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Hello Men.
I need some guidance. Once you get out of Seeking messaging and on to the texting stage, I've had a number of woman say to me recently that they are looking for a PPM from 50% to 100% higher than the $500 to $600 I offer. Could that be possible? Or are they trying to get me to bid higher? It's hard to imagine $1,000 to $1,200 per visit and $4,000 to $5,000 a month. Or is this just GPS?
Discuss.
Has anyone found success with prepaid cards on Secret Benefits? Don't they use the same payment processor as seeking?
[QUOTE=RazorFish1801;6715517]Hello Men.
I need some guidance. Once you get out of Seeking messaging and on to the texting stage, I've had a number of woman say to me recently that they are looking for a PPM from 50% to 100% higher than the $500 to $600 I offer. Could that be possible? Or are they trying to get me to bid higher? It's hard to imagine $1,000 to $1,200 per visit and $4,000 to $5,000 a month. Or is this just GPS?
Discuss.[/QUOTE]Women have asked me for similar numbers. Are some of them getting this? Yes. Are all of them? Certainly not. These numbers are about 1/3rd of a top 5% salary. No reasonable man at that level would pay that. DC is full of national and international politicians with more money than sense so the market is crazy here. I've see prices steadily rising, and if it wasn't working at least part of the time, women wouldn't be asking it.
I think the rise of * and normalization of sex work have played a huge part. More attractive women can make more money, the demand is high in new categories and that ironically boosts prices down the line. Here's what I think each level of women is going to end up as:
10's international models, billionaire toys.
9's kept women.
8's only fans top 1% making six or seven figures.
7's sugar babies $1 k ppm.
6's escorts and strippers $500/ day.
5's low end sex workers.
I'm not saying I like it, but this appears to be where our society is headed.
So pay what you can afford, and politely decline larger asks. The market will sort itself out.
Personally I'm getting out and probably going to escorts or massage parlors. SB prices have just become ridiculous. Hard 6's who aren't even likable are asking $1 k / meet and you think there isn't a bubble?
[QUOTE=RazorFish1801;6715517]Hello Men.
I need some guidance. Once you get out of Seeking messaging and on to the texting stage, I've had a number of woman say to me recently that they are looking for a PPM from 50% to 100% higher than the $500 to $600 I offer. Could that be possible? Or are they trying to get me to bid higher? It's hard to imagine $1,000 to $1,200 per visit and $4,000 to $5,000 a month. Or is this just GPS?
Discuss.[/QUOTE]GPS!! Look there are TON of diamonds on SA to be found. These girls are watching TickTok and reading reddit thinking that's the norm. It has been this way for about the last year. You can find gems, just spent four hours with a lovely gal and that was $4 because of. Reasons. The amount of sugar you provide is up to YOU. It's DC there is a ton of $ in this town but for me, $1 k allowance means I need my done done and a BJ under my desk while I'm on my zoom calls (jokes, all jokes folks).
The softspot for me $3/4 but always consider a higher gift if properly incentivized.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/78c2f2a7-4e90-4714-b2ae-050a79f1720a[/URL]
Snap is at vanessalikesu26.
I'll leave the screenshot to speak for itself.
I have noticed a huge drop in the monthly membership from over a 100 to 19 $. My question is are any females on the website anymore. Doing a search turned up very little and nobody active.
Monger brothers, am I right?
[QUOTE=JimRob;6716766]I have noticed a huge drop in the monthly membership from over a 100 to 19 $. My question is are any females on the website anymore. Doing a search turned up very little and nobody active.
Monger brothers, am I right?[/QUOTE]I feel the same way. Definitely feels like the number of chicks have diminished.
[QUOTE=JimRob;6716766]I have noticed a huge drop in the monthly membership from over a 100 to 19 $. My question is are any females on the website anymore. Doing a search turned up very little and nobody active.
Monger brothers, am I right?[/QUOTE]You're saying that you've seen the monthly rate go from $100 to $19.00 a month??
[QUOTE=Mcsylv;6716112][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/78c2f2a7-4e90-4714-b2ae-050a79f1720a[/URL]
Snap is at vanessalikesu26.
I'll leave the screenshot to speak for itself.[/QUOTE]Dude... Did you even notice the account is from Venezuela? That has scammer written all over it!
[QUOTE=JimRob;6716766]I have noticed a huge drop in the monthly membership from over a 100 to 19 $. My question is are any females on the website anymore. Doing a search turned up very little and nobody active.
Monger brothers, am I right?[/QUOTE]Wait, what? You mean the membership fee of $109 has dropped down to $19? That is impossible.
I was reading on another board (Atlanta?) other men making the same comment about lack of new talent on Seeking. Someone mentioned it's seasonal, with winter being the slow season. Let's hope that's's true.
[QUOTE=ShortMan22;6716789]I feel the same way. Definitely feels like the number of chicks have diminished.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6714183]She's been reviewed here before but under a different profile. I seem to remember she lied about her age. . .
Useeemeeepleseee.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/53a994a7-46d8-4b62-8be2-38c165e83301[/URL][/QUOTE]Got her number and she was ready to meet up whenever. But she quoted me 800-1000 when I asked what her typical ppm was. I said I'm usually 3-4 and got no response.
[QUOTE=ChadwickX;6717516]Got her number and she was ready to meet up whenever. But she quoted me 800-1000 when I asked what her typical ppm was. I said I'm usually 3-4 and got no response.[/QUOTE]Texted her multiple times over the years. A few responses, but likely fake. I imagine my profile text regarding scams ended it.
Just saying. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
Someone tell me how to stop the old view vs new view, which appears to be random on iPad.
So annoying.
Buttons on top, vs bottom, and split screen.
I owe some reviews in return.
[QUOTE=Bugs2455;6715621]Has anyone found success with prepaid cards on Secret Benefits? Don't they use the same payment processor as seeking?[/QUOTE]Tried several with no luck except to lock up the card. Not on seeking, secret benefits, or adult friend finder.
Just permanently deleted my Seeking account and decided to take a break for a while. I've got a 2+ year steady that I adore here, a new superstar for my work travel destination, and a handful of "in case of fire break glass" black book options. The options on Seeking, at least in the DC area, have really dropped off. It's same faces and figures, over and over again. And mind you. I like playing at the older and curvier end of the pool so it's not like I'm fishing for the same size zero college sophomore as most of you. Not seeing the twenty-something "sick of boys my age and want to explore my daddy issues" or thirty-something "just want a consistent fuck and a little side cash to sweeten the kink" women any more.
My gut tells me that at least part of this is the rise of a broader range of dating apps that cater to no traditional dating. Particularly feeld. I haven't tried it (apps are tough for those with discretion needs) but it seems like the women I do click with (including my awesome SB) are all on there.
The Boston market was more promising but even it has dropped off in quality, too. I was in denial for a while but I think I increasingly agree with many of you. Seeking's best days are far behind us. As for why I deleted rather than deactivated? Well, I used a burner email, gift cards, and a sole fake photo, but I just decided whatever minimal benefit there might be to keeping a lukewarm profile up was outweighed by the risk of whatever else they may have gleaned from me being lost in a breach as well as the lost time during moments of weakness when I might log back in "just to see if things have changed."
Reached out to me and just wants to sell pics.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9b01cd01-7819-4e45-8ebd-b4848c7cb9ab[/URL]
Madison.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/54c5b269-2dae-4334-8b57-75d28e150ef5[/URL]
Age: 25.
IG: watchciera.
Our initial conversation on SA was was fairly simple and straightforward. We exchanged numbers and transitioned into discussing the details of our arrangement. She initially quoted herself at $500, allowing room for negotiation, and we ultimately settled on $400.
We scheduled to meet at 11 pm. However, by 11:15 pm, I couldn't get in touch with herno response to my messages or calls.
The following morning I received a message explaining that she had dozed off. Skepticism, but I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt. Despite the initial hiccup, she expressed a desire to reschedule for the same time, and I obliged.
Finally meeting in person, I was pleased to find that she matched the photos on her profile. Considering the late hour, she appeared decent, and our encounter proceeded as planned.
Decent conversation and eventually we found our way into the bedroom.
She performed a BBBJ, accommodated all positions and was very vocal and seemed to enjoy herself.
Things to note:
1. She could tone up some. Her body is still youthful which is her saving grace. It's above average but don't see.
2. She's a weed smoker. Doesn't bother me but could others.
In the end, think her price should be closer $300-350. I would recommend l, considering what I noted above. She has a youthful body but would benefit from the gym.
Feel free to PM with questions if you have interest.
Take Care.
Nakedlyambitious.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f2b6d7c3-6ce4-4c7b-b6f9-34f53d64011e[/URL]
Name: Brianna.
Age: 27.
IG: Unknown.
Quoted $700. I moved on.
Sky Elisa.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/56be363f-88bb-4a76-a9f8-90b81abe3211[/URL]
Age: 32.
Name: Unknown.
Claimed her husband recently passed away and she needed support. Exchanged numbers.
Started to try and make plans but then switched that she was heading out of town. More to follow.
Taryn.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/49c19db0-a46b-4d71-97bd-364a3e8c74bd[/URL]
Age: 32.
Quickly took the conversation off SA to text messaging. Offered $400 for her and $600 if she bought a friend. Sent a bunch of nudes too. I went silent. Not my type.
[QUOTE=TheBarbarian;6718593]
Taryn.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/49c19db0-a46b-4d71-97bd-364a3e8c74bd[/URL]
Age: 32.
Quickly took the conversation off SA to text messaging. Offered $400 for her and $600 if she bought a friend. Sent a bunch of nudes too. I went silent. Not my type.[/QUOTE]Bummer. Posted your message inbox.
This one quickly moved to text. She's trying to sell pictures.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c3a1a737-7e87-48a6-8a6d-cd785aa93262[/URL]
Waste of time.
[QUOTE=Max#01;6718984]Bummer. Posted your message inbox.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6e061029-2c02-4485-9a34-b23534df6f1b[/URL]
Anyone met this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a31edb81-c69f-41a1-8a5d-71f91ac71982[/URL]
This one blocked me with the quickness after we exchanged numbers and went into discussing the arrangement. It was pretty strange but research lead me to discover she's a pro.
[URL]https://adultsearch.com/us/washington-dc/washington-dc/female-escorts/1217910[/URL]
[URL]https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/ivy-escort-washington-dc-1015597[/URL]
[URL]https://ondate.io/female-escorts/185859/ivy[/URL]
She uses the same photos on Seeking you'll see in her ads.
Take care.
[QUOTE=TheBarbarian;6721007]This one blocked me with the quickness after we exchanged numbers and went into discussing the arrangement. It was pretty strange but research lead me to discover she's a pro.
[URL]https://adultsearch.com/us/washington-dc/washington-dc/female-escorts/1217910[/URL]
[URL]https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/ivy-escort-washington-dc-1015597[/URL]
[URL]https://ondate.io/female-escorts/185859/ivy[/URL]
She uses the same photos on Seeking you'll see in her ads.
Take care.[/QUOTE]Here's her profile link.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ba496ced-9fa3-47bf-b104-da56f47f8ff4[/URL]
Sweet Dreams.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/80a8de71-05a4-4227-9d35-1176846b66b5[/URL]
Age: 31.
Social Media: with reverse phone number search LinkedIn and Facebook are easy to find.
We connected on SA of course and quickly exchanged numbers and transitioned to text messages. She was firm on 500, several hours, multiple pops, BBBJ / CFS so I obliged.
We met at my place and fortunately she as beautiful as in person as her pictures. She average dressed for the cold weather but looking very presentable. She's a short little thing (5'3) as listed with great curves.
We listened to some music, she gave a decent massage, good head then the deed.
Relaxed and repeated.
She really aims to please but I have to say is a very very genuine woman. She asked if we could lay down after the 2nd time and ended of talking for well over an hour. I had no desire to but we actually talked honestly about several topics.
The negatives.
- vagina is mid.
- she was insecure about her stomach (either lip or slight baby damage) whatever is was was minor.
Nonetheless, she was very nice, accommodating, decent conversationalist, on time and I found to look very good and very passionate.
Take care. PM for questions.
Any info on this one?
[QUOTE=TheBarbarian;6721665]Sweet Dreams.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/80a8de71-05a4-4227-9d35-1176846b66b5[/URL]
Age: 31.
Social Media: with reverse phone number search LinkedIn and Facebook are easy to find.
We connected on SA of course and quickly exchanged numbers and transitioned to text messages. She was firm on 500, several hours, multiple pops, BBBJ / CFS so I obliged.
We met at my place and fortunately she as beautiful as in person as her pictures. She average dressed for the cold weather but looking very presentable. She's a short little thing (5'3) as listed with great curves.
We listened to some music, she gave a decent massage, good head then the deed.
Relaxed and repeated.
She really aims to please but I have to say is a very very genuine woman. She asked if we could lay down after the 2nd time and ended of talking for well over an hour. I had no desire to but we actually talked honestly about several topics..[/QUOTE]31 and fat. Hmm, you over paid.
[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6722096]Any info on this one?[/QUOTE]Full profile if interested: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e6bceb7b-11be-4e57-83b4-448f18b879cc[/URL].
Yes, her eyes are captivating.
Londyn.
Age: 24.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/25f57a97-0c61-4dd1-a717-ca314bc083d4[/URL]
Turns out this one is a pro.
[URL]https://www.eros.com/washington_dc/files/6543667.htm?cat=1[/URL]
[URL]https://www.models-world.com/profile/kimbella-2/[/URL]
[QUOTE=TheBarbarian;6721665]Sweet Dreams.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/80a8de71-05a4-4227-9d35-1176846b66b5[/URL]
Age: 31.
Social Media: with reverse phone number search LinkedIn and Facebook are easy to find.
We connected on SA of course and quickly exchanged numbers and transitioned to text messages. She was firm on 500, several hours, multiple pops, BBBJ / CFS so I obliged.
We met at my place and fortunately she as beautiful as in person as her pictures. She average dressed for the cold weather but looking very presentable. She's a short little thing (5'3) as listed with great curves.
We listened to some music, she gave a decent massage, good head then the deed.
Relaxed and repeated.
She really aims to please but I have to say is a very very genuine woman. She asked if we could lay down after the 2nd time and ended of talking for well over an hour. I had no desire to but we actually talked honestly about several topics.[/QUOTE]Mid vagina, talked too much about shit you didn't care about, and was insecure about her stomach. Sounds like you got an authentic girlfriend experience. Just not the one that people are willing to pay for readily. LMAO.
This one is real, or at least talks a good game. Further south than Woodbridge. Chatted over a few days offline and she was very responsive. Suggested a meet and greet and she ghosted. Never got to what she wants. Maybe one of you all will have better luck with her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4ef029e5-25a2-47ac-8c59-b818c246243d[/URL]
[URL]https://nypost.com/2023/12/18/business/stripper-and-escort-rakes-in-34k-per-week-catering-to-wall-street/?utm_source=reddit.com[/URL]
Bullshit like this is why there's gps.
[QUOTE=TomFordModel;6722746][URL]https://nypost.com/2023/12/18/business/stripper-and-escort-rakes-in-34k-per-week-catering-to-wall-street/?utm_source=reddit.com[/URL]
Bullshit like this is why there's gps.[/QUOTE]Not sure if the first photo is photo shopped, but that girl is plain as can be. I would not turn my head if I saw her walking down the street. No way she is earning that much.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/78d5efe1-025a-4d49-b6ed-d88d2eba3be9[/URL]
Looking for any reports: familiar face not sure where I have seen her.
Baby Kayy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3d8bfec7-c285-461e-98ce-34d4027352e5[/URL]
Had a M&G set up this evening at 6. Comms were spotty yesterday evening after setting up dinner plans and were no better today. Needless to say, at 6 pm when I texted that I was at the restaurant, she responded with "I thought dinner was at 7". This is why I ALWAYS meet close to my home turf. Finished my drink, offered an apology for confusing our meeting time, but haven't heard from her since.
This one is not really my type but I'm bored and free this weekend and don't meet my two regulars until after the holidays.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a4e733d0-35eb-4571-9f41-69d483041b8f[/URL]
She's looking for something consistent w one person so I played along knowing she would just be one and done for me. She's a Puerto Rican / Italian / Greek mix who lives in McLean area and was actually sweet during comms leading up to scheduling of our initial meet and greet. Was cool with 400 ppm. But then she ruined things by politely asking if I would give gift of 200 during our m&g as show of good faith as that is something her prior long term SD did. I told her I don't do $ for initial m&G unless of course it progresses immediately to fun time. She said that wasn't a sign of good faith on my part and said she would pass as all her prior SDs had no problem w that. I wished her well.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5cf8fcba-c111-486c-95f9-097fd9a7694b[/URL]
Reverse image search turns up her socials and she's a former D1 athlete with a decent Instagram following, but she is local to this area so maybe it's legit?
[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6722822]Baby Kayy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3d8bfec7-c285-461e-98ce-34d4027352e5[/URL]
Had a M&G set up this evening at 6. Comms were spotty yesterday evening after setting up dinner plans and were no better today. Needless to say, at 6 pm when I texted that I was at the restaurant, she responded with "I thought dinner was at 7". This is why I ALWAYS meet close to my home turf. Finished my drink, offered an apology for confusing our meeting time, but haven't heard from her since.[/QUOTE]Anybody recognize the bar logo on her drink glass? That's usually a good indication of whether or not she's local and possibly real.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6930f029-9200-4ba8-9ad5-f013e9de9de9[/URL]