Part of the Maturation Process?
[QUOTE=MareloboMex;2008949]Heywood is right about this.
We are all humans and they may be getting paid and willing to be with guys they wouldn't if the guys were not paying them. But YMMV totally happens and just because you are paying doesn't mean you can't make a connection and enjoy each as one girl to one boy.
Also for each one of these girls there is a first hand job, blow job, sex. Frequently there is period where she will with one guy or a few guys before she basically becomes available to most guys. This is just part of how life works and if you make a connection enjoy it. She will also.[/QUOTE]MM is spot on about this. There have been at least three different dancers over the last couple of years at BTs, whom I experienced similar results. All three times it went just like this:
Me: "I see you're sitting all alone, sit with me." Her: "Ok".
Me, after buying a couple of drinks: "So do you know how the VIP works? What's on the menu (sic)?" Her: "Yes, but I only will get you off with foreplay or grinding (sic).".
Me: "Well I'm her for FS, so here's a parting tip ($5/$10). I don't want to keep you from 'making money' Her: "okay, thanks.".
Then when I saw them again 3 months later, they came right up to me. 2 of of the 3 said, "I remember you, want to do VIP?" The third didn't remember me, but we still fucked. The moral of this anecdote is, don't sweat them not giving you everything. Unless it happens all the time, in different places. In that case, change your technique and / or appearance.
mid-January visit to the Criket
A longtime friend invited me to attend the auto show in Detroit. We have attended semi-regularly over the years, and since his shrew-***** wife was out of town for a few days, I was happy to accept his invite to stay at his house. I flew in mid-afternoon on Friday, and suggested we hit a nice gentlemen's club and have a brew and maybe dinner. I've read this and other forums and was interested in trying out BT's in Dearborn, but my buddy was worried that there would be a high probability of seeing one of his co-workers (he works at a certain nearby auto company). Instead, he suggested that the Criket might be a suitable option.
We arrived in late afternoon, and there was no valet or cover charge. The club seemed smaller to me than it appeared from the outside, but the music wasn't so loud that conversation was impossible. The table we took was clean, there was only the hint of smoke in the air, and I rate our waitresses looks an 8, and her service a 9. As for dancers, I think we arrived near shift change but I would guess there were roughly a half dozen dancers on hand. A couple of 7's were tied up with what I assume were regulars, with the remaining one's also in the 6 - 7 range. After a brew, I hit the surprisingly clean bathroom, and on the way back almost ran into a late 30's MILFish brunette. I smiled and leaned over and made a proposal to her. She smiled back and said she would be right out. A few minutes later she came to our table and retrieved my dumbfounded friend and toook him back to the VIP area.
About 20 minutes later she returned to the table, and she gave me back $20 stating he didn't last that long. A few minutes later my friend came back with the biggest shoe-eating grin on his face and said she was amazing. I wasn't present of course, but given she returned $20 out of the $150 I gave her up front, this left a favorable impression on me. Unfortunately, my buddy's daughter called with a semi-emergency before I could sample any of the dancers myself. The next time I'm in the Detroit metro area, I might just return to the Criket.