. A real date entails going to a nice upscale location, being greeted by a friendly, well put together lady, having stimulating intelligent conversation and feeling great about the date afterwards. Most of all, if there is even a shadow of a doubt..roll out!

Well if none of this makes sense, forget everything I said and keep on wasting your funds. However when you start to make another mistake, think "What would Smithwick do?"[/QUOTE]Ha, I knew I would get a lecture out of this!! I know there were many things here I did wrong... I have a habit of making bad decisions from time to time.. Usually when I have a few beers. Wish I could blame this on that but I can't this time) but I will take the heat here, I think its a great lesson to all and thus the reason I went into detail. I made a lot of mistakes that were pointed out... I hope that others can learn from my stupidity!! Well, more so I hope I can learn from it as well.

Thanks for the comments and the advice.. My only hope is that others read and follow your words of wisdom.

I am always looking for that bargain, that diamond in the ruff.. I have stumbled across it from time to time.. But most times not. I TOFTT often and will always provide my feedback for the greater good!! I just need to get a little smarter and learn to get while the getting is good... I can still report on here the steps even if I bail!!

Thanks all, and happy hunting!!

[QUOTE=RaleighConnect;1953344]Ha, I knew I would get a lecture out of this!! I know there were many things here I did wrong... I have a habit of making bad decisions from time to time.. Usually when I have a few beers. Wish I could blame this on that but I can't this time) but I will take the heat here, I think its a great lesson to all and thus the reason I went into detail. I made a lot of mistakes that were pointed out... I hope that others can learn from my stupidity!! Well, more so I hope I can learn from it as well.

Thanks for the comments and the advice.. My only hope is that others read and follow your words of wisdom.

I am always looking for that bargain, that diamond in the ruff.. I have stumbled across it from time to time.. But most times not. I TOFTT often and will always provide my feedback for the greater good!! I just need to get a little smarter and learn to get while the getting is good... I can still report on here the steps even if I bail!!

Thanks all, and happy hunting!![/QUOTE]I for one appreciate your comments and this board. There are a lot of choices in Raleigh, and we're lucky in my opinion.

I think hunting has risks no matter how you slice it. You could do everything right, drop $ or even more and have a lousy time with a lame girl who thinks she's worth that. I've dreamed of several of those locations listed as no go's, and had some of the best times I can think of. But as a rule, a few of those places are dicier than others. The key is to walk away if it's not the girl in the pic, and scope out the area. Trust your gut and don't mention anything specific. In my many years of mongering, most rooms are dark for the most part. It's just the nature of these ladies and the biz. You can have a great time with that lucky strike on BP for sure. Just be cautious and watch for weird signs.

Happy hunting.

[QUOTE=BonnieBlaz;1952690]She is cute too, I am looking for a lady I can work with, but I do not want the boyfriend is he a pimp or a real boyfriend?[/QUOTE]I don't know why my mind went straight to boyfriend and pimp didn't even occur to me. He was a college-age white guy, seemed relatively clean cut. I know that doesn't mean anything but I didn't think pimp at the time. Looking at it now, in the light of day, I can see where you and DirtyDeeds are coming from. It's a sticky situation and introduces a whole new element of risk into the matter. Damn shame though.

[QUOTE=RaleighConnect;1953344]Ha, I knew I would get a lecture out of this!! I know there were many things here I did wrong... I have a habit of making bad decisions from time to time.. Usually when I have a few beers. Wish I could blame this on that but I can't this time) but I will take the heat here, I think its a great lesson to all and thus the reason I went into detail. I made a lot of mistakes that were pointed out... I hope that others can learn from my stupidity!! Well, more so I hope I can learn from it as well.

Thanks for the comments and the advice.. My only hope is that others read and follow your words of wisdom.

I am always looking for that bargain, that diamond in the ruff.. I have stumbled across it from time to time.. But most times not. I TOFTT often and will always provide my feedback for the greater good!! I just need to get a little smarter and learn to get while the getting is good... I can still report on here the steps even if I bail!!

Thanks all, and happy hunting!![/QUOTE]Don't beat yourself up. Every man who has meat between their legs have at least once in his life gotten themselves in crazy situations because of listening to their little head. I know I have let my little buddy lead me astray more than once. Especially if it was alcohol fueled.

Thanks for the story. I hope it will help someone to not make the same mistake.

Raider.

Because we've all been there at one point or another. Whether its after a few drinks, listening to the little head, or just thinking of the one time it did work out. I'll be honest nd say one of my atfs probably shouldn't have happened. She wasn't the girl in the pics, but it was a pleasant suprise. I've since seen her change names and numbers, but I always have a great experience with her. As great as that is I know it may just be a great setup for my big fall.

Don't sweat the ones you walk away from so much. Thanks for sharing.

[QUOTE=RaleighConnect;1953344]Ha, I knew I would get a lecture out of this!! I know there w things here I did wrong... I have a habit of making bad decisions from time to time.. Usually when I have a few beers. Wish I could blame this on that but I can't this time) but I will take the heat here, I think its a great lesson to all and thus the reason I went into detail. I made a lot of mistakes that were pointed out... I hope that others can learn from my stupidity!! Well, more so I hope I can learn from it as well.

Thanks for the comments and the advice.. My only hope is that others read and follow your words of wisdom.

I am always looking for that bargain, that diamond in the ruff.. I have stumbled across it from time to time.. But most times not. I TOFTT often and will always provide my feedback for the greater good!! I just need to get a little smarter and learn to get while the getting is good... I can still report on here the steps even if I bail!!

Thanks all, and happy hunting!![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MrSmithwick;1953138]But here we go gentlemen, Another one bites the dust!

Come one guys, get real..... .

If she has a 60 donation, forget it! You pay for what you get.

Last but not least..Get off backpage and go with validated/trusted/reputable"[/QUOTE]Not to be the contrarian, but there are good finds at sixty per hour. Tyra Sweet, he finest looking black girl I've been with so far, was working out of a cheap hotel in Durham and charging sixty. I mean to say she was spectacular. Anyways a couple years later she was with raven and charging more! Rightfully so. I am hard thinking about that girl. But alas they all move on. Woe is me.

Been watching in the background. Smithwick, Velasco agreed. While I'll never go the service route (I have good reason to protect my identity), you also get what you pay for. Screw these $40 girls and QVs. All of us have done this long enough and often enough to know if it walks and talks like a duck, it's a a motherfuckin' duck. Trust the big head, it'll pay dividends to the little one many times over.

[QUOTE=MrSmithwick;1953322]While backpage itself isn't the exact problem, it's where you can always find the lowest common denominator and these problems. It's a crutch for a quick fix for guys and girls alike. The ignored warning signs are typical from providers that are in a bad situation, have no idea what they are doing, have severe substance abuse problems, have something to hide or all of the above. RaleighConnect should have backed out at the knowledge of Americas Best Value. I realize people are trying to save a buck and get a quick nut. Just remember it's a high risk game you play when you toy with these types of prossy's. Is it that important to STAY if the situation is already bad? I am not surprised that he didn't leave. Many guys encounter a bad situation and know it's going to be bad but they try to be captain save a ho anyway.

What kills me is the fact that people make this statement (Or something similar) "Yup def not girl in pic.. But its only 60 so WTF I am here".

What are you expecting when you drop 60? You surely cannot expect the best you ever had.

In this situation, things could have went really bad for RaleighConnect. Very true there could have been an individual with a baseball bat, a gun or better yet, Uncle LEO handing out silver bracelets.

Guys, if you are going to do something for yourself, be a MAN and do it up right. Don't sell yourself short and settle for less.[/QUOTE]